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[QUOTE=Harold444;1295167]Genereally speaking- no you can't get the price you want.[/QUOTE]Okay, whatever price you want within reason. Obviously you will probably never find a chick to go for 30; however, the majority of the chicks (unless they spend a ton on clothes, shoes, trinkets.) are not spending over 1500 / week. That said, offering a woman 1000-2000 for LT is more than within reason.
The problem with most men is that they do not try to negotiate, the woman says a price and their nose is so wide open they just go along with it. Many men also save the whole year to go to LOS for 1-2 weeks so don't care about money and others compare price to what it would cost back home not what it should be in SEA.
[QUOTE=Harold444; 1295166]Where do these goofballs get their prices from=mr ententional?
Isn't 1500-2ooo more appro. For short time.
Do you guys go for girls with no tits? Black and anorexic? Old with 5 kids? Or just the bottom of the barrel types?[/QUOTE]Unless I'm going to some esoteric brothel for the adventure or am really hard up I never pay to fuck a chick I am not attracted to on some level.
No 1500-2000 is not appropriate for ST IMO. Perhaps back when ST meant she stays until you tell her to leave as long as you let her go early enough to get a taxi home or to get home safely, that would have been reasonable. Now ST is generally one shot and many girls who want as many ST customers as possible want you to be done in 15-20 minutes. Here's another way to look at it, compare the 1500-2000 you pay for ST to the 300-700 my friend pays for ST for girls at massage parlors who to his tastes are just as attractive as go-go girls. He's also not getting the rush job that many ST go-go customers get because when he goes to a massage place to fuck if it does happen it happens within the first 15 minutes giving him 45 minutes to do the deed, it's not happening and just enjoys the massage. For those of you in disbelief, he reported to me that all of his Thai friends (he is a black guy) get the same prices.
[QUOTE=Tony Hoeprano;1294907]So for hot girls in the popular gogos (bacarra, the rainbows) you're saying you can get 2K LT? I bet that they won't go below 3K. I might give it a shot though, since I'm such a nice guy, wear clean underwear, and shower twice a day.[/QUOTE]I'm not saying I could at those particular places, but I am definitely the guy who would try. I've also become disciplined enough that most times I can walk away if I don't get the price I want. Hot is also pretty subjective.
You also have to keep in mind that even at the most popular places not everyone is constantly or even regularly bar fined. Der Tourist mentioned a couple of girls who seemed to always get bar fined early by Japanese guys. Yes, these types may be hard to negotiate with (unless you catch them on a night when they want something different) but the overly in demand girls can also tend to be the worst performers because many men fuck them for their looks and not their performance.
Here's some food for thought. If every man who went to Soi Cowboy and Nana agreed to offer and only pay 200 BF + 700 ST and 400 BF + 1200 LT, how long do you think it would take the women to adjust to the prices. I would guess one week because for many of them it is their job, not just a way to supplement income, and making 700-2000 / day is still better than they would get otherwise. The women quote the prices they quote because history has shown that they can find men willing to pay those prices. Guys like me pay less because we are willing to walk away, are more conscious about the money and perhaps are able to, on some subconscious level, spot the ones who are willing to negotiate.
I once met a guy who be it a go-go, beer bar or night club has no problem getting women for free or rock bottom prices (read as enough to send home or buy food for a few days). His secret was that not only did he speak Thai very well, but he understood how to make himself more appealing to Thai women. He was able to joke with them, in Thai, and quickly build up attraction and rapport. He also had the uncanny ability to recognize who was into him or just fun to be around and who was a clinger on. He could also get the ones who were just fun to talk him up to the ones who were interested which he said helped make things much easier. Dude even got me laid and when I asked the girl how much the next day all she said was can we go get a massage.
