Barbados

[QUOTE=Scubatoo;2285281]What is great about mongering is that you can do it in many different ways. Most guys on vacation do not have the kind of time to invest in your approach, given no certainty of outcome. Especially in Barbados, where there are so many other great things to be doing and exploring. For me, easier to get laid in one of the clubs as a sure bet. If things click with the girl, then take her out the next day or sometime during the week. Have a great day, and get laid for free. The Jamaican girls working in Barbados love the day out. That $100 I spend in the club makes the rest a bargain. Mongers like me love the thrill of the hunt. Local knowledge is always welcomed on ways to go about it given the cultural differences that exist in many destinations. Thanks for reporting your approach. It is how we all learn. By giving back valuable, current intel.[/QUOTE]I guess my boat was afloat. With my limited time on the island and a prior contacted local source quoting girls at $300- $400 USD I made my decisions not to go that route. The events of that day fit right into my scheduled time. If I would've had more time I would've played the field good. I was able to gather important intel and contacts and I was glad to share an experience that is not talked about much here.

Hey all,

This is my first time posting on this forum, but I've been reading through it as I prepared for my trip to Barbados. On the whole, I can't say that I had a good experience mongering on the island, though ymmv.

I went to Nelson St on a day visit to see what what was available, and there wasn't much. Just one freelancer on the street, and a couple of young girls in one bar along the way. Didn't get any action there.

That night, I went to Club Incognito, since my hotel was near there. Most of the girls were nice, and I had a couple of lap, but one really pushy skinny chick ruined the whole night for me. She wouldn't take no for an answer, then finally decided that I had to buy her a drink to get her to leave me alone. When I refused, she went over to the bartender and told her that I was buying her a drink, and stuck me with a $15 bill. After a brief argument with management, I ended up paying it, but left shortly after. I had been debating about which of two girls I was going to fuck, but after that incident, I didn't want to give the club any more of my money.

After that, I went over to Club Tease, which I never would have found without this guide. The girls were nicer looking than Incognito, and more laid back as well. Had a few dances, but didn't fuck any of the girls there.

I think the island isn't suited to my style as a monger. I prefer the setups in SXM and Aruba, especially since I can easily get some daytime action from any number of places on the cheap. If those places stocked Jamaican and Bajan girls in addition to Colombians, I'd be in heaven.

Thanks for sharing your experience. I've never been to Barbados, but I think all of us, at one time of another have fallen prey to the "he bought me a drink" scam and you end up getting sucked in to paying for it. Another poster over on the SXM thread had a similar experience at a club there so don't feel too bad about it. Some general drinking rules I follow are pay as you go, first and foremost. Never let the bartender start a tab for you. Stay clear of mixed drinks. Beers are usually you're least expensive cocktail. If you're not a beer drinker, order a water. Next, distance yourself from the bar. Sit away from it after you've purchased your cocktail. If a chica approaches you, and you are attracted to her and want to buy her a drink, ask her what she wants, get up, take your drink in hand, tell her to wait at the table and you go get her a drink and replenish your beer. And I'm not shy asking how much the chica's drink is going to be. Most of the cihicas on the up and up just drink water since they don't wan't to be gorda! And they want to keep their wits about them. Those you build a rapport with and take back for a session may want a cocktail to relax and enjoy the moment. If I sense a scam going on, I'll finish my beer and put it on the bar and walk out of the place, or return with just my beer and give the chica some excuse like, necisito visitar el banco para mas dinero. And that I'll be back. Remember, you can scam a chica, just using reverse tactics, just as easily as she's trying to hustle you, if you sense all she's looking for is to get a cut out of that fifteen dollar bill. If the chica net's ten bucks from that deal and pulls that crap with 5 guys in an hour, she's making almost room rent for the day, without even laying on her back.

In your case, I would have put two dollars on the bar, and told management, all you were going to do was buy her a water and if there was a problem, YOU will get the police. Sure the bar wouldn't want cops hanging around which would kill business, and you probably would have been on your merry way. But basically not welcome back during your stay.

I know you're on vacation and everyone likes to have a good time and not be overly vigilant, especially over something as harmless as buying a girl a drink, but it's a shitty feeling knowing you've been taken to the cleaners when your clothes weren't dirty! LOL!

[QUOTE=Dendawga417;2285772]Hey all,

This is my first time posting on this forum, but I've been reading through it as I prepared for my trip to Barbados. On the whole, I can't say that I had a good experience mongering on the island, though ymmv.

