Great post for a newbie to the area.
I have been to many places in the world but never to Manila. I'm starting to go back to bkk as I'm getting tired of Medellin. Don't get me wrong, I had a blast in Medellin and the girls there are very sexual, but things are not as cool as they used to be. With tons of mongers from the states coming down, weekend mongers, it's jacking up the prices and the girls hare having a shitty attitude. And the sad part is that that stupid mongers are getting drugged and robbed or even worse killed. So I'm thinking of SE asia. I have been to bkk many times but never to the Philippines. I had wondered about Manila but this post was great. After reading it and the last sentence, I will more likely stay in bkk and once I move there I can search the surrounding areas like manila and so forth.
[QUOTE=NvRoberto;2929911]I arrived in Manila in 2021 for work, retired in 2023, and I now have a condo in BGC. My setup: I have a girlfriend who lives with me. We met when I arrived 3 years ago on Tinder and she comes from a family that is just between dirt poor and middle class. She's beautiful, educated, speaks perfect English. I take care of her 100%, pay all the bills, living in a huge luxury condo, travel with her all over the world. I told her I have 1 request for all I do for her - 2 weekends a month, she goes home to the province Friday to Monday so I can fuck other women. I'm too old to settle down but I like having a girlfriend. I was blunt in the beginning and told her if she didn't like it, that's cool, but the gravy train ends. She agreed. She's actually bi so occasionally she gets the desire to fuck another girl, so instead of going home for the weekend I get a girl for her and I to fuck, have a fun threesomes. She once invited 3 other girls over so I could have a little orgy. So ya, she takes care of me, I take care of her.
But let's get to the weekends I get some pussy.
I have never picked up a girl on P. Burgos Street or bar fined a single girl in the Philippines. Not my thing. Here's where I go: (mind you, I'm a late 50's white American with a dad bod, I'm no young hunk).
1. Tinder. I am currently sitting on hundreds of matches with my settings 18-29 within 15 miles. From current and former matches I simply move them quickly to a texting app and I'm straight up. I tell them I have a girlfriend, she lets me fuck a couple weekends a month, and I'm looking for fun, not relationships. I would guess 90% of them say, "ok, sounds good, how much?" These women are very cute, young, spinner bodies. I've fucked for as low as 2 k and as much as 12 k. The 12 k was an absolute stunning model type and likely one of the hottest women I've ever fucked so ya, sometimes the little head controls the wallet. I tell every girl I'm fucking raw (I hate condoms) but I have a vasectomy so no babies and eating pussy is a must. I've never had a girl say no to fucking raw in 3 years. I have had the occasional girl who wants to hook up for free. She loves foreign men, is horny, and will come over just to fuck. Rare, but it happens. Just get Tinder Gold (or whatever the paid version is), upload some good photos, put in the bio that you're in town and hoping to meet someone, and then pay the extra money to "boost you" starting about 7 pm. I did that last night and had 54 new matches within an hour.
2. PinaLove. Same as Tinder, but I'm not nearly as successful on PinaLove. It's weird but for some reason Tinder is super easy for hook ups, but PL is hit and miss. Maybe more girls on PL looking for love, not sex.
3. Facebook. Just search in groups for "manila home massage" and you will have dozens of massage places. Some you can tell right from the ads that they're a front for slinging pussy. If they have "Nuru Massage", "Lingam Massage" or "Sensual Massage" as options, you're at the right place. However, I have found that almost all of the massage places will cater to bedroom time. I get the scheduler (handler) in a Messenger chat and I simply ask if "sensual or lingam massage" is available. Some will tell you straight up. NO, this is a legit massage business. Cool, moving on. But you will eventually get a handler who says "you can talk to your masseuse about extra services". That's when you start asking for photos and tell the handler that if she sends you a "fun girl" who is "open minded" then you will send a nice tip to the handler. I have GCash so that's how I send money. About 80% of the time, it's a complete success. I get the occasional "only hand job sir" or "I'm on my period" or "yes I fuck for 20 k". But mostly you get cute girls who are down for fun. When she arrives just be blunt. I'm not here for massage, I want to fuck. She will let you know what she can do. If she won't play, just get the massage which will be about $10 and relax for an hour.
4. Websites. I have always used [URL]https://smooci.com/[/URL] and [URL]https://manilacourtesans.com/gallery/.[/URL] These girls typically want you to wear a condom tho, so I avoid unless I'm in a pinch. But I've had some beautiful women who are very very fun from these sites.
5. Seeking Arrangement. When I first arrived in Manila, I was used to using SA (or now, Seeking) when I was in the US so I kept using it for about a year in Manila. Lots of absolutely gorgeous pussy but expensive. Just like Tinder, go to chat and then state your business. I had no problem finding lots of women who were pay to play, and they were HOT AF. But yes, pricey.
Nice thing about my time here is that I have developed relationships with a couple of home massage handlers who know my wants and needs. I even had 1 handler who I started chatting with and she asked if she could fuck me because she never had a foreigner and I said sure. I paid her the same as all her girls, and she was a bit chunky, but I fucked her good and now she sends me her best girls. You can find her service online and at FB as Heavenly Spa Home Services Massage. I messaged her yesterday and told her I wanted a fresh girl, young, fun, and who will meet my needs (no massage, allows pussy licking, fucks raw, allows a creampie, and I like a hairy pussy). She immediately responded that she had a new 18 year old and she would have a talk with her about my needs. The girl arrived at my condo 30 minutes early, took a shower, and came out naked and cute AF. I took her by the hand to the bedroom and licked that pussy for a while and she was squealing and squirming all over the bed, dripping wet. I took her off the bed and told her "on your knees" as I had on shorts and she said "ok but extra tip" to which I simply replied "take out my cock and suck it". She did, little 18-year old looking up at me bobbing her head on my cock. After awhile, I put her back on the bed in doggy and just slid into her and started fucking raw. Fucked her in multiple positions then finished missionary with a creampie. We took a quick shower and then she was off. I have another 18-year old coming over tonight. That's my life 2 weekends a month. I rarely repeat a girl because I like variety.
So that's how I do it without hanging out in a bar. I guess I'm lazy and I'd rather order my girls like pizza instead of hunting for it.
With regards to the normal girl, I can tell you this. On MULTIPLE occasions, walking through the mall or at Starbucks, I have had very young cute girls make eye contact and smile and keep eye contact even as you walk away. I have had girls walk up to me and give me their phone number. I have had Starbucks barista's write their phone number on my cup. Filipinas are incredibly flirty and open about their desire to fuck, bag an older white man who can give them a good life, and sometimes they simply want to fuck a foreigner.
If you can't get laid here, I don't know what you're doing. And yes, I've had multiple trips to Thailand so I can clearly see the difference between Thailand sex scene and Philippines. In the Philippines you have to work a little harder, but the pussy is still there for the taking. Have fun boys![/QUOTE]