I miss your descriptive stories Kumbu
[QUOTE=Kumbu; 1440044]Agreed. I have never even considered this, although I have been asked to support several ladies over the years (politely declining, of course). I did discover a few years ago that one of my friends was kind of supporting a lady. Well, he was sending her $400 per month. When I asked him why the fuck he was being such a dipshit, he explained it to me. Here is (roughly) his explanation.
One of the beautiful things about LOS is that ladies abound. There are so many girls: tall girls, short girls, chubby girls, skinny girls, dark-skinned, light-skinned, thick-legged, skinny-legged, round-assed, flat-assed, etc. Then there are expensive girls, cheap girls, those that are cheap on the first night and then get progressively more expensive, and those that start out expensive and then get cheaper as you go along. And then there are girls who will give you a great BBBJ, those who CIM, those who do anal, those who do whatever, and those who don't. The point is that you have to hit pussy after pussy trying them all out, and more often than not, there is something missing. You don't quite have the Aha-experience except on very few occasions. So when you do get that revelation, the inspirational experience, you want to repeat it. And then repeat again, etc. You just don't want to have to spend the money and energy bedding the losers again. Why would you if you have a superb girl already identified?
And then it is time to go home. And you know that once you leave, you will lose touch with the girl, and when you come back, you will need to sift through the entire haystack again to find the one needle in there. So you decide to pay the girl something small to keep her interested in you. The money is a way to keep her on a leash, but you know full well that she will continue to ply her trade. You do not expect her to become celibate on $400 per month (or even $10, 000 per month). All you expect is her to email you, and be ready for your return. When you do return to LOS, you let her know you are coming, and voila. She materializes at your hotel and you get that same fantastic sex that you remember from your last visit.
At least that was his theory. I tell you this because sometimes we tend to think that guys who support ladies are being irrational and stupid. But they (at least some of them) have a reason for this strange action, even though it is not a wise course of action.
So in reality, things did not work out according to his theory. He was paying her $400 per month, and then suddenly mama and papa got sick and she needed a little more money. So one month he sent her $600. That was good, but mama and papa are still in hospital, so the next month he sent her $800, and told her that was the last upped payment she will get. Ok. 3 months pass by and she gets her regular $400, but then she herself got sick and needed to go to hospital. $800 out the window.
Eventually he returned and expected to be greeted like a returning hero. He got some pretty good boinking on the first night, he tells me, but then it went south quickly. He wanted to screw lots of different women, but he had unwittingly cornered himself into a monogamous relationship. A monogamous relationship with a gogo dancer! She refused to let him see other girls, and he did not know what to do.
So he skyped me and asked me what the fuck he should do. I told him to ditch the girl and set his manhood free. Unfurl your libido and do what comes naturally: to fuck lots of mediocre women. Exactly what he was trying to avoid by paying this girl money each month.
I'm not claiming all the guys who support women are doing it for this reason, but this is one case. It was a mistake, as I told him at the time, and he now regrets ever having done that, so let's be clear: don't support the ladies from afar, unless you plan to actually marry the girl someday.
And as an aside, he told me that one night he was talking to one of his girl's friends who remarked that she was very impressed that he was sending her 30, 000 baht per month. He didn't say anything, but then asked his girl about it, and she sheepishly admitted that she had exaggerated to her girlfriend. So yes, these girls amplify what they are getting from sponsors because it boosts their reputation as a major money-getter.[/QUOTE]Hi Kumbu, nice to see your post.
Remember (some years ago) your descriptive stories while you where in Bangkok.
Hope you return soon and start posting.
Sponsering girls my experience.
I remember in my early mongeryears beeing a newbee (I had read some articles from various forum but not everything) then I met this DIA girl (very tall. 22yrs, fake boobs, longlegged) and I was stunned and blinded for a while (one of my first Thaigirls). We parted without any agreement on any sponsorprogram. A few months later (and I had read even more forums) she called me up and said she needed some money. I told her that was out of the question as long I was not with her and saw myself what she infact needed money for (this was infact for dentist as her tooth had broke atleast so she claimed). Had I been there with her to see her broken tooth. No problem. I would come with her to the best dentist. Then she started to pull this crocodile tears on me so I very reluctantly agreed to send her some money (my first and last time). I send her 7500bht equal to a norwegian 1500. I felt so stupid sending money so I did break with her and never heard from her again. And this was even small money. When I am with the ladies then I am not cheap at all I get them to doctorsappointment, buy them expensive clothes and stuff. But never ever will I send some money without me beeing around to monitor how money is spend.
But to many Thaigirls defence, atleast the one I hang out with or meet, they do relatively good themself so are in no need for anything (still ofcourse I buy them gifts to be nice which they ofcourse appreciates). And for my freelancer I have met over the past 3-4 years (even the Beergarden / Beachroad girls). No moneyquestion have been raised even some of them have my e-mails and phonenumber. Maby the habit of asking about money is not so popular or is it the punters themself offering to sponsor? If the last, how stupid is that?
I remember down in Phuket I was actual bonking a girl in the middle of the thainight while she talked to her finnish sponsor. It was relatively fun.
