Pattaya Reports

[QUOTE=Vivek;1986363]Hi friends,

I am 41/ m / Single / Indian who will be traveling in Pattaya in January End 2017 for about 7 days. Second visit. First visit was in March 2016. I am looking for a sweet, friendly and safe girl (age 20 to 30) who will stay with me for about 72 hours continuously like a wife. I will be staying in a good 3 star hotel with a swimming pool. Where can I find such a girl? My budget around 4500 Baht for 72 hours total or 1500 baht for 24 hours.
[/QUOTE]Good luck! The only girls you might get for 1500 baht per day will be grannies or skanks. I mean, a Soi 6 girl for one hour will get 1000 baht, and a FL BR girl will be 800 for an hour. No way would any of those girls stay with you for a full 3 days and be your "wife" for a measly 4500 baht, which is about $40 per day! You might get a BR girl to spend the nights with you, but other than the skanks, they can most likely get 2 or 3 clients each day by working just a few hours, so why would they stay with you, working all day, and lose money?

If you want a wife experience, I would think you would need to develop a relationship with a girl in advance. Maybe join Thai Cupid and try to cultivate a relationship with someone before you go over, but be honorable and not tell a girl you are looking for a wife when what you really want is a hooker to stay with you for 3 days for cheap.

[QUOTE=FLHawk;1986437]Good luck! The only girls you might get for 1500 baht per day will be grannies or skanks. I mean, a Soi 6 girl for one hour will get 1000 baht, and a FL BR girl will be 800 for an hour. No way would any of those girls stay with you for a full 3 days and be your "wife" for a measly 4500 baht, which is about $40 per day! You might get a BR girl to spend the nights with you, but other than the skanks, they can most likely get 2 or 3 clients each day by working just a few hours, so why would they stay with you, working all day, and lose money?

If you want a wife experience, I would think you would need to develop a relationship with a girl in advance. Maybe join Thai Cupid and try to cultivate a relationship with someone before you go over, but be honorable and not tell a girl you are looking for a wife when what you really want is a hooker to stay with you for 3 days for cheap.[/QUOTE]Possible for the Tall Athletic young blond guy in the Cap America or tall Justin Bieber looks. He states he is 40. So hopefully he looks younger than 40 to pull that off. A lot of guys would want to meet multiple girls in that short time span.

His trip is very short to pull that off and he would've needed to network on his previous trip.

Don't Laugh. I have been in touch with a man in this forum who actually did same thing that I want in the same price about 6 months ago. Though he was little far from Pattaya. In a bar at Lamai beach at ko samui island. I was wondering if it was possible in Pattaya.

I just wanted to share me dilemma here getting Pattaya girls. First let me brief you about myself. (I know boring, please bare with me, thanks).

I'm about (7.5) lookwise M. E. Guy, with the age of 28, reach 5'10", weigh 160 lb, athletic with 6 packs and all the nice features. I'm also very open minded person, fluent in English, well-knowledgeable, and with high-intelligence compared to the average crowd. I find ladies to be wowed with the common knowledge I have (have been asked if I'm Dr, Engineer, etc).

I have been to many places such as USA for bachelor degree, and girls find me attractive (How I know? I get several second looks, and the compliments "handsome, cute. " have been told in several occasions). I also do not have problem getting Thais in M. E. Countries. In fact, every time I enter venue of Thai WGs, I get approached from the best good-looking WGs in that setting.

I also do not have issue with money as I make around $100 K a year, and I'm staying in Pattaya at property priced over 11,000 baht per night. I do not mind paying 6,000 baht for lady that I find attractive.

However, all the ladies that I find them attractive here will not give me the chance to present myself, just because of the fact that I look as Indian / Arab, even though I have light-tanned-whitish skin complexion. What is worse, is getting rejected from some venues here in W. S. Just because of my ethnicity (maybe young look? Even though I tip and spend more cash in these venues than most fellow white people.

In contrary to Thais working in M. E. Countries, over here I get looks from ladies who I won't take them even if I get paid to do it.

If I'm as (Arab / Indian look-like) guy with good credibilities is having a hard time getting ladies here, I wonder what my fellow others are doing. ? What am I missing?

If CA $H is really the X factor here, I would be getting the best good looking girls here in Pattaya. But it's evidently not based on my case.

Some of you might ask why don't I just stick with Thai ladies who are already in ME. Valid point, but I just sometime get bored from the same places and ladies. I want to try new blood, better looking ladies, as well as visiting new places for change.

[QUOTE=Vivek;1986363]Hi friends,

I am 41/ m / Single / Indian who will be traveling in Pattaya in January End 2017 for about 7 days. Second visit. First visit was in March 2016. I am looking for a sweet, friendly and safe girl (age 20 to 30) who will stay with me for about 72 hours continuously like a wife. I will be staying in a good 3 star hotel with a swimming pool. Where can I find such a girl? My budget around 4500 Baht for 72 hours total or 1500 baht for 24 hours.

Thanks in advance.

