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[QUOTE=JjBee62;1756841]I don't have the extensive and worldwide experience of the experts here, but I'll toss out what I have.
When I went to Bogota I only took $400 in cash, with plans to just use the ATM for my needs. My hotel was paid with my flight as a package deal, so I didn't expect to need much.
At the airport ATM I had my first problem. Even though my card has all the affiliations to make it accepted anywhere, it wouldn't work. The next day I tried every ATM I saw, still no luck. I contacted my bank, but they weren't the problem. Finally I found a Citibank office and it worked fine.
For my DR trip I took all cash. About half was hidden in different spots in Mt carry-on and the rest was on me. The majority of my cash was always locked in the room safe, with a small emergency fund hidden in an unlikely place. I only changed over $100-$200 at a time and only carried what I needed plus a little extra, when I left the room.
I always split my cash between 2 or 3 pockets, depending on how much I'm carrying. If someone picks your pocket, they won't get it all.[/QUOTE]I think I will just have all cash pay the cab driver us and maybe exchange to pesos in Blackbeards? Do they exchange in the resort? Also guys I don't want to sound silly but I need some serious advice and if it's rude on this board then I understand and you don't need to respond. My question is do you guys have any tips on solving severe pre mature ejaculation? I don't want to have to get erectile pills because I get erections very easily but I might need them to make the sex last longer. I literally last 30 secs to 1 min I've only lasted more then 5 minutes like once and that was after I've slept with the girls numerous times. I've even tried to masturbate before and still no luck. I just don't know I don't want to go to DR to ST last 1 min 1 Pop and she's gone. Any feedback? I know it's kinda awkward but I really need some feedback is this rare or common? I lost my virginity at 21 and don't have my experience is that why?
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Third option
During the day you can just walk into the bank with your card and safely withdraw as much as you want.
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[QUOTE=JjBee62;1756841]I don't have the extensive and worldwide experience of the experts here, but I'll toss out what I have.
When I went to Bogota I only took $400 in cash, with plans to just use the ATM for my needs. My hotel was paid with my flight as a package deal, so I didn't expect to need much.
At the airport ATM I had my first problem. Even though my card has all the affiliations to make it accepted anywhere, it wouldn't work. The next day I tried every ATM I saw, still no luck. I contacted my bank, but they weren't the problem. Finally I found a Citibank office and it worked fine.
For my DR trip I took all cash. About half was hidden in different spots in Mt carry-on and the rest was on me. The majority of my cash was always locked in the room safe, with a small emergency fund hidden in an unlikely place. I only changed over $100-$200 at a time and only carried what I needed plus a little extra, when I left the room.
I always split my cash between 2 or 3 pockets, depending on how much I'm carrying. If someone picks your pocket, they won't get it all.[/QUOTE].
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[QUOTE=JjBee62;1756841]I don't have the extensive and worldwide experience of the experts here, but I'll toss out what I have.
When I went to Bogota I only took $400 in cash, with plans to just use the ATM for my needs. My hotel was paid with my flight as a package deal, so I didn't expect to need much.
At the airport ATM I had my first problem. Even though my card has all the affiliations to make it accepted anywhere, it wouldn't work. The next day I tried every ATM I saw, still no luck. I contacted my bank, but they weren't the problem. Finally I found a Citibank office and it worked fine.
For my DR trip I took all cash. About half was hidden in different spots in Mt carry-on and the rest was on me. The majority of my cash was always locked in the room safe, with a small emergency fund hidden in an unlikely place. I only changed over $100-$200 at a time and only carried what I needed plus a little extra, when I left the room.
I always split my cash between 2 or 3 pockets, depending on how much I'm carrying. If someone picks your pocket, they won't get it all.[/QUOTE]Your strategy will change depending on your circumstances.
Obviously if I were going somewhere new, like Bogota, I would cover all bases. Make sure I had enough cash, until I found a convenient and safe ATM that worked on demand. Maybe all cash all the time would be the best option there.
In my post I said "as a Canadian" which means first that the money changers are not going to be bidding for my business (Canadian dollars) and secondly I said "my routine" referring to my predictable trips to Sosua over the years.
