Sosua Reports

[QUOTE=OldKool;1534358]I love GFE and work hard to make it work. Speaking Spanish dancing bachata. Skills I developed to a decent level. \ Sosua is the Dr capital of sport fucking in the Dr. I get distracted when I am in Sousa. I can not focus on one women for very long. I am constantly looking at the menu for something better. Sd is great for the GFE experience. Nice clubs malls and fun stuff. All I am saying is I keep my sport fucking apart from my GFE.[/QUOTE]There is nothing like a mixture of sport fucking and GFE here is Sosua. Some nights I have a wife over and other nights something new!

[QUOTE=Wrx2005; 1534542]Thats 2 days in a row I had 2 chicas that did CBJ only. The 1st one that I met on the playa did make an attempt to give me a BBBJ but when she tried, it wasnt worth a damn. She was doing that fake suck and jerk move. The 2nd one got to sucking the minute I put the condom on to fuck. I thought she was scared to suck it before the condom. But once I put the condom on she started sucking like she was a pro. However, neither chica was any good at performing BJ's.

I hear / read where some guys point out that you should negotiate up front the services that you want. For instance a BBBJ, not covered. But what good is a negotiation for services if the chica won't or can't perform the deed to your satisfaction? You can negotiate for types of service, but you can't negotiate the type of performance you'll get. You can only offer an incentive. Like repeat business or a propina. But even then, if the chica is no good at it. Whats the point?[/QUOTE]Indeed. Once it becomes clear that you are not going to get a satisfactory experience out of the encounter, you may as well just cut it short and pay the girl what was agreed minus any superior performance bonuses and travel reimbursement.

I don't think negotiating specifics up front, like BBBJ is any good, because it makes the whole thing too mechanical. If she is not going to have sex like she is your girl friend, then you have picked the wrong chica in the first place.

There is no foolproof way of avoiding these aborted encounters completely, but with experience one develops a better sense of whether there is enough chemistry, respect, affection, etc. Often the hottest looking girls or the most forward are not the ones who deliver the most.

As far as the BBBJ goes, there are health educators who move among the prostitute population and no doubt advise them to avoid BBBJ for health reasons. Although BJ with a condom is hardly worth having (IMHO) , there is not much point fighting with a chica over it, because if she is not comfortable with BBBJ, she will not do it well.

To some extent in Sosua a guy's reputation may go before him. If he has a reputation for being very demanding, excessively hung, rough in bed, or for example taking forever to climax, chicas may know about this and be less willing to go with him, or ask for an above average reimbursement to discourage him. This is actually the "take-it-or-leave it" offer in reverse.

My conclusion after more than ten years in the DR is that ongoing relationships tend to provide better sex than casual single encounters and that while you can get lucky with them and find some really passionate encounters, especially if you refine your selection process, it is always going to be a bit hit and miss and if it is persistently a miss for you, then you probably need to lower your expectations or develop different strategies.

[QUOTE=Frannie; 1534578]Indeed. Once it becomes clear that you are not going to get a satisfactory experience out of the encounter, you may as well just cut it short and pay the girl what was agreed minus any superior performance bonuses and travel reimbursement.

I don't think negotiating specifics up front, like BBBJ is any good, because it makes the whole thing too mechanical. If she is not going to have sex like she is your girl friend, then you have picked the wrong chica in the first place.

There is no foolproof way of avoiding these aborted encounters completely, but with experience one develops a better sense of whether there is enough chemistry, respect, affection, etc. Often the hottest looking girls or the most forward are not the ones who deliver the most.

As far as the BBBJ goes, there are health educators who move among the prostitute population and no doubt advise them to avoid BBBJ for health reasons. Although BJ with a condom is hardly worth having (IMHO) , there is not much point fighting with a chica over it, because if she is not comfortable with BBBJ, she will not do it well.

To some extent in Sosua a guy's reputation may go before him. If he has a reputation for being very demanding, excessively hung, rough in bed, or for example taking forever to climax, chicas may know about this and be less willing to go with him, or ask for an above average reimbursement to discourage him. This is actually the "take-it-or-leave it" offer in reverse.

