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[QUOTE=Bkkdog;1983836]Out of the blue like that with no indication from you that you wanted to continue things further? This new girl was just taking direction from the other girls or momason to take you for some cash.[/QUOTE]I would think that it should cost at least 10000 baht to buy a child.
[QUOTE=Bdonkadonk;1983668]I was like, WTF! What is this girl thinking, does she really believe there would be even the slightest chance that I would send money to her, like 10 000 Baht? .[/QUOTE]She believes that it COULD happen, having seen other girls receiving that kind of money.
[QUOTE=Bkkdog;1983836]Out of the blue like that with no indication from you that you wanted to continue things further? This new girl was just taking direction from the other girls or momason to take you for some cash.[/QUOTE]Besides that, I do not believe the message was personal for him. A copy and paste went out to every foreigner in her phone. No need to block. Just ignore it. Next time you talk to her it will be like the message was never sent.
[QUOTE=MrPrice5555;1983816]This is what I learnt they are always in need money[/QUOTE]Well who is not always in need of money? I paid my bills today but next month I will have to pay them again. We have jobs so that we can have recurring pay and a steady stream of money. If you send somebody money you think they will never need money again? Nope. Something else will surely come up the same as it does in everybody's life. Not trying to solve someone else's financial problems no matter how good they fuck.
I've looked online for prices at BJ bars but am unclear on the total cost. 800 baht seems to be the average rate for a BJ at a BJ bar. However, it's not clear whether that includes the room / bar fine cost which is usually 300 baht. So I don't know if it's 800 total (500 to the girl + 300 to the bar) or 1,100 (800 to the girl + 300 to the bar).
[QUOTE=Bkkdog;1983836]Out of the blue like that with no indication from you that you wanted to continue things further? This new girl was just taking direction from the other girls or momason to take you for some cash.[/QUOTE]Yes, out of the blue just like that and with no indications from me whatsoever of even wishing to have any further contact with her. That's why I was really suprprised to receive her message demanding money. You are probably right that she got directions from the other girls or the mamasan to try and get some cash from me.
[QUOTE=Syzygies;1983844]... We don't know if she has any children[/QUOTE]She has a newly born son, she told me that and the son is staying with her mother. Her brests were even filled with milk and looked big and nice and after I squeezed her boobs milk was coming out. Not really something that turned me on but the boobs did look big and nice though.
[QUOTE=MrEnternational;1983921]Besides that, I do not believe the message was personal for him. A copy and paste went out to every foreigner in her phone. No need to block. Just ignore it. Next time you talk to her it will be like the message was never sent.[/QUOTE]You can very well be right, that the message was sent to more guys that she has contact with. However, I feel good about blocking this girl because I don't wish to have any further contact with her. And from being blocked maybe she can feel and understand that is bad behavior to make such demands to guys that she stays in contact with. There is no sense or reason at all to make such demands of money from only meeting one time in a bar in Soi 6.
[QUOTE=OlderMan4U;1983432]Hey,
If you guys meet a bargirl and they want to stay in touch, do you worry they will ask for money sooner or later?
Just curious.[/QUOTE]I guess I have been asked for money twice. The first time was with a BR FL girl. She was actually a very classy lady who admitted she was selling her body, then later stated her son needed surgery and she was trying to raise, oh, 10 K baht or so. No idea if that was true, and while she didn't come out and directly ask for money beyond what we had already negotiated, I did give her a little extra, but mostly because she was a good lay with great English and acted very mature. She was very attractive, so I am sure she was able to raise the money if the story was true.
Second was more recent. I met a girl online on Tinder last November while in Pattaya. She sent me her Line ID, but I didn't try contacting her again until just 2 weeks ago. She was not much of a conversationalist, but I did learn she worked every day as a hair stylist in Pattaya and she said she was poor and was supporting her parents. (A common statement.) I asked her to go to Ko Larn next time I was there and model for me. She said no nude stuff, and I said fine as I was not looking for that, then I got a message saying "I no money send to my dad tomorrow 4000 can you help me pleas?" (exact copy). I respond with "I am in USA, not Pattaya now. " She responds with "if you want to help me you can do". I did not respond for a while and she says "Quite is ok". Yes, she misspelled quiet. I am temped to reply back, as she is a cute girl, but I sure am not going to send money to a girl I never met! I guess by saying it was ok to be quiet means she realized she went too far and wants to keep herself in my plans. Her Tinder name is Pronmanee, so if anyone has any info on her.
But good girls won't ask for money. They will take it if you offer, but they won't come out an ask. My non-pro, virgin Thai GF will spend her own money to come see me and not ask me to reimburse her. I said I would do so, and I do, but if the girl really wants to see you, they will find a way.
