Value of a peso: Lesson Six.
Took my #1 to the cine last night. Regular viewing 2 the: 400 DOP / each. Snacks: 550 DOP. Parking: 60 DOP.
Now you don't have to pay those sorts of numbers to see a movie in Santo Domingo / Santo Domingo este. I don't mind paying them. My money comes fast so that's how I spend it. But I happen to like the theater in Blue Mall better than all the others in the city. Unobstructed views from all parts of the theater. Reserved seating. Lazyboy type chairs that fully recline with a footrest. And a state of the art sound system. Last night four other people in the salon with us. It was like having a private viewing. They also have 2 IMAX screens. We went to see Black Panther on opening night a few weeks ago. The IMAX (with the glasses) experience was worth every peso!
There are some nice amenities on that side. I've read that they have 30 minute blooming onion delivery (from Outback). But, honestly I don't give a fuck about that! One of my favorite stores (PriceSmart) is just 2 weeks away from completion in Santo Domingo este. After they open, the only reason I'm going to have to cross the bridge anymore is for entertainment purposes. I've been to over half a dozen venues over there. One is a take out bar where every women in the place is available. The educator has turned me onto two more venues right in Zona Colonial. And I've got a lead on a new one right here in Santo Domingo este.
I have read opinions that Santo Domingo is not monger friendly. That the "golden age" has passed. Makes me laugh! Straight oyster thinking in my opinion. If you are a hunter with a moisture seeking warhead on your pussy penetrating missile then you are good. I got 99 problems. Hiring a prostitute in Santo Domingo is not one. And Santo Domingo has the advantage of being full of hard working girls that would just like a good time on their one day off. Of course if you are only here on vacation that might not meet your schedule for ball drainage. Santo Domingo / Santo Domingo este are real cities unlike the the puta pueblos of Sosua and Boca Chica and therefore offers many other activities that don't involve busting a nut. There is a reason why Sosua is filled with girls from the big cities, better market conditions.
Right now the V's are invading Santo Domingo. Lot's of them are taking service jobs. They are living in small places with 4 or 5 girls in the place. One of my boys met one in a bar / restaurant / car wash on San Ysidro. Invited her to his place. She asked if she could bring a friend. He told me that they rocked his world all night and into the morning. Actually had to kick them out at noon the next day. Not going to quote the gift of cash he gave them. But it was less than I've seen people being quoted in Sosua (for just one). If you don't know, now you know!
Santo Domingo is hard. Right!
New school versus old school.
What has changed in the world of girls is the smart phone. The smart phone gives a girl unlimited connectivity to the world no matter what her plight in life may be. This connectivity allow a average girl to be contacted much more than simple approaches in real life allow. One of the biggest differences between men in the Dominican Republic and men in the United States is the open society that allows you to approach girls at will. And approach is what Dominican guys do. They do it all day (and all night) and they do it well. In fact they do exactly the thing that old school guys from the United States decry as being unskilled. They play the numbers game.
All this bullshit about doing a proper interview and taking the time to get to know a girl before you invite her back to the room is a function of just being old, inflexible and unable to adapt to the new social ways of doing things. Now I know we all have different styles. And we should, because we are all different people. But if over the years if your methods and thinking processes do not change then all that time you have spent gathering experience is wasted. If you have reached the point in your life where you think you have nothing to learn from others, if you feel like you must give advice and have it followed in order to be validated, then that points to deep hole in your personality that is not going to be filled by traveling the world and fucking third world WGs.
Men in the arena don't need validation from others in order to attempt great things. They don't have a problem with being a failure at making the attempt. And they especially don't pay attention to those that are critical of them. Men in the arena handle their business. The best of those give back. And the rest, well they just remain in that place and shall forever be one of those cold and timid souls who neither know victory nor defeat.