It obviously would not apply to an American in Bogota. LOL. And I certainly wouldn't let a puta hold on to anything, except my dick. Lol
ATMs to me are just a giant room safe, is all, Take out only what you need, when you need it!
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[QUOTE=NewbieMonger23;1756913]I think I will just have all cash pay the cab driver us and maybe exchange to pesos in Blackbeards? Do they exchange in the resort? Also guys I don't want to sound silly but I need some serious advice and if it's rude on this board then I understand and you don't need to respond. My question is do you guys have any tips on solving severe pre mature ejaculation? I don't want to have to get erectile pills because I get erections very easily but I might need them to make the sex last longer. I literally last 30 secs to 1 min I've only lasted more then 5 minutes like once and that was after I've slept with the girls numerous times. I've even tried to masturbate before and still no luck. I just don't know I don't want to go to DR to ST last 1 min 1 Pop and she's gone. Any feedback? I know it's kinda awkward but I really need some feedback is this rare or common? I lost my virginity at 21 and don't have my experience is that why?
Thanks![/QUOTE]If you change your money at BB, your vacation could cost you 10% more.
The other matter is more complex. I would try taking some Viagra. If it works it works, and if it doesn't it doesn't. Only costs a buck or two. Get girl to give you a full body massage for half an hour to get you relaxed. Let her touch your dick, but keep stopping her before you come. Ask the girl for her suggestions on lasting longer. Have a threesome. Pig out on sex and forget about this problem. Have the girl get on top.
Probably you just get over excited. This will probably wear off naturally with time.
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[QUOTE=NewbieMonger23;1756913]My question is do you guys have any tips on solving severe pre mature ejaculation? I don't want to have to get erectile pills because I get erections very easily but I might need them to make the sex last longer. I literally last 30 secs to 1 min I've only lasted more then 5 minutes like once and that was after I've slept with the girls numerous times. ..Any feedback? I know it's kinda awkward but I really need some feedback is this rare or common? I lost my virginity at 21 and don't have my experience is that why?
Thanks![/QUOTE]On reflection, this is part of why I don't think it is a such a good idea for people to get into sex for pay at a young age, like before 35. When I mentioned this before, you said you were sexually experienced and had made a decision to devote yourself to your career rather than pursuing relationships, or something like that, I don't remember the exact wording.
Now it seems likely that you have never been in love and have never lived with a woman, which are kind of basic components of what it means to be sexually experienced. You can probably get over your problem of coming too quickly by practicing the sex act at Blackbeards, but it would be better to overcome it in the context of a relationship, where you can get to the point that sex is a natural part of life and not something that has to be quantified in terms of how many minutes you last, or how many strokes it takes to make a woman come, or stuff like that. These things are not really important, because good sex is to do with two people communicating each other's needs to each other and providing mutual satisfaction, not running a stopwatch on your fucking so as to be able to compare it with someone else's numbers. Maybe I am naive or old-fashioned, but I think these things can be learned better in the context of a "normal" "romantic" relationship than in a pay-for-sex environment. However at BB you may meet quite a few very nice girls who would be happy to help with this problem, them having a lot more experience than you, but you will be very vulnerable to falling in love with the first one who really hits the spot for you. Or if you do learn to be sexually skilled first in a pay-for-sex environment, it could be difficult to transfer the skills to a regular relationship. On this last point, I don't know, I am just speculating.
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[QUOTE=Frannie;1757073]If you change your money at BB, your vacation could cost you 10% more.
The other matter is more complex. I would try taking some Viagra. If it works it works, and if it doesn't it doesn't. Only costs a buck or two. Get girl to give you a full body massage for half an hour to get you relaxed. Let her touch your dick, but keep stopping her before you come. Ask the girl for her suggestions on lasting longer. Have a threesome. Pig out on sex and forget about this problem. Have the girl get on top.
Probably you just get over excited. This will probably wear off naturally with time.[/QUOTE]It's normal for a young guy.
He should enjoy it while he can, because once he's older, he may be banging for an hour before gets off, LOL.
If she's THAT good, just climb back on. He needs to find a TLN who's up to it.
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[QUOTE=Oakie;1757100]It's normal for a young guy.[/QUOTE]Yes, and no. If that is the case, is aging the only cure? I would agree that it is normal on a first sexual encounter, but usually things get better on the second or third go round. There is an interesting, if banal, description of this phenomenon in "Jaws", the book by Peter Benchley, not the Spielberg movie.
