Safe Sex and Sex Related Discussions in Thailand

[QUOTE=Franciscass;2363823]It's a tactile reality, sex when your dick is not wrapped in latex or polyurethane is more enjoyable for both partners. What woman prefers licking or sucking rubber to a length of smooth candy stick skin, even more so when she feels that same candy stick filling her up and pumping her sweet spots?

Most of us get that so why condoms. It's simple. Because there is a risk of contracting a STD. Some accept there is risk and however small choose to take that risk, other prefer to deny there is any risk using unreliable and often fake science.

When I hear "I've been barebacking all my life and never caught anything" I love to use the example of my dad who smoked a pipe all his life and lived without any issues to be 99. So what, smoking is not healthy and neither is BBFS.[/QUOTE]Well said. Someone doing bareback is his own personal choice, but saying that it's completely safe is naive. It's not.

I just want to say loool. Stress and fear kill people.

[URL]https://www.iamat.org/country/brazil/risk/sexually-transmitted-infections[/URL]

[QUOTE=EihTooms;2364368][B]5. Masturbation is almost certainly good for your sex life.[/B]
[/QUOTE]ET,

You always report the difficulties to cum from certain activities, for you.

I am slightly similar in that dick is not very sensitive and cumming is not always easy.

I believe alcohol is an anti sex measure for me, numbing the dick somewhat (great for guys that are too sensitive).

Very frequent masturbation is also not great for the sensitivity of the dick in my experience. If I give up masturbation for considerable time, or only occasional, and no hard wanking, my normal sex is improved because dick is more sensitive than before.

Sure masturbation won't kill me, but I think I am better off without it, other than maybe the odd one when no sex is available for long periods. If real sex is available, then wanking should not be a priority except for guys that pop too fast.

Just my personal opinions. Yeh I have some pretty porn (not overly ugly stuff), for when I get desperate. Watching extend BJs, ass fucking, DP and splooge does not turn me on. I can fast forward that stuff or choose more arty porn. I might be weird.

One of my practices too!

[QUOTE=Gargano19;2364726]If I am feeling very horny and hard, and haven't had sex in last couple of days. I prefer to masturbate first, before going to spas or BJ shops, as it helps me last longer.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Syzygies;2367516]ET,

You always report the difficulties to cum from certain activities, for you.

I am slightly similar in that dick is not very sensitive and cumming is not always easy.

I believe alcohol is an anti sex measure for me, numbing the dick somewhat (great for guys that are too sensitive).

Very frequent masturbation is also not great for the sensitivity of the dick in my experience. If I give up masturbation for considerable time, or only occasional, and no hard wanking, my normal sex is improved because dick is more sensitive than before.

Sure masturbation won't kill me, but I think I am better off without it, other than maybe the odd one when no sex is available for long periods. If real sex is available, then wanking should not be a priority except for guys that pop too fast.

Just my personal opinions. Yeh I have some pretty porn (not overly ugly stuff), for when I get desperate. Watching extend BJs, ass fucking, DP and splooge does not turn me on. I can fast forward that stuff or choose more arty porn. I might be weird.[/QUOTE]Syzygies, I have adopted a certain lifestyle change since retiring in Thailand beyond the obvious ones regarding culture and environment. I decided to avoid many of the tempting pitfalls of the kind of lazy if not sedentary life I see other retirees drift into all too easily.

Small things like not having food delivered to my apartment, get off my butt and pick it up myself if I want to eat in my room. Don't ride if it can be walked. Don't buy a motorized vehicle, walk and/or deal with public transportation, which usually requires a bit of walking anyway. Stairs instead of escalators/elevators unless it is more than 3 flights up. That sort of thing. I don't insist on it when I am with others, of course.

And, yes, I apply the same principle to sexual relief. It isn't that I have had so much satisfying sex flying at me from all directions since I moved here 6+ years ago that I have not had time to masturbate. It is that I refuse to give in to the temptation to take care of it so quickly and easily, alone in my room.

Like having to get up off my butt and walk somewhere to get a slice of pizza rather than own an oven and gather all the ingredients to bake my own pizza in my apartment.

Similarly, I think it is better all around for me to go out and find a partner for the night, make the effort, play the game, do the dance, have sex with a female even if she is not always going to be the perfect match. It isn't always a perfect slice of pizza either.

You guys make it sound complicated. I am a simple man. For me, sex with a girl is better than masturbation. If nothing is available I will masturbate to relieve myself, but if sexy Asian girls are within 30 miles (48 KM) of where I am and available, I will go out and get one. Thus I have never masterbated when traveling in Asia, never needed to or wanted to, and doubt I would start to if / when I move here.

If anything, I should probably take a sex BREAK once in a while when I am in LOS. 555. Last trip I took at least 1 girl every day for 72 days straight. I think I was ready for a couple of nights alone on a quiet beach to recharge my batteries, but as long as I was still in BKK, Pattaya, or MNL, I went out every night, sometimes twice a night, and found what I was looking for even if I wasn't really looking. I love Asia. Miss it bad. I really appreciate BKK, Pat, MNL, & CGK, ect when I am "stuck inside of Mobile with the Memphis blues again." - Dylan

Hi Guys,

I'm sure many of you have done this or know way better. I'm a newbie visiting Thailand for the first time. I'm planning to have a massage or two, and at least one smooci experience to get my shyness and fear out of it. But STDs are what concerns me and I have never done any. So a bit of advise would be great.