I went to Nelson St on a day visit to see what what was available, and there wasn't much. Just one freelancer on the street, and a couple of young girls in one bar along the way. Didn't get any action there.

That night, I went to Club Incognito, since my hotel was near there..[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Dendawga417;2285772]Hey all,

This is my first time posting on this forum, but I've been reading through it as I prepared for my trip to Barbados. On the whole, I can't say that I had a good experience mongering on the island, though ymmv.

I went to Nelson St on a day visit to see what what was available, and there wasn't much. Just one freelancer on the street, and a couple of young girls in one bar along the way. Didn't get any action there.

That night, I went to Club Incognito, since my hotel was near there. Most of the girls were nice, and I had a couple of lap, but one really pushy skinny chick ruined the whole night for me. She wouldn't take no for an answer, then finally decided that I had to buy her a drink to get her to leave me alone. When I refused, she went over to the bartender and told her that I was buying her a drink, and stuck me with a $15 bill. After a brief argument with management, I ended up paying it, but left shortly after. I had been debating about which of two girls I was going to fuck, but after that incident, I didn't want to give the club any more of my money.

After that, I went over to Club Tease, which I never would have found without this guide. The girls were nicer looking than Incognito, and more laid back as well. Had a few dances, but didn't fuck any of the girls there.

I think the island isn't suited to my style as a monger. I prefer the setups in SXM and Aruba, especially since I can easily get some daytime action from any number of places on the cheap. If those places stocked Jamaican and Bajan girls in addition to Colombians, I'd be in heaven.[/QUOTE]SXM and Curacao (Campo) are good mongering spots day or night. Prices are reasonable. Campo is about $30 USD for a sexy chica. I like the set up there. We probably have some similar mongering styles. No need to pay those over rated, over the top prices.

[QUOTE=Dendawga417;2285772]Hey all,

This is my first time posting on this forum, but I've been reading through it as I prepared for my trip to Barbados. On the whole, I can't say that I had a good experience mongering on the island, though ymmv.

I went to Nelson St on a day visit to see what what was available, and there wasn't much. Just one freelancer on the street, and a couple of young girls in one bar along the way. Didn't get any action there.

That night, I went to Club Incognito, since my hotel was near there. Most of the girls were nice, and I had a couple of lap, but one really pushy skinny chick ruined the whole night for me. She wouldn't take no for an answer, then finally decided that I had to buy her a drink to get her to leave me alone. When I refused, she went over to the bartender and told her that I was buying her a drink, and stuck me with a $15 bill. After a brief argument with management, I ended up paying it, but left shortly after. I had been debating about which of two girls I was going to fuck, but after that incident, I didn't want to give the club any more of my money.

After that, I went over to Club Tease, which I never would have found without this guide. The girls were nicer looking than Incognito, and more laid back as well. Had a few dances, but didn't fuck any of the girls there.

I think the island isn't suited to my style as a monger. I prefer the setups in SXM and Aruba, especially since I can easily get some daytime action from any number of places on the cheap. If those places stocked Jamaican and Bajan girls in addition to Colombians, I'd be in heaven.[/QUOTE]I have been to Barbados many times. I have NEVER gone to Nelson St. , so that should tell you something. As for the clubs, you need better game. There are at least 25 girls in each of the clubs you visited, many of whom are quite attractive. If you sit waiting for the girl of your choice to come over to you, you will often be left dry. Approach, approach, approach. Whenever I have a girl come up to me that does not interest me, I ask her if she has girlfriends in the club (they always do) and then ask her to introduce them to you (they always do). Then you can engage them in conversation and get yourself distracted to one of the other girls. Works every time. And never allow a club to saddle you with a drink charge you did not order or agree to. Stand firm. I actually prefer sitting at the bar. I know the more popular girls circulate there frequently, and you get to peruse the club while engaging in conversation with one or more of the girls at the bar. If I am buying a drink, I always control the interaction with the bartender. Either I order it, or have the girl order it in my presence. As to daytime action, if you read my previous posts, you know there is no daytime action in any of the clubs in Barbados.

Having been to SXM many times, and to Aruba, they are clearly different setups. I love the daytime options at both. But the clubs open during the day in SXM can be quite crowded on days when there are multiple cruise ships in port. So my strategy of sitting at the bar, and approach, approach, approach holds true there as well. In SN in Aruba, the daytime action is completely different than Barbados and SXM. You wander by foot, or cruise by car, the side streets or backstreets of SN during the day where the girls sit or stand by the entrance to their apartments. For the most part, the street are deserted except for the girls and occasional monger. Strike a deal and head inside.

