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Lies
I've been back in US for about a week now, and I wanted to share my experience. I posted on here about a sexy, thin 23 year-old that I spent three nights with while I was in Manila. She asked for money the first two nights, then I left for five weeks. She wanted to spend the night before I left Manila to come back to the US, and didn't expect payment, though I gave it to her anyway. It was easily some of the best sex in all my life, and well-worth it. She put on a real show before she left the next morning, crying and saying she would miss me until I come back again in a few months.
In the past week, she kept messaging me. She is actually quite enjoyable to talk to. We even video called a few times. The only thing she asked me for was if I could buy her daughter some 200 pedi shoes online. I have a serious girlfriend in the province, and she knows that. She said she really liked me and wasn't going to see anyone else before I came back. She wanted me to spend two nights with her then and not use a condom (because I always use one to play so I am safe and my girlfriend is safe, because we don't use one, and that is important to me). She basically wanted to be a second girlfriend, and said as much.
I waited a day and made a fake profile on Pinalove. No picture on my profile, and I searched her up. She had said she checked it once a week just to get rid of messages. I sent her a message asking if she was up for some "fun" when I came to visit in a few days. She replied soon with "sure," and gave her WhatsApp number. So I chatted her on there using a different phone.
I made up a persona the direct opposite of me. She said she wanted sex for money. I told her I hate condoms and refuse to use them, and she said that's fine, that she hates condoms too. I told her I was on a sex trip to have sex with as many women as I could in three weeks. She said that sounds like fun. I told her I love cream pies, and she said she loved them deep in her pussy, too. She asked to see her first, but I told her I had three already the day after I landed, and she said to save some cum for her.
My gut was 99% sure she was lying. I told her, when she said she wanted only to see me, that it was okay if she saw other men, as I wasn't there and had a girlfriend already. I would still see her in December, and we could still chat if she wanted. The only difference is I would still use a condom. But she was adamant that she wanted just me, and insisted on it while she told the fake profile how much she wanted him to creampie her. Guard what's important, guys.
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[QUOTE=TjBrazil;2839202]Have you met anyone that actually pays 25 k. That's LA rate.[/QUOTE]No I did not. That's too much for me.
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Vivid
Thanks Aml3740 for such a vivid narrative to allow us to understand the value of words in PH.
It's sobering yet sad to know that showbiz is not just at Hollywood 😂.
Thanks, Victor.
[QUOTE=Aml3740;2840625]I've been back in US for about a week now, and I wanted to share my experience. I posted on here about a sexy, thin 23 year-old that I spent three nights with while I was in Manila. She asked for money the first two nights, then I left for five weeks. She wanted to spend the night before I left Manila to come back to the US, and didn't expect payment, though I gave it to her anyway. It was easily some of the best sex in all my life, and well-worth it. She put on a real show before she left the next morning, crying and saying she would miss me until I come back again in a few months.
In the past week, she kept messaging me. She is actually quite enjoyable to talk to. We even video called a few times. The only thing she asked me for was if I could buy her daughter some 200 pedi shoes online. I have a serious girlfriend in the province, and she knows that. She said she really liked me and wasn't going to see anyone else before I came back. She wanted me to spend two nights with her then and not use a condom (because I always use one to play so I am safe and my girlfriend is safe, because we don't use one, and that is important to me). She basically wanted to be a second girlfriend, and said as much.
I waited a day and made a fake profile on Pinalove. No picture on my profile, and I searched her up. She had said she checked it once a week just to get rid of messages. I sent her a message asking if she was up for some "fun" when I came to visit in a few days. She replied soon with "sure," and gave her WhatsApp number. So I chatted her on there using a different phone.
I made up a persona the direct opposite of me. She said she wanted sex for money. I told her I hate condoms and refuse to use them, and she said that's fine, that she hates condoms too. I told her I was on a sex trip to have sex with as many women as I could in three weeks. She said that sounds like fun. I told her I love cream pies, and she said she loved them deep in her pussy, too. She asked to see her first, but I told her I had three already the day after I landed, and she said to save some cum for her.
My gut was 99% sure she was lying. I told her, when she said she wanted only to see me, that it was okay if she saw other men, as I wasn't there and had a girlfriend already. I would still see her in December, and we could still chat if she wanted. The only difference is I would still use a condom. But she was adamant that she wanted just me, and insisted on it while she told the fake profile how much she wanted him to creampie her. Guard what's important, guys.[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=Aml3740;2840625]I've been back in US for about a week now, and I wanted to share my experience. I posted on here about a sexy, thin 23 year-old that I spent three nights with while I was in Manila. She asked for money the first two nights, then I left for five weeks. She wanted to spend the night before I left Manila to come back to the US, and didn't expect payment, though I gave it to her anyway. It was easily some of the best sex in all my life, and well-worth it. She put on a real show before she left the next morning, crying and saying she would miss me until I come back again in a few months.
