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[QUOTE=AmRev2017;2793450]I don't want anything longterm with them. No point of giving anyone false hopes.
Cheers!![/QUOTE]Fair enough. A lot are happy to have someone spend some time and money on them in return for sex and are under no illusions about the nature of the relationship. But as the other poster said, they will still get sticky and it can be diffcult.
[QUOTE=AmRev2017;2793450]I don't want anything longterm with them. No point of giving anyone false hopes.
Cheers!![/QUOTE]From the first comms be direct and upfront. Be tactful though, 'just need a companion' is probably a more accepted line.
[QUOTE=Mdacoltpk100;2793294]Bruv, hit social media and you will have a Filli within 30 days. If you're married then they are a pain to keep away form the fam but if you're single or have a safe place to party, then its all systems go.
Just be prepared for tons of interest in your life / phone / future and loads of possesiveness.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the tip. Which is social media is the best? Tinder? Instagram? Facebook? Other?
[QUOTE=Nickc;2793133]
Saw a stunning Indian Girl walking down Al Rolla in the afternoon. It was love at first sight ) thus i'm going to check out the Indian Clubs on Al Rolla. 'Stayin Alive' Club for starters. Stayed a night at Raintree Rolla Hotel just opposite Stayin Alive. Cheap Hotel but good big rooms. It has a little foyer bar with girls within. Girls approached me in the lift. And later i got phone calls asking if i wanted in-room massage. Not sure what the Hotel rules are as i was just with In-House. Its a pity there's really no Daytime Clubs anymore like Jockeys use to be. Use to get all sorts there and great relaxed fun. I always like the Early Bird.
Ta Nickc
Cheers Nickc[/QUOTE]Is Stayin Alive still open? Thought it had closed during Covid? While always downmarket, was a time (like 20 years ago) when it actually had a good atmosphere and you could find a diamond in the rough, but it had gone into a real downward death spiral and I hadn't been there for years. Be interested to hear what it's like now if actually open.
The only 1/2 early bar I'm aware of is Mint, but it's not really an afternoon place, more early evening. Anyone got any idea where the girls go in the afternoon now? Must be somewhere.
Speedo.
[QUOTE=SpeedoGhost;2794138]Is Stayin Alive still open? Thought it had closed during Covid? While always downmarket, was a time (like 20 years ago) when it actually had a good atmosphere and you could find a diamond in the rough, but it had gone into a real downward death spiral and I hadn't been there for years. Be interested to hear what it's like now if actually open.
The only 1/2 early bar I'm aware of is Mint, but it's not really an afternoon place, more early evening. Anyone got any idea where the girls go in the afternoon now? Must be somewhere.
Speedo.[/QUOTE]Hi Speedo).
Thanks for info on Mint, early evening sounds pretty good to me.
Sometimes I go to Moscow round 7 pm and have seen girls in the Piano bar and outside cafe area. Like wise Capitol Hotel has their rooftop club and pool that can start early but that can be hit and miss at that hour. I always liked how at Jockeys Bar, Paranormal Hotel you could meet some good girls at 2 pm. 'Afternoon Delights' as we called them.
Yep Stayin Alive still appears open, sign outside and I often see the girls arriving and leaving as I stroll most evenings down Al Rolla. I shall visit again soon. [URL]https://www.facebook.com/stayinalivenightclub[/URL] If you scroll down their Vids they get interesting.
Like most Clubs they've had ups and downs, like Premier is currently experiencing. Sometimes they swing back up again, hopefully Premier will to). Some years back I found a diamond in the rough at Staying Alive. In a Country of over 600 Million females some diamonds are to be found).
Ta Nickc.
Hi folks,
I know this does not seem to be the right thing to post here as to never mix mongering and dating, but recently I visited a masseuse at an MP and I am throughly smitten by her looks and the way she spoke to me during our encounter. It was a complete GFE and like talking to a long time friend. I exchanged digits with this girl on leaving the MP and tried texting her as the days passed but I see there is definitely a lack of interest from her side after I was out the door. When she does reply, I get responses like "I'm busy" 'the net on my phone is not working properly" bla bla bla. I know she works very long hours, 7 days a week with no days off except for the occasional leave now and then as per the management policy of her establishment. When I asked if I could have her IG account. She told me she does not have one which I feel is a fib.
Any idea how to get over this WG? I even feel the urge to visit her at the MP and offering her money without taking any extras in the hope of her seeing me as something different as most WG's think men see them in the light of sex objects She is very attractive and instead of dick taking over the mind of mongers at times. In this case the heart as taken over in my case.
Hopefully time heals everything, but some words of encouragement and advice from experienced fellow mongers like you all would give me some sense of direction.