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[QUOTE=NewbieMonger23;1756913]I think I will just have all cash pay the cab driver us and maybe exchange to pesos in Blackbeards? Do they exchange in the resort? Also guys I don't want to sound silly but I need some serious advice and if it's rude on this board then I understand and you don't need to respond. My question is do you guys have any tips on solving severe pre mature ejaculation? I don't want to have to get erectile pills because I get erections very easily but I might need them to make the sex last longer. I literally last 30 secs to 1 min I've only lasted more then 5 minutes like once and that was after I've slept with the girls numerous times. I've even tried to masturbate before and still no luck. I just don't know I don't want to go to DR to ST last 1 min 1 Pop and she's gone. Any feedback? I know it's kinda awkward but I really need some feedback is this rare or common? I lost my virginity at 21 and don't have my experience is that why?
Thanks![/QUOTE]They do exchange at Blackbeard's. When I was there, the rate at BBs was 42.50, the rate most other places was 44.50. Over your entire stay, you're paying the hotel for 2ST sessions if you exchange all your money with them. To get your money's worth you might want to jerk off in the lobby twice. Take the advice of the others, stop somewhere and exchange about $500. When you run low, just walk up to Jenny's and exchange some more.
For your other problem, it's all in your mind. Slow down, take it easy, there's no hurry. When you get too excited, just stop, switch it up and do other things.
Your local sex supply store probably carries several creams which you can use to desensitize the area, they also carry thicker condoms to help, and you definitely want to bring your own condoms.
You can also use prescription pain pills. I've found that when I take Darvocet, it's going to take a lot to finish me off. If you can't get a prescription, just stop at "La Farmacia" on the way to BBs. You can ask for Viagra or Cialis by name, or by the drug name, or you can get the branded generics, La Pela for Viagra or Mambo 36 for Cialis. At your age, 3 or 4 of the Mambos will be plenty, take one every 3 days. While you're there, buy some ibuprofen. You will only need 1 per day. They will give you 800 MG pills. Take one before you head down to pick out your first conquest of the day.
The combination of the 2 pills should help with the premature ejaculation, and if not, you should be able to recover in just a few minutes and go for a quick round 2.
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[QUOTE=Manny51;1756799]Can you even enter a post if you haven't paid?[/QUOTE]If he is a "regular member" and when you click on his name it doesn't say "Private Message" underneath, it means he hasn't paid. Ex. the Indian thread posters with one or two posts.
At this time in the morning, here is who is on the forum: Online Users: 626.
Members: 97.
Guests: 529.
That gives you an idea of proportions. Among the Members are the cheapskates who have registered but haven't paid.
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[QUOTE=JjBee62;1756841]I don't have the extensive and worldwide experience of the experts here, but I'll toss out what I have.
When I went to Bogota I only took $400 in cash, with plans to just use the ATM for my needs. My hotel was paid with my flight as a package deal, so I didn't expect to need much.
At the airport ATM I had my first problem. Even though my card has all the affiliations to make it accepted anywhere, it wouldn't work. The next day I tried every ATM I saw, still no luck. I contacted my bank, but they weren't the problem. Finally I found a Citibank office and it worked fine.
For my DR trip I took all cash. About half was hidden in different spots in Mt carry-on and the rest was on me. The majority of my cash was always locked in the room safe, with a small emergency fund hidden in an unlikely place. I only changed over $100-$200 at a time and only carried what I needed plus a little extra, when I left the room.
I always split my cash between 2 or 3 pockets, depending on how much I'm carrying. If someone picks your pocket, they won't get it all.[/QUOTE]"Extensive worldwide experience?
"Bond, James Bond".
But seriously folks.
A lot of guys are up on the latest way of doing things, but I retain a healthy skepticism of technology. Its a great thing, - until it doesn't work. I also prefer cash in the DR, though it might change in other locations.
I only carry back up credit cards for an emergency, - air fare, rental car, etc.
Every "critical" item (money, passport, cards, cell, etc) is on my person. In a questionable place, I carry a throw-away wallet with just a little money in the back pocket.