So those reading this post should realize the differences in all three of these destinations. Personally, I have had great times at all three. But your mongering game has to adjust to the location. Daytime v. Nighttime. Colombian or Dominican v. Jamaican or Bajan. Bar or apartment. Spanish speaking v. English speaking. Take your pick or enjoy it all.

This is a very accurate report. Daytime action at SN is the best. El Campo in Curacao offers similar.

[QUOTE=Scubatoo;2286803]I have been to Barbados many times. I have NEVER gone to Nelson St. , so that should tell you something. As for the clubs, you need better game. There are at least 25 girls in each of the clubs you visited, many of whom are quite attractive. If you sit waiting for the girl of your choice to come over to you, you will often be left dry. Approach, approach, approach. Whenever I have a girl come up to me that does not interest me, I ask her if she has girlfriends in the club (they always do) and then ask her to introduce them to you (they always do). Then you can engage them in conversation and get yourself distracted to one of the other girls. Works every time. And never allow a club to saddle you with a drink charge you did not order or agree to. Stand firm. I actually prefer sitting at the bar. I know the more popular girls circulate there frequently, and you get to peruse the club while engaging in conversation with one or more of the girls at the bar. If I am buying a drink, I always control the interaction with the bartender. Either I order it, or have the girl order it in my presence. As to daytime action, if you read my previous posts, you know there is no daytime action in any of the clubs in Barbados.

Having been to SXM many times, and to Aruba, they are clearly different setups. I love the daytime options at both. But the clubs open during the day in SXM can be quite crowded on days when there are multiple cruise ships in port. So my strategy of sitting at the bar, and approach, approach, approach holds true there as well. In SN in Aruba, the daytime action is completely different than Barbados and SXM. You wander by foot, or cruise by car, the side streets or backstreets of SN during the day where the girls sit or stand by the entrance to their apartments. For the most part, the street are deserted except for the girls and occasional monger. Strike a deal and head inside.

So those reading this post should realize the differences in all three of these destinations. Personally, I have had great times at all three. But your mongering game has to adjust to the location. Daytime v. Nighttime. Colombian or Dominican v. Jamaican or Bajan. Bar or apartment. Spanish speaking v. English speaking. Take your pick or enjoy it all.[/QUOTE]

I'm going to book a flight somewhere at the end of the month for my first trip as a hobbyist. I'd previously decided on Barbados because of the three late night clubs described here and the slim English speaking girls. I've skimmed through the thread and I'm having a bit of cold feet. I just want to make sure about the prices. I'm willing to pay 50-100 but not too much above that. Otherwise perhaps Curacao or St. Maarten is a better choice. I don't speak any Spanish, so I'm afraid of getting less service with the language barrier. Also, I like GFE style with DFK and DATY. Maybe I can get that with a little extra cash on top in Barbados?

Also, I looked at the website for the massage parlor mentioned ITT and those girls are quite large! I am not into the wide hips and ass. I'm hoping the descriptions of the tall slim black women are accurate.

So before I pull the trigger on this flight + Airbnb, I was hoping to get some advice to assure myself that I'm making the right choice. I will post details of my adventures and discoveries. If I choose Barbados, I will certainly do my best to gain some more intel about opportunities on the island. I plan to go away for 3 weeks, so I will have a lot of time to do research.

Also, any recommendations for areas to stay? I will be renting a car. Thanks!

[QUOTE=SexMajik;2307544]I'm going to book a flight somewhere at the end of the month for my first trip as a hobbyist. I'd previously decided on Barbados because of the three late night clubs described here and the slim English speaking girls. I've skimmed through the thread and I'm having a bit of cold feet...[/QUOTE]Having grown up there (admittedly, when it was still in the Empire), I would say it is not a mongering destination. Local girls are heavy, black and church going. Same goes for St Vincent, St. Lucia, the'ca. Any real working girls you find there will not be local. More likely Venezuelans or from the DR. Trinidad used to be famous for dougla gals (Indian mothers / black fathers) but they're all fat now, too.

