Pattaya Trip Report, Day 10, Friday, April 26,2019
I went to Ruby bar on Soi 6 in the afternoon after noticing they had some really attractive girls. I ended up with Beer (her name), who had caught my eye yesterday. She wore glasses that gave her just a slightly nerdy look, and had a good smile, was slender and she had a really tight butt. Only downside was she had a bit of a mustache. In talking to her she seemed a little reserved but she opened up when we went upstairs with lots of touching and kissing. Her body was firm and her boobs were nice, with nice areolas and nipples, and that great, tight butt! She was nice and when I couldn't come she offered a HJ, but I had her stop as all they do is make my Johnson sore, and I am trying to avoid that this trip.
After that I went to see Jin at Horny bar. I have not seen her in a while, telling her I was not well, and I said I was still weak. She felt my forehead and said I still have a fever. I didn't think I did -but it was a hot day! She sat with me and hung with me and managed to get 4 LD's off of me, saying for me to come back Saturday for boom boom. Well, not sure I will do that. I stayed for at least an hour so she probably deserved the drinks though. Things were still slow however, so I doubt she would have made anything had I not been there.
I was getting hungry and went down to Mama's at the end of 6 and went through the menu but, man, everything seemed so expensive. It is not unique there, even a burrito is 10 bucks at the Mex place I like. I assume this is typical for places around Beach Road and Second Road. I left and went over to the McDonald's but nothing on the menu excited me, but I got a hankering for a crispy chicken sandwich so I went back down toward Soi 7 and checked out Burger King and they had what I wanted. Just wish they had Bar-be-que sauce.
But this is the night I am to LT Secret girl, but when do I pick her up? I could pick her up sooner, and have more time with her, but then what would we do? We can't exactly carry on a marvelous conversation! Or I could pick her up later, but if we manage to hit it off, we would run out of time and the sex at the end would be rushed. Sigh. I figured due to our communications issues that a little later than later than earlier would be better, but as I went to get her, I feared that being later might mean she would have accepted another BF, and even if ST, I would either miss out or have to wait, and taking a girl out who was freshly f'cked would have been a tad bit uncomfortable. But, yeah, I sometimes think to much, but my profession is to think about everything and analyzes all the bad things that could happen. Perhaps I am working overtime here.
I ended up picking her up around 10 PM. I think she had been waiting as when I arrived she and many of the other girls exchanged words and smiles. By this time, they all knew me there and I suppose they share information. I asked what she wanted to do and she had no preference so I asked about WS and she smiled and said sure, saying she had only been there once. She changed her clothes and the other girls seemed to be happy for her. We took a baht bus but the traffic was intense. We finally made it and walked as far as the McDonald's then turned back. She seemed to want to go into Marine Bar. That place, of course, doesn't even begin to get going until 1 AM so I assume this is the place she went after her bar closed. We went upstairs but the club wasn't even open. So we went to I-Bar, but man, I find these places so boring. What do you do, sit and drink while shouting over the music?! Boring. Haha We went upstairs and it still hadn't gotten going yet, thus was equally boring and smoky. I told her about Red Car and at about 11:15 we went there. Not sure if she liked it better or not, but at least no smoke. Same kind of music though clearly an older crowd. Maybe around midnight she indicated she was getting a little tired and ready to leave. Good, me too. But as we passed that live club on the way out, I can't now remember the name, she heard the Thai singers and wanted to go in. Sure. This is probably where we should have come first. Finally some decent music (techno drives me nuts) and she finally got up to dance and show she was having a good time. I am not a dancer by any means but I tried, and as I looked around the club, I was actually one of the few guys who was moving about, while most of the females were. But it was fun and it was nice to see her finally enjoying herself. Only downside is it was reducing our time for sex!
But, she was showing a decent level of affection towards me. She was kissing me and maintaining physical contact and full of smiles. If one didn't know better one might think she had some genuine affection for me. Factually, I now she was having a nice time with the music and all, though I have no doubt she would have enjoyed it more if she was with a younger, handsomer man. But finally it was time to leave and we headed back to my hotel. We showered and went to bed and had another awesome and sensual, if brief, GFE experience.
We curled up together to go to sleep. I remain amazed that these girls can do this with their customers. I cringe at the thought of curly up with a woman of even my age! But even though we drifted apart, she would often come back to re-curl. I woke up at sunrise but it was not until 10:30 or so we both got up. She came down to breakfast with me, only eating a little bit of fried rice. I walked her to Second Road to catch a bus back to work. She remained happy to hold my hand and kissed me before boarding this buss. But she seemed to be a bit distant from me at the same time. There was not quite the same level of affection. I don't know.
Pattaya Trip Report, Day 11, Saturday, April 27,2019
Saturday.
After seeing Secret off, I went back to the room and started thinking. Dangerous! I guess her leaving left me a little depressed. I missed her. But I also thought of the Chinese girl and of my Thai GF who I am essentially cheating on even though I have made no commitment or expressed my love to her. But were she to learn I am here she would be heart broken, and I don't mean to hurt anyone. I am sure I would lament my loss of her as well. Like too many men I suppose, we only realize what we have after we lose it.