I learn more from new folks passing though Santo Domingo este / Santo Domingo than I have ever learned from the old school folks with their old school ways. And why not, the new generation is the next one. It will be the generation that saves us from the fuck ups we have made in our generation. The surgeon who fixes me will be younger than me and might even be female. My team of student doctors working on my dental issues is composed of two females and one male. Two of which speak English and is over seen by a female doctor who also speaks English. The one student who didn't speak English was kind of hanging back. During a time where everyone was trying to get the x-ray machine to take a good film (yes, it's not all digital here yet), I spoke to her in Spanish and she was amazed. I learned that she was from Cuba. Had grand plans for improving medical treatment in her country when she returns. And she had a great ass (even through those unflattering medical pants.)! But I digress, my team of doctors are suggesting work that no medical professional in the United States every took time to suggest. They took pictures of the problems and explained them too me. When they were computing the price of my work, they were a bit concerned about the price. But the price left me with a internal smile. With half down and the rest to be paid over the number of appointments the work would take to complete.
Cuban student doctor. Yes, she is part of my treatment team. We are not going on a date. But guys I know that travel to Cuba are not telling me about those types of girls, they are not hanging out with those types of girls. But I am! I'm regularly invited to parties full of medical students and doctors. I've got a friend married to doctor who has a sister-in-law as an attorney. That is my Dominican Republic. These are the types of girls old school people don't have access to because they can't communicate effectively with girls. You know those old school guys that only use a fist full of pesos in one hand and pocket full of condoms in the other to attract girls. Real talk!
Yes, I still have to deal with the motos driving on the wrong side of the street without lights, the lights going out and inconsistent, insanely slow internet. But instead of being in a puta pueblo and unable to hack it in a real city of the Dominican Republic. I'm a man in the arena! Who just happens to enjoy live to the fullest. I know where the rich folk at, I know where the 1000 DOP ho's at. Choose to believe it or not. I really don't give a fuck! No one can invalidate anyone else's experiences based on disbelief. And critics don't count.
Knowledge, Experience, Wisdom. There is nothing old school about it!
You have now become nothing more than a critic. How unfortunate for you!
Knowledge, Experience Wisdom. Nothing old school about it.
Take a donkey and put him on a cruise ship for a trip around the world. Show him all the exotic ports of call. Give him language training and cultural insights. And when you return to your home port what gets off the cruise ship: a donkey.
Thank you for reading my posts. Thank you for your participation in my blog (if only to hurl personal insults and rant like a girly man while failing to add any useful information).
Your post in my blog has me rolling on the floor laughing. Doesn't everybody have self love? Is it possible to fuck porn stars and prostitutes and have class? Does it define someone as has having no class?
It's possible to fuck both porn stars and prostitutes and be president in my county of origin. But you did get one thing right my man. I am not old school. Not even close.
Everybody has the right to their opinion. And thanks for validating everything I said in my post. You have chosen to be a critic. And you don't count. I learned long ago not to pay attention to your type. It is a long list of those that seem to populate the Dominican Republic forums and you have just added yourself to it. You think your personal views and those of the county are the only one that count. How many times do I have to read in your posts that you do not like casas? Why do you keep repeating yourself? So, if I like casas there is something wrong with me? Just one example of your narrow view on things.
Knowledge Experience Wisdom are not derived from time. It is derived from mental acuity. You missed the point of my post in it's entirety. When old school people get to the point where they are trashing the views of others simply because they are not the way THEY like to do things, they are showing that they have failed to develop the mental acuity needed to use all of the knowledge, experience and wisdom developed over the years. The are showing their closed minds and that they have lost the ability to learn from others. I've had more than one old school guy PM me in order to trash my ideas on both a personal and intellectual level. At least you had the testicular fortitude to do it in the open forum. I welcome it. Because personal insults are the last refuge of the intellectually bankrupt during a discussion based on logic and reason.
Ok, so fucking prostitutes is not worthy of high intellectual discussion. But when it comes to learning from the ideas of others what are old school people afraid of? I don't know you personally, but you have chosen to attack me on a personal level. Point out where I have provided factual information (and let me remind you that the purpose of sharing of information on women is in the founders statement) that is incorrect. Be a man in the arena, because critics do not count!
