My religious training is quite rusty but I adhere to this!
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My religious training is quite rusty but I adhere to this!
[QUOTE=Helpmann; 1125699]Sleeping with a Dominican man's wife? Good idea or bad idea?
I am thinking about catching-up with a old friend, who is now married with kids. Her husband is usually out of town on business, so it would give me an opportunity to grab some lunch with her, then bang her back at my apartment.
Honestly, if this works out, married Dominicanas may be the way to go.
-Helpmann. [/QUOTE]It is not a good idea, but you can have lunch with her on a discrete location, not near her barrio. Then have sex with her! Again, it is a bad idea, but her husband is having sex with another chicas while on business. Hire another chica and have a 3some with that married woman and the chica. Bring some gifts the woman can give to her kids. Bring also a Casio or Armitron watch for her husband. Everybody is happy.
[QUOTE=Sidney;1125780]The negative repurcussions are potentially are beyond belief. What if you broke up the marriage. The negative implications on the children are unimaginable. The effect of divorce will always hamper their lives. Children never recover! Pleeeeze![/QUOTE]Sidney, I hear you. Nevertheless, this is the DR. If she would bang me, then she's already banging someone other than her husband. Also, you of all people should know that the husband most likely has a mistress and some girls on booty call.
Personally, I don't think that an extra fuck buddy is going to change the dynamic of a Dominican marriage.
-Helpmann :D
[QUOTE=BoricuaOnline;1125829]It is not a good idea, but you can have lunch with her on a discrete location, not near her barrio. Then have sex with her! Again, it is a bad idea, but her husband is having sex with another chicas while on business. Hire another chica and have a 3some with that married woman and the chica. Bring some gifts the woman can give to her kids. Bring also a Casio or Armitron watch for her husband. Everybody is happy.[/QUOTE]Christ, I have enough sense not to step foot in her neighborhood. I don't want her husband to chop her up into little pieces, because the neighbors are a bunch of busy body haters. Also, this is something I would not dare contemplate in the United States.
Nevertheless, you should know better than most, that a lot of hot Latin women already have a man, whether it be their boyfriend, baby daddy, chulo, or husband. When we're hooking-up with these ladies online, at the club, in the restaurant, at the mall, they might not tell us that they have a man, but many of them do. In this situation, the only difference I see, is this time I know her status before the date instead of the morning after.
-Helpmann :D
[QUOTE=Bq Ribs;1125737]There was a somewhat heated discussion about this awhile back in I believe the Sosua or PP threads. Just my two pesos but isn't there enough pussy in the DR without having to deal with married women?[/QUOTE]There is plenty of pussy in the DR and with all pussy there is an upside and downside.
[b]The Upside to Banging a Dominican Man's Wife[/b]
1. You don't have to pay for shit!!!! Her man pays all her bills. Expensive gifts would get her caught.
2. No Commitment!!! She's not looking to get married. She just wants some dick.
3. No calls!!! She ain't going to be ringing you every 5 minutes, because she has a life.
4. Sex!!! Great sex!!! Immoral, dangerous sex without commitments!!!
5. Free to roam!!! She's not sleeping over and she's not with you 24/7!
[b]The Downside[/b]
1. The husband finds out and kills her, you, or both of you.
-Helpmann :confused:
[QUOTE=Helpmann; 1125699]Sleeping with a Dominican man's wife? Good idea or bad idea?
I am thinking about catching-up with a old friend, who is now married with kids. Her husband is usually out of town on business, so it would give me an opportunity to grab some lunch with her, then bang her back at my apartment.
Honestly, if this works out, married Dominicanas may be the way to go.
-Helpmann. [/QUOTE]Depending on a lot of variables I suppose; like whether or not he is the kind of Dominican businessman packing heat or something; how prone she is to let there be drama and so on. Being a guy that once had to climb down from the balcony of a third floor trying to bring my ass back home safe, I rekon this situation potentially offers plenty of possibilities and most of them are bad, but best of luck anyways!