I do have two girls now that I have been with and exchanged Line addresses with. One I exchanged with last April, though I have known her since April of 2015. The other I was with last November. These are the only actual workers I have been with who I have exchanged contact info with. Neither has hit me up for money.
But I do think it is ok to stay in contact with girls you like.
[QUOTE=Hello69;1983964]I've looked online for prices at BJ bars but am unclear on the total cost. 800 baht seems to be the average rate for a BJ at a BJ bar. However, it's not clear whether that includes the room / bar fine cost which is usually 300 baht. So I don't know if it's 800 total (500 to the girl + 300 to the bar) or 1,100 (800 to the girl + 300 to the bar).[/QUOTE]BJ Bars typically don't have bar-fines for BJs, they are done in-house, either in a curtained off area, like at [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord900][CodeWord900][/url], or right out in public on a couch at S-O-L. Takeout is generally for longer time FS.
[QUOTE=Member#2041;1984054]BJ Bars typically don't have bar-fines for BJs, they are done in-house, either in a curtained off area, like at CodeWord900, or right out in public on a couch at S-O-L. Takeout is generally for longer time FS.[/QUOTE]Thanks 2041. The reason I asked is because I went to Excite bar yesterday and paid 800 to a girl for a BJ in a curtained off section of the bar. Later when I paid for my drinks, they also threw in a 300 barfine fee which left me thinking I should have only tipped the girl 500. I went to another bar later (forgot the name but it was near Club 4) and they quoted me 700 for the girl and 300 for the room.
So that was 2 different BJ bars that both wanted either a barfine or a room fee for doing it on premises. Are these bars the exceptions to the rule or did I get ripped off?
I'll check out CodeWord900 and see if it's any different, although the girls I saw outside yesterday were not appealing.
BTW, what is S-O-L?
[QUOTE=Hello69;1983964]I've looked online for prices at BJ bars but am unclear on the total cost. 800 baht seems to be the average rate for a BJ at a BJ bar. However, it's not clear whether that includes the room / bar fine cost which is usually 300 baht. So I don't know if it's 800 total (500 to the girl + 300 to the bar) or 1,100 (800 to the girl + 300 to the bar).[/QUOTE]If you are referring to places like La poste office on soi lengkee it's 300 BF. 800 BJ and 1000 fs includes BF.
Member, which pattaya bj bars are you referring to? I'm definitely interested in no bf bars.
[QUOTE=OlderMan4U;1983432]Hey,
If you guys meet a bargirl and they want to stay in touch, do you worry they will ask for money sooner or later?
Just curious.[/QUOTE]Why should you worry? If she ever asks, you can say yes or no. Up to you.
I've had girlfriends (not bargirls) asks for support, so it is something that can happen in any relationship.
But worry about it? Never.
[QUOTE=OlderMan4U;1983432]Hey,
If you guys meet a bargirl and they want to stay in touch, do you worry they will ask for money sooner or later?
Just curious.[/QUOTE]Clearly depends on whether the guy is "Jai dee" (good heart) or not. Tough guys won't be concerned. Soft guys should be. Personally I do not collect girl contacts too quickly unless the girl is important. I don't want continual messages from unimportant girls, whether they ask for money or not.
One girl used to send me pictures of flowers and Thai poetry nearly every day, wasted on my type, and wanted to be my girlfriend. I did not want her so much and did not wish to communicate with her daily. She would say the same thinks all the time. I liked her 20 years ago. LOL.
When they are strange they really are. Long story short, I left Marine disco with a girl (No) which seemed to be willing, slim and enough good looking. I got the feeling that she was surely a bit drunk but also with an attitude different from most others. It was raining and my place is far (by thai lady standards), so we waited a little but it wasn't stopping, during which she was a bit strange. She was insisting that it would have been OK to just drive to my place, well according to me it would not have been fun to get there totally soaked. Finally I bought a raincoat for her, while I would have worn my jacket. She would not have nothing of that, according to her I should have been the one wearing the raincoat. I had been patient until then, but it became clear to me that I was risking disappointment and arguing with an unstable, tired girl which would not even make her demands clear. Left her on 2nd Rd. and got home. Wearing the raincoat.
[QUOTE=BananaBoi;1984170]If you are referring to places like La poste office on soi lengkee it's 300 BF. 800 BJ and 1000 fs includes BF.
Member, which pattaya bj bars are you referring to? I'm definitely interested in no bf bars.[/QUOTE]Those were Bangkok BJ bars. S-O-L was Star-of-Light in Patpong. The one that got censored by the forum for some inexplicable reason is the one named after Vladamir Nabokov's youthful hypersexual nymphet - but I believe that there is also an outpost of the same chain of BJ Bars in Pattaya. The Bangkok outpost is on Sukhumvit Soi 8. The Pattaya outpost of the same name is on Soi Chiyapoon. I've never been to it in that location, as it used to be on Soi LK Metro when I last patronized that establishment and relieved my excess man-juice into the mouth of a well skilled employee of said establishment.