Laptop in a pack carried over my shoulder. Luggage only has clothing, incidentals, nothing critical.
The concern with cash is robbery, and I spend minimal time outside with cash. Directly to hotel, where it goes in safe with my passport, cards, cell, etc.
I only carry in my pockets what I am prepared to lose, and in alternate locations. Velcro closures are good against pickpockets. And again, a throw away wallet with lots of small bills, a small total.
And it may be antiquated, but if its a real concern, traveler's checks are maybe old-fashioned, but carrying a few as back up to change in a bank is an option.
Separate tip: Potable water. As a backup option, (brushing teeth, etc.) consider a tiny bottle with an ounce or so of old-fashioned chlorine bleach. Add a few drops, swish it around and wait a few minutes. A few drops will treat a liter of water, for brushing, or drinking when bottled water is not handy.
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[QUOTE=NewbieMonger23;1756913]I think I will just have all cash pay the cab driver us and maybe exchange to pesos in Blackbeards? Do they exchange in the resort? Also guys I don't want to sound silly but I need some serious advice and if it's rude on this board then I understand and you don't need to respond. My question is do you guys have any tips on solving severe pre mature ejaculation? I don't want to have to get erectile pills because I get erections very easily but I might need them to make the sex last longer. I literally last 30 secs to 1 min I've only lasted more then 5 minutes like once and that was after I've slept with the girls numerous times. I've even tried to masturbate before and still no luck. I just don't know I don't want to go to DR to ST last 1 min 1 Pop and she's gone. Any feedback? I know it's kinda awkward but I really need some feedback is this rare or common? I lost my virginity at 21 and don't have my experience is that why?
Thanks![/QUOTE]Two cents.
If the driver is sent by BB, simply wait till you arrive to pay him. He knows you're not going to run off. Pay in whatever you want, US or pesos. I repeat, once you enter Costambar, Jenny's is a great place to stop, buy some bottled water, and change a few hundred while the cab waits.
He makes his living with BB, so he won't run off with your luggage.
On the other matter.
Premature ejaculation? Ah, those were the days!
No pills, but as a young man, I learned there were creams available to deaden the sensation, and prolong things. You can find such stuff on the net. Rather than shell out for some "stay-long" cream, any cream with LIDOCAINE will do the job. Just go online and search CREAM LIDOCAINE and you'll see what is there.
Apply just a drop or so to Mr Happy's head, and use sparingly. The potential problem is your tool may be so numb, you (or she) may get blisters before you get off.
So use a tiny bit and experiment.
The other alternative is fun, too. Tell the chica you want one time orally, one time "normal. " As a young man, you might be ready again in minutes, but my experience is that the second time is nowhere near as quick. It might cost a little more, but hell, you'll get your money's worth. .
Those were the days. .
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[QUOTE=Yanqui69;1757135]Two cents.
If the driver is sent by BB, simply wait till you arrive to pay him. He knows you're not going to run off. Pay in whatever you want, US or pesos. I repeat, once you enter Costambar, Jenny's is a great place to stop, buy some bottled water, and change a few hundred while the cab waits.
He makes his living with BB, so he won't run off with your luggage.
On the other matter.
Premature ejaculation? Ah, those were the days!
No pills, but as a young man, I learned there were creams available to deaden the sensation, and prolong things. You can find such stuff on the net. Rather than shell out for some "stay-long" cream, any cream with LIDOCAINE will do the job. Just go online and search CREAM LIDOCAINE and you'll see what is there.
Apply just a drop or so to Mr Happy's head, and use sparingly. The potential problem is your tool may be so numb, you (or she) may get blisters before you get off.
So use a tiny bit and experiment.
The other alternative is fun, too. Tell the chica you want one time orally, one time "normal. " As a young man, you might be ready again in minutes, but my experience is that the second time is nowhere near as quick. It might cost a little more, but hell, you'll get your money's worth. .
Those were the days. .[/QUOTE]Those were the days, indeed!
When I was a young man, hookers were THE SOLUTION to sexual problems.
Now guys spend all kinds of money on drugs, pills, and medications just to get ready to fuck a hooker.
I hear you "retain a healhy skepticism of technology".
I myself, have a healthy skepticism of drugs.
It's OK, I'm getting old, LOL.
