[QUOTE=Rovnak;2264432]I don't see how this is considered a put down on a "monger" site. Personally I think paying at any age is a viable option and many time a preferable option independent of ones ability to get sex for "free". First of all free is seldom if ever "free" as there is the date cost, the wooing cost, the emotional cost, the opportunity cost p, a myriad of "costs" even in so called "free" sex. Second there are a myriad of thrills that one might get from a paid encounter that are seldom available in a free encounter, some of which are "by definition" only available in the "paid" encounter. Third, some of us mongers don't pay for the sex, we pay for the right to leave after the sex without any baggage, or overhead.
Frankly, I found the original post irritating as well but the last thing one monger should criticise another monger for, regardless od age is "mongering".[/QUOTE]Let me be clear, I wasn't putting anyone down or criticizing anyone or putting them down for paying for sex when there are in their early 30's. I recall doing it once for the experience in my early 30's. I did it again while in transit to Eastern Europe at FRA. I was having good luck with East European girls then, but if you had some hours to kill, it was fun to take the S-Bahn to the Hauptbahnhof and visit the Eros Center. I was probably in my late 30's, maybe early 40's by then. So, I can't put anyone down for P4P sex in their 30's. I was simply putting things into perspective, in regards to their hubris.
When someone brags "Anal BBBJ is available in nearly every country. How long you will keep eating Mcdonalds. Change the restaurant. I'm in my early 30's. You have to enjoy life while it last. And I am now starting my Ph. The Program (3 yrs) into a course and trust me I have done my research. " I have to ask, if you are such a genius that you need to tell us about your PhD program and how you are so much clever than the rest of the forum, then why can't you figure out how to get all this awesome sex for free? Now, I'm no rocket scientist, but I did fuck girls in the ass in both the US and the UK without paying them. They were called girlfriends. I didn't brag about screwing my girlfriends in the ass, so why brag about screwing a hooker in the ass? After all, your early 30's is a great time for getting free sex with younger women, but you are about to fall into a bracket where you are too old for the younger women and the women closer to you age are hooked up and married. I found that out the hard way as I got older. Early 30's is not yet the time to be a serious monger.
And for the record, I found the idea of a UK as a economical punting paradise stretches the limits of credulity. If that was true, why is the Costa del Sol forum and the German forums so heavily contributed to by Brits? The costs are all wrong. Western Europe and the UK are expensive places. That's why so many Europeans go punting on different continents.
And as for the true expense of "free sex", you don't need to explain that to me. I have to write a monthly check for 20% of my pre-tax income over to my ex in the name of child support. But, had I turned towards P4P sex about 30 years ago, I would have missed out on priceless experiences and adventures that a WG would never have delivered.