In the past week, she kept messaging me. She is actually quite enjoyable to talk to. We even video called a few times. The only thing she asked me for was if I could buy her daughter some 200 pedi shoes online. I have a serious girlfriend in the province, and she knows that. She said she really liked me and wasn't going to see anyone else before I came back. She wanted me to spend two nights with her then and not use a condom (because I always use one to play so I am safe and my girlfriend is safe, because we don't use one, and that is important to me). She basically wanted to be a second girlfriend, and said as much.
I waited a day and made a fake profile on Pinalove. No picture on my profile, and I searched her up. She had said she checked it once a week just to get rid of messages. I sent her a message asking if she was up for some "fun" when I came to visit in a few days. She replied soon with "sure," and gave her WhatsApp number. So I chatted her on there using a different phone.
I made up a persona the direct opposite of me. She said she wanted sex for money. I told her I hate condoms and refuse to use them, and she said that's fine, that she hates condoms too. I told her I was on a sex trip to have sex with as many women as I could in three weeks. She said that sounds like fun. I told her I love cream pies, and she said she loved them deep in her pussy, too. She asked to see her first, but I told her I had three already the day after I landed, and she said to save some cum for her.
My gut was 99% sure she was lying. I told her, when she said she wanted only to see me, that it was okay if she saw other men, as I wasn't there and had a girlfriend already. I would still see her in December, and we could still chat if she wanted. The only difference is I would still use a condom. But she was adamant that she wanted just me, and insisted on it while she told the fake profile how much she wanted him to creampie her. Guard what's important, guys.[/QUOTE]This is typical. My last trip one swore I was the love of her life, yeah right! I probably was until the next swinging dick walks in the bar she likes. Its business pure and simple. In the past when I was a newbie I often wondered how they could appear a GFE in such a short time, practice that's how. Example. A hottie I know on last trip says when checked in come to bar we party and barfine. Cool, I was excited as it had been 6 months since we visted. Airport travel hotel got to bar about 10 pm. There she sits all lovely dovie with a fat bald headed guy around 65 or so. She basically ignored me. I thought maybe shortly she'd dump him, nope, she changed and out the door they went. Next day she apologizes that he was a regular, what was I chopped liver. I'm guessing she had him on the hook for regular payments as no way in hell that guy in his life ever got women like that. Do I care nope. Next day I'm fucking her as before. When I got home she text me all the time I love you please come back. They must think we are really stupid, again do I care nope. Screw all of them you can while you're there and believe little or nothing of what they say or promise.
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[QUOTE=TjBrazil;2839202]Have you met anyone that actually pays 25 k. That's LA rate.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=ManFromHeaven;2840729]No I did not. That's too much for me.[/QUOTE]I am not aware of anyone paying that. However I am sure that rich guys pay that all the time. As TjB said, its a big-city rate (and standard) for an hourly basis in the US. However, rich gents in the US pay at 2 x, or even 10 x, for Hi-priced girls in LA, Vegas, NY, and elsewhere. Recall the former NY governor (and former NY Attorney General) resigned around 2007-08; he had been paying a high-end escort agency and girls thousands $USD per hour for some years. I see no reason not to believe that the same thing would be done in the big smoke in Phils. The fact that its a poor country (which is what 2-week warriors see on their visits) does not mean that there aren't rich folk won't wave a hand to have opulence.
About a dozen years ago we had a discussion here similar. Runway models and influencers getting 10 k for ST. Also its not out of line for gents who are used to giving 25 k (or more, its only $500 USD) for an hour's clock-watched condom session with a young beauty in his country to do the same here. He secures her services and then gets something he didn't expect: An un-rushed, 4-hour, 2-pop extended session with a bubbly and loving girl, who never mentions a condom. P15 k was the previously agreed rate for a ST that was not time-discussed, and he got plenty more than he bargained for. He feels good about the session and would like to see her again, so he hands over a nice tip, totaling 25 k, which becomes their standard amount in the future. In his country, the same session would have cost $2000 (each hour is $500, regardless what happens, although many girls discount additional hours).
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[QUOTE=Aml3740;2840625]My gut was 99% sure she was lying. I told her, when she said she wanted only to see me, that it was okay if she saw other men, as I wasn't there and had a girlfriend already. I would still see her in December, and we could still chat if she wanted. The only difference is I would still use a condom. But she was adamant that she wanted just me, and insisted on it while she told the fake profile how much she wanted him to creampie her. Guard what's important, guys.[/QUOTE]That's a great report. We have discussed for years the nature of the people here. Lying is part of every culture, but by comparison, its done more often here and an accepted part of life. You lie, and you forgive those who lie to you (in advance, its expected). Also we have discussed and painted pinoy as extremely opportunistic. They recognize a way to further themselves (or family, its all about their fam) and quickly exploit the situation to their advantage. Chameleon-like.
