Sosua Reports

[QUOTE=RubMeister100;2129355]Many thanks for the many reports! I RTTF! LOL! Was in Sosua / POP / Cabarete a few years back and had a good time!

Heading down again next week and was wondering about current best practices regarding currency. ATM? Bring cash along with me? Any advantage to either exchanging for DOP at a bank, street or shops? Also if it is best to bring CDN $ to DR or exchange to USD before leaving Canada?

Any recommendations on GREAT fish or lobster places and any recommendations on non-mongering activities?[/QUOTE]I would recommend to use pesos down here, and, assuming you are Canadian, just bring your ATM card and the many machines will give you pesos at the best rate without going through another level of currency exchange I. E. , USA.

Carry only what you need for the day / evening.

[QUOTE=MrGogo;2129123]It's an emerging older group of Dominican women who still look good and have style as they hold on go what they once had. The Dominican dudes don't want these girls. These girls don't go to hip hop clubs but rather stay home and cook and raise kids. They mainly visit the neighborhood commando on Friday night to gossip, sip a beer and maybe dance. They also have big wet pussies which I like that are under serviced. So guys you can deal with some crazy young girl and hope / pay for a good experience or move up to the 30-40 age group and pluck something more stable. Just my take on things.[/QUOTE]For me, those women I consider "older" fall in the age range of 35 and above. I am attracted to older women that still look good. So I can relate.

To this day, there are older women that are still in the p4 p game. Those types I'd choose to avoid. I know a Dom Cupid lady I met a few years back. She was 38 at the time. She had two children living with her. At the time, I thought because she was older she would be more compatible. We can enjoy certain things together. However the more involved I got with her, the more she revealed her hypergamist nature. Looking at me as a resource to supplement and maintain her and her family.

With older women often comes with bigger expectations. With a young chick you may easily slip some dinero in her purse and she may be happy. Dealing with an older chick can run the risk of her expecting much more. Very often that starts off with wanting a "serious" relationship. Once established, she can now put her expectations and demands on a guy. She is your novia now. And it's your job to take care of your novia.

Most guys may not be interested in that level of involvement. The reason they got involved is because they thought she would be more mature. Perhaps more passionate in the bed. Or the juice would be off the chain. However enough guys eventually find out, getting involved with an older women may not be without it's own set of issues.

I admire those instances where a guy gets involved with an older Dominican lady, that has a job, aint looking for a mans money. Will cook for him, and take care of him in the bed. Thats the type of older lady I would like to hook up with. But I still do not want a relationship. And it seems many if not most good women like that want a serious exclusive relationship, which I'm not interested in investing in.

[QUOTE=MrGogo;2129123]So guys you can deal with some crazy young girl and hope / pay for a good experience or move up to the 30-40 age group and pluck something more stable. Just my take on things.[/QUOTE]I didn't mean to imply every older lady is looking for a serious relationship. But I am saying that a guy still runs the risk of an older chick expecting a guy to do certain things if he gets involved. Like paying her rent, utilities, buying major appliances, helping them set up another residence, medical expenses etc. Helping her with taking care of her children or other family members. It might get to the point where a guy has to question or discern whether the quality and quantity of the older ladys juice / company, is worth it?

[QUOTE=Wrx2005;2129374]I didn't mean to imply every older lady is looking for a serious relationship. But I am saying that a guy still runs the risk of an older chick expecting a guy to do certain things if he gets involved. Like paying her rent, utilities, buying major appliances, helping them set up another residence, medical expenses etc. Helping her with taking care of her children or other family members. It might get to the point where a guy has to question or discern whether the quality and quantity of the older ladys juice / company, is worth it?[/QUOTE]True most want what you say but initially they will probably be happy that someone (non Dominican) took the time to invite her out for a beer or dinner, with sex as the desert.

[QUOTE=Wrx2005;2129369]However the more involved I got with her, the more she revealed her hypergamist nature. Looking at me as a resource to supplement and maintain her and her family.

With older women often comes with bigger expectations. Dealing with an older chick can run the risk of her expecting much more. Very often that starts off with wanting a "serious" relationship. Once established, she can now put her expectations and demands on a guy. She is your novia now. And it's your job to take care of your novia.[/QUOTE]What the fuck. This is 100% my experience with 9 out of 10 women in this age group in DR. They appear to be established and mainting well, but once you get in with them they expect you to maintain them financially. And when you will not they are in the wind looking for someone that will.