[QUOTE=SexMajik;2307544]I'm going to book a flight somewhere at the end of the month for my first trip as a hobbyist. I'd previously decided on Barbados because of the three late night clubs described here and the slim English speaking girls. I've skimmed through the thread and I'm having a bit of cold feet. I just want to make sure about the prices. I'm willing to pay 50-100 but not too much above that. Otherwise perhaps Curacao or St. Maarten is a better choice. I don't speak any Spanish, so I'm afraid of getting less service with the language barrier. Also, I like GFE style with DFK and DATY. Maybe I can get that with a little extra cash on top in Barbados?

Also, I looked at the website for the massage parlor mentioned ITT and those girls are quite large! I am not into the wide hips and ass. I'm hoping the descriptions of the tall slim black women are accurate.

So before I pull the trigger on this flight + Airbnb, I was hoping to get some advice to assure myself that I'm making the right choice. I will post details of my adventures and discoveries. If I choose Barbados, I will certainly do my best to gain some more intel about opportunities on the island. I plan to go away for 3 weeks, so I will have a lot of time to do research.

Also, any recommendations for areas to stay? I will be renting a car. Thanks![/QUOTE]Almost all the girls in the three clubs I mentioned were Jamaican. With a few Bajan girls mixed in. Unlike the clubs in St. Maarten, when you take the girls "in the back", you will find yourself in a room with a padded table. You negotiate the price with the girl, and she takes care of the house fee whatever that is. You will find girls of many different sizes, from tall with slender hips, to shorter with some junk in the trunk. The prices are completely negotiable, so don't assume one price fits all. Just hold out and you will likely get your price. The Jamaican girls are lovely women to be with. But the back room is not a real intimate setting. Set the tone by chatting them up before you go back.

The clubs in St. Maarten are different. This year, there is a majority of Colombian women, and some DR girls in certain clubs. The rooms in St. Maarten are bedrooms, with bath. Usually air conditioned. You pay a room key charge of $5-10 for 20-30 minutes. The girls usually get $50 for the session. The Colombian women are fabulous lovers. And if you have chemistry, the session can be awesome. The DR girls have a bit of attitude at first, but are easily tamable in the room. I think it is more a cultural thing. Take an alpha dog attitude, take control, and the rest falls in place. They are less GFE, but you can shake the concrete walls with the action in the room. The Colombian girls all have some junk in the trunk. The DR girls run the range similar to the Jamaican girls.

In Barbados, the girls live outside the clubs. And those clubs are only open late at night. The girls are free all day, and love a day out. I routinely take these girls out for lunch or early dinner, a day at the beach, or some errand running. I have never paid for that, although some might ask for a donation. In St. Maarten, the girls live at the clubs. They have strict requirements of when they can leave the club and you will pay a "bar fine" to take them out, with a set time to return them. This is generally around $70. The girls generally are looking for $250-400 to spend the day with you. Again, this is completely negotiable. I look at that fee and think I can have 5-8 sessions in the clubs for that, and the sex will be better. But if you have chemistry, I have taken several out for the day or evening without paying anything, simply because the girl wants to be with me and wants to feel "normal" for all or part of a day. So it costs you a lunch or dinner, or perhaps some groceries or some necessary garments.

Finally, Barbados is an expensive island. St. Maarten relatively inexpensive. So take that into consideration. Personally, I love the looks and personalities of all these different girls. The Colombian girls range from light skin to very dark. DR girls caramel to very dark. And the Jamaican girls dark to very dark. The cultural differences are easily discarded after you get to know them. And I would opt for St. Maarten as a great deal in all respects, if money is the overriding issue. Barbados has, in my opinion, become a great place to visit with very decent mongering available. This has evolved over the last several years. Adjusting to the late night clubs in Barbados can be challenging. Clubs get under way around 10 or 11 pm And go til 4 or 5 am In St. Maarten, several clubs open around noon til 4 pm (to cater to cruise ship passengers / crew), and again at 8/9 pm. Til 2-3 am So finding something that works for your schedule is much easier.

As I have not been to Curacao, I cannot comment, but it is a Dutch island with similar pricing as St. Maarten.

[QUOTE=JohnClayton;2307666]Having grown up there (admittedly, when it was still in the Empire), I would say it is not a mongering destination. Local girls are heavy, black and church going. Same goes for St Vincent, St. Lucia, the'ca. Any real working girls you find there will not be local. More likely Venezuelans or from the DR. Trinidad used to be famous for dougla gals (Indian mothers / black fathers) but they're all fat now, too.[/QUOTE]No offense, but those days are no longer the norm. The girls in the clubs are almost all Jamaican. There are a few local Bajan girls. The ones I met were tall and very slender. I have been to Barbados a dozen times over the last 15 years, where mongering has gone from very difficult to very easy. Are there easier places to monger in the Caribbean? Yes, the Dutch islands of St. Maarten, Aruba and Curacao, and also in the DR. Barbados is a great island with great beaches, snorkeling and diving, great restaurants, etc. So come to Barbados for the wide range of activities, but know that you can have a great time in some of the clubs there.