[QUOTE=Sidney;1125780]The negative repurcussions are potentially are beyond belief. What if you broke up the marriage. The negative implications on the children are unimaginable. The effect of divorce will always hamper their lives. Children never recover! Pleeeeze![/QUOTE]True that, I wholeheartedly agree, but still you might want to consider how SHE is the one who's jeopardizing her marriage to begin with. If it all goes down in pieces, God forbid, she is the one who made it happen and not the first swinging dick walking down the street at the time (with all due respect for Helpman).
[QUOTE=Helpmann;1125874]Nevertheless, you should know better than most, that a lot of hot Latin women already have a man, whether it be their boyfriend, baby daddy, chulo, or husband. When we're hooking-up with these ladies online, at the club, in the restaurant, at the mall, they might not tell us that they have a man, but many of them do.[/QUOTE]EVERY good looking woman on planet earth has a man of sort somewhere around her. Always.
[QUOTE=Helpmann;1125881]There is plenty of pussy in the DR and with all pussy there is an upside and downside.
[b]The Upside to Banging a Dominican Man's Wife[/b]
1. You don't have to pay for shit!!!! Her man pays all her bills. Expensive gifts would get her caught.
2. No Commitment!!! She's not looking to get married. She just wants some dick.
3. No calls!!! She ain't going to be ringing you every 5 minutes, because she has a life.
4. Sex!!! Great sex!!! Immoral, dangerous sex without commitments!!!
5. Free to roam!!! She's not sleeping over and she's not with you 24/7!
[b]The Downside[/b]
1. The husband finds out and kills her, you, or both of you.
-Helpmann :confused:[/QUOTE]
Well, if her hubby lives in China and only visits her 3 times a year then chances are she is already having all of her holes jammed with plenty of dicks and you won't do no hurt. Afterall, it isn't like any Dominican would ever dare asking himself or others whether or not would it be proper for him to fuck a woman.
Bless
[QUOTE=Helpmann; 1125868]Sidney, I hear you. Nevertheless, this is the DR. If she would bang me, then she's already banging someone other than her husband. Also, you of all people should know that the husband most likely has a mistress and some girls on booty call.
Personally, I don't think that an extra fuck buddy is going to change the dynamic of a Dominican marriage.
Helpmann.[/QUOTE]If you truely love her, you should not try to bang her after she is married. Just have a verbal relationship that would be enough. You never know, if her husband finds out, he will beat the crap out of her, and in those developing countries, women don't have any legal rights what so ever. The cops, courts, judges won; t help her. She may become the husband's punching bag. And that would not be right, since you will NOT be able to PROTECT her.
There are soooooo many other women in DR, why do this and potentially harm a women.
If her husband agrees to it. Then that would be a different story.
Remember, many developing nations, it is a male dominated society, she will get the short end of the stick.
Thanks guys for all of your input. I got an education in morality today.
Although, illegal in the United States, there is a kind of a moral straightforwardness in paying a woman for sex, where you are neither lying, cheating, or stealing to get what you want.
Nevertheless, if I am going to spend time in the DR, I might as well be a tiguere.
Cheers!
Helpmann :cool:
[QUOTE=Helpmann; 1125958]Thanks guys for all of your input. I got an education in morality today.
Although, illegal in the United States, there is a kind of a moral straightforwardness in paying a woman for sex, where you are neither lying, cheating, or stealing to get what you want.
Nevertheless, if I am going to spend time in the DR, I might as well be a tiguere.
Cheers!
Helpmann :cool:[/QUOTE]Attitudes about sex are less complicated in DR than here in the States. In the DR you have sex, the chica has an orgasm or several, the guy gets his rocks off and everybody moves along with their life. Sex is not complicated in the DR and doesn't have all the stigmas and BS attached to it, like here in the States.
Sex here in the States is used like a tool for various purposes by different groups, politicians, religious groups, feminists, pornographers all use sex for their own agenda. In the DR sex is a natural act that is part of life and after you have had sex you move onto more important things.