Cheers,

Vivek.[/QUOTE]Having been earlier once in Pattaya, it is quite odd that you should expect to have a sweet, friendly and safe girl, that too 20 to 30 at paltry 4500 Baht for three days. Do not have unrealistic expectations. You may probably get an older lady above 45 to 50 years that too with lot of search!

[QUOTE=Mombie75;1986268]Being British I have a weather related question. The twice I have been to Pattaya both visits were in March, I am planning to go in October but I see it is the wettest month, anyone been in October offer any insight as to if it is rainy most days then maybe it is best to do another month?

Thanks.[/QUOTE]Unlike Britain, it would not be cold when it rains in Thailand. And for another, it does usually rain continuously so that your "activities" are not restricted or hampered! I was in Pattaya year before last and it was quite pleasant.

[QUOTE=Adrena;1985515]I wrote a post about 78 pages back. I want to re-post it with some additional info for the new bros who won't read back further than five pages and assume they have Pattaya figured out.

This is for complete beginners, so older members might think my observations are childish, because older members have been doing it for so long.

I won't give play by plays of my experiences unless it helps solidify my points. As always, older members are always welcome to chime in with their observations.

Another few notes, I'll be in Pattaya Jan. 18th until Feb. 1. I'm excited about this trip since it'll be my longest one to date!

I was 31 years old when I first went in 2015. I am a 6'2" (188 cm) 218 pound (99 kg) white American male. I have abs, an outgoing personality, and can bench more than my weight for reps. I can get girls easily in every country I've visited. I'm not bragging, I only included this info because I want to emphasize that I paid the exact same for the girls as every other member of this board. Looks do not matter! The girls want your wallet, not your abs..[/QUOTE]Good report. Reminds me of my own experience when I visited first!

[QUOTE=SoloPlayer;1986594]However, all the ladies that I find them attractive here will not give me the chance to present myself, just because of the fact that I look as Indian / Arab, even though I have light-tanned-whitish skin complexion. What is worse, is getting rejected from some venues here in W. S. Just because of my ethnicity (maybe young look? Even though I tip and spend more cash in these venues than most fellow white people.

In contrary to Thais working in M. E. Countries, over here I get looks from ladies who I won't take them even if I get paid to do it.

If I'm as (Arab / Indian look-like) guy with good credibilities is having a hard time getting ladies here, I wonder what my fellow others are doing. ? What am I missing?[/QUOTE]I don't think there's anything to do with the look of Indian or Arab. I also look like a middle eastern guy and I've never been denied entry in any place in Pattaya or in Thailand (except one time in Baccara Bangkok when the doorman wanted to let me in but the Farang fat Ass that was sitting in front told him not to do it). I've been received very well and with a big smile in most places I've been to. It's well known that some places deny entry to Indians or black skinned guys and you should just boycott these places and go spend your money elsewhere, it's not as if there was only one place to have fun in Pattaya, right?

As for the good looking girls that are not attracted to you, that can happen to any kind of guy, not only Indians or Arabs. As a matter of fact I know a lot of girls that like Arabs. You look like you're holding yourself in high regard (not saying that its bad) , but maybe you should loosen up a bit and try to up your game with these girls. Or just try Mr Enternational's technique, it seems to be the best technique with girls in Pattaya.

[QUOTE=SoloPlayer;1986594]I also do not have issue with money as I make around $100 K a year, and I'm staying in Pattaya at property priced over 11,000 baht per night. I do not mind paying 6,000 baht for lady that I find attractive.

However, all the ladies that I find them attractive here will not give me the chance to present myself, just because of the fact that I look as Indian / Arab, even though I have light-tanned-whitish skin complexion.[/QUOTE]Seriously, is this April Fool's week or something? You actually think hookers care about you presenting yourself? If I was in your shoes that would be the least of my worries. All you need to do is walk up to the woman you want and speak 3 words. I guarantee she will be right behind you and probably with a friend in tow. The three words? Six-Thousand Baht.

[QUOTE=Mombie75;1986268]Being British I have a weather related question. The twice I have been to Pattaya both visits were in March, I am planning to go in October but I see it is the wettest month, anyone been in October offer any insight as to if it is rainy most days then maybe it is best to do another month?

Thanks.[/QUOTE]Yeah, I was here in May 2016 for about 3 weeks. It does not rain every day, but when it does I think it is intense and can last a very long time. So, I would suggest don't come for just one week and have intense rain wash out say 2 days. I think a min of 2 weeks and ensure you get at least 3-4 numbers of some good girls you like in the first 24-48 hours. And you can shack up on those intense rainy days indoors.

Even now, oftentimes I go to the disco to dance and may not return with anyone since I am really beat and physically spent. But I derive a lot of pleasure from dancing. But, having the phone numbers of girls you can call up during the day, before I go to the disco is a real benefit. So, ask for phone numbers. Here's one way. Buy or offer a drink at the disco, if you like a girl and hand them your phone to add their name and phone number. Call it that moment to make sure it connects and then voila you have one more you can go to when it's raining for example. And make notes in the contact area about the girls key attributes. Tall / short / slim / pretty face / guess on age etc. / shy / popular etc using abbreviations.