My conclusion after more than ten years in the DR is that ongoing relationships tend to provide better sex than casual single encounters and that while you can get lucky with them and find some really passionate encounters, especially if you refine your selection process, it is always going to be a bit hit and miss and if it is persistently a miss for you, then you probably need to lower your expectations or develop different strategies.[/QUOTE]Thanks Frannie, this makes absolute sense!

I have had almost no problem getting what I want from the girls. The girls on average go home with no money in their pockets way more then with money. There are 5 times as many girls then guys. They are very motivated to give good service so they can get repeat business if possible. I think guys who consistently have problems are consistently doing something wrong. They are giving a vibe that make the girls uncomfortable. How you pick your chica plays a big roll in how they perform. You got to have some chemistry. I love dancing bachata. I spend time dancing and getting to know my conquest. THIS lowers the fear and tension which relaxes the girls. DR girls are generally very nice people. My first time with most girls I am giving oil massages and using toys with no push back. It is about helping them lower their guard. The same people seem to have the same problems over and over.

[QUOTE=Camaro1257;1534593]Thanks Frannie, this makes absolute sense![/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Surfer500;1532941]Grown Man I like the way Frannie goes about it. Chat with whomever is your cup of tea that you would like to go with and make them a reasonable "take it or leave it offer:". If they don't accept " su oferta" move on to the next one.[/QUOTE]That also sounds like a smart move for what he wants to accomplish. Show your hand and make her take it leave. I can never decide off the rip. I hate showing my hand. I like to let her show me hers. Then I play with or against the player. I don't like talking to a lot of chicas. Slow calculation to make her feel special and she does the same- for a special experience. Example: In Boca Chica while walking with Mr. E and friends; a chica walked up to us and went straight at Mr. E. She didn't know him but its was something about him that made her walk between the 5 guys giving know one eye contact or attention but Mr. E. Of course any of us could have paid her, but it was obvious really wanted him. In my opinion, she would have fucked him or gave him a much better experience than any one of us in the group. 3 of 5 chicas I had in BC didn't asked me how much or how long they just wanted my unselective ass to pick them. They accepted what ever I gave them without question (between 1500-2500). All three I repeated because of the quality of service they gave. I kinda let their actions dictate my tone and choices. For me its not about fucking the sexiest chica all the time. Most of these chicas felt special when I submitted my attention to them because they didn't observe me in a lot of chica faces. Wrx 2005 was dead on point about sexual compatibility. I want her there not just because she is going to get paid, but also because we have a special vibe to enhance our experience. That why I like chicas on DC- they are not the sexiest in DR, but when you have connected to one and developed a vibe; she is more likely come visit you, stay as long as you allow her, give you a good experience costing you the same amount of money as the street walker would have with half the problems.

[QUOTE=PirateMorgan;1534525]Sosua is about sex. Period.[/QUOTE]Wrong! Sosua is about money. Period. Show up there without it (money) and see how much sex you'll be having, LOL.

[QUOTE=OldKool;1534358]I love GFE and work hard to make it work. Speaking Spanish dancing bachata. Skills I developed to a decent level. \ Sosua is the Dr capital of sport fucking in the Dr. I get distracted when I am in Sousa. I can not focus on one women for very long. I am constantly looking at the menu for something better. Sd is great for the GFE experience. Nice clubs malls and fun stuff. All I am saying is I keep my sport fucking apart from my GFE.[/QUOTE]I agree with you Oldkool but you are in SD, Sosua, PC and other areas. For someone who is based primarily in Sosua for a couple of weeks or more, the need to import there is wanted for change up. Imagine being in Sosua seeing and dealing with the same streetwalkers for a couple of weeks. BORING and irritating. I say a man should do a little importing here and there. It seems from a few on ground reports the SW chicas are getting besides themselves. I few imports may shake out some appreciation and adjustment of attitudes. No. It might not be the ideal location like SD for GFE but it sure is a welcomed change of pace!

[QUOTE=SavePros321;1534727]Wrong! Sosua is about money. Period. Show up there without it (money) and see how much sex you'll be having, LOL.[/QUOTE]I second that! It about spending your money!