Many of the strategies that work for me and other guys to get great deals do not work in high volume places. However, the inefficacy of the strategy has more to do with the attitudes of the women than it does the low prices that result from the strategy. There are tons of hot chicks working at bars and go-gos who would happily fuck the same guy every night for a week if all he did was pay the bar fine, her rent for the month and give some money for food because it gives her the sense of consistency and being taken care of that many women want. On the flip side, there are women who just want money money money and for them they will only go with the highest paying customer who makes them work the least.
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[QUOTE=Joe Looking; 1295562]Okay, whatever price you want within reason. Obviously you will probably never find a chick to go for 30; however, the majority of the chicks (unless they spend a ton on clothes, shoes, trinkets.) are not spending over 1500 / week. That said, offering a woman 1000-2000 for LT is more than within reason.
The problem with most men is that they do not try to negotiate, the woman says a price and their nose is so wide open they just go along with it. Many men also save the whole year to go to LOS for 1-2 weeks so don't care about money and others compare price to what it would cost back home not what it should be in SEA.
Unless I'm going to some esoteric brothel for the adventure or am really hard up I never pay to fuck a chick I am not attracted to on some level.
No 1500-2000 is not appropriate for ST IMO...[/QUOTE]Would be very interested in which "massage place" you can get laid for 300-700 baht. I have been coming here for over 20 years and lived here for the past 10 and frequent oilies on a regular basis. There is a standard 500/1000/1500 pricing structure for HJ / BJ / FS. Cheap sex is available in Thailand but in a one off situation you are talking late night desperation with a provider that desperately needs whatever coin she get her hands on and so you are probably in the equivalent of crack working girl territory. The girlfriend types are out there but if they are attractive you will usually end up paying one way or another. It always comes back to the money honey.
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[QUOTE=Harold444; 1295170]Sing a pore guys are paying way more than 2000 long time rates.
Again how is 2k justified long time when short time is 2k? You guys must like ugly wimmin. LOL.[/QUOTE]That's a pretty good deal for about 3 minutes of pumping! I can see why girls would love the Singapore guys.
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[QUOTE=Joe Looking;1295562]Okay, whatever price you want within reason.[/QUOTE]I think that we also need to separte the guy who has saved money for a mongering vacation in Thailand and wants to get the best out of the days he spends there, rather than out of the money he spends, from the guys who either live there (expatriates) or go very often for various reasons (business, lay-over, happily and wealthy retired who can spend few weeks every 3-4 months). The former will not care much if spending 1000 or 2000. It is still within his reasonable budget (unless he is a hardened heap charlie and some are only for the reason of bargaining rather than saving, let's face it). Let's say he pays the double of whatever is the rate, for 1 week or 10 days. It is not going to be a killer for his wallet. He will have peace of mind, happy to monger and add more girls to his portfolio, He also cannot afford to keep on walking away because of the price. Hey, it is his holiday, it is his bunch of days. Any day / night he "misses", it is one less he will take a memory back home. Travelled all the way (air ticket, lodging, food, ie fix costs) and then not score to save what? 5000b? 10, 000b? These guys are also those either willing to score every night or even multiple time a day (then the unit price factor might have some influence, I agree) No way he is going to think too much about the local price level. He will reckonthat 2000b. Is a good bargain 8for him, his budget and comaprison level, that is also why he goes to Thailand and doesn't monger at home, far more expensive and less fun). Goes to Thailand once a year for 10 days. Those 10 days will be intense for him. But maybe the only 10 days of the year. So why to bother for an extra cost of 10000b? Can you blame him? Different story is the long term or repeated resident. Goes out one night, looks around. Doesn't find anything at his wallet level, walks away, maybe with a drink in his memory, few hours spent out of home / room, mission nearly achieved. On to th enext time, maybe the night after, maybe 3-4 nights after. Time and chances are on his side. Apart few guys, there is no need to score every single night out, every single night of the week (can he also score? Where is going to end this way? A sex pscho?). So he is the one saying, either I get her at 1000 or no way. He doesn't care if he doesn't get her. There will be another time he can get one and he'll be happy. So different stories for different guys and one cannot blame one's behaviour till he fits in his shoes (and even then.). Each one his own. Since the offer and demand are so wide and broad I am not so sure prices can be affected iether way. There might be areas where a (tourist) price might take the lead. Well, the "experts" will stay away from those areas. Be it. And let the tourist enjoy his 10 days break at "double" price, being this still a fraction of what he pays at home (and not accounting the different approach to p4p existing in SEA, mixed with the general level of providers).