I remember one chick in Santiago who would not let me stay at her house (would let me visit though) and thought I was going to help pay bills around there. Bich if I can't stay at your house then my money can't stay either. How I look paying for a hotel when I'm helping pay bills at your house? I wouldn't have helped anyway, but it is the principle of the thing. I don't understand how they got along so well all of this time, then when you show up all of a sudden they are in desperate need of some shit.

Never ran into this with a chick younger than 35, but the ones over 35 are exactly how you described. The ones under 35 don't expect shit but for you to keep them company.

[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2129384]What the fuck. This is 100% my experience with 9 out of 10 women in this age group in DR. They appear to be established and mainting well, but once you get in with them they expect you to maintain them financially. And when you will not they are in the wind looking for someone that will.

I remember one chick in Santiago who would not let me stay at her house (would let me visit though) and thought I was going to help pay bills around there. Bich if I can't stay at your house then my money can't stay either. How I look paying for a hotel when I'm helping pay bills at your house? I wouldn't have helped anyway, but it is the principle of the thing.

Never ran into this with a chick younger than 35, but the ones over 35 are exactly how you described. The ones under 35 don't expect shit but for you to keep them company.[/QUOTE]Finishing up my story of the DC lady. She too is from Santiago. Last year, I wanted her to come up to Sosua to see me. She kept promising she would. Every time we connected on Whatsapp, she'd ask me the same freaking questions. Am I married, do I have a novia? Of course, I'd say no. She always seemed to be sizing me up for the long game. All I wanted was to enjoy more of that good juice she had.

Anyway, just when I'm thinking she is going to make it, she cancels out. It's her period, or she'll come up with a new tentative day. That day comes, and goes. I don't sweat it though. To me it's just something to do. The one thing she will ask in the interim is, would I be open to a serious relationship? Because she is interested in a "stable" relationship.

See, the chick is running game. She probably has no real intention of coming to Sosua for a couple of days like she used to. She knows, that her sex is really all the bargaining chip that she has. So what she tries to do, is attempt to get some sort of commitment established beforehand. Now if I were saying all of the right things, she would be at my spot in no time. But because, I'm insisting that she just come and we'll talk about everything when she gets here, she aint letting that happen.

What she doesn't know, is that I am aware of one of the ways she supplemented her self financially over the years. She would come down to Puerto Plata and hang out in the resorts and Playa Cofresi. There she could hook up with men on vacation looking for companionship. Now when it comes to me, she has always maintained that she don't want my money or a mans money. But she does feel a man involved with her should take care of the "basics". The basics include food, utilities, making up rent, medical, emergencies etc.

She refuses to admit that means she does want / need a mans money. She's convinced that her expectations doesn't involve wanting a man for his money? Now here's the irony. Last year when I talked to her, I think that was October. Nothing new, right? But around the Christmas holiday I sent her a message which I thought was to her Whatsapp, but it was her sons Whats app. BTW both of her kids (boy and girl) got married each almost 2 yrs ago. I apologized to the young man for misdirecting my holiday messsage to his WA, and asked him to contact his mother and ask her to contact me.

He said he couldn't because she is married now? I'm like WHAT?. Married? I was just in contact with this chick in October and she is married now? Back in October we were talking about her visiting me then. I knew she was hungry to latch onto a man to get a relationship, but damn! I guess she got what she wanted. Fast forward to last week January 6, and I hear from her. I suspect her son advised her that I was asking about her. So you are married now? She said she is separated. So now were back to square one of her wanting a serious relationship.

This chicks focus and track record is dangerous. And getting involved with her just for some juice can be risky. She wasted no time asking me again if I'd be interested in a serious relationship. I have pretty much ignored those messages and just stick to greetings and pleasantries. She is smart enough not to come to my house, because she knows what will NOT happen after she gives up the juice I already enjoyed before. BTW out of curiosity I have asked her what do I get from her being in a serious relationship? She said lots of love and companionship. Insert rolleyes icon here.
She's about 42 now and still attractive, but I see the desperation in her by not being where she would like to be, which is securely connected to a mans resources.

[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2129384]What the fuck. This is 100% my experience with 9 out of 10 women in this age group in DR. They appear to be established and mainting well, but once you get in with them they expect you to maintain them financially. And when you will not they are in the wind looking for someone that will.

