Monterrey

Wait a minute...I just realized, the salida alone at the "H" place is 700 pesos. What was her compensation in addition to the salida? Just curious. Give us the total damage my friend.

I understand your reluctance at paying the salida at the "H" place, it makes the total bill relatively high in the end, right? It certainly is out of character for Carlos to pay a salida, but WastedG and myself have perhaps been stellar examples of how rewarding it can be and Carlos wants "IN" on the action.

I paid that same salida amount once at the H place and once at the C place. Their salida fees are not as cheap as the other lower end bars, but they're still within the doable range. But, at 700 pesos, it does cause one to think twice first before making the leap.

I must say...for Carlos to pay the 700 peso salida, this girl must be very special. That is very much out of character for Carlos to invest that much. She must be pretty good CP. Please give us a full report. Have I met this girl? Does she know "V" or "N" at the "H" place?

Common' now is your chance to actually write a report, something we have not seen from you in 5 years!

[QUOTE=Carlos Perez]My H girl is also back and I did what I never do: pay an H salida (700 pesos) and took her to my version of going around the world....[/QUOTE]

Yes, Wasted is affecting my mind but in a better way...
I think I never told you this, but know you has changed my way of "attaking" girls... in the time I know you my Flock has doubled in size.
I do learn something from all my friends North of the Rio Grande.


[QUOTE=Wastedgman]Carlos? Salida? What the heck?

WastedG must be affecting you in more ways than just giving the girls bruises, ha? WTG Carlos!

Yeah, tell USB to stop being so mushy and start acting like a man ... :-)

Wasted[/QUOTE]

Yes, I paid regular H fee's: 1000 pesos plus 700 for salida for 2 hours.
Yes she was worth it. It's my girl that went to Cancun uselessly cause she couldn't find work over there.
She will turn 27 on May which is way above the average for a club girl.
The damage was big, cause for example, I went to the "I" place today and the only thing I did was stare at the girls... no hands on situations today nor tomorrow for me.




[QUOTE=UnospongeBob]Wait a minute...I just realized, the salida alone at the "H" place is 700 pesos. What was her compensation in addition to the salida? Just curious. Give us the total damage my friend.

I understand your reluctance at paying the salida at the "H" place, it makes the total bill relatively high in the end, right? It certainly is out of character for Carlos to pay a salida, but WastedG and myself have perhaps been stellar examples of how rewarding it can be and Carlos wants "IN" on the action.

I paid that same salida amount once at the H place and once at the C place. Their salida fees are not as cheap as the other lower end bars, but they're still within the doable range. But, at 700 pesos, it does cause one to think twice first before making the leap.

I must say...for Carlos to pay the 700 peso salida, this girl must be very special. That is very much out of character for Carlos to invest that much. She must be pretty good CP. Please give us a full report. Have I met this girl? Does she know "V" or "N" at the "H" place?

Common' now is your chance to actually write a report, something we have not seen from you in 5 years![/QUOTE]

No I will NOT trade places with you.
You Little Gentelmen of the North can keep your imperialistic way of life... I want my decadent one.


[QUOTE=UnospongeBob]I expect I will require only a few more days of being back here in the wasteland before my psyche begins to normalize. Unfortunately, I keep getting text messages from "G" that keep reminding me about what I am missing. Consequently, you all have to read my rubbish until my emotional state stabalizes.

I know...Carlos can trade places with me. I will live in Monterrey, and Carlos will live here in the Midwest. Let see how "tough" he is then, verdad? :-)

Even the WastedG, living in his part of the country, has more options than what is here in the wasteland of the Midwest.

I submit that both these "girly men" could not endure an exile such as mine.

RTW, don't forget a complete and total report on your activities. Were you able to find in your girl from the "O" place, the more meaningful GFE that you told us you've been seeking? I hope so![/QUOTE]

Ah, Carlos, I forgot to ask how your night at the H place went. Sounds great.

I wish I could have met your girl, but alas one cannot be in two places at once.

I'll post a report later about my Thursday night with the O girl. But suffice to say it was great and not great, all in the same night.

