Safe Sex and Sex Related Discussions in Thailand

[QUOTE=ParkVille;2038626]Well, in my case, I don't have 9 kgs (of fat) to lose. So won't work for me, and I train muscles as much as I can without getting too fatigued (over trained). I'm just mildly depressed, have anxiety / nervous problems and chronic sinusitis means my body is under attack a lot and it causes fatigue and less libido when I'm getting over a sinus infection. In my experience, of enjoying P4 P, it's all been tied to my mood and the P4 P is an enhancer, not a replacement for a good mood. Similarly, drinking alcohol is a good method to enhance a party, not THE way to party. I think for me, I need to overcome my p4 p addiction, focus on things that actually make me happy, and come back at it as a hobby, not an addiction. That's just what *I* reckon I need to do (too much information, I digress)..[/QUOTE]When mongering we are supposed to get relaxed. I am not suffering from any anxieties when playing with a girl, other than the fear she will be a very stiff legged star fish, if first try with her. LOL I am not a very stressed out person. Don't need the alcohol at all to relax and have fun. Yes P4 P is an addiction, so good to focus on quality less often rather than fuck yourself silly and try to do every possible girl. Collect some really fun girls, and dump them when no longer floating your boat well enough. I am almost down to one main Gik (almost a 2nd GF) and just a few other irregulars.

Some guys seem to suffer from the idea that they simply must try a girl at every shop, no matter how bad they look. LOL.

Like you I have somewhat chronic sinus problems. However I find the humidity in Thailand does wonder for it, and any issues generally clear up quickly in Thailand. Problems get worse in very cold climates with dry air. Even in a bad climate country, a simple cold won't stop me, but I do notice deteriorated sex if sinuses are bad enough. Need to be able to breath properly during DATY.

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I think that in your case, its possible the better self-image and increased confidence helped more than simply not having the fat there. But yes, exercise is tied to a healhyl libido. But I think psychology is 80% of it.[/QUOTE]No no, that's silly. Plenty of very fat old men in Thailand are having a great time with young girls. Yes I did not want to be one of them. I notice a massive difference in my ability to handle a long sex work out without much huffing and puffing and being a ball of sweat. So there is no doubt at all the losing the kilos makes a big difference to energy levels. Thighs have less work to do in doggy, etc. There is no doubt that my weight loss and improved energy is not psycho somatic.

Doing GF is for just 40 minutes does not even raise a sweat now.

What does it mean when you get to your room and showered, then a girl says they have no condoms?

1. they really don't have condoms or they want you to supply the condom so they don't have to use one of their own.

2. a sign they are willing to do BBFS.

I always have condoms at home so I will say I do but I've always wondered this.

[QUOTE=BananaBoi;2043402]What does it mean when you get to your room and showered, then a girl says they have no condoms?

1. they really don't have condoms or they want you to supply the condom so they don't have to use one of their own.

2. a sign they are willing to do BBFS.

I always have condoms at home so I will say I do but I've always wondered this.[/QUOTE]1. Yes definitely, they don't want to pay for condoms, or forgot to buy any. I recall one girl having only very poor condoms supplied free by a hospital.

2. Maybe, maybe not.

[QUOTE=BananaBoi;2043402]What does it mean when you get to your room and showered, then a girl says they have no condoms?

1. they really don't have condoms or they want you to supply the condom so they don't have to use one of their own.

2. a sign they are willing to do BBFS.

I always have condoms at home so I will say I do but I've always wondered this.[/QUOTE]Next time say no you don't have one either and see what happens. Mystery solved.

If she then says ok to BBFS but you don't want that you can always feign suddenly discovering one in your sock drawer.

On the other hand, if she then says well that means we aren't fucking but I still need taxi fare, I have no money, my baby needs milk and my grandmother is in the hospital, then you will have discovered a Third possible reason for her to pull that bit you didn't include above.

[QUOTE=BananaBoi;2043402]What does it mean when you get to your room and showered, then a girl says they have no condoms?

1. they really don't have condoms or they want you to supply the condom so they don't have to use one of their own.

2. a sign they are willing to do BBFS.

I always have condoms at home so I will say I do but I've always wondered this.[/QUOTE]One of my buddies picked up a GoGo girl once. In the room, they both realized there was no condom around. No problem, the girl picked up the phone and called the office. A few minutes later, someone brought a condom. My buddy was charged a fee upon checkout.

[QUOTE=Lefeu;2043991]One of my buddies picked up a GoGo girl once. In the room, they both realized there was no condom around. No problem, the girl picked up the phone and called the office. A few minutes later, someone brought a condom. My buddy was charged a fee upon checkout.[/QUOTE]Sounds like the shorttime room. In which case, yes that is a very common occurence. The short-time room owners are also eager to sell them as they mark them up quite a bit.