Thanks Scubatoo, that helps a lot. Can you tell me what kinds of prices the girls of Barbados are quoting? Haggling over money is not my strong suit, so if they want 200 and I have to talk them down to 150, I'll probably head to St. Maarten. If they want 100 and I counter with 70, then I suppose I'll give Barbados a try. Being able to speak English is a big advantage, plus being able to spend the day with them at no charge.

[QUOTE=SexMajik;2307995]Thanks Scubatoo, that helps a lot. Can you tell me what kinds of prices the girls of Barbados are quoting? Haggling over money is not my strong suit, so if they want 200 and I have to talk them down to 150, I'll probably head to St. Maarten. If they want 100 and I counter with 70, then I suppose I'll give Barbados a try. Being able to speak English is a big advantage, plus being able to spend the day with them at no charge.[/QUOTE]Barbados is basically $2 Barbados = $1 US. You may hear them say 300-400 BD. Stick to 200 BD, and throw in 50 BD for the room. Several years ago when mongering was difficult, $200 US was a going rate. Not now, but you never know what you might be able to pull off when the girls are looking for cash in hand. Can you get it for $70? Maybe, but given the session may go 30-60 minutes, you are really pushing it. Supply and demand. Always more girls than guys in the clubs. And locals are not known for shelling out the bucks for FS in the back. So buyers market. I might add that lap dances are only $10, and pretty much anything goes in the back except fucking them on the chair. For $40-50 US, you can have a lot of fun with lap dances for a long time. This too, you arrange with the girl and feel free to negotiate the time.

The day out in Barbados requires you to come with game and schmooz, and likely invest a night or two at the club establishing a rapport.

As for English, all the girls in Barbados are English speaking. In St. Maarten, some do not speak any English or limited. But Google Translate works really well in communicating. Also, all the girls in Barbados and St. Maarten use WhatsApp. Exchange numbers with the girls you are interested in, and start texting after you leave the club. Use Google Translate to convert English to Spanish. Then cut and paste into WhatsApp. When you receive a Spanish message in WhatsApp, simply tap on the message and Google Translate will appear. Tap on it for interpretation. Or cut and paste the message into GT.

Hi guys haven't posted in awhile, but SCUBA seems to be keeping things active.

I haven't had much time recently to check out the scene but I am going to do so over the next few weeks and come back with a comprehensive report.

Looks like you guys that stopped by this year had a good time, Glad to hear that, anyone can give me a shout when they are in the land, also Looking to head to Dominica, st Vincent and Guyana before the end of year so look out for those posts as well.

We will catch up soon!

Peace!

[QUOTE=TerryBabb;2325672]Hi guys haven't posted in awhile, but SCUBA seems to be keeping things active.

I haven't had much time recently to check out the scene but I am going to do so over the next few weeks and come back with a comprehensive report.

Looks like you guys that stopped by this year had a good time, Glad to hear that, anyone can give me a shout when they are in the land, also Looking to head to Dominica, st Vincent and Guyana before the end of year so look out for those posts as well.

We will catch up soon!

Peace![/QUOTE]Hey, TB, still waiting to see that comprehensive report. What have you discovered in the last few months? Thanks.

[QUOTE=Scubatoo;2362025]Hey, TB, still waiting to see that comprehensive report. What have you discovered in the last few months? Thanks.[/QUOTE]Hey Scuba,

LOL yea My mongering has been reduced because of some new projects I've been into, so time has been short.

Things will change at the end of September for me and will free up some time at lease in the short term.

So Bare with me, I will get to that Report in October sometime, but int he meantime we need to Welcome Other contributors.

In the interim what I can tell you is that the island is full of Jamaican and Guyanese Providers, in the Strip clubs and in "brothels" the ratio is about 70%Jamaican 20%Guyanese 10%Barbadian.

But WE are going to loose many of the Jamaicans soon as word is getting around that money is scare in Barbados so they heading to places like BVI, Antigua and st kitts.

Hope this helps folks.

But will let you know as more comes to hand.

Peace