Sorry to tell you I wasn't able to go to the O place for lunch... I'll try again on Monday..... I'll check you girl then.



[QUOTE=Round the World]Ah, Carlos, I forgot to ask how your night at the H place went. Sounds great.

I wish I could have met your girl, but alas one cannot be in two places at once.

I'll post a report later about my Thursday night with the O girl. But suffice to say it was great and not great, all in the same night.[/QUOTE]

What options are you talking about?

Oh yes, my "X" girl wants to come to town. I was discussing the situation with RTW. His mind was working overtime when he suggested I bring her here as a, what was it, an Au Pair? Hot dang RTW. What a great idea. I'll have Carlos start the paperwork. Carlos?

RWT was great to hang out with. It's been a while since I've seen a gringo's surprise to beautiful situations down in MTY. I commented 'What the hell am I doing here?' as we entered Taboo. Once RTW realized where we were, he too agreed. 'What they hell are we doing in a gay-lesbian disco in Mexico with 18 y/o and 19 y/o pretty strippers and a boyfriend?' The whole club was watching us and some hit on RTW. woohooo.

But I must also give credit to my young 18 y/o "X" girl. She too had a great idea. She wanted me to pay to get her 'transported' to me. Even better.

Then I sat for a minute and let my mind wonder. Imagining the situation: "X" in my house! hot dammm, very tempting..... She'll probably do the whole neighborhood as well... I'm sure my neighbors would love me :-)

Then I can take her with me on my trips. She'll wait for me in my hotel room while I go to work. By the time I get back, I'll find thank you letters for all the hotel guests... hey, maybe I'll take her to strip clubs and make some money while I'm at it.

OK. Seriously now. Carlos, What would it take to get "X" over here? She's welling and I'm able……. NAAAAAAT.

Later you horny chickens.

Wasted

[QUOTE=Carlos Perez]No I will NOT trade places with you.
You Little Gentelmen of the North can keep your imperialistic way of life... I want my decadent one.[/QUOTE]

WastedG, you undoubtedly have better options, notwithstanding bringing your "X" girl to the US. I imagine that in your part of the country there is significantly better options with respect to P4P, all be they more expensive options than MTY, but certainly much better than what I have available to me here in the heartland (wasteland).

Remember, I live "Down on the Farm." The only options we have here are a sheep or two, a few horses, some cows, etc...and those are descriptions of the quality of girls we have here, not the animals, hahahaha!!! :-)

I just finished booking my airline tickets for 3/25-3/29. I will stay five nights in Monterrey this next time. I also pre-booked tickets for April as well in order to avoid the exhorbidant fares associated with waiting to book the tickets.

By booking well in advance, like about 9-10 weeks ahead, it seems I can save up to almost $100 off the cost of airfare on bookings that I would normally try to book at least three to four weeks in advance.

I am contemplating a vacation from Monterrey in May or June. I might possibly book a frequent flyer mileage credit for a trip to Asia, Colombia, or Costa Rica instead.

It's all up to "G" to keep me coming back for more. Frankly, I hope she will not disappoint me. No need to go looking elsewhere if your relatively content in your own backyard. As they say in Thailand, "Up to Her."

WastedG, you must be getting the itch once again after being home a few days...Being home is bliss, but it doesn't take long to miss Monterrey. With me, it actually works quite the opposite. When I first return home, it is the worst. I am actually starting to normalize now after being home for a week. My melancholy and longing for Monterrey, and its delights, is starting to subside finally. It usually only takes a week or so before my absence from Monterrey is tolerable.

I decided I better book my tickets before I completely forget about what I am missing. My mind has even started to wander, to contemplate the pooying that could be had in other venues. Perhaps "G" is losing her hold on me. But, that having been said, she makes me pretty happy when I'm there.

When are you planning your return?

[/QUOTE=Wastedgman]What options are you talking about? Wasted[/QUOTE]

WastedG, perhaps you are joking about bringing your "X" girl here...If so, please disreagard my comments...but,

I would think twice before bringing a Mexican bar girl to within 1000 miles of my home turf, especially your "X" girl. It sounds good on the surface, but consider the potential complications she "could" create for you, assuming of course that she has a passport, which most do not (Thank God!!!).