Also, rain can bring unexpected luck. One day I woke up with this girl from Insomnia who had to go work and man it was pouring incredibly, incredibly hard. She was like, how am I going to get to work etc. So, I asked what happens if you can't make it because of the rain. She said she'd have to pay 400 baht fine for the day. I said ok, I'll pay it on top of what I'm giving you and she let out such a squeal of joy ( I just bought her a vacation day, plus 2000-3000 cash on top of that, plus all food, drink and some shopping to make it a happy one for her ( they only get 3 days off per month) and then she was with me, off and on, for a total of about 6 days and nights during that trip. ( remember, really honest to goodness, nice girls are difficult to come by, so when they do treat them well ....) So, plan ahead and leverage your invested time and harvest it when you have the advantage.

[QUOTE=SoloPlayer;1986594]
However, all the ladies that I find them attractive here will not give me the chance to present myself, just because of the fact that I look as Indian / Arab, even though I have light-tanned-whitish skin complexion. What is worse, is getting rejected from some venues here in W. S. Just because of my ethnicity (maybe young look? Even though I tip and spend more cash in these venues than most fellow white people.
[/QUOTE]Look there are some racially prejudiced girls, that steer clear of Indians and Arabs, maybe with valid reasons, maybe not. Your light skin is going to help, I think, and if you are free of bad body odours, this is also a big plus.

My suggestions to you would be, make sure you don't dress like an Indian or Arab, dress up a little better than most Farangs, do not smell like an Arab (clean armpits etc. Very frequently and thoroughly and use deodorant), and try not to even have very typical face hair look. Don't wear shorts exposing your very hairy legs, and also do not expose hairy armpits. Do not spend stingy like Indians and Farangs that sit on one water for hours in a bar.

Sometimes I see Indians in groups and they all seem to look like clones of each other for facial hair, haircuts, clothing, etc. The more different you can look, the better.

Also polite behavior and accent when speaking may help your case, I can't be expert, being a Farang, but plenty of Thai girls are okay With Indians that tick the right boxes. Yes I know you are not Indian.

Yeh, I think Mr. Ent is making a bad joke, for a serious subject.

[QUOTE=MrEnternational;1986805]Seriously, is this April Fool's week or something? You actually think hookers care about you presenting yourself? If I was in your shoes that would be the least of my worries. All you need to do is walk up to the woman you want and speak 3 words. I guarantee she will be right behind you and probably with a friend in tow. The three words? Six-Thousand Baht.[/QUOTE]Gosh, Mr. ENt, that is the biggest bunch of bull I ever heard on this board. ( from the original poster, I mean ).

[QUOTE=Syzygies;1986922]Yeh, I think Mr. Ent is making a bad joke, for a serious subject.[/QUOTE]I am in no way joking. What woman do you know in Pattaya that is going to turn down 6000 baht from anyone? If he is willing to pay that like he says he is he will have no problem. He could show up in a v-neck sweater, speedos, and church shoes with no socks if he wanted offering that kind of dosh. If I was willing to give a hooker that kind of money you could not tell me a damn thing. I would really be able to walk in and grab any chick I wanted to at that rate. I have never even heard 6000 out of any Pattaya hooker's mouth other than that What Up ripoff place.

[QUOTE=MrEnternational;1986805]Seriously, is this April Fool's week or something? You actually think hookers care about you presenting yourself? If I was in your shoes that would be the least of my worries. All you need to do is walk up to the woman you want and speak 3 words. I guarantee she will be right behind you and probably with a friend in tow. The three words? Six-Thousand Baht.[/QUOTE]Post of the year, and we're only two weeks into it.

[QUOTE=Paolo99;1986758]
As for the good looking girls that are not attracted to you, that can happen to any kind of guy, not only Indians or Arabs. As a matter of fact I know a lot of girls that like Arabs. .[/QUOTE]I will volunteer and say that I get rejected many times (say 1 out of 6, or 15 pc of the time at Insomnia). But, that is the right of the girl (well, at least in the discos) and I am fine with that. I just say thank you and move on. Maybe takes me 10 minutes tops, to totally forget that. It's a numbers game. Even if you are not under 40, and good looking. And, I am certainly not.

But remember that on any given night, between Ibar / Insomnia /808/ Lucifers alone, there are at least 1000 girls. Say you are only interested in the top 10 percent. That is 100. Say, 2/3 are already with a guy. That leaves about 35 open. Say you ask 3 and they all reject you! Well, 32 are still left. It's just like working sales and marketing (which is something I am glad I did in my 20's), and they were not rejecting me personally, but choosing a competitor company!

It's a numbers game, stupid!

Play the stats, and let go of ego and pride! And, if nothing works, well come back the next night. And try again! You will gain experience and the learn from your own personal feedback loop.