I remember one chick in Santiago who would not let me stay at her house (would let me visit though) and thought I was going to help pay bills around there. Bich if I can't stay at your house then my money can't stay either. How I look paying for a hotel when I'm helping pay bills at your house? I wouldn't have helped anyway, but it is the principle of the thing. I don't understand how they got along so well all of this time, then when you show up all of a sudden they are in desperate need of some shit.

Never ran into this with a chick younger than 35, but the ones over 35 are exactly how you described. The ones under 35 don't expect shit but for you to keep them company.[/QUOTE]There you go again with that slick ass Atlanta shit. Why would an older lady let you stay at her house when she has kids and a good reputation? She probably comes to your hotel to fuck, has dinner at restaurants with you and lets you come visit but you want to twist it to helping her pay her bills to make it seem like you don't pay for pussy and have to question her about being a trick because she needs help. Look, I'm not about those games. My main girl is 36 yo and gorgeous and in great shape. She comes over and cooks, does my laundry, cleans my place, does my toes and nails and fucks me good (when is the last time a young girl did that for you? I have rules like I don't send money but I treat her nice (cash) when there. Sure she is pushing for more of a relationship and for me to meet the kids but that's a slow process that will take years as I want to keep it simple. She has never told me "no' for sex and is always on point. I don't let her know about other girls and entertain topics to maneuver her to giving me free pussy to prove herself. I pay my way and have no problems with that as long as she puts in the time to make me happy and my life better. But on the other end I have limitations for now and I don't meet family and she stays.

At WRX: Sounds like you had some decent experiences with older women but you got spooked because they had other motives. What woman wouldn't want a relationship from a guy that she likes and spends time with? Women take that direction and you were honest with yourself "I only wanted the juice" so she either went by your rules or not. I can respect that more than a guy that is just using a girl for a future place to stay and paying a 25 dollar electric bill once a year. What's interesting is that after you figured this girl out and knew her future desires, you still tried to call her after she hadn't called you for some time. She refused to come to Sosua to visit and possibly told her son that you accidentally called, to tell you she was now married to help you get the message that she was no longer interested to come to Sosua to give you some juice or see you anymore. You are great a looking at every angle involved except when it contradicts your point that you were correct. You even tried a Mr E move by begging her to come and you will talk to her once she arrives to fuck. Man that must have been some good old pussy LOL.

I stick by my point: Older women are more appreciative, still have some pizzaz, will give more to make you happy and still like to fuck. I presented it as an option for guys who might be looking for more than a quick two hour fuck in a hotel room. Sure they want security, sure they might be slick, but that's the challenge you have to navigate.

P.S. I'm not getting into any long debates over this and take up pages on this board. Either you get it or you don't, either way I have moved on.

[QUOTE=MrGogo;2129417]There you go again with that slick ass Atlanta shit. Why would an older lady let you stay at her house when she has kids and a good reputation? She probably comes to your hotel to fuck, has dinner at restaurants with you and lets you come visit but you want to twist it to helping her pay her bills to make it seem like you don't pay for pussy and have to question her about being a trick because she needs help. Look, I'm not about those games. My main girl is 36 yo and gorgeous and in great shape. She comes over and cooks, does my laundry, cleans my place, does my toes and nails and fucks me good (when is the last time a young girl did that for you? I have rules like I don't send money but I treat her nice (cash) when there. Sure she is pushing for more of a relationship and for me to meet the kids but that's a slow process that will take years as I want to keep it simple. She has never told me "no' for sex and is always on point. I don't let her know about other girls and entertain topics to maneuver her to giving me free pussy to prove herself. I pay my way and have no problems with that as long as she puts in the time to make me happy and my life better. But on the other end I have limitations for now and I don't meet family and she stays.

At WRX: Sounds like you had some decent experiences with older women but you got spooked because they had other motives. What woman wouldn't want a relationship from a guy that she likes and spends time with? Women take that direction and you were honest with yourself "I only wanted the juice" so she either went by your rules or not. I can respect that more than a guy that is just using a girl for a future place to stay and paying a 25 dollar electric bill once a year. What's interesting is that after you figured this girl out and knew her future desires, you still tried to call her after she hadn't called you for some time. She refused to come to Sosua to visit and possibly told her son that you accidentally called, to tell you she was now married to help you get the message that she was no longer interested to come to Sosua to give you some juice or see you anymore. You are great a looking at every angle involved except when it contradicts your point that you were correct. You even tried a Mr E move by begging her to come and you will talk to her once she arrives to fuck. Man that must have been some good old pussy LOL.