Angry Girl told me one time before she started acting-up that she was working for a company during the day, in addition to her "regular" night work as a stripper/bar girl. If she can be believed, she works for a company that was planning to bring her into the US in the future to provide contracted labor.

I believe she was possibly going to work on some kind of green card type of employment. She didn't really know when, or the particular details, and perhaps it was all pie in the sky, or bar girl lies, but according to her, it was some kind of inventory control job that relates to her day job now. Her story sounds very believable to me...

If a girl had told me this several years ago, I would have said she was crazy. But, with the immigration issues we have in this country now, and the lack of accountability shown by our politicians toward their obligation to enforce immigration laws. Neglecting their responsibility to legitimate legal immigrants, and because our politicians view a flood of illegal immigrants as a windfall to their voting districts, which is a totally self serving attitude that is contrary to their oaths of office, the likelihood of the girls actually coming eventually into the US legally to work is quite possible. Furthermore, the likeihood of the girls coming into the USA legally to work, and remaining illegally, could be as common a circumstance as the other 12 million illegal immigrants already in the US now.

I for one, do not particularly like the idea of any bar girl seeking me out here in the US, even if she loves me to death. I am quite pleased that the majority of them were at least formerly trapped in Mexico, where they can not do me any direct damage.

But, being of a naturally suspicous mind, all be it simulateously foolish with respect to my LOVE of Mexican bar girls, I have often wondered if some of the bar girls I am closest to might not contemplate "extortion" through some third party illegal immigrants that they may know here in the US. They could leverage me for cash and regalos here within the US via blackmail without too much effort, right?

The porousness of our borders makes us much more vulnerable than I would have originally imagined several years ago, and most of the girls have NO ethical convictions that would keep their designs on my bank account in check.

Take "G" for example. She knows my full name, and has my photo on her cell phone, knows the City and State where I live, etc...She knows these things not because I gave them to her. She just saw my name on my luggage tags, took my photo with her cell phone, and has certain information about me through innocent conversation, etc...

She knows even my middle initial...not because I believe she wants to harm me. I just think she likes being close to me, because we austensibly have something going between us. In my heart of hearts, I give her the benefit of the doubt, possibly at my own peril if I'm wrong. I think she is just wanting to remember who I am, to be close to me like a novio, the Gringo she is loving/screwing/etc...but it could just as easily be a smart operator setting me up.

I should be taking my own advice...Carlos always warned me about letting them know too much, and getting to close to them. He always told me never to trust them. Of course, I trust them too much. Do as he says not as I do, right?

I intellectually agree with his advice, but when the girls start to get close, they also start to wonder who they are screwing, especially if it has some meaning for them. I believe in "G's" case, it is simply a sentimentally innocent female desire to be closer to me, as one of her "chosen" boyfriends. I think she desires our relationship to be something other than she endures on a nightly basis in the privados at El Infinito, and that through knowing something about me, she feels our liasons are legitimized. But, it could just as easily be a total scam.

[QUOTE=Wastedgman]What options are you talking about?

Oh yes, my "X" girl wants to come to town. I was discussing the situation with RTW. His mind was working overtime when he suggested I bring her here as a, what was it, an Au Pair? Hot dang RTW. What a great idea. I'll have Carlos start the paperwork. Carlos?

RWT was great to hang out with. It's been a while since I've seen a gringo's surprise to beautiful situations down in MTY. I commented 'What the hell am I doing here?' as we entered Taboo. Once RTW realized where we were, he too agreed. 'What they hell are we doing in a gay-lesbian disco in Mexico with 18 y/o and 19 y/o pretty strippers and a boyfriend?' The whole club was watching us and some hit on RTW. woohooo.

But I must also give credit to my young 18 y/o "X" girl. She too had a great idea. She wanted me to pay to get her 'transported' to me. Even better.