Thanks!
My whole life is in mess as I after 15 years of mongering fell for a girl from Iran.
Have spent lot of money, gift, when I see something I just want to buy for her.
She don't care, just say thank you baby and move on.
Am shattered. Before that I never tried same girl twice.
Just stop now if you can. I too should hit it's hard, it's been one year.
[QUOTE=KittyLover;2794297]Hi folks,
I know this does not seem to be the right thing to post here as to never mix mongering and dating, but recently I visited a masseuse at an MP and I am throughly smitten by her looks and the way she spoke to me during our encounter. It was a complete GFE and like talking to a long time friend. I exchanged digits with this girl on leaving the MP and tried texting her as the days passed but I see there is definitely a lack of interest from her side after I was out the door. When she does reply, I get responses like "I'm busy" 'the net on my phone is not working properly" bla bla bla. I know she works very long hours, 7 days a week with no days off except for the occasional leave now and then as per the management policy of her establishment. When I asked if I could have her IG account. She told me she does not have one which I feel is a fib.
Any idea how to get over this WG? I even feel the urge to visit her at the MP and offering her money without taking any extras in the hope of her seeing me as something different as most WG's think men see them in the light of sex objects She is very attractive and instead of dick taking over the mind of mongers at times. In this case the heart as taken over in my case.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=KittyLover;2794297]Hi folks,
I know this does not seem to be the right thing to post here as to never mix mongering and dating, but recently I visited a masseuse at an MP and I am throughly smitten by her looks and the way she spoke to me during our encounter. [/QUOTE]I honestly took this to be a trolling attempt and wasn't going to bit. The OP as per one of his posts lived in India up until a month ago. How can you move to another country, and fall for someone from an AMP in such a short period of time, it took me longer to unpack. Not to mention that the same cry for help was posted a few days ago in another forum.
But I'll take a leaf from BobHowardUS book and treat your post as genuine (I know am an old cynic). What you need to do is sever the connection completely. Delete her number, don't set a foot in that establishment, and even take a break from mongering. Even when you return to the hobby, learn your personality flaws (we all have different ones) and consciously take steps to be in control of your weaker points (the strong points take care of themselves).
[QUOTE=KittyLover;2794297]Hi folks,
Any idea how to get over this WG? I even feel the urge to visit her at the MP and offering her money without taking any extras in the hope of her seeing me as something different as most WG's think men see them in the light of sex objects She is very attractive and instead of dick taking over the mind of mongers at times. In this case the heart as taken over in my case.
[/QUOTE]This is a very common psychological phenomenon commonly called Infatuation. You are not in "Love" with the girl as such, just attracted and attached to one aspect of her personality and behavior. This attraction, while seems very strong is all in your mind.
I had personally gone through it sometime back. The one thing I did, looked at it from a third-person perspective. Like looking at myself behaving like this. And then wondering how should I help this guy. What I did was, put on some videos on YouTube explaining the term Infatuation. It might sound stupid, but trust me, hearing it from a professional voice makes a lot of difference.
They explain very clearly that we get attached to one aspect of the person and imagine that the person will behave like that always, but in reality, that person might have some habits which you might find appalling. And that's the fact of life.
Secondly, you have to physically distance yourself from that person, and delete the phone number. Don't look at any pics (WhatsApp status or Instagram) and try to make any contact.
It will be tough initially, but as you find some other "activity" to keep you busy, you will get over it.
Don't waste your money on some girl who doesn't want to be with you. Save it for the one who does.
Cheers!!
[QUOTE=KittyLover;2794297]Any idea how to get over this WG? I even feel the urge to visit her at the MP and offering her money without taking any extras in the hope of her seeing me as something different as most WG's think men see them in the light of sex objects She is very attractive and instead of dick taking over the mind of mongers at times. In this case the heart as taken over in my case.
Hopefully time heals everything, but some words of encouragement and advice from experienced fellow mongers like you all would give me some sense of direction.[/QUOTE]Don't confuse loneliness with love. And no, money would not change anything because she probably ignore you if some pays more which happens all the time.
[QUOTE=KittyLover;2794297] Hopefully time heals everything, but some words of encouragement and advice from experienced fellow mongers like you all would give me some sense of direction.
Thanks![/QUOTE]Doesn't sound like she's interested so it shouldn't make "moving on" difficult because there's nothing to really move on from. Also these girls don't care about the gifts or more money you give them it's not going to make them like you more. If a girl ever really likes you they will like you for you and not all that other stuff. I've literally been with wgs and they tell me about the guys who love them and buy them all these gifts LOL but it makes no difference to them. I've been in the bed with them as their smitten lover sends messages and voice notes. It's kinda sad and funny.