I stick by my point: Older women are more appreciative, still have some pizzaz, will give more to make you happy and still like to fuck. I presented it as an option for guys who might be looking for more than a quick two hour fuck in a hotel room. Sure they want security, sure they might be slick, but that's the challenge you have to navigate.

P.S. I'm not getting into any long debates over this and take up pages on this board. Either you get it or you don't, either way I have moved on.[/QUOTE]As usual Mr GG you are on the right track. We need more of your common sense posts here!

The Forum is starting to sound like a "Dear Abby" column, for unhappy, mistreated lovers again!

Try and remember that Sosua is not some TV dating show, it is a town where mongers go to buy cheap sex.

Select your merchandise, pay your money, and don't complain if you bought the wrong size shoes! Try not to delude yourself that you are getting anything for free, except what you pay for. Hoes live a hard, tough life, they don't grow up with any concept of "entitlement".

Playing mind games with hoes is complete waste of time, especially with hoes, because hoes will tell you anything you want to hear. They are a lot like salesmen and politicians. Don't listen to what they say, watch what they do!

Pay as you go, and only for what you get, you'll gather no moss, you can live your life as a free man, and enjoy the many pleasures and fantasies that are for sale in Sosua!

[QUOTE=Oakie;2129551]The Forum is starting to sound like a "Dear Abby" column, for unhappy, mistreated lovers again![/QUOTE]Respectfully, now I see why mongers are hesitant to write trip reports for the Sosua forum. Because based on current and past history, any trip report written would be quickly buried by a myriad of posts from guys who feel slighted and feel the need to posture, strut, and wave their cocks at each other.

Someone should really consider opening a "Sosua Chit Chat" forum here on ISG.

[QUOTE=MrGogo;2129417]There you go again with that slick ass Atlanta shit. Why would an older lady let you stay at her house when she has kids and a good reputation? She probably comes to your hotel to fuck, has dinner at restaurants with you and lets you come visit but you want to twist it to helping her pay her bills to make it seem like you don't pay for pussy and have to question her about being a trick because she needs help. Look, I'm not about those games. My main girl is 36 yo and gorgeous and in great shape. She comes over and cooks, does my laundry, cleans my place, does my toes and nails and fucks me good (when is the last time a young girl did that for you? I have rules like I don't send money but I treat her nice (cash) when there. Sure she is pushing for more of a relationship and for me to meet the kids but that's a slow process that will take years as I want to keep it simple. She has never told me "no' for sex and is always on point. I don't let her know about other girls and entertain topics to maneuver her to giving me free pussy to prove herself. I pay my way and have no problems with that as long as she puts in the time to make me happy and my life better. But on the other end I have limitations for now and I don't meet family and she stays.

At WRX: Sounds like you had some decent experiences with older women but you got spooked because they had other motives. What woman wouldn't want a relationship from a guy that she likes and spends time with? Women take that direction and you were honest with yourself "I only wanted the juice" so she either went by your rules or not. I can respect that more than a guy that is just using a girl for a future place to stay and paying a 25 dollar electric bill once a year. What's interesting is that after you figured this girl out and knew her future desires, you still tried to call her after she hadn't called you for some time. She refused to come to Sosua to visit and possibly told her son that you accidentally called, to tell you she was now married to help you get the message that she was no longer interested to come to Sosua to give you some juice or see you anymore. You are great a looking at every angle involved except when it contradicts your point that you were correct. You even tried a Mr E move by begging her to come and you will talk to her once she arrives to fuck. Man that must have been some good old pussy LOL.

I stick by my point: Older women are more appreciative, still have some pizzaz, will give more to make you happy and still like to fuck. I presented it as an option for guys who might be looking for more than a quick two hour fuck in a hotel room. Sure they want security, sure they might be slick, but that's the challenge you have to navigate.

P.S. I'm not getting into any long debates over this and take up pages on this board. Either you get it or you don't, either way I have moved on.[/QUOTE]I will accept that you have no interest in discourse, correction or clarification. And therefore do not need your input for the things I intend to address.