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[QUOTE=Joe Looking;1295562]Here's some food for thought. If every man who went to Soi Cowboy and Nana agreed to offer and only pay 200 BF + 700 ST and 400 BF + 1200 LT, how long do you think it would take the women to adjust to the prices. I would guess one week because for many of them it is their job, not just a way to supplement income, and making 700-2000 / day is still better than they would get otherwise. The women quote the prices they quote because history has shown that they can find men willing to pay those prices. Guys like me pay less because we are willing to walk away, are more conscious about the money and perhaps are able to, on some subconscious level, spot the ones who are willing to negotiate.[/QUOTE]That is exactly the point quite a few of us are trying to make. It is the guys that set the tone for the market.
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[QUOTE=Joe Looking; 1295562]Here's some food for thought. If every man who went to Soi Cowboy and Nana agreed to offer and only pay 200 BF + 700 ST and 400 BF + 1200 LT, how long do you think it would take the women to adjust to the prices. I would guess one week because for many of them it is their job, not just a way to supplement income,
[/QUOTE]The only problem with that is the hot ones would either quit or they would just hold out until the demand became too great, which it would. Hot girls know their worth, they're not stupid. Why should a 9-10 be willing to accept the same rate a mediocre girl? That would be like asking Drew Brees to accept the same pay as his backup. Life ain't fair pal.
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Sticker shock
[QUOTE=Tony Hoeprano;1295686]The only problem with that is the hot ones would either quit or they would just hold out until the demand became too great, which it would. Hot girls know their worth, they're not stupid. Why should a 9-10 be willing to accept the same rate a mediocre girl? That would be like asking Drew Brees to accept the same pay as his backup. Life ain't fair pal.[/QUOTE]Back in the Big Mango, first time mongering here in a couple of years (been to Patts twice since then). Stopped by a Nana Plaza bar this early afternoon. Chatted with a lovely girl from the south of the country. 25, 1.5 year old son with AWOL Thai husband, the usual shit LOS story. Now this girl was no stunner (a lovely smile, but the big-ish nose, not terribly dark, but we're talking 6, 7 to be very generous. Her winning attitude and somewhat decent English (and even more than that, a willingness to learn new phrases rather than the rolling of the eyes blah-blah-blah) almost hooked me for a quickie. But. She wanted 2000 baht ST with a 500 barfine. Seriously.
Well, this evening I'm going to try for the reunion sex with the Dollhouse dancer. I had visited the club right before closing last night (this morning) and she was not be found. I asked around (now this would have been 2:30 a. M.) and the manager said she was on holiday but that she would call her. So I chatted briefly on the phone (was so loud I couldn't tell what was what conversation-wise). The idea was that she was going to show if I waited a few minutes. Fine. I spent a few enjoyable minutes checking out the shaved snatch of one of her colleagues (there are a couple who were around for the late shift who would def be barfinable). Sooooo I was eventually led outside to met my friend. Was not the girl I was expecting.
At this time I did not have a SIM for my phone and did not want to rouse the real girl at that hour anyhow. But I was suspicious because some of the girls at the Dollhouse had claimed my friend had not worked there for a while. Still, I couldn't see that the girl would just try to scam me out of a measly barfine.
Finally got a call back today. (In the meantime, I had adjusted nicely to the concept of a night in Soi Cowboy for shopping, and trust me, I'm not going to get terribly wrapped up in this, as I've already spent enough mental energy even trying to set something up.) But OK. She sounds happy enough that I'm going to show up in the club. (This will come after a visit to Suzie Wong's and another bar or so.) Asked if I was going to barfine her. Maybe, I said. I'll see what she's up to attitude-wise.