[QUOTE=Helpmann; 1125958]Thanks guys for all of your input. I got an education in morality today.
Although, illegal in the United States, there is a kind of a moral straightforwardness in paying a woman for sex, where you are neither lying, cheating, or stealing to get what you want.
Nevertheless, if I am going to spend time in the DR, I might as well be a tiguere.
Cheers!
Helpmann[/QUOTE]If the husband of your amiga was taking care of business with his wife in the bedroom, she wouldn't be looking for some dick on the side (assuming she is a normal person and assuming the husband is not a cabron who wants his wife to have sex with other men).
The husband could be banging other chicas on the side and maybe gives his wife no sex. The wife might be miserable, not getting any dick from her husband and after she has an episode with a clean, disease free guy she might be more cheerful around the house with the husband LOL.
[QUOTE=Charles Pooter; 1124970]Yes, but you can only drive on your home country's driving license for three months. After that you need a Dominican driving license. And to get a Dominican driving license you need residencia.
Above is the official version. Thousands carry on ignoring one or both of those requirements, or bribe their way round them, and save money and trouble. That is fine unless and until you get involved in an accident or incident (possibly only as a witness). Then if you don't have the right paperwork you could get crucified. [/QUOTE]Thanks for the response. Considering I visit down there 4 or 5 times a year for 2 to 3 weeks at a time, I think I could save much more buying some used beater than spending on car rental. Plus not having to worry about nicks and scratches while driving in Santo Domingo would be great.
[QUOTE=Traveler04;1125742]In my opinion having sex with a married women is not the best choice period! I would not to like to deal with her husband, Dominican or otherwise. In the DR there are just to many other options that are much less risky. To each his own, but you asked the question first.[/QUOTE]It's a good policy to always consider it a no no.
Guys here have pointed out that there are so many other options available.
Its ok to screw a chica as long as you don't know (and shouldn't ask!) what her domestic arrangement are.
You're always an innocent party and the logistical problems are hers.
But once its established that you KNOW she married with kids, you automatically become part of a NOVELLO.
You may be able to handle it, but can she?
Maybe over a fight with the husband, she may goad him by saying your dick is twice as big as his, or something like that.
It maybe ok to fuck with his wife, but if you fuck with his pride, and he loves his kids, he or his familia may come after you.
It's a small possiblity to be sure, but not knowing his mentality, there's always risk.
But, again, that may make it more pleasurable for both of you.
[QUOTE=Vielendank;1126940]I agree with all the above points and I have just a word to add. I made it a point many years ago that I only had one rule when it comes to having sex with any woman, she must NOT be married. There are so many women that are available without the unnecessary risk that it just doesn't make sense to be with one that's married. We all know that women lie and married women lie more then most. The information they give you is totally unreliable and they won't give any thought to her husband killing you if he found out. Women are attention *****s and married women are more so because they need the validation that they are still desirable without any concern for you. I have been doing this for 20 years plus so all I can say to anyone and everyone that is just starting their mongering careers is, NEVER do a married woman. She doesn't have anything that a single woman doesn't have that is equally enjoyable without the concern for retaliation. Be safe and smart, it's what works in our community.[/QUOTE]In the DR the concept of marriage is somewhat nebulous. Most of the women have children, and may or may not refer to the baby daddies as their "e'poso". For practical purposes you may assume that all are single unless they indicate otherwise.
[QUOTE=Frannie;1126947]In the DR the concept of marriage is somewhat nebulous. Most of the women have children, and may or may not refer to the baby daddies as their "e'poso". For practical purposes you may assume that all are single unless they indicate otherwise.[/QUOTE]The real issue of course is may be not whether someone is legally married but whether there's a chance some enraged jealous guy will pop up. If a chica is still legally married but has been abandoned for years and hasn't even seen the baby daddy in a long time it hardly seems like an issue, on the other hand an ex novio who has no legal claim but is still very jealous and lives in the area ought to be a red flag. Despite the fact she is technically single and well within her rights.