Never Settle in Life | Do not be a White Knight | Part One
This post is for our lads on the Forum. I hope it will help you see a few things in a new light. I decided to post this after having a rather long and protracted conversation with a very disheartened lad in SL. He was 27.
So, I thought I'the share this perspective just in case others have faced this issue. Hope it gets posted.
The beginning. Do Not become a Captain Save-a-ho or a White Knight!
Every 5 or 6 years, you will meet an Amazing Woman, who blows your mind in every way and form. Now, I'm not talking about a woman that is just hot and just piques your interest, No! I am talking about a woman that gives you butterflies in your stomach, your hands shake every time she walks into a room and you are left vulnerable, speechless; that kind of attraction, and to you she is the most beautiful woman you have ever seen, and you know when you eventually kiss her and make love, it will be an earth shattering out of body experience! That kind of instant attraction! Most often than not, you will only get one shot and one shot only; because there are a million other men who are better looking, smarter and faster than you waiting in the wings to unseat you, take her from you, and she too has learned to weed out the losers, low value men, lunatics and other undesirables in a matter of seconds from a life time of being pursued by men!
90% of the men out there, most men, who are not centred, will self-sabotage this opportunity and completely implode, destroying attraction, become disoriented, act like clowns, over pursue, or end up being friend zoned or worse, thereby destroying any chance they had, because they are programmed to completely screw up (Acting like a White Knight due to TV, Movies, advice from Lady friends, the whole kitten caboodle! Because they have no clue how to handle it and usually men like these, deep down, believe that they never had a chance and that it was too good to be true! In the end they end up settling for a woman who is much easier, safer but doesn't make them feel an ounce of what the high value woman made them feel! You will meet more than one high value woman in your life time, Never Settle for anything less!
If the Black Knight wishes to capture the White Queen, he must work on himself, become centred in his masculinity, and learn what to do when he encounters the woman of his dreams (I will continue this point and deal with what to do when you meet her in another post), you most often than not, get only one chance, to make her fall. If you listen to what we teach, you will have a head start on your competition, you will have a chance to become a warrior, and she will eat out of the palm of your hand. That is a promise. Learn now, we have, through years of experience! We were not born this way, we were made. Like moulding glass in fire. Put in the work and watch everything in your life change!
No. 01. In Life, Never Settle.
Silence your negative self-talk.
When we encounter someone who is pushing their boundaries and passionately pursuing their life goals, while we ourselves may not be fully realizing our own potential, it can make us uncomfortable. This discomfort arises from the reflection of our own stagnation and lack of progress. In such situations, it's common for the average person to react by projecting their own insecurities onto the other person, attempting to persuade them to settle for a more conventional and "realistic" path in life. They might say something like, "You should be more practical about your ambitions. ".
Many gentlemen around the world settle for lives beneath their true potential. They often enter relationships with "safe" partners, avoiding emotional risk because they lack genuine interest or ability owing to a negative mindset. Additionally, they may cling to relationships that should end due to fear of not finding someone better.
To truly love, respect, and value yourself, it's important to refuse to tolerate complacency in yourself, potential partners, friends, or business associates. This means setting high standards for yourself, the people and opportunities you allow into your life, and not settling for less than you deserve. It involves recognizing your own worth and being willing to walk away from situations or people who don't align with your values or goals. Ultimately, fostering self-confidence, self-esteem, and self-respect can empower a man to make choices that lead to a more fulfilling and satisfying life, free from the limitations of settling for less.
People who habitually settle often deceive both themselves and others to maintain their illusion. To break free from these people and situations and shield yourself from being dragged back into mediocrity, personal inner strength is essential coupled with a strong positive mind set. You can cultivate this.
I always advise young lads to keep pushing their boundaries, I have often seen many young men settling for Partners or a life less than themselves because they have been hurt by women who they believe to be higher in stature than themselves, and have developed a phobia towards beautiful, intelligent, and strong women. However, never lose faith in yourself no matter how much pain you endure. Keep on pursuing, you will eventually conquer high value women, who have brains, beauty the works. To do this you must master your strength, build a winning mindset, because your mindset is the key to crushing those self-doubting voices that live within you telling you that you are not good enough, you are not smart enough, you are not good looking enough, and that you are "not enough. " You must silence that self-doubt and you must silence those negative voices sitting at the back of your mind, and whispering sweet lies in your ear.
Negative self-talk is an actual problem, some people don't realize that they do it, it becomes habitual, and then your life begins to start attracting negative energy and negative things and you eventually fail to achieve a much higher standard of life. Start by actively doing the opposite, start telling yourself that you are a high value man, tell yourself the opposite of what your negative self speaks of. When the negative voices turn into positive ones, you will suddenly find things changing for the better. If you want to attract stunning women – start here!
No. 2 Be Proactive – Be Abundant.
Sitting on your couch on a dating app or playing video games or idling will not get a stunning woman to come banging on your door. You have to get out there make friends, find a hobby, meet people, hang out socially with other likeminded people, then you'll strike gold. This type of socialising will help you meet amazing women who will blow your mind and is just a side effect of your full life. If your mind is open and you have an abundant mind set, you will never want for anything including love.
What is an abundant mindset?
In short, it is a mindset that enables you to achieve positive thinking and a can-do attitude and results in a lack of fear which drives you to challenge yourself and motivate yourself from the inside out! Men who adopt an abundant mindset, rarely settle, and rarely lose what they aim for! You must invest in your life and your life's purpose, it will drive you, and inspire you to reach for the stars! When you meet the woman of your dreams, you will be ready! Follow this lead. You won't ever regret it!
Hope someone found this useful!
Cheers my brothers!