We can sit down over a good bottle of dominican rum, or just bottle of Brugal Blanco on ice at a colmado take hit of my hooka or new mig vapor and open your mind. It's the modern day peace pipe. Or you can continue to rant and rave at the changes brought on by young people and be left behind. Lift yourself up to a higher level. Or no because everybody is free to do what they like.
"17.5 same color T-shirt" who said it my man and what does it mean?
Shared experiences and information.
[QUOTE=Oakie;2169730]I don't know about you but I couldn't live in DR without instant internet access to the outside world, banks, insurance companies, officina, familia. Instant access to schedules, transportation, chicas and no wasted time waiting around, or trying to hook up with friends and chicas. Wifi almost everywhere, bluetooth and Youtube for any kind of music you like! More hot water and A/C.[/QUOTE]You and me both brother! Old school people lament progress. Inflexible, binary, narrow minded, backwards thinking is the Achilles heel of those stuck in old school thought. Hey I know some old school people. They do what they do. But I don't waste my time talking to them or hanging out with them anymore. I'm completely lost without a speedy internet connection. Last night I was working with the Educator. We both trade in the FOREX markets. I'm on a serious roll and wanted to share some new insights and methods with him. I called the meeting of the minds at the McDonald's on Lincoln Ave. Not only does it have a speedy free (but unsecured) internet connection there were some big booty MILF's and young hotties up in there too. So there we are there (and we were not alone using the free WiFi) him with his laptop, and me with my iPad and both of us with our smart phones looking at the charts and doing analysis of the markets. Third world country my ass! Get out of your puta pueblos and check out what a real city in the Dominican Republic looks like.
[QUOTE=Oakie;2169730]For me personally things are better than ever in Sosua. I thought I was "old school". After my last long term relationship with a local, I leaned a lot, like how to set the ground rules from the beginning, stay in overall control of the relationship and budgets. It requires saying no, firmly and meaning it!, and being willing to walk if you have major differences of opinion! Training. It's not easy but when it works, it is great![/QUOTE]Nothing "old school" at all about learning from your current experiences and sharing them with other. Visitors will never be able to understand the culture the way those that live here do. I'm I'm surprised at how much advice is offered by "old school" people that don't even live here to those that live here or even going as far to be critical of those that visit and choose not do do things the way they like. Advice is useless. Information is useful. And that's what I seek in my exchange with others that I have interacted with here. I feel the same way about Santo Domingo este. Things are better than ever for me here.
[QUOTE=Oakie;2169730]Lost 35 pounds, thanks to mi chica's home cooking, and encouragement. My fridge is always full of home made food so literally I only get to a resaurant about twice a week, But lots of Predidente Lite which agrees with me and seemingly I can drink with no loss of control, just a nice little buzz! Spent a long weekend with great local family campo up in the hills, and had the best time of my life! "Livin' the dream", as they say![/QUOTE]Living the dream! That's right. Living the dream not looking at it from off shore through the "old school" paradigm (love that word). We are "all in" on the Dominican Republic. Not just 1 week or 1 month visitors who can't hack a few inconveniences and run back to their North American havens. "The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena".
Your experiences closely mirror mine. I've experienced many of the things you have written about. I've also experienced health improvements and home cooking. I have no need to be in a restaurant or on the street every night in order to validate myself or feel entertained. I've experienced going out into the country and enjoying the unique hospitality that Dominican country folk give you. I've also returned with a huge bounty of fresh fruits and vegetables. But more importantly I just love the sugar cane just cut from the field and fresh coffee directly from the country not processed by the large companies. There is much to be experienced in Republica Dominicana. It's more important to enjoy yourself while you are here than to slavishly adhere to someone else antiquated version of how they should live their life or even spend time on their vacation.
Telecommunications in the DR.
If you are traveling from the US, Fry's has BLU smartphones from 35 USD and up. They work perfectly fine. I have used several different models of them in several different countries and have given them as gifts. Altice is my go to carrier in the Dominican Republic. Show your passport and you can buy a SIM for 100 pesos. You can add as little as 100 pesos for talk minutes or go straight new school baller status and purchase a full unlimited package that includes data.
