Terrible but great experience dating a massage girl.
An experience I rarely see discussed here, so I can finally contribute something new! .
I don't live in Dubai, but I do travel here quite a lot for work. As I hate sitting alone in my airbnb or hotel, I tend to monger a bit. I don't feel to confident to go to club alone, so I stick to AMP's and the odd massage republic girl.
Since this summer I have been in Dubai every second month. I have been going a certain girl in a massage place. Ended up seeing her every day when I'm Dubai. She's very beautiful with the most amazing ass. We really seemed to click.
This girl is so my type, it's ridiculous. I have very specific taste and she's a perfect 10 for me. Chef's kiss! So beautiful, such a great smile. That figure, that ass. I could watch her sleep (and I did) for hours.
After many (many, many) visits I ask her out through WhatsApp while at the airport leaving Dubai. To my surprise she accepts. I want to make clear that this is a very good looking and very popular girl. Girl works a lot. She has many fans.
We set a date one month later. During this month we chat every single day and send each other (descent!) pictures. The tone is light, very flirty and funny.
Then the date is coming up. I travel to Dubai only for her and only for 1 day. And she knows this. The date does not involve money.
This is the deal:
I arrive on a Tuesday evening, we meet on Wednesday, and my flight back is Thursday morning. Our date is only 1 day. She takes a day off at work for this, which she never does.
Anyway, our chatting gets very intensive the day before the date. When my flight arrives late in the evening (1 am), I arrive in Dubai and tell her that she should stay at my place tonight. I will pick her up at her place. She needed some convincing, but seems exited and finally agrees. She actually seems nervous by this. Taxi takes her to her place and she pops out and goes with me. We check in at the hotel around 2 am in the morning.
We talk a bit, hug a bit and I notice she is extremely wet. But really, I don't think I have every seen a woman so wet. She was dripping to her knees just from me hugging and caressing her back. Shocked and happy, we have the most amazing and intimate sex. Unprotected sex. (Stupid, I know. But I did get tested before the trip (she knew. Long story. About blood donation) and she has her emirates ID and claims was tested as well. She does not work at a FS place. Please don't tell me it's stupid. I really know this. It won't happen again.
So, this was a great start.
In the morning, we have sex again. Her mood is good. We go for lunch. She seems fine. Afternoon we go on a dubai safari and I can see her getting somewhat annoyed. (In hindsight, I think she's starting to count in her mind that she could be earning money instead of being with me). In the evening, her mood turns good again and we really have some great sex at the hotel. But seriously, girl has skills. Some of the best sex in my life.
She does not work at a FS place, but I have a feeling she did before her current job. Her skill is on point.
In the morning, we fuck again. Funny thing is that when I come in her, she just lays still for 20 minutes. I get the impression she does this so it doesn't leak anymore and she goes to work (without a shower! After this. This girl is super clean and very very hygienic, but this was a rare exception from her. The next guy must have a salty oral. I made a large deposit in there.
After that we say our goodbyes, and I have my flight home.
On WhatsApp we already set our next date and she seems to want me to come again ASAP.
However, the day after I land she suddenly turns cold. Tells me this chatting on WhatsApp makes it difficult for her to focus on her work. Suddenly I get a text saying Chinese newyear comes up and I need to send some money to her family. I call her and she asks for 20 K. Don't think about it she says, pay it if you care for me.
Of course I refuse and got dumped shortly after that.
So, this is all very odd to me.
I don't understand why she chat with me a month before the date. She invests a lot of time in it. It felt so natural, and fun. Only to ask for an unrealistic amount of money the day after our date. I was gutted and a bit depressed for a couple of weeks but now almost over her. She ghosted me on WhatsApp, which I really hate. On the other hand, there is nothing left to say. So, it is for the best.
I still find it very difficult to believe she had no feelings for me. I had strong feelings for her, but wasn't madly in love. I do pay attention to details and I would think I can tell when somebody is faking emotions. I don't know what to think of it. She has revealed many personal informations about herself. Stuff that is personal. That one month before the date was really nice for the both of us.
However, when it looks like a scam, and when it behaves like a scam, then it's probably a scam. So maybe I was a target after all? She claims, in Dubai, dating always involves money.
Girl: Please don't ask or try to find our. I won't reveal her name. She is never mentioned on this board.
Cost: airline ticket + hotel + safari + lunch.
Worth it? Actually yes. Loved the sex. It was nuts. Worth the money. Just hated the immediate breakup. Really liked her. I think she's amazing (which is stupid of me.).
WIR? I guess not.