Then I sat for a minute and let my mind wonder. Imagining the situation: "X" in my house! hot dammm, very tempting..... She'll probably do the whole neighborhood as well... I'm sure my neighbors would love me :-)

Then I can take her with me on my trips. She'll wait for me in my hotel room while I go to work. By the time I get back, I'll find thank you letters for all the hotel guests... hey, maybe I'll take her to strip clubs and make some money while I'm at it.

OK. Seriously now. Carlos, What would it take to get "X" over here? She's welling and I'm able……. NAAAAAAT.

Later you horny chickens.

Wasted[/QUOTE]

USB, I've got a ticket booked for Medellin, Colombia for May 7-10. It'll be my second trip and I be more than happy to show you the ropes, mi amigo.

Wasted, I was kidding about the Au Pair route. But it is actually a legit route. In my neighborhood, an au pair just arrived from Mexico. There are five or six licensed agencies in the US that source girls from Mexico, Thailand, Brazil etc. (hmm that is a conspicuous combination of countries isn't it?)

If you ever want to contemplate the possibilities check it out... NAAAT! It cracks me up when X says that, which she does... a lot.

As for my most recent trip, last week, I had a mixed time. The previous trip was too great (meeting the three amigos, hanging with Wasted's girls at Taboo, and meeting my Obsession girl) I should have known this would be a let down.

It wasn't a total loss however. Carlos kindly let my Obsession girl know I was coming back to town for a night and tentatively arranged another unofficial salida. I arrived ahead of schedule so Carlos picked me up and we headed to Obsession. There Carlos sat with his A girl and I with my girl. I tried to get her to stay out late, but she said she couldn't. We chatted some more, and after a while her face lit up and she said, ok she can stay out late. My plan was to take her out for dinner and maybe dancing in Barrio Antiguo per Wasted's suggestion before retreating to my hotel suite for a blissful night. We agreed on a time a place to meet and Carlos and I bid the girls adieu.

Carlos dropped me at Infinito to while away the hours until my rendezvous. I wanted to see the girls I had fun with last week. Many were there, J, X, I, P, S, etc. I didn't really want to mess around with the girls since I already had a date planned. Bu tI did want to chat. So I said hi to X, who surprisingly was nicer to me this week than she was last week. She of course said she missed Wasted (who wouldn't?) and we sat and had a couple beers. I really wanted to see her friend P, whom I think is super hot. But P had the guys lining up and I only got to chat with her briefly. Too bad, I had to run to meet my date.

We met and headed off to Barrio Antiguo and found one of the few restaurants there. Lots of clubs, but few restaurants. This was on the corner from the park separating the Barrio from the Sheraton part of town. It was decent food and had a live band. I was having fun learning about my girl, her family life, her pre-club life etc. This girl is very pretty, fantastic body, and an honest person. She's new to the club business and retains a good girl attitude. After dinner we walked back to the Sheraton and had some nice chocolate fresas that the staff had delivered to my room.

Then I called her over to the desk where my computer sat, and asked her to choose the music. As she leaned over, we kissed, then embraced, then kissed some more and then the clothes started flying. Eventually I cleared the desk and feasted on her nude form atop the desk. After maybe 30 minutes, I picked her up and carried her to the bedroom and laid her down. At this point she saw the clock and looked a little panicked and said that she had to get home to her dad in 10 minutes (12:30am). I was stunned. I had assumed we had plenty of time. I trusted her enough not to bullshit me, but this was over the top. She looked really sorry, but dressed quickly. At the door, she said next time would be gratis. I think I still had a frown on my face and kissed her goodbye.

I sat around for a while feeling the blues. Then reflexively headed out for Matehuala, Givenchy and Infinito to waste the rest of the night away. I was in a dark mood and thought of the Billy Strayhorn song, Lush Life.

Romance is mush
Stifling those who strive
I'll live a lush life
In some small dive

And there I'll be
while I rot with the rest
Of those whose lives are lonely too...

We'll see where things lead next time with girl.