Needless to say, BKK is such an improvement over HK, have to agree with NicFrenchy. Terminal 21 smokes away any of the shitty, overpriced malls in Hong Kong (which is a place where NOTHING is a value, clothing is triple the cost it should be). Nice to get some decent food, too. (Is there any cuisine, outside of dimsum, that the Cantonese have not fucked up?) And while I'm ripping on the Chinese brothers, I've got to say the mainlanders are totally making the HKG-BKK Emirates flight a fucking bloody hell. One porkbellied, Mao-haired twywatface kept invading my personal space. Imagine the smell of rotted Hickory Farms sausage and you could imagine what I had to deal with. And the lineup to board, gawd, it was as if those fuckers had all licked ashtrays before hopping in the queue. I used to be very tolerant of those people, now they are cementing a position as the most awful travelers on the planet. Thanks for that, guys. Let's just hope they're not clogging the gogos.
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Part II
Aw, and forgot to report on what I did after leaving the Dollhouse emptyhanded last night. I got as far as one of the makeshift bars right at the corner where you cross the street to head to Nana. Two cute girls and a LB (hilarious that one drunk fellow chatted h / her up, apparently unawares, but you never know maybe that's the goat's thing. Bought drinks for the real girls (denied the pouty LB, ain't going there pal). One, named Wa, was from Myanmar, the other from Isaan, where else. Pung was her name. 22, great face, English poor. Said that it was her first week on the job (who knows).
Decided on 1500 ST with a 500 barfine. She started at 2000. Again, sticker shock. Shoulda held out for 1000, sorry.
Now here's the thing: Most of these girls are bargirls and not dancers for a reason. Yes, some might be too modest to shake ass, but generally it is because the body is lacking.
Back in the room, I was taken in by the girl's cleancut face, fabulous smile, heartwarming. But the sagging boobs and wrinkly nipples (once erect they took a decent form. And that C-section scar was total malpractice shit. On top of that was a rash on her ass. Oh fer gawd's sake. Just broke my heart to see. Sad.
But I'm a pussy man and there I was not disappointed. She just loved DATY, loved loved it loved it, and I was happy to oblige, though it took longer for her to come than I really wanted at that hour. I aim to please, to my discredit. For her part, the blowjob was lackluster. Finished in doggie. She was out of there ST. (Now why is it that some Thai guy is fucking calling her at 5 a. M. I'm going to put a cellphone ban in effect. Frankly, if we could all get together on that point, so sick of these chicks with those devices glued to their little heads. I'd join the union.)
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[QUOTE=Goatscrot;1295655]That is exactly the point quite a few of us are trying to make. It is the guys that set the tone for the market.[/QUOTE]Keep Dreaming. Its never going to happen. Farangs are not the only mongerers. There always will be people willing to step in and pay the price. Everybody wants to make the money while they can.
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[QUOTE=Tony Hoeprano;1295686]The only problem with that is the hot ones would either quit or they would just hold out until the demand became too great, which it would. Hot girls know their worth, they're not stupid. Why should a 9-10 be willing to accept the same rate a mediocre girl? That would be like asking Drew Brees to accept the same pay as his backup. Life ain't fair pal.[/QUOTE]Not true pal. If folks paid the same, the girls would go. They have to make money. During the depths of low season, even the most stunning girl has to make money. And when she needs money she will go for 1500. In the dark, all cats are gray. They won't quit, because most have no other skills.
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[QUOTE=Goatscrot;1295785]Not true pal.[/QUOTE]It is difficult to put this small ISG community together on a pricing issue and you think it is ever be possible to just communicate, to the whole mongering population heading to or staying in Thailand to agree on ONE pricing. I agree with "Noclew", with all respect for each one's opinion as we are not here to fight for opinions but to share them.
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[QUOTE=Goatscrot;1295785]In the dark, all cats are gray.[/QUOTE]Right. And attempting to set a standard price for their services is like trying to herd cats.