Don't get stuck in that rut lamenting how the internet has ruined to the good ole days. You can call a chica on whatsapp with just a finger, deliver her to your door using uber, bust your nut in a hour (or whatever your preferred arrangement is) and sent her right back the way you had her delivered. Don't hate! Adjust, adapt, improvise and get your nut.
How we continue to do it Santo Domingo este!
Hit up my booty call girl cutie I spoken about before because she sent me a message on whatsapp saying she wanted to see me. I hit her back with a few changes I wanted to institute for the second session which she enthusiastically agreed too. Set the meeting place and the time. I'm at the spot five minutes early waiting for her when she hits me with the following message: "It's raining can we meet one hour later". What the fuck? It's raining so you need a one hour rain delay? I sent her a picture letting her know I'm waiting for her at the spot we discussed and she responds that: "I'm a very prompt man". If course I am. I take it as a complement. I'm not Dominican or old school and therefore in my own world. I live in the hear and now. I live in the expanded present where we adapt, survive, improvise and over come. I'm not locked into one way of thinking. I don't call names. I don't have time for that. I'm a man in the arena right now that knows critics don't count. I'm a man that values the information you have for me but who does not need your advice unless I ask for it.
She asks me if will I wait there a hour for her. I tell her no. I know that this is one of those short term rain showers. The sun is going to be out and drying everything up in 15 minutes. And wouldn't you know it was. She sent me a sad face because I won't wait. I tell her perhaps another time very soon. I will not tolerate or reward flaking activity. This is Santo Domingo este where the big dogs roam not some puta pueblo where old school types hang out when they are not writing fictional stories from off shore that are personally critical of others because they don't have the skills or experience to operate in the big city. A man has never held my hand unless they were one of my adult male relatives when I was a child or helping me up. Now I'm all grown up. Much closer to 50 than 60. But that only proves that simply having a few years on ya does not lock you into old school thinking. No one needs to be shown Sosua and Boca Chica because they are both easy. Santo Domingo este and Santo Domingo are hard. Anyone can operate with impunity in a puta pueblo. But in the big city not so much. And quick review of the posts in the Santo Domingo section will verify my statement. Even Grownman has said this in his own user blog.
Back up plan.
Honestly I didn't have one. But then I decided to hit my favorite online provider web sites. I had reviewed things before and saw a couple of promising advertisements so I followed up again with a few "holas" and started to get some responses. Got one from someone I was previously interested in before and found out she was still working in of Zona Oriental. Great, that's close and keeps me for having to cross that mother fucking bridge over to Santo Domingo at peek traffic time. She is available immediately and I'm ready. Initial location is 20 -25 minutes away. Wander around a bit after I get on her street then find a place to park. She gives me a colmado reference point and then gives me the exact location after she scopes me out from the window. I see her and she has a pretty face. I get to her apartment door and her pictures that she posted online are completely accurate.
She is a morena V who has a body type I like. Her smile is warm and genuine. Her voice soft spoken. She leads me back to her bedroom. Offers me something to drink and a opportunity to wash up. I'm already freshly showered as is she so we get undressed and I start to enjoy her soft and sensual nature. That enjoyment leads to doggy style with me finishing up with some hard pounding in prone bone with her pushing that nice ass back at me and giving me proof she has been doing her kegel exercises. We clean up, take a little down time and start on round two. Even more sensual the second round with a little playful banter to boot. She finished me off. And I thoroughly enjoyed myself! I'm adding her to the booty call time line up. A line up I might add that does not have a girl over 30 in it. I don't need any of that fake girl friend shit, because I have real ones! I'm not looking for loving because I'm about straight fucking no kissing. I got real girl friends for that! My CPO is right on target (new school). Hit me on the back channel for the web site, prices, approximate location and phone number. And of course always remember YMMV.
Balls drained. All that really remains is for the old school folks to complain!