RtW

First of all, those "X" have a American visa?
If she doesn't it's a lost cause... she'll never ever get it.
You should feel in your own skin the way the American Consulate people treat us guys that need the visa.... horrible and degrading.



[QUOTE=Wastedgman]What options are you talking about?

Oh yes, my "X" girl wants to come to town. I was discussing the situation with RTW. His mind was working overtime when he suggested I bring her here as a, what was it, an Au Pair? Hot dang RTW. What a great idea. I'll have Carlos start the paperwork. Carlos?

RWT was great to hang out with. It's been a while since I've seen a gringo's surprise to beautiful situations down in MTY. I commented 'What the hell am I doing here?' as we entered Taboo. Once RTW realized where we were, he too agreed. 'What they hell are we doing in a gay-lesbian disco in Mexico with 18 y/o and 19 y/o pretty strippers and a boyfriend?' The whole club was watching us and some hit on RTW. woohooo.

But I must also give credit to my young 18 y/o "X" girl. She too had a great idea. She wanted me to pay to get her 'transported' to me. Even better.

Then I sat for a minute and let my mind wonder. Imagining the situation: "X" in my house! hot dammm, very tempting..... She'll probably do the whole neighborhood as well... I'm sure my neighbors would love me :-)

Then I can take her with me on my trips. She'll wait for me in my hotel room while I go to work. By the time I get back, I'll find thank you letters for all the hotel guests... hey, maybe I'll take her to strip clubs and make some money while I'm at it.

OK. Seriously now. Carlos, What would it take to get "X" over here? She's welling and I'm able……. NAAAAAAT.

Later you horny chickens.

Wasted[/QUOTE]

The I live "Down on the Farm" sounds a lot like the Chris Farley character line "live down by the river in a trailer van..."




[QUOTE=UnospongeBob]WastedG, you undoubtedly have better options, notwithstanding bringing your "X" girl to the US. I imagine that in your part of the country there is significantly better options with respect to P4P, all be they more expensive options than MTY, but certainly much better than what I have available to me here in the heartland (wasteland).

Remember, I live "Down on the Farm." The only options we have here are a sheep or two, a few horses, some cows, etc...and those are descriptions of the quality of girls we have here, not the animals, hahahaha!!! :-)

I just finished booking my airline tickets for 3/25-3/29. I will stay five nights in Monterrey this next time. I also pre-booked tickets for April as well in order to avoid the exhorbidant fares associated with waiting to book the tickets.

By booking well in advance, like about 9-10 weeks ahead, it seems I can save up to almost $100 off the cost of airfare on bookings that I would normally try to book at least three to four weeks in advance.

I am contemplating a vacation from Monterrey in May or June. I might possibly book a frequent flyer mileage credit for a trip to Asia, Colombia, or Costa Rica instead.

It's all up to "G" to keep me coming back for more. Frankly, I hope she will not disappoint me. No need to go looking elsewhere if your relatively content in your own backyard. As they say in Thailand, "Up to Her."

WastedG, you must be getting the itch once again after being home a few days...Being home is bliss, but it doesn't take long to miss Monterrey. With me, it actually works quite the opposite. When I first return home, it is the worst. I am actually starting to normalize now after being home for a week. My melancholy and longing for Monterrey, and its delights, is starting to subside finally. It usually only takes a week or so before my absence from Monterrey is tolerable.

I decided I better book my tickets before I completely forget about what I am missing. My mind has even started to wander, to contemplate the pooying that could be had in other venues. Perhaps "G" is losing her hold on me. But, that having been said, she makes me pretty happy when I'm there.

When are you planning your return?