In Sosua, avoid a girl named Maoly! Kinda tall, pretty, light skin Asian eyes, tongue pierces and freckles. Can't fuck and runs for the door after a short time. I found out she is band at Victorian House by security Freddy, who is head security there and D'Latin Bar. She can't get into clubs and you will see her in front of D'Latin. She has two sisters who work Sosua as well, and one's name is Franchesca, who's similar in face but browner.

[QUOTE=Frannie; 1534578]Indeed. Once it becomes clear that you are not going to get a satisfactory experience out of the encounter, you may as well just cut it short and pay the girl what was agreed minus any superior performance bonuses and travel reimbursement.

I don't think negotiating specifics up front, like BBBJ is any good, because it makes the whole thing too mechanical. If she is not going to have sex like she is your girl friend, then you have picked the wrong chica in the first place.

There is no foolproof way of avoiding these aborted encounters completely, but with experience one develops a better sense of whether there is enough chemistry, respect, affection, etc. Often the hottest looking girls or the most forward are not the ones who deliver the most.

As far as the BBBJ goes, there are health educators who move among the prostitute population and no doubt advise them to avoid BBBJ for health reasons. Although BJ with a condom is hardly worth having (IMHO) , there is not much point fighting with a chica over it, because if she is not comfortable with BBBJ, she will not do it well.

To some extent in Sosua a guy's reputation may go before him. If he has a reputation for being very demanding, excessively hung, rough in bed, or for example taking forever to climax, chicas may know about this and be less willing to go with him, or ask for an above average reimbursement to discourage him. This is actually the "take-it-or-leave it" offer in reverse.

My conclusion after more than ten years in the DR is that ongoing relationships tend to provide better sex than casual single encounters and that while you can get lucky with them and find some really passionate encounters, especially if you refine your selection process, it is always going to be a bit hit and miss and if it is persistently a miss for you, then you probably need to lower your expectations or develop different strategies.[/QUOTE]What you provided for those that need it could be a sticky too!

[QUOTE=Ipanema Carioca;1534781]In Sosua, avoid a girl named Maoly! Kinda tall, pretty, light skin Asian eyes, tongue pierces and freckles. Can't fuck and runs for the door after a short time. I found out she is band at Victorian House by security Freddy, who is head security there and D'Latin Bar. She can't get into clubs and you will see her in front of D'Latin. She has two sisters who work Sosua as well, and one's name is Franchesca, who's similar in face but browner.[/QUOTE]Is this the same chica?

[QUOTE=OldKool;1534697]I think guys who consistently have problems are consistently doing something wrong. They are giving a vibe that make the girls uncomfortable. How you pick your chica plays a big roll in how they perform. You got to have some chemistry. I love dancing bachata.[/QUOTE]Let me explain how your statement maybe somewhat flawed. The one where you say, you think guys who "consistently" have problems are "consistently" doing something wrong. How do you determine whether a guy has consistent problems or he is the one doing something wrong if there is a problem with chicas? Define problem?

Moreover, check this out. And this is where your statement bores holes. When those same guys also have consistent good experiences with other chicas, and those other chicas were comfortable and had good vibes with those guys, shouldn't that register to you or at least to the average person with some intelligence that guys don't necessarily have to be doing anything consistently wrong with chicas to have problems?

Guys are consistently dealing with all types of chicas. Some are good / compatible and some are not. When guys consistently have good experiences with other chicas, do you also acknowledge and count those experiences too? Do you stop yourself to think that maybe it just might be the chicas are a problem and not the guys doing something consistently wrong? Or do you only focus on the bad experiences guys have, ignore the good ones, and charge it only to the guys bringing on the problems?

Or perhaps you are talking about the guys you know that DO have consistent problems with chicas, and no good experiences? Please advise. How you came up with your conclusion?

And if you are using a forum like this to judge what guys here post of their experiences, that may be another flaw in judgement. Because a guy may consistently give reports of distinction in order to inform and educate, rather than being focused on providing a balance to avoid the onslaught of judgmental individuals who consistently look for opportunities to see mongers as the cause of problems. You appear to excuse chicas behavior and justify it moreso than hold them accountable for any of their own behavior. Why is that?