One of my first run-ins with this was a girl who had many foreign boyfriends. One of them got into her social media and email and found that multiple foreigners were sending her money. He contacted all of us. I was one of them, and the only one who had visited the girl. I must confess that is amazing opportunism. In her electronic communications she was saying I LOVE YOU (and I FELL IN LOVE WITH YOU), and promising sex to all of them. That might seem unscrupulous to you, but here if you ask the locals about this, you might be surprised that they condone the behavior: "A girl needs to help her family". Its not unusual for girls here to have 'backup' boyfriends. Or alternately, different guys to satisfy different needs: 1 for love / sex, others for money.
We live and learn through the school of hard knocks. Forgive the girl, see her again. You already said that you were OK with her seeing other fellas. Its the lie that stabs. My advice is to not mention to her your alternate persona. Meet her and have the same fun that you had before. Leaver her other life out of it (as she does yours). A pretty girl says she wants to be your second GF? Dream come true? Say yes to the dress (and take it off as often as you can).
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I dunno fellas. I can't relate to any of this talk. I've fallen into deep affection with many beautiful Philippinas. Bargirls and civilians. I never once felt that I had to test them for their fidelity to me. They all have their own needs and responsibilities. I respect that and engage in a 'don't ask don't tell policy'. This works for me. Don't give them a chance to lie by not asking them questions that would require them to lie. Have a good run with them and on the off chance, the one-in-a-million chance, that something more serious would develop, over many months of hooking up, then perhaps broach that subject. Anything other than that seems foolish to me.
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[QUOTE=WestCoast1;2840872]Leaver her other life out of it (as she does yours).[/QUOTE]Very wise words but I don't think this resonates with some of the men here enough. Maybe it is something you need to learn first hand.
If a woman asks you for money at all you know exactly what kind of woman she is no need to ask her questions you don't REALLY want to know the answer to.
Gentlemen you are FREE from canceling, the Mee Too movement, instead of trying to do the same thing we run from in the west.
Its best to leave that baggage at home and enjoy your freedom. I am grateful for these girls doing what they do as I have had some of the happies years of my life in Phils. Instead of trying to out them being grateful that they showed up and were willing to invest time in pleasing you regardless of their situation I think understanding them is appropriate here.
If you are open with these women and don't try to expect them to lie they will also be open with their goings on. I have several working girls that I on occasion have sex with but they tell me about their lives and what they are doing to survive. This takes nothing away from them me wanting to see them or them wanting to see me if I'm in town. Find a way to enjoy yourself as it is much more fruitful. Use your energy on more positive / productive ventures imo.
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[QUOTE=FuriousGeorge;2840874] I never once felt that I had to test them for their fidelity to me.[/QUOTE]I would say MOST men in the US have EXTREEMLY deep scars from the abuse that the western women put them through. Western women conduct "tests" like the one this guy posted weekly.
It honestly took me a few years early on to shake this conditioning off once I did life was much more fulfilling and "happy". 20+ years ago my GF in the US sent me an email asking how I was doing and I replied. "ITs SO GREAT HERE, TIME OF MY LIFE. " I came back to the US with everything I owned in a dumpster, but it was maybe the happiest I've ever been.
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Jealous?
I did confront her, in a way. Not about everything, but just that I knew she was talking to other guys. She denied it, then admitted it and cried on video call, but said she was doing it just for money. And I told her that's fine. It really is. Just don't lie about it.
What I get with her is the best sex of my life when we are together. When we aren't together, we chat or video call throughout the day, even when I'm back in the US. She doesn't beg for money like most girls on dating sites. It isn't a bad setup.
I actually think she is jealous a bit. I like this hobby, for sure, but I really love my girlfriend and protect her. I always use condoms with other women so I don't have to with her. This girl was okay with it the first two times we met, and I told her why I always used condoms. Then, when I went to the province, she would text and say she wouldn't see anyone else so we wouldn't have to use them because she really liked me. But I still used it the last time we met. Now she says she wants to be my second girlfriend. We do talk all the time, and she sends me pictures and talks about having sec and cumming inside her because she loves me. Me using a condom is easier for her, so being jealous is the only idea I can come up with at this point.