Being spooked involves some sort of fear, worry or unsettling feeling of something. I do not see how that applies to a man who is simply not interested in an exclusive relationship with a chick? I could understand your usage of spooked if a man stopped dealing with a woman or tried to avoid her because she reveals she wants a "serious" relationship. In my example, I was open to us talking about her concerns, just not back and forth texting on a phone. The chick was given the opportunity to visit to get that done, but it hasnt happened yet.

And quite frankly, I can easily see her being the one spooked by the idea of sitting down and having a serious discussion that may eventually reveal that what she is prepared to offer has very little value compared to what she stands to gain.

You say you find it interesting that I called the chick even though she hadn't called me for sometime. Whats so interesting about that? She has contacted me many times over the years asking me if she could come up. In fact we were together this past summer. She didn't come last October, and she hasnt come this month. And like I said in my post. I wasnt sweating whether she came or not. I'm in a better position in this matter than she is.

Your statement that she might have told her son to tell me she was married to help me get the message that she was no longer interested in coming to see me etc, is laughable. The son gave her my message. What he wouldn't do, is give me her new number. She contacted me 8 days after my exchange with her son. And if I knew how to upload a whatsapp screen, It would show that he didn't have a problem contacting his mother for me. So your assumption does NOT apply. You may have been mislead by me incorrectly saying he said he wouldnt contact her. Wheras what I meant to say is he wouldnt give me her new number.

Lastly, I didn't know asking a woman to come see you had to be about a man begging her to come? Begging? Really? Also, when did the woman refuse to come? Another substitution of facts? See Dominican men know more about their women than some foreigners. The no shows werent refusals to come. Her change of plans was her prioritizing who or what was more important to her livelyhood. I don't fault her for choosing to get with the best deal where ever and whenever she can get it. She is not the 1st woman I have known who was single one moment and married within a few months. Plenty dominican women operate like that. Thats why I do not take their interest in me or any man seriously.

I don't process their behavior as them liking a man or appreciating a man just because a man invites them to eat, drink or have sex. Anything that looks like happiness is probably more them being amused by the idea that they just might have a man on the hook that they can exploit for his resources. Something a typical local man would stay away from. In other words, there is a valid reason enough older DR women have a hard time securing a relationship, especially with their local men.

[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2129384]
I remember one chick in Santiago who would not let me stay at her house (would let me visit though) and thought I was going to help pay bills around there. Bich if I can't stay at your house then my money can't stay either. How I look paying for a hotel when I'm helping pay bills at your house?[/QUOTE]5 Stars! Hahaha.

[QUOTE=MrGogo;2129417]I stick by my point: Older women are more appreciative, still have some pizzaz, will give more to make you happy and still like to fuck. I presented it as an option for guys who might be looking for more than a quick two hour fuck in a hotel room. Sure they want security, sure they might be slick, but that's the challenge you have to navigate.[/QUOTE]My ideal retirement strategy would be to have an older chick as my main chick, and a soft harem of younger chicks that I deal with away from my main chick. From what I understand it is generally accepted in Latin American cultures that a man has a mistress (or multiple) on the side, but all the main chick asks is that you don't flaunt them / bring them around her (which is why Casas are a thing in Latin America).

Go as always you are on point. I made a conscious decision not to deal with WRX he is the most insecure paranoid person on the board. He writes books defending his bad monger moves. Everyone knows you do not invite non putas to Sosua. Dominicans know that Sosua is a big brothel. Most girls who are not pros will be insulted by a Sosua invite. I like you have had excellent results with the 35 years plus ladies. They are happy to have a man with money paying attention to them. They give you 100% in the sack and are pretty good company on a date. Most of the guys on this forum are getting long in the tooth so sport fucking is not our strong suit.

[QUOTE=MrGogo;2129417]There you go again with that slick ass Atlanta shit. Why would an older lady let you stay at her house when she has kids and a good reputation? She probably comes to your hotel to fuck, has dinner at restaurants with you and lets you come visit but you want to twist it to helping her pay her bills to make it seem like you don't pay for pussy and have to question her about being a trick because she needs help. Look, I'm not about those games. My main girl is 36 yo and gorgeous and in great shape. She comes over and cooks, does my laundry, cleans my place, does my toes and nails and fucks me good (when is the last time a young girl did that for you? I have rules like I don't send money but I treat her nice (cash) when there. Sure she is pushing for more of a relationship and for me to meet the kids but that's a slow process that will take years as I want to keep it simple. She has never told me "no' for sex and is always on point. I don't let her know about other girls and entertain topics to maneuver her to giving me free pussy to prove herself. I pay my way and have no problems with that as long as she puts in the time to make me happy and my life better. But on the other end I have limitations for now and I don't meet family and she stays.

