[QUOTE=Lumens;3065659]Can you share what mode of mongering in Thailand you are getting the highend GFE experience? Spas? Online ladies? Thermae? I just came off of spending a big chunk of time in Jakarta and did the different modes of mongering spas, apps, twitter, BATS, et al. Over time I developed a nice rotation of GFEs that were my type who would spend the night. For me it was a combination of putting in time and also that there are just so many ways to meet girls in Indonesia. My experience in Thailand has been a bit more business like. But perhaps I am not going about it the right way or to the right places. Despite this I do think the girls in Thailand are more consistently skilled. Do you speak Thai?[/QUOTE]Dating sites (Tinder), warm approach (hotels, mall, market), nightclubs (thai, salsa, reggaeton, edm), bars, gentlemen's clubs. I do an extreme amount of filtering to weed out 90% that won't be a good fit. I am somewhat picky and have specific tastes. Once I have a few (normally 3-5) in the funnel, I take things slow and just hang out casually to see if we are compatible. Some just want to head straight to horizontal acrobatics while others show much more of an interest in me as a person. The latter are the ones I go after. Maybe fthe former in a pinch.
In all these scenarios, I never ever go after the hottest chic that is aloof and on her phone. The lady initiates some form of non-verbal communication persistently. I don't speak Thai. Maybe 5 or so phrases. I tend to go to places that are more Thai and less foreigner friendly. Bars / nightspots that are Thai only are a gold mine of curious Thail ladies with almost zero exposure. I routinely go to places where I am the only foreigner in the entire establishment.
For dating apps, I weed out all chics that use filters, ladyboys, freelancers, and super hot chics. That is not what I am going for. I am going for a normal (maybe lonely) lady and GND types that are not specifically looking for sex. I put no sex in my profile! I am looking for a genuine tour guide that speaks Thai, some english / willing to google translate that can show me around, have a drink / grab a bite to eat at local Thai location. These ladies are a gold mind of information. I quickly move off dating platform and on to Line / Whatsapp and set up an initailly meet / greet. Very non-threatening atmosphere and they quickly let their guard down. If she is cool, we will go on 2 or 3 outings and we become friends. 100% of the time, if a Thai lady goes out with a foreigner, she definitly wants to fuck them. They are just waiting on me to make move. Sometimes I do. Sometimes I don't (not my type for whatever reason).
If we have great chemistry, the bedroom activity will happen quickly but I have built up so much social cred, if feels organic. Even the pros / semi-pros have feelings, likes / dislikes, etc. I never take a pro / semi-pro out of a bar, gents club, or nightspot that isn't actively trying to grope / kiss me secretly. Not saying it can't happen but I have never had a lady be GFE active in public and turn it off when we are alone.
Tinder / Warm approach are usually 2nd or 3rd hangout and then we for sure know if we are compatible and GFE is a given. Clubs / bars approach only takes a couple of hours, a few drinks, talking and maybe dancing to know if we are compatible / GFE (no surprising cost associated, just a light "gift" is expected).
To wrap this all up, there are some things working in my favor. I work remotely so I have lots of time to travel. I am tall, slim with a muscular build (188 cm /93 kgs). I always dress like old money, take 2-3 showers per day, get mani / pedi every 2 weeks, get haircut every 7 days, and smell extravagant. I look like I am in my early 30's. I am a social person that is generous. I am on the extreme end of outgoing in very strange environments (singing / dancing Isaan songs when I hear them for example). I have zero issues talking to and dating 8-10's in my personal civilian life (Europe or USA) so no amount of beauty has me in awe. I lived 14 years of my adult life abroad (I. E not my home country). Some things working against me: I am not a white European looking person, I am not a sponsor.
Sounds like we both have similar strategies. I am hitting up Jakarta for the first time in June / July of this year. Maybe you can give me some pointers. I am 100% satisfied with Thailand but I really need to at least give Indo a shot. How long were you in Jakarta to build your rotation? I normally spend 30 - 45 days each time in Thailand. By day 10, I have a solid rotation. The first 7 days, I go on probably 10-15 dates (sometimes 2 per day). By my second week, I shut down Tinder and just focus on my rotation.