[URL]https://www.union-bulletin.com/news/national/spate-of-clinical-trials-has-scientists-hopeful-about-a-vaccine/article_aedbf626-41ad-5141-91bb-c531e1923ed8.html[/URL]

[QUOTE=Lucifer786;2367800]Hi Guys,

I'm sure many of you have done this or know way better. I'm a newbie visiting Thailand for the first time. I'm planning to have a massage or two, and at least one smooci experience to get my shyness and fear out of it. But STDs are what concerns me and I have never done any. So a bit of advise would be great.[/QUOTE]What std scares you?

[QUOTE=CzarNicholas;2367814][URL]https://www.union-bulletin.com/news/national/spate-of-clinical-trials-has-scientists-hopeful-about-a-vaccine/article_aedbf626-41ad-5141-91bb-c531e1923ed8.html[/URL][/QUOTE]Yes, that is great news. But I wonder why there is no mention of subtypes of HIV in Asia, no mention of trials for the vaccine anywhere in Asia, only in North and South America, Europe and sub-Saharan Africa. Of course, they do mention the trials will focus on men who have sex with men. Still, the absence of a mention of Asia as a target for any trials of the vaccine is curious.

[QUOTE]On top of that, there are different HIV subtypes in different parts of the world. (Subtype B is common in North America and Europe, for example, while subtype C is found in southern and eastern Africa.) An effective vaccine must be based on components drawn from a mosaic of HIV variants in order to work against many strains.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=MongerForSex;2367943]What std scares you?[/QUOTE]HIV, Syphilis & Hepatitis. Etc. Well, I haven't done any of these but just curious what precautions I must follow. And is it a good idea to ask the smooci girls or any other girls for a latest test report. I'm clueless.

HIV was causing 4% of deaths in Thailand and dwindling. Mostly in the lower classes I bet. I don't fully comprehend why the rates got high 20 years ago when the risks quoted for passing on are quite low per even for normal sex. One has to suspect huge needle sharing in years gone by.

Now Cancer is the big one, then heart disease / stroke, diabetes, respiratory infections, dementia, etc.

Even road deaths surely outstrips HIV by now. Deaths from HIV are a delayed effect where HIV could have been contracted long ago.

Why was HIV so common, obviously drug users and gays was a big factor.

A lot of villagers die from various causes as they can't afford treatments.

For cancers, we have smoke from cigarettes and burning off in the fields (Thais do this without a 2nd thought), use of weed killers and pesticides, heavy use of asbestos, heavy metals, bad diet (chemicals) including total lack of organic food in Thailand.

Some web sites warn about cooking in palm oil and coconut oil. Total bullshit and out dated views. Natural saturated fats are not the cause of heart disease or cancers. They are actually good in the views of many modern scientists. They are not oxidisable, they burn at quite high temperatures making them safer for cooking. They are also low in Omega 6's.

In the village the common causes of death here that I hear most frequently are cancers (easily No. 1), road deaths, dementia, and sudden unexpected deaths which could be heart attack or some super bacteria / virus etc. Or contamination by chemicals. HIV deaths were common in the past but not any more. Just the local gossip, which is not very reliable.

[QUOTE=EihTooms;2368043]Yes, that is great news. But I wonder why there is no mention of subtypes of HIV in Asia, no mention of trials for the vaccine anywhere in Asia, only in North and South America, Europe and sub-Saharan Africa. Of course, they do mention the trials will focus on men who have sex with men. Still, the absence of a mention of Asia as a target for any trials of the vaccine is curious.[/QUOTE]Ha ha. That is called dumbing it down, in relation to the sub-types. Cholesterol is blamed for heart disease. That is gross use of dumbing it down to the extent that it is totally wrong. Cholesterol was a misnomer for other things.

I read about various subtypes of HIV many years ago. Different types were prevalent in different countries. Different risk rates too, so risks published for USA don't mean risks are the same in Thailand at all. Some strains are easier to catch. Some strains much more deadly or cause patients to die quicker.

Statistics are manipulated commonly to become lies. Never trust Stats to be fair and uncontaminated and state all the underlying assumptions, etc.

If the inventors of a vaccine were not in Thailand, would they want to trial it in Thailand? Maybe they would do so on a small scale among high risk communities, but without huge publicity. They don't need a huge mob trying to get to it. Maybe they prefer to test at home first.

Big Pharma are interested in making huge money, right. That isn't going to be sub-Saharan Africa.

Syphilis death was common before world war 2 and hiv death was common 1980's and 1990's. Now cardiovascular disease is number 1 followed by cancer. The communicable diseases that kills the most people are respiratory tract infction, influenza flu and tuberculosis.

[QUOTE=MongerForSex;2368217]Syphilis death was common before world war 2 and hiv death was common 1980's and 1990's. Now cardiovascular disease is number 1 followed by cancer. The communicable diseases that kills the most people are respiratory tract infction, influenza flu and tuberculosis.[/QUOTE]Cancer would be biggest easily in Thailand I think, and certainly in the poor province villages. I think is several times higher than average countries. Thais are not too concerned about doing things dangerous to their own health and the health of others relating to dangerous substances, but diet is probably not yet as bad as the USA.