With respect to your assessment of El Infinito, I agree with you that it's a SHIT HOLE in the privados. I never said I liked it, or that I even go there at this juncture. The truth is, I do go there, but usually for only about ten minutes at a time, usually just to interview the girls. I move very quickly through the lower level bars, and I don't typically stay because I am impatient, and I can assess the opportunities rapidly. Like you, I don't particularly like the atmosphere. But, I go there because there are some fantastic girls, girls that are every bit as good as any high end massage parlor girl, or escort, and for less money.
I have found a ton of very good girls in El Infinito, and it is probably one of the best resources in the city. With respect to cost, routinely I spend 350 to 700 pesos on the bar fine, and 1000 pesos for the girl, usually Diva quality, and they stay no less than 4-6 hours. I defy anyone to achieve that same cost comparison with respect to time spent when compared to the high end massage parlors and/or escort services. And, the reality is, once I've found them, they are regulars, charging even less, and staying even longer. And, the escort girls or the high end massage parlor girls are no better looking, or any more "girl," than the best of the best in El Infinito. But, I agree that to each his own. I agree that some might enjoy the high end massage parlors and/or escort girls more than the bar scene, and I am fine with that. I am just defending my chosen venue with the same opinionated vigor as those who have found their other venues to be more rewarding. Nothing more...
But, the important thing is this...The bar girl's story was BS, and it should not be represented as true, and that hyping the dangers of Mexico is counter-productive, especially if the stories are hyped and false, and/or misleading with respect to the level of danger most would encounter by coming to the city. Life goes on in Monterrey, and while dangers do exist, the routine of life is still just that, relatively routine. This issue about everyone being on edge is simply not true. Everyone is aware that the dangers exist, and many are more in-tune with their surroundings, etc...but, there isn't a palpable fear among the population other than from the more dramatic...ie: bar girls, who for some reason always believe they are the center of attention and that everything revolves around them.
A warning to avoid dangerous circumstances is prudent. But, El Infinito IS NOT DANGEROUS, and nothing has ever happened there other than little minor altercations, the same kind of thing found in countless bars all across the USA, mostly as a result of drunks getting out of hand, and not because there is any gang related altercations causing issues.
You might also be rather surprised at just how many bouncers come out of the wood work at these bars when there is even a slight hint of things getting out of hand. They're planted all over the place, and while there are gang members in attendance, the bouncers are pretty good at keeping things under control. I've seen how they spring into action, many more of them than can be detected by just walking in and glancing around. So, don't believe for one second that the management of these cash cow businesses are going to permit things to get out of hand if they can help it. They are even more diligent now due to the Givenchy fiasco.
And, the other consideration is the underworld connection that many of these bars have. There is a certain "protection" that many of them enjoy. Remember, the guys that committed the murders in Givenchy are either on the run, strung up by their balls, or dead right now. This is all due to the Cartels taking revenge against the perpetrators because they acted against Cartel orders. It doesn't mean that something like Givenchy couldn't happen again, or that the shoot out couldn't take place tomorrow. But, for the most part, the likelihood is probably less that you would be injured in El Infinito, or any of the other bars, than on the downtown streets, or by walking into an Oxxo Store at night in El Centro.
Your recommendation not to visit Monterrey is a personal opinion, and if you're trying to get transferred due to the dangers that exist, I don't fault you for wanting out. There are dangers, but I can tell you first hand, the dangers in Chicago are on par with Monterrey. I am not going to cancel my trips to Chicago for business, and I will not be canceling any trips to return here for pleasure based on a level of danger that has simply not escalated to the level that is represented by some. If and when I start to see the danger level approaching that degree of severity, I'll be the first one to opt out, and the first one to reveal it here.
[QUOTE=Chester Boy]Unspongebob, please read my first post in this thread where I said that I don't recommend coming down to Monterrey at this moment and that I'm personally working to get transferred somewhere else. I will gladly accept your apology for jumping to conclusions.
But let's keep this civil; credibility as to the relative dangers of Monterrey can easily be attained by checking Google News. As I said, if you STILL want to come down to Monterrey, then I stand by what I said, but I understand that personal tastes will differ.
Going to a high-end massage parlor (and I'll not name names since I may get accused of being the owner. LOL) will cost you around 2K for the hour and the girl will be smoking hot. Go to a strip club and you could easily blow that 2k before you really find a girl of your choosing. And if you DO find the right girl, by the time you haggle with the bar fine and salida price, pay for drinks, privados, etc., the price will greatly exceed the 2k. And, anyway, for my tastes bar girls are too run-down and tired looking, but each his own.
Personally, I prefer walking into a clean MP, paying my money and getting my action without any hassle and, certainly, that would be preferable if I were only in town for a couple of days.
Like I said, tastes may differ, but I want my action without all the hassle and nastiness of having to step in other guys' jizz as I get a privado. Maybe that's your thing. Good for you.
And, really, how are we to know whether a story is unsubstantiated or not? Are we to take Monterreydude's word for it? Or are we to listen to him because you, another anonymous person on a message board, vouch for him? I don't know you or him from Adam.
Personally, I want to hear all stories that may concern my safety and then I'll decide what to believe.[/QUOTE]