[QUOTE=BananaBoi;2043402]What does it mean when you get to your room and showered, then a girl says they have no condoms?

1. they really don't have condoms or they want you to supply the condom so they don't have to use one of their own.

2. a sign they are willing to do BBFS.

I always have condoms at home so I will say I do but I've always wondered this.[/QUOTE]When a girl says they have no comdoms, it's a clear sign they won't do BBFS otherwise why would they ask? In my experience, Asok place sells condoms and Baccara keeps a heap befind the downstairs bar. I have seen many girls checking out for a bar fine and grabbing them on the way out.

Anytime, I have ever received BBFS from any working girl whether go go girl, massage girl, or freelancer, it was never discussed. It just happened spontaneously. I have never asked for this from any workimg girl as it would be against my morals. If a lady offers that service, she won't talk about comdoms.

Finally, the safe sex thread should be area to talk about safe sex practices such as condoms, contraceptive choices for ladies, HIV, and other STDs. I am amazed that some members have delegated the safe sex thread to talk about how to get BBFS. Ridiculous!

[QUOTE=ParkVille;2029914]Hey so I have been in Pattaya for the past 2 months, and thinking of going back to Bangkok. I think Pattaya quality isn't so great overall, and is super pricey (5 k ST at gogos due to 1. 5 k and 2 k barfines! If it isn't on walking street and it's in pattaya, it's probably not very good looking if sober. However, one major benefit to Pattaya is getting bareback is super easy, like 9/10 I get bareback and 1/3 of the time creampie if the girl likes having sex with me.

As expected, getting bareback here super easy. Just everywhere, every gogo girl offers it. But in my time in Bangkok, I never really tried to get bareback that much. But when I did, it always seemed to be more difficult because the scene there is more about soapies / massage and less about gogo's to me. And the Bangkok gogo girls I did take didn't really seem to keen on bareback at all. I think something to do with pattaya girls being newer and more ignorant hillbillies. Which has its advantages (easy to get bareback).

Any thoughts on where to get bareback in Bangkok? It seems gogo girls are not too keen on it. And neither are massage girls since they do so many guys in a day.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=AussieDoug;2035821]I have not used a rubber in Thailand in the last 15 years, easy to get.[/QUOTE]

Guys this thread is to discuss safe sex practices, not how to get BBFS.

[QUOTE=Bkkdog;2044133]
Finally, the safe sex thread should be area to talk about safe sex practices such as condoms, contraceptive choices for ladies, HIV, and other STDs. I am amazed that some members have delegated the safe sex thread to talk about how to get BBFS. Ridiculous![/QUOTE]As far as I know this thread has been set up to give the often very hefty discussions about safe sex practices vs barebacking their own thread. But I could be wrong.

Anyway, for people who only want to practice safe sex I think it's important to know that BBFS is quite easy to get in Pattaya. It might help them in their decision to go there or not. Or to buy extra strong condoms, LOL.

[QUOTE=Mogwai;2044144]As far as I know this thread has been set up to give the often very hefty discussions about safe sex practices vs barebacking their own thread. But I could be wrong.

Anyway, for people who only want to practice safe sex I think it's important to know that BBFS is quite easy to get in Pattaya. It might help them in their decision to go there or not. Or to buy extra strong condoms, LOL.[/QUOTE]Is English your second language? "Safe sex thread" is not the place to talk about where to get bareback FS. It is the place to discuss the risks of bareback FS and how to practice safe sex and risks imvolived if you don't.

These discussions are strictly about where to find BBFS and do not belong here. In fact, they are prohibited by the forum guidelines. BBFS is not supposed to be the main topic of any post and I'm surprised admin has let it go on this long. It will just bring the safe sex police out in droves which we don't want. Here are the posting guidelines regarding this topic.

[QUOTE=Bkkdog;2030022]No Safe Sex Bragging.

Members may not repeatedly post about or otherwise taunt other Members regarding their refusal to follow safe sex procedures. Specifically, references to having sex without a condom may be made only by incidental reference and shall not be the focus of any report. Such "safe sex taunting" reports will be deleted without comment.[/QUOTE]

If you click on the original post of Parkville's, the subject line which you can't see when I quoted him is where to find BBFS. Sooner or later the safe sex police will be back and we don't want that for sure.

[QUOTE=Bkkdog;2044133]When a girl says they have no comdoms, it's a clear sign they won't do BBFS otherwise why would they ask? [/QUOTE]You're right!

Also correct that any BBFS is spontaneous.

[QUOTE=Bkkdog;2044133]
Finally, the safe sex thread should be area to talk about safe sex practices such as condoms, contraceptive choices for ladies, HIV, and other STDs. I am amazed that some members have delegated the safe sex thread to talk about how to get BBFS. Ridiculous![/QUOTE]Likewise, the "Identifying transvestites" thread should be about how to avoid those obnoxious creatures, not about where to spot and befriend them, LOL.