[QUOTE=Makaveli87;2794535]Doesn't sound like she's interested so it shouldn't make "moving on" difficult because there's nothing to really move on from. Also these girls don't care about the gifts or more money you give them it's not going to make them like you more. If a girl ever really likes you they will like you for you and not all that other stuff. I've literally been with wgs and they tell me about the guys who love them and buy them all these gifts LOL but it makes no difference to them. I've been in the bed with them as their smitten lover sends messages and voice notes. It's kinda sad and funny.[/QUOTE]Totally agree with everything you said. Now I have bought a couple of girls a gift or two here and there over say 5 years, but it was just a few cases, and that too after I had known the girl for a long time and she had given me mind blowing sex. But yes, for most of them, the gifts make no difference so it's better to steer clear of that. Pay them, fuck them, move on. And you can also judge a girl by how she treats someone who is showering gifts and other stuff on her. One Turkmen lady told me about some regular customer she has and how he pays for a lot of her shit, and yet she was talking bad about him during a convo I had with her. When I reminded her about how he's taking care of her, her reply was "oh he's just for finances".
[QUOTE=KittyLover;2794297]Hi folks,
I know this does not seem to be the right thing to post here as to never mix mongering and dating, but recently I visited a masseuse at an MP and I am throughly smitten by her looks and the way she spoke to me during our encounter. It was a complete GFE and like talking to a long time friend. I exchanged digits with this girl on leaving the MP and tried texting her as the days passed but I see there is definitely a lack of interest from her side after I was out the door. When she does reply, I get responses like "I'm busy" 'the net on my phone is not working properly" bla bl
Thanks![/QUOTE]From the sound of it there is nothing there for you. She looks at you as a job and she serviced you well. She made you feel good and sucked your dick well or whatever she did.
This is normal when you fuck a girl.
Everytime I have great sex and she sucks me off, I feel I am love and then in 2 minutes that's over. But it comes back again when you have a good time again. In your case it's lasting a bit longer but it will pass.
She has already forgotten all about you. You can go and spend as much as you want on her and it won't make any difference. She is happy suckling and fucking other clients. If you give her details to 5 members here, can bet you she will service them all and they will be as happy with her as you are.
Most seniors know this joint, its been there for many years run by the same old Chinese lady. They had a new bird started today. Her name starts with E.
Easy access via basement, no ID.
Very very GFE. Once in, had a good FK, went to take a pee, and she came and literally hold my wee. It was kinda awkward, but thinking about it now, its feeling so good.
Down to busienss. Very nice BJ, I never had this kinds sensual BJ ever. Very nice playing with the tip. She is a pro, and can take it deep. Man made be, and really tight P.
Started with CWG and finished in DG, opening the curtains viewing the entire city. It was fun.
Then had a good massage and she got me up for round 2. Did spooning, and CIM.
She said her sister is coming on Monday, just 19, she was here before for a month. She is up for a 3's with her sister. Def something unique and would want to try for sure. Can share contacts with Seniors. Treat her well and she is a Gem.
[QUOTE=KittyLover;2794297]Hi folks,
I know this does not seem to be the right thing to post here as to never mix mongering and dating, but recently I visited a masseuse at an MP and I am throughly smitten by her looks and the way she spoke to me during our encounter. It was a complete GFE and like talking to a long time friend. I exchanged digits with this girl on leaving the MP and tried texting her as the days passed but I see there is definitely a lack of interest from her side after I was out the door. When she does reply, I get responses like "I'm busy" 'the net on my phone is not working properly" bla bla bla. I know she works very long hours, 7 days a week with no days off except for the occasional leave now and then as per the management policy of her establishment. When I asked if I could have her IG account. She told me she does not have one which I feel is a fib.
Any idea how to get over this WG? I even feel the urge to visit her at the MP and offering her money without taking any extras in the hope of her seeing me as something different as most WG's think men see them in the light of sex objects She is very attractive and instead of dick taking over the mind of mongers at times. In this case the heart as taken over in my case.
Hopefully time heals everything, but some words of encouragement and advice from experienced fellow mongers like you all would give me some sense of direction.
Thanks![/QUOTE]Thank you all for the lovely messages and support offered here. Each one of you taking the time to reply. Yes, you folks are right, no point being emotionally attached to a WG as we pay them to leave. Also I feel given the influx of men these guys girls see day in and day out of their work, they tend to become cold, dead and stone hearted inside. A sort of low key hatred for men.
One monger here on the forum also commented that the solution was next time to negotiate a better price with her and F**k her a couple of times more and I'll get over it. LOL!
Happy mongering.