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[QUOTE=Oakie;1757143]Those were the days, indeed!
When I was a young man, hookers were THE SOLUTION to sexual problems.
Now guys spend all kinds of money on drugs, pills, and medications just to get ready to fuck a hooker.
I hear you "retain a healhy skepticism of technology".. [/QUOTE]Hookers would suck dick when nice girls gagged at the thought.
Technology? ATM machines have been with us since about 1980, so about 35 years. I remember what a huge boon they were right from the start for international travel, no longer having to get in line in foreign banks that take an afternoon siesta to cash a traveler's check. And not having to get in line at the bank every pay day to get cash to pay the grocery and electric accounts. And now we have young guys who were born after the invention of ATMs not trusting the technology and carrying cash for safety. Ah, well. Such is progress. I am old enough to remember flights before jets and when men walked on the moon--now, that is a technology that I would not really trust for my vacation time. But ATMs, never had a problem in any country.
[QUOTE]I myself, have a healthy skepticism of drugs.
It's OK, I'm getting old, LOL.[/QUOTE]Me too, I am almost into Medicare territory and I don't take any drugs, though I have to admit the occasional recreational sildenafil (viagra) and ibuprofen (Motrin) does help to stiffen the resolve at times for a better fuck. For a younger person the novelty of a new partner alone should be more than enough to get the job done. It takes a real man to fuck a 60-year-old woman, so drugs are allowed. Wasn't it Bob Dole who said Viagra is the greatest marital aid ever invented, because it enables men to fuck women they cannot stand the sight of?
The vast majority of medical drugs do not help with sexual performance, and you can include tobacco and alcohol there.
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[QUOTE=Frannie;1757172]Hookers would suck dick when nice girls gagged at the thought.
Technology? ATM machines have been with us since about 1980, so about 35 years. I remember what a huge boon they were right from the start for international travel, no longer having to get in line in foreign banks that take an afternoon siesta to cash a traveler's check. And not having to get in line at the bank every pay day to get cash to pay the grocery and electric accounts. And now we have young guys who were born after the invention of ATMs not trusting the technology and carrying cash for safety. Ah, well. Such is progress. I am old enough to remember flights before jets and when men walked on the moon--now, that is a technology that I would not really trust for my vacation time. But ATMs, never had a problem in any country.
Me too, I am almost into Medicare territory and I don't take any drugs, though I have to admit the occasional recreational sildenafil (viagra) and ibuprofen (Motrin) does help to stiffen the resolve at times for a better fuck. For a younger person the novelty of a new partner alone should be more than enough to get the job done. It takes a real man to fuck a 60-year-old woman, so drugs are allowed. Wasn't it Bob Dole who said Viagra is the greatest marital aid ever invented, because it enables men to fuck women they cannot stand the sight of?
The vast majority of medical drugs do not help with sexual performance, and you can include tobacco and alcohol there.[/QUOTE]I'd have to disagree with Mr Dole; Viagara will help with the hydraulics, but it can't help the libido. If you can't stand the woman and are not attracted, the pill won't "force it up. ".
On the tech question, I won't quibble over chronology, my point is, technology is great, - until it breaks.
Get a card eaten by a machine on Friday evening, get your data stolen by a planted card reader, won't accept the card, etc. You name it.
There's something to be said for low-tech cash. Works under all conditions.
A mix of all options is not a bad idea.
My only suggestion to the lad with the problem of "going off half-cocked" is just a cream with a de-sensitizer.
Don't believe they've come up with a "slow down" pill. Mother Nature takes care of that. Works slowly, but all too effective.
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[QUOTE=Yanqui69;1757182]My only suggestion to the lad with the problem of "going off half-cocked" is just a cream with a de-sensitizer.
Don't believe they've come up with a "slow down" pill. Mother Nature takes care of that. Works slowly, but all too effective.[/QUOTE]Anything is worth a try. You had the same problem and the cream worked for you. You think the cause is simply that his nerve endings are too sensitive. Well, does he also come off very quickly if he masturbates with a lubricant? If so then you could be right. On the other hand, if he can take his time when masturbating, then the root cause is more likely to be psychological than physical. Anyway, any remedy is worth a try and if it doesn't work for him, then he can try something else.