[QUOTE=Bkkdog;2044133]When a girl says they have no comdoms, it's a clear sign they won't do BBFS otherwise why would they ask? In my experience, Asok place sells condoms and Baccara keeps a heap befind the downstairs bar. I have seen many girls checking out for a bar fine and grabbing them on the way out.

Anytime, I have ever received BBFS from any working girl whether go go girl, massage girl, or freelancer, it was never discussed. It just happened spontaneously. I have never asked for this from any workimg girl as it would be against my morals. If a lady offers that service, she won't talk about comdoms.

Finally, the safe sex thread should be area to talk about safe sex practices such as condoms, contraceptive choices for ladies, HIV, and other STDs. I am amazed that some members have delegated the safe sex thread to talk about how to get BBFS. Ridiculous!





Guys this thread is to discuss safe sex practices, not how to get BBFS.[/QUOTE]Discussions about BBFS wind up here because several times on other threads when the subject is raised, authoritarian control freaks remind us to "Take this to the Safe Sex thread!" or something like that. So here we are. I have made the same observation as you when the subject of BBFS is raised. There should be a Real Sex Thread, i.e. sex without condom AND a Safe Sex Thread where everyone can compare the price, thickness, thinness, size and sturdiness of the condoms they buy, use and are actually having sex with.

Btw, to your opening question, the reason a Thai girl will ask if you have a condom EVEN THOUGH she is or will be just fine with engaging in BBFS with you is to 'save face', to make it at least appear to you that she is not necessarily agreeable to going BB with every customer. Just you. lol.

[QUOTE=EihTooms;2044521]Discussions about BBFS wind up here because several times on other threads when the subject is raised, authoritarian control freaks remind us to "Take this to the Safe Sex thread!" or something like that. So here we are. I have made the same observation as you when the subject of BBFS is raised. There should be a Real Sex Thread, i.e. sex without condom AND a Safe Sex Thread where everyone can compare the price, thickness, thinness, size and sturdiness of the condoms they buy, use and are actually having sex with.
[/QUOTE]From the Forums Posting Guidelines (link from front page):

"No Safe Sex Bragging! Members may not repeatedly post about or otherwise taunt other Members regarding their refusal to follow safe sex procedures. Specifically, references to having sex without a condom may be made only by incidental reference and shall not be the focus of any report. Such "safe sex taunting" reports will be deleted without comment. ".

It doesn't actually confine you to the Safe Sex thread at all. It's the opposite camp that are to be confined to the Safe Sex thread for their preaching. So as long as you are not "taunting" you should be okay However I recognise, that some members blow up on this issue very easily, creating a massive argumentative chain of posts, spoiling the Bangkok Thread for a period. However we are in the real world and we know very well that BBFS is going on a lot.

So you can mention BBFS "incidentally" in any thread you like, as I am sure you might.

[QUOTE=Syzygies;2044568]From the Forums Posting Guidelines (link from front page):

"No Safe Sex Bragging! Members may not repeatedly post about or otherwise taunt other Members regarding their refusal to follow safe sex procedures. Specifically, references to having sex without a condom may be made only by incidental reference and shall not be the focus of any report. Such "safe sex taunting" reports will be deleted without comment. ".

It doesn't actually confine you to the Safe Sex thread at all. It's the opposite camp that are to be confined to the Safe Sex thread for their preaching. So as long as you are not "taunting" you should be okay However I recognise, that some members blow up on this issue very easily, creating a massive argumentative chain of posts, spoiling the Bangkok Thread for a period. However we are in the real world and we know very well that BBFS is going on a lot.

So you can mention BBFS "incidentally" in any thread you like, as I am sure you might.[/QUOTE]Absolutely correct but members such as Parkville, are coming right out and asking where to find BBFS. I am afraid that it will spill over into the other threads and add fuel to the safe sex preachers which we all don't want.

[QUOTE=EihTooms;2044521]Discussions about BBFS wind up here because several times on other threads when the subject is raised, authoritarian control freaks remind us to "Take this to the Safe Sex thread!" or something like that. So here we are. I have made the same observation as you when the subject of BBFS is raised. There should be a Real Sex Thread, i.e. sex without condom AND a Safe Sex Thread where everyone can compare the price, thickness, thinness, size and sturdiness of the condoms they buy, use and are actually having sex with.

Btw, to your opening question, the reason a Thai girl will ask if you have a condom EVEN THOUGH she is or will be just fine with engaging in BBFS with you is to 'save face', to make it at least appear to you that she is not necessarily agreeable to going BB with every customer. Just you. lol.[/QUOTE]I'm sorry but you are dead wrong. Asking where to find BBFS is not a topic that belongs on the safe sex thread. It does not belong anywhere on the board.