I should add that I have not been to Thailand in nearly 5 years, although I was there at least 8 different times between 2005 and 2012, so my info with respect to bar fines could be out-dated, and other gents information might me more up to date and thus more accurate.
Hope this not sound like a weird request on this site but not been in many Soi 6 bars for quite a few years but going Patts in May and wondering if any members can tell me which bars on Soi 6 currently have pool tables inside? I think pussy club and bee corner bar do have but not sure which others have them. If any members can tell me others it would be greatly appreciated I like to play a little pool and get to know the lady a little before going upstairs to do the deed,
thanks guys.
Raining cats and dogs so what else to do?
It has been raining all night and continues this morning.
Since I live on the Darkside, with all the construction the last few years on Sukhumvit and the night time police checks it makes it easier at times to just get a room for a few hours or the night near Walking St. If I had too many drinks or just need to do a BF. Majority of the girls these days on W. S. , if they don't know me well will not go ST / LT with me on my bike to the Darkside. At times could be a advantage because if it doesn't go well I'm not stuck with them for the rest of the night. These days, maybe old age I rather sleep alone as soon as I'm done I can't get rid of them soon enough no matter how GFE, they might be. So, on nights when it rains and I'm on W. S. I just get a room on Soi b J. So I don't get soaked or end up with a dud.
We are all different, not only in taste with looks etc. We can't all be hardcore and have the balls to do all the things being mentioned although that is exactly what should be done! I've been told by my brother and close family and friends I have no problem cutting someone throat but beyond them have a hard time saying no to a girl. I be the first one to admit it that is true and I'm getting better but have plenty of tire marks on my back.
As noted, not only in lost of face and believe me when it comes to lost of face it does exist in Thailand, in many forms and degree. I have a 1/4 inch cut by a butcher knife on my left between my ear and eye to prove it so close the doctor told me just a little closer there I would have been dead. The key as noted is if you put yourself in the position for it to happen it most likely will? And there are times because we are different and come across differently the girls here in the business can smell us softy a mile away.
So, putting yourself in the position is if you are too accommodating to everything, repeating with the same girl and asking for her number etc. For many this isn't a problem if the girls sense you aren't going to put up with it. Believe it or not these girls have a school of themselves in providing a interview on you. They aren't asking you " if you been to Pattaya before because they want to be your tour guide ". We hunt for the GFE, when you get it GFE, it comes with baggage and attitude just like the real GFE back home. Girlfriend gets jealous what is yours is also hers?
So when it comes to money, one shouldn't be offended. As Mr. E, noted a girl who ask for 10,000 baht and just slept with you 1 time most likely doesn't even know or remember she has. She throws it out to everyone why not she got nothing to lose? In the end, if no Charlie Tuna bites she is no worst off. They know no bank is going to lend it to them, not even the mafia or loan shark is going to do it unless you have something they can collect on? So why not a customer they just met? They have the best ATM Debit card in the world better than Visa or M/C, and it is call a pussy!
Believe, there are the majority that wouldn't lend or give them the money! But I've been here long enough here in Pattaya that know first hand that it happens and these minority stories spread like wild fire to be majority so that is why they ask. I have heard it all sometimes the stupid excuses why? It would make your head spin around in circle. There are lots of guys who visit Thailand, that have something missing in their lives and once they step foot in the LOS, with the exchange rate being 35-1, now makes them think they're the Clinton Foundation or something. I have a cousin who has a friend who I've known for 4 decades, has a good pension and given away at least 10 million baht, he has friends who he use to work with who lives in Pattaya and have done the same if not more. I met them a few times and no longer drink or eat with them because I just can't stomach there stories and complaints.
There are guys who are missing something in their lives plus not having much upstairs and being stubborn all over Pattaya, and these working girls have these stories. Does any of the above make me better than them NO, because I have a soft spot too but I'm not giving away the store or even 10,000 baht. I can easily say no or nothing what is tougher is someone asking you for something smaller (for me at least) a amount like a few thousand baht. Today, I rarely give my number out to someone new because doing so put yourself closer for something you not want to happen. I protect myself more and try to come across so they don't even think about asking but I do it politely and respectfully to them.
In all my years, I've never been ask for money by girls I know and been with who work in GoGo's but when it comes to Beer Bars, Gentlemen Clubs, and in general Bar or clubs on the Darkside, once they get my number it happens, the request for money! So based on what I said above giving out a number especially if you can't say no is not a good idea?
I might be wrong, but the BJ place once in LK Metro, Lo-l-tas who now is on Chaiyapoon?
Happy New Year!