I appreciate our fellow mongers falling for them.
[QUOTE=BuleDaddy]I am cringing while I watch several friends get relieved of their money. I watched 2 already get their inheritances cleaned out. I warned one to be careful and he told me "I'm in it for love, you're in it for sex". A fool and his money are soon parted. When the money is gone, they find out no more pooying. Sometimes a good hearted expat sitting on a pile of money will get "flying lessons" off a balcony or "special spices" put on their food to help them part with it quicker.[/QUOTE]
Lets see also the advantage of it for the guys who stay on earth:
As long as such strories happen and there is a reasonable success rate for the girls with some of our monger brothers falling for them and been supported more then less, the girls will share those stories each other. The result is pretty in our favor as in my opinion this is the reason so many of us can enjoy GFE and really great sex combined, as most of the girls are dreaming to have a similar success and that keeps service standard up.
Never experienced in my monger time such a P4P scene where its hard to distinguish if its really a P4P as it is so fluent to friendship. Don't see the drawing line as the girls do (e.g. the 'girlfriend' of some of our resindents here like mick Licker talks about his girlfriend), but that's probably more for their self confidence then for real neutral view.
However I also understand our high aged members. What's the alternatives home? Specially talking about the European and US folks here. Better to be departed from some of your money from a 40 year yonger Thai hotty with some fun included, then from your ugly same aged home country woman or even your yonger relatives waiting (impatient?) for your pass away to get your heritage. Just keep the money drain under reasonable control.
regards
Brain666
The alternatives is the nice massage parlors at home
[QUOTE=Brain666]Lets see also the advantage of it for the guys who stay on earth:
However I also understand our high aged members. What's the alternatives home? Specially talking about the European and US folks here. Better to be departed from some of your money from a 40 year yonger Thai hotty with some fun included, then from your ugly same aged home country woman or even your yonger relatives waiting (impatient?) for your pass away to get your heritage. Just keep the money drain under reasonable control.
regards
Brain666[/QUOTE]
High aged member sez:
Nothing like the sweet smell of Kim Chee on the breath and other end of the fine Korean Hotties that staff the massage parlors in the US. Some Thai, Laotian and Cambodians are starting to show up as well. No shortage of booty in the US at any age in the big cities if you have the income to blow and you aren't a bore. American women are said to be fat, but I have never seen more fat women than the gargantuan Shielas hanging in Kuta.
Thai and Pinoy women got money just for getting knocked up by GIs, so they normally think they have a bigger lottery ticket w/a gringo than somebody from elsewhere. The family demands more money much faster from their pooying/laison if she says she is with an American or Japanese man. I heard horror stories about guys up at the big airbase in Khorat during the Vietnam era that hooked up with the locals. Losing stripes over stuff the wives pulled. Thais will shun a girl for dating a round eye back here. They are clannier than the Amish. The British and Germans can pull it off much better, probably because they can hold their beer better and are better at hanging on to the shekkles.
Bangkok rules, but Pattaya bores me to tears. It is a great place to retire if you like getting sh*^faced 24/7 and hooking up with somebody that will expect you to support their family and participate in other money draining activities. When the cash runs out they don't associate with you any more. I can't take more than 3 days of the Brothel by the sea, and that is to chill after an intense Asian City tour.
The trouble w/how Thais view Americans is that they watch american TV where people are driving big cars, living in big houses all with no visual means of support. They hear stories from Grandma about the GIs, who established Pattaya as a booty stop with pockets full of combat pay and a sacks full o'spunk that they'd blow in a couple of nights. The girls all dream of having a little "tiger" baby. They think gringos all have some kind of trust fund. Plenty to do in Bangkok that keeps you moving and keeps those pooying hooks from digging in deep.
and further more, I am joining a 12 step program for people that talk to much. it's called onandon
The day seven report, continued...
so there i am, back at the rp waiting for the eden bfn to arrive. i have shut off the ac so she will not freeze upon entry, and made sure there were sufficient beverages available. i pop down to the bar (sitting outside) to have a beer and wait. 22:02 and i wander over towards the entrance and my ever smiling security guy asks if i need a taxi or whatever and i tell him i am waiting for my lady friend.
he looks slightly concerned and drags me to the lobby saying there is one lady who has been waiting for a few minutes, and is this my friend? blow me down, she was early! she very earnestly tried to give her id card to the front desk, who pointed her towards the security guy, who, as during my whole stay was very pleasant and polite with my guests.