At WRX: Sounds like you had some decent experiences with older women but you got spooked because they had other motives. What woman wouldn't want a relationship from a guy that she likes and spends time with? Women take that direction and you were honest with yourself "I only wanted the juice" so she either went by your rules or not. I can respect that more than a guy that is just using a girl for a future place to stay and paying a 25 dollar electric bill once a year. What's interesting is that after you figured this girl out and knew her future desires, you still tried to call her after she hadn't called you for some time. She refused to come to Sosua to visit and possibly told her son that you accidentally called, to tell you she was now married to help you get the message that she was no longer interested to come to Sosua to give you some juice or see you anymore. You are great a looking at every angle involved except when it contradicts your point that you were correct. You even tried a Mr E move by begging her to come and you will talk to her once she arrives to fuck. Man that must have been some good old pussy LOL.

I stick by my point: Older women are more appreciative, still have some pizzaz, will give more to make you happy and still like to fuck. I presented it as an option for guys who might be looking for more than a quick two hour fuck in a hotel room. Sure they want security, sure they might be slick, but that's the challenge you have to navigate.

P.S. I'm not getting into any long debates over this and take up pages on this board. Either you get it or you don't, either way I have moved on.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=SavePros321;2129740]My ideal retirement strategy would be to have an older chick as my main chick, and a soft harem of younger chicks that I deal with away from my main chick. From what I understand it is generally accepted in Latin American cultures that a man has a mistress (or multiple) on the side, but all the main chick asks is that you don't flaunt them / bring them around her (which is why Casas are a thing in Latin America).[/QUOTE]You have pretty well described my situation, although "older" to me (30-35) is still pretty young at my age! LOL.

The frst one lasted 8 years, but she wouldn't let me out of her sight. So I played around out of her sight. She's in NJ now with her son and her rich relatives. She sends me pictures.

This last one might last as long because she's a mother hen to two beauties, one is just a non pro bi friend, and one is an independent semi pro. She doesn't mind a little extra spice, as long we keep it all in the family.

Besides the sex, what you can get from a smart older woman, who has her own life, is priceless. The way she cleaned up and organized my new place in one day was something to behold. I never saw a woman work so hard, so happily! Would only let me eat salads and her home made sopa, because of the weight I need to lose, and prepared a weeks supply before she left, with strict instructions. There's stuff In my cupboards and fridge that I've never seen before, but I'm feeling great!

The hard part is always the first part, laying down rules that work for both of you. Because she has a bambina in scool in PP I get all the free time I need. But we did have to have that conversation about how she couldn't just come to my place whenever she could get away from PP. You have to be firm and in control of the main stuff, but give her some freedom about things that are less important. There's that old "give a little, take a little" thing that works well in relationships.

Aside from the couple of parties we had, when she comes down (only at my invitation now) at the weekends, we are basically monogomous!

I think it is the perfect set up! (for now!) We'll see.

I love Sosua!

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[QUOTE]For the record I did indicate in my post that "I had just returned from Sosua" It was right in the beginning of my post. The selective reading here by a few is mind boggling.[/QUOTE]By BongJovi.

[QUOTE=OldKool;2129757]Everyone knows you do not invite non putas to Sosua. Dominicans know that Sosua is a big brothel. Most girls who are not pros will be insulted by a Sosua invite. [/QUOTE]BJ is correct the selective reading is mind boggling. There was no evidence, argument or discussion about inviting non putas or non pros to Sosua? Just like nobody ever mentioned anything about begging any woman to come visit a man.

The direction of the exchanges here was about older women, not whether or not they were putas or not. We can save that for another discussion, since even there you are incorrect. Non pros / putas are invited and come all the time to Sosua. Perhaps you may not be privy to that practice because you don't live here, and too busy focused on your own world. Here's a formula you can use as a hint.

Expats / long or short term vacationers + Social media / or chance meetings in public + available women un / underemployed (older or younger) = Visits, relationships, and / or arrangements between all parties involved.

Is this to say ALL non putas / pros are game for an invite to Sosua? Absolutely not. Many want no association with Sosua, putas or men that go there. However for enough non putas / pros they simply don't have the time because they are working 6 to 7 days a week.

The woman in my example fits the criteria perfectly