[/QUOTE=Wastedgman]What options are you talking about? Wasted[/QUOTE][/QUOTE]

Visa Redux...
For the girls to get an American Visa to go just as visitors and I mean tourists, to the USA is quite impossible.
You do not have an idea how hard it is to get that thing here.
You must prove that you are working steadily at a job, that your income is good enough so that you'll not use the visa just to get inside the USA and that there is family and stuff that will make you come back to Mexico.
Second step is getting past Homeland Security in the border towns.
Back in 2004 I went via land to San Antonio, Texas.
God, you don't have an idea the way I was humiliated and treated at the border.
1. I was asked to produce an accountant letter proving my income
2. I was asked to produce my bank statements
3. I was told "how could you come down here and think that you could enter the USA without those papers".
4. I deduced the inspector he was testing me. You know "break me up" So I just soldiered up and kept say "yes sir... yes sir... how much I earn, I earn in a day what you get in a month".
5. Just horrible. I told my wife I would never go via land to any part of the USA (beyond the 20 mile limit that forces me to get a permit).






[QUOTE=UnospongeBob]WastedG, perhaps you are joking about bringing your "X" girl here...If so, please disreagard my comments...but,

I would think twice before bringing a Mexican bar girl to within 1000 miles of my home turf, especially your "X" girl. It sounds good on the surface, but consider the potential complications she "could" create for you, assuming of course that she has a passport, which most do not (Thank God!!!).

Angry Girl told me one time before she started acting-up that she was working for a company during the day, in addition to her "regular" night work as a stripper/bar girl. If she can be believed, she works for a company that was planning to bring her into the US in the future to provide contracted labor.

I believe she was possibly going to work on some kind of green card type of employment. She didn't really know when, or the particular details, and perhaps it was all pie in the sky, or bar girl lies, but according to her, it was some kind of inventory control job that relates to her day job now. Her story sounds very believable to me...

If a girl had told me this several years ago, I would have said she was crazy. But, with the immigration issues we have in this country now, and the lack of accountability shown by our politicians toward their obligation to enforce immigration laws. Neglecting their responsibility to legitimate legal immigrants, and because our politicians view a flood of illegal immigrants as a windfall to their voting districts, which is a totally self serving attitude that is contrary to their oaths of office, the likelihood of the girls actually coming eventually into the US legally to work is quite possible. Furthermore, the likeihood of the girls coming into the USA legally to work, and remaining illegally, could be as common a circumstance as the other 12 million illegal immigrants already in the US now.

I for one, do not particularly like the idea of any bar girl seeking me out here in the US, even if she loves me to death. I am quite pleased that the majority of them were at least formerly trapped in Mexico, where they can not do me any direct damage.

But, being of a naturally suspicous mind, all be it simulateously foolish with respect to my LOVE of Mexican bar girls, I have often wondered if some of the bar girls I am closest to might not contemplate "extortion" through some third party illegal immigrants that they may know here in the US. They could leverage me for cash and regalos here within the US via blackmail without too much effort, right?

The porousness of our borders makes us much more vulnerable than I would have originally imagined several years ago, and most of the girls have NO ethical convictions that would keep their designs on my bank account in check.

Take "G" for example. She knows my full name, and has my photo on her cell phone, knows the City and State where I live, etc...She knows these things not because I gave them to her. She just saw my name on my luggage tags, took my photo with her cell phone, and has certain information about me through innocent conversation, etc...

She knows even my middle initial...not because I believe she wants to harm me. I just think she likes being close to me, because we austensibly have something going between us. In my heart of hearts, I give her the benefit of the doubt, possibly at my own peril if I'm wrong. I think she is just wanting to remember who I am, to be close to me like a novio, the Gringo she is loving/screwing/etc...but it could just as easily be a smart operator setting me up.

I should be taking my own advice...Carlos always warned me about letting them know too much, and getting to close to them. He always told me never to trust them. Of course, I trust them too much. Do as he says not as I do, right?