But in 8 days I am scheduled to go to China, but I am seriously wondering if the girl, my young and pretty tour guide I met on a cruise, is having second thoughts. I have barely heard from her. On April 14 she did ask for me to give her my hotel address so she could "start to plan our tourist route". I did, but since have only received a couple of short messages about how busy she is with work. I still have no idea when or where I will meet up with her or what we might be doing. I have my first two days at a hotel in Beijing booked and that is all the visitation plans I have! She claims to be very busy with work and may not have had time to plan our tourist route yet, but if she is having second thoughts I would rather know NOW than have her text me the day before I am to fly up there to say that she can't do it. Tell me now and I can make other plans, such as maybe see my Thai GF or stay longer in Pattaya to enjoy passionate and wonderful sex with my Pattaya GF!
Update: She did just text me that she has tomorrow off (Sunday), so I am hoping she will find time to work on the tourist plans and let me know when / where we will meet. If she ignores me on Sunday then I will need to consider canceling on the basis she has serious doubts -- and she would probably be wise to cancel! I don't want her to do the trip out of some sense of obligation or whatever and be uncomfortable. I want her happy and to be happy being with me. My primary purpose is to have GF sex with her of course, though the odds are small of that happening I know. Secondary is to simply tour China with a pretty young woman (even if I have to deal with the sexual frustration). If we do the visit and she is tense and visibly distant from me, then that will just be bad.
But yes, the Pattaya Blues came down hard. First, Secret girl is leaving town for two days on Sunday and I am finding I will miss her. Two, my Thai GF is being sweet and sent me a picture of her looking nice and I have to wonder why the heck am I not on a plane to go to her? And third, my hopeful Chinese GF is not being uncommunicative and may cancel or, if not, may turn out to not be so fun. Sigh. What a mess I have made! Haha. But I didn't feel like doing anything. I basically stayed in the hotel all day in a cationic state almost, unable to make any sort of decision. Too many unknowns and not enough equations. Most of you all will condemn me or ridicule me and you are right! Here I am, voluntarily in Pattaya and even if the Chinese girl dumps me, I still have my Thai GF or I can stay in Pattaya and have sex! I mean, are any of you feeling sorry for my predicament and glad you are not in my position! Haha. But I realize I have a fever and headache so I try to rest rather than deal with the issues.
In the evening I realize I need to get out and eat. I walk to CF but nothing in the food court that is halfway healthy and lower calories really appeals to me. I went to the food mart and bought a baked quarter chicken and some greens from their salad bar to eat. I don't care for the way chicken is seasoned here, but I use a fork to tear off chunks of meat so the resulting chicken and salad is acceptable. (Why the heck doesn't KFC sell chicken breasts here? I know Asians prefer dark meat, but this is a tourist area and given the success of the chicken strips, why not?) I actually feel a bit lightheaded as I eat. At least the decision about my meal is a good one. Low calorie, low fat, nothing processed, no carbs.
After dinner I finally make another decision, which is to head to Soi 6. Perhaps with some certainty of what I will do, my head clears and the headache and fever seems to resolve. I thought I would avoid Jin and even Secret girl to enjoy a different woman, but as I was walking down 6 I was paying too much attention to the girls and before I knew it, it was almost at Horny Bar and Jin was out front looking at me. Oh well. I went over and she drew me inside, ready to take me upstairs. I said no and instead we sat and I got my soda water. I limited her to two LDs and said I just wasn't in the mood and soon left her. I then thought "what the heck" and headed to see Secret girl, thinking she might be busy tonight. She wasn't and I think she was a little surprised, but happy, to see me. I went back inside with her and she was her old self. She told me she had a great time with me and liked me dancing with her and the way I was smiling with her. Just words to get me to spend more on her, or were they sincere? Truly, I don't think she is yet sophisticated enough to lie like that yet. I mentioned I thought she was sad or something when she left me that morning and she said she was still waking up. But she is to leave for two days and was bar fining herself to go off duty to sleep early as her aunt was picking her up at 6 AM. I offered to pay her fine if she would come with me for the night where she could sleep in a clean bed in quiet. She readily agreed. She went up to change and came down with some items.
Back at the hotel we showered and prepared for bed. She was affectionate but the purpose here was for her to sleep. She had problems as she is used to going to bed at 3 AM, and I don't think either of us slept well. Her aunt was late but she finally left about 7:30, to return to work Tuesday afternoon. I admit to a small hole developing in my heart as I saw her leave. I only have two more days to be with her before I leave to Bangkok before leaving to China. And, no, I am not falling in love with her. But she is special for me and I will miss her, having to go home to likely months of no sex, especially no GFE sex.
But to summarize, and I am just now realizing this several days later, but I guess I had no sex on this day. I must have, but I have no notes of anything else happening, so I guess this is my second sexless day. Man, I need to reset my brain again. Spending fun times with Secret girl is fine, but not to the total exclusion of others! Guys, I will do better.