You have to understand something. You post what you do with chicas as if what you do is a recommendation for others guys to follow. And thats cool for those that may need / want a suggestion. However, how you operate is what works for you. Many guys are not going to be putting in all that time and money into luring chicas the way you do. And for the most part, I'm sure enough guys are having their own great experiences operating their own way. I will share another great experience in my next report.

One last point. When a dude picks a chica, there may not be time to determine whether there is chemistry or not. Many dudes here will tell you. They didn't know they had chemistry with the chica until after they spent time with them, not just upon meeting them. Point being. You can pick a chica within seconds and have a great ass experience and have no clue if you have chemistry with that individual. Conversely, you can do the same and have a bad experience with a chica after spending an hour talking and positive vibing, but once in the bedroom she turns into a dud, or she flips and becomes all business. You come off as if you don't make allowances for the fact that many of these chicas are acting and feigning, and not always representing their true selves. These chicas can adjust to whatever a guy represents to her in order to appeal to the illusion he is looking for from her.

You dont seem to take stuff that into consideration but would rather assume it has to be the guys that are consistently doing something wrong, giving off bad vibes and making chicas uncomfortable. Yeah, the guy gave off a bad vibe to make the chica so uncomfortable that she felt the need to steal his phone charger. Or caused her to be a dud in bed or caused her to pickpocket him up in D'Latins.

[QUOTE=Wrx2005;1534542]Thats 2 days in a row I had 2 chicas that did CBJ only.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the on the ground reporting. I'm glad I got to enjoy Sosua back when this was never an issue.

[QUOTE=GrownMan1;1534839]Is this the same chica?[/QUOTE]The girl you posted is a different girl.

Was chillin at the playa yesterday, when later in the afternoon a chica I know that works on a restaurant on the beach stopped by my table to say hello. She asked to use my phone to call her amiga who she introduced to me last night at Rumba. The GF was fine, with a nice body. A little shy but could be considered an 7/8. I had the previous appointment with the other chica so I only took her number. Later while standing outside, she walked by towards D'Latins. Her ass was round and delicious in those leopard print spandex pants.

At the time, I said oh well, maybe later. Well now, the Rest chica uses my phone to call her GF and tell her to come to Sosua for me. At that moment, I said damn, thats cool. Chica helping me out here. But in order for that chica to get to Sosua it was going to take a couple of hours. And I don't feel like waiting for some chica to show up. Thats not a good position to be in. Especially if you decide to roll up in Rumbas and spot somebody else.

The rest chica told me my friend didn't seem to like her when he was sitting next to her last night at Rumba. I said he was probably expecting someone. I told her I like her. That she was a nice chica (I was vibing with her wink wink ). My mind thinks for a minute. Why wait for her friend to come? Just take her ( rest chica ). She couldn't wait to call the chica back to tell her not to come. I don't think the chica even hit the shower yet. So it was a good move for me. BTW when the friend asked why she didn't have to come, the rest chica told her she didn't know. But she knew. We left the playa, stopped for food, and then off to my place.

In bed this chica and I hit it off as if we were made to fuck each other. Great BBBJ skills. I told her next time, I want to leche in her boca, to which she said simply "ok". Later about 2am the chica is cuddled up next to me, but apparently feeling horny again because I reached between her legs to find a puddle of juice there. She instantly found me getting aroused too, to which she pushed me over to suck me for a few minutes and eventually go for another round. So like I said earlier.

YMMD ( your mileage may differ ) depending on the chica you get with. I didn't know we would be compatible in and out of bed. I didn't know she was or wasnt a thief or some crazy chica. It was just happened to be a great connection. Hopefully when it comes to her friend she won't have a problem with us getting together?

I guess I should be charged for the bad vibes I created. Making that chica so uncomfortable that she chose to lie to her friend so she could get the benefits last night? That chica definitely deserves more business. Her girlfriend? Who knows? She may look good, but maybe a dud. Hopefully I get to find out. To be continued.