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[QUOTE=MontanaMonger;2840887]I would say MOST men in the US have EXTREEMLY deep scars from the abuse that the western women put them through. Western women conduct "tests" like the one this guy posted weekly. [/QUOTE]Some do, yes. I have had a few women in my life that I've dated that tried to make me jump through hoops, or what I call, try to 'alpha female me'. I immediately peace out, not my jam babe, I'm not holding your purse, and I'm not doing your bidding just for the off chance that I might be able to have sex with you. I'll take you out, treat you well, buy you drinks and dinner, but I will not be your b1tch. They are often confused because these are women who are used to getting what they want. Truth is, they actually don't want a man who will hold their purse and jump through their hoops. So generally it works, they want you more. But I don't want them after this. Hopefully they learn. I have a very good female friend who tried this on me and now we are really really good platonic friends and she realizes the error of her ways when she was when she was younger. So there is hope.
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[QUOTE=Aml3740;2840625]I've been back in US for about a week now, and I wanted to share my experience. I posted on here about a sexy, thin 23 year-old that I spent three nights with while I was in Manila. She asked for money the first two nights, then I left for five weeks. She wanted to spend the night before I left Manila to come back to the US, and didn't expect payment, though I gave it to her anyway. It was easily some of the best sex in all my life, and well-worth it. She put on a real show before she left the next morning, crying and saying she would miss me until I come back again in a few months.
In the past week, she kept messaging me. She is actually quite enjoyable to talk to. We even video called a few times. The only thing she asked me for was if I could buy her daughter some 200 pedi shoes online. I have a serious girlfriend in the province, and she knows that. She said she really liked me and wasn't going to see anyone else before I came back. She wanted me to spend two nights with her then and not use a condom (because I always use one to play so I am safe and my girlfriend is safe, because we don't use one, and that is important to me). She basically wanted to be a second girlfriend, and said as much.
I waited a day and made a fake profile on Pinalove. No picture on my profile, and I searched her up. She had said she checked it once a week just to get rid of messages. I sent her a message asking if she was up for some "fun" when I came to visit in a few days. She replied soon with "sure," and gave her WhatsApp number. So I chatted her on there using a different phone..[/QUOTE]So many times I've been fucking a girl when her "BF" calls and I hear the lies. No honey, I no work bar. Yes honey I in province now. I love you. I miss you. All the time with my schlong buried in her pussy. I just laugh. And BTW how do you know you "serious" province girfriend isn't doing the same? Or fucking some local Pinoy? If you are not living in the Phils, she is not your girlfriend.
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[QUOTE=Aml3740;2840958] so being jealous is the only idea I can come up with at this point.[/QUOTE]This is not really hard to figure out is it. This lady just tells you what she thinks you want to hear and she did it not once but twice. Lying in the Philippines like like a national past time. And this girl is trying to shift these lies to cater to what you want. If you shift the narrative to jealousy and she thinks you LIKE that she will gladly tell you she's jealous to make you feel right and empowered.
Staying with you without payment is not rare. Money is not the only currency. Their homes don't have AC, nor netflix, nor wifi, nor and food to speak of. Not really hard to see why they would want to stay with you if you are footing the bill on a lux vacation. If these girls come from pagpag area in tondo the food alone is a good enough reason to stay.
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How common is deepthroat in Manila. Seems like the reports have a lot of it. Am I going to be pleasantly surprised at how good piñays are at oral.
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Pinoy
I decided not to tag anyone simply for the fact of not chiming with one individual but needless to say, when it comes to Pina, one simple sentence "let her words fly over your head, you are there to have fun and give something in return" you got something they want and they got something we want. Oldest trade of humanity. Let's just leave it there.
Me personally, learned my lesson long time ago by sending money to help out and told myself then, never again. When it comes to sob stories, no other nationals can beat pina, why because the environment they are raised in made them that way. Like some say, a dinner in a good restaurant is worth a lot to them.
When it comes to loyalty of a pina, it is as strong as house made out of thinnest glass ever made. I have been to Philippines twice in my life and thanks to my buddies from Philippines and their connections, I slept with from 19 yrs old to 30 yrs old pina, both single and married with a army husband who can easily pass as Asian Rambo. Why these girls do these, well each has their own reason. We are not there to judge their reason or to write a novel about it. Come-Fuck-Fly is the only goal we have while making that trip.
I definitely appreciate all of your input and without us and our stories to educate each other, we wouldn't have gotten this far.
Thanks to G, Transporter and Westcoast for their pointers, without them and all of you brothers my next trip would've been Jakarta or KL or Saigon! Which only god knows how many times so far.
All these reminds me of a old man I met in Varadero, a log time ago, "you are here for a cheap fuck and stick to your prices and raise that number while you are reaching cloud nine Definitely not comparing Philippines 🇵127469; with Cuba 🇨127482; but same ideology.
Cheers and Happy Mongering.