i show (letīs call her bop, pm if you need the real name) bop to the eighth floor and chez sporadic. she was dressed nicely enough to be taken anywhere, and on the arm of a 30-35 yo would look the perfect gf.
all she wanted to drink was water (and eventually a coke) and we played around on the computer a bit (funny movie clips etc.)
i asked bop if she was hungry, and she said she was. room service it is. she surveyed the menu and settled upon spaghetti. i gently asked her if she knew what this was, and pointed out the extensive thai menu available. she insisted.
predictably, when it arrived, she had a surprised look on her face (and a little sheepish) and was not quite sure what to do. i offered to have her order something else, but this plucky young lady said she did not want to "waste my money" and she gamely dug in. what a star.
she then asked if she could shower. well of course my lovely, and i showed her to the bath. in deference to her, i mood lighted the room, and put on the thai mtv channel (not bad actually though i understood not a word of it.)
fresh from her ablutions, i excused myself to do the same and with a startled look on her face, she asked if i did not want her to "take care of me." well, if you insist my dear. this is where the real quality shows. she lovingly (sorry, no other word for it) undresses me, runs my bath and washed me with all the care of a mother and her newborn. ok, i know it is just service with a smile, but the attitude i caught was "i am here to make you very happy." damned tough to take.
after a good gentle scrub and caress, and a careful toweling off, we head back to the bed. she senses that i am not interested in an immediate [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord123][CodeWord123][/url] scene and after unpacking her little store of goodies (creams, oils and unguents) she props herself up on her elbows and we chat a bit. i ask her if she likes the thai mtv, and she admits, that if it is ok with me, what she really likes is the discovery channel (!) she explains that the english is good to learn and the different subjects are interesting to her.
there is a heck of a lot more here than meets the eye. i was curious (after so many eden stories) to hear her side of it, and with a twinkle in her eye she related some amusing anecdotes, thus: the shy european middle aged guy who seemed to desire nothing, indeed was not turned on by the girls per se, nodding enthusiastically when she offered to bugger him with a strap-on. two orgasms worth it would seem. she said she had seen it all (i have no doubt) and that was probably why she was so attuned to me.
one thing i will mention. marc takes his business seriously, and demands performance from his employees. it would appear that some (thankfully few) customers are quite demanding ( "i cannot say no, or i will lose my job" ) and anyone who complains (with or without reason) can cause serious problems for the eden girls. on one side, this means quality for me, thus a good thing, on the downside, some asshole abusive punter could take advantage of the business model. be nice, guys.
i enjoyed two very nice sessions with this lady, and another in the morning. i was secretly pleased when she became sufficiently lubricated without reaching for the k-y (oh, the masculine pride!) her oral skills were in the sol league as well. though she said she had not completed the entire thai massage course, her rubbings were most enjoyable.
this girl was also a mind reader, she always found the right amount of "closeness" without being a barnacle and overly-clingy in bed. bliss.
the eden take out is 10pm until 6am. i dutifully asked bop if she wanted me to set the alarm for her at six. she smiled at me and said that this was really to protect her, as sometimes she arrives at the hotel and finds four guys who want to ride her all night (cheap, sneaky bastards, they had better tip the hell out of her) and no, there was no need to set the alarm, as long as she was at work on time.
what can i say? wonderful girl, wonderful time.
i was leaving the next day, and there was some music she wanted from my computer, but i did not have a cd to burn it for her. although i am sure she thought i was full of shit, i did indeed run down to the 7-11 and buy a cd, and did indeed burn her music for her. sadly, when i went by eden to drop it off, she had just retired for a session with some lucky punter. i left the cd at the bar for her with bruce, then later sent a pm to marc to let him know how much i appreciated his club, and bop in particular.
ever the gentleman (he was in pattaya starting up eden2 at the time) he promised to pass on my thanks to bop.
gents, spend your money at eden for girls. unprecedented service.
sad departure story to follow.
How to sleep through the flight?
It's an 18+ hour trip for most US flights. Not sleeping much the night before + ear plugs/eyemask + alcohol might knock you out for 8 hrs or so. Then what? Are sleep pills effective?
What else to do on the plane? All I could think of is reading my guidebook and listening to Thai lessons CD.