I intellectually agree with his advice, but when the girls start to get close, they also start to wonder who they are screwing, especially if it has some meaning for them. I believe in "G's" case, it is simply a sentimentally innocent female desire to be closer to me, as one of her "chosen" boyfriends. I think she desires our relationship to be something other than she endures on a nightly basis in the privados at El Infinito, and that through knowing something about me, she feels our liasons are legitimized. But, it could just as easily be a total scam.[/QUOTE]

What the hell is this????
Iam really dissapointed to read this:
"Take "G" for example. She knows my full name, and has my photo on her cell phone, knows the City and State where I live, etc...She knows these things not because I gave them to her. She just saw my name on my luggage tags, took my photo with her cell phone, and has certain information about me through innocent conversation, etc..."
My friend, I know you trust G but you know quite well that in this day and age every bit of information can not be left to random possibilites just like that.
You have an idea of how many times the bar girls lose their phones???
You have an idea how they exchange information between themselves?
Just yesterday I got to the Infinito... one of the girls I say hello too, told me the following: "wow, "B" told me you are hot, f***g hot... and look at you, who would ever think that you had so many girlfriends, blah blah etc etc..."
I went on the spot and told my "B" girl why in hell did she tell all that to that run-of-the-mill girl... she just answered "just idle chat on the lineup".
IDLE CHAT!!!
My friend USB, I thought we already had I nice chat about that... you pretty well know how information flies within the walls of the Infi....



[QUOTE=UnospongeBob]WastedG, perhaps you are joking about bringing your "X" girl here...If so, please disreagard my comments...but,

I would think twice before bringing a Mexican bar girl to within 1000 miles of my home turf, especially your "X" girl. It sounds good on the surface, but consider the potential complications she "could" create for you, assuming of course that she has a passport, which most do not (Thank God!!!).

Angry Girl told me one time before she started acting-up that she was working for a company during the day, in addition to her "regular" night work as a stripper/bar girl. If she can be believed, she works for a company that was planning to bring her into the US in the future to provide contracted labor.

I believe she was possibly going to work on some kind of green card type of employment. She didn't really know when, or the particular details, and perhaps it was all pie in the sky, or bar girl lies, but according to her, it was some kind of inventory control job that relates to her day job now. Her story sounds very believable to me...

If a girl had told me this several years ago, I would have said she was crazy. But, with the immigration issues we have in this country now, and the lack of accountability shown by our politicians toward their obligation to enforce immigration laws. Neglecting their responsibility to legitimate legal immigrants, and because our politicians view a flood of illegal immigrants as a windfall to their voting districts, which is a totally self serving attitude that is contrary to their oaths of office, the likelihood of the girls actually coming eventually into the US legally to work is quite possible. Furthermore, the likeihood of the girls coming into the USA legally to work, and remaining illegally, could be as common a circumstance as the other 12 million illegal immigrants already in the US now.

I for one, do not particularly like the idea of any bar girl seeking me out here in the US, even if she loves me to death. I am quite pleased that the majority of them were at least formerly trapped in Mexico, where they can not do me any direct damage.

But, being of a naturally suspicous mind, all be it simulateously foolish with respect to my LOVE of Mexican bar girls, I have often wondered if some of the bar girls I am closest to might not contemplate "extortion" through some third party illegal immigrants that they may know here in the US. They could leverage me for cash and regalos here within the US via blackmail without too much effort, right?

The porousness of our borders makes us much more vulnerable than I would have originally imagined several years ago, and most of the girls have NO ethical convictions that would keep their designs on my bank account in check.

Take "G" for example. She knows my full name, and has my photo on her cell phone, knows the City and State where I live, etc...She knows these things not because I gave them to her. She just saw my name on my luggage tags, took my photo with her cell phone, and has certain information about me through innocent conversation, etc...

She knows even my middle initial...not because I believe she wants to harm me. I just think she likes being close to me, because we austensibly have something going between us. In my heart of hearts, I give her the benefit of the doubt, possibly at my own peril if I'm wrong. I think she is just wanting to remember who I am, to be close to me like a novio, the Gringo she is loving/screwing/etc...but it could just as easily be a smart operator setting me up.

I should be taking my own advice...Carlos always warned me about letting them know too much, and getting to close to them. He always told me never to trust them. Of course, I trust them too much. Do as he says not as I do, right?

I intellectually agree with his advice, but when the girls start to get close, they also start to wonder who they are screwing, especially if it has some meaning for them. I believe in "G's" case, it is simply a sentimentally innocent female desire to be closer to me, as one of her "chosen" boyfriends. I think she desires our relationship to be something other than she endures on a nightly basis in the privados at El Infinito, and that through knowing something about me, she feels our liasons are legitimized. But, it could just as easily be a total scam.[/QUOTE]

Mmmm,
"At the door, she said next time would be gratis."
I never take a gratis cause if they know that you are screwing girls from other clubs... well, that's adieu to you.
Gratis to them is you getting under their control, not the other way around.
Look at my now exgirlfriend D from the night shift at the I place.
Even if I paid her she was always angry cuase she knew I had more than one girl. Imagine if I didn't pay... I would be dead or at least nutered.



[QUOTE=Round the World]USB, I've got a ticket booked for Medellin, Colombia for May 7-10. It'll be my second trip and I be more than happy to show you the ropes, mi amigo.

Wasted, I was kidding about the Au Pair route. But it is actually a legit route. In my neighborhood, an au pair just arrived from Mexico. There are five or six licensed agencies in the US that source girls from Mexico, Thailand, Brazil etc. (hmm that is a conspicuous combination of countries isn't it?)

If you ever want to contemplate the possibilities check it out... NAAAT! It cracks me up when X says that, which she does... a lot.

As for my most recent trip, last week, I had a mixed time. The previous trip was too great (meeting the three amigos, hanging with Wasted's girls at Taboo, and meeting my Obsession girl) I should have known this would be a let down.

It wasn't a total loss however. Carlos kindly let my Obsession girl know I was coming back to town for a night and tentatively arranged another unofficial salida. I arrived ahead of schedule so Carlos picked me up and we headed to Obsession. There Carlos sat with his A girl and I with my girl. I tried to get her to stay out late, but she said she couldn't. We chatted some more, and after a while her face lit up and she said, ok she can stay out late. My plan was to take her out for dinner and maybe dancing in Barrio Antiguo per Wasted's suggestion before retreating to my hotel suite for a blissful night. We agreed on a time a place to meet and Carlos and I bid the girls adieu.

Carlos dropped me at Infinito to while away the hours until my rendezvous. I wanted to see the girls I had fun with last week. Many were there, J, X, I, P, S, etc. I didn't really want to mess around with the girls since I already had a date planned. Bu tI did want to chat. So I said hi to X, who surprisingly was nicer to me this week than she was last week. She of course said she missed Wasted (who wouldn't?) and we sat and had a couple beers. I really wanted to see her friend P, whom I think is super hot. But P had the guys lining up and I only got to chat with her briefly. Too bad, I had to run to meet my date.

We met and headed off to Barrio Antiguo and found one of the few restaurants there. Lots of clubs, but few restaurants. This was on the corner from the park separating the Barrio from the Sheraton part of town. It was decent food and had a live band. I was having fun learning about my girl, her family life, her pre-club life etc. This girl is very pretty, fantastic body, and an honest person. She's new to the club business and retains a good girl attitude. After dinner we walked back to the Sheraton and had some nice chocolate fresas that the staff had delivered to my room.

Then I called her over to the desk where my computer sat, and asked her to choose the music. As she leaned over, we kissed, then embraced, then kissed some more and then the clothes started flying. Eventually I cleared the desk and feasted on her nude form atop the desk. After maybe 30 minutes, I picked her up and carried her to the bedroom and laid her down. At this point she saw the clock and looked a little panicked and said that she had to get home to her dad in 10 minutes (12:30am). I was stunned. I had assumed we had plenty of time. I trusted her enough not to bullshit me, but this was over the top. She looked really sorry, but dressed quickly. At the door, she said next time would be gratis. I think I still had a frown on my face and kissed her goodbye.

I sat around for a while feeling the blues. Then reflexively headed out for Matehuala, Givenchy and Infinito to waste the rest of the night away. I was in a dark mood and thought of the Billy Strayhorn song, Lush Life.

Romance is mush
Stifling those who strive
I'll live a lush life
In some small dive

And there I'll be
while I rot with the rest
Of those whose lives are lonely too...

We'll see where things lead next time with girl.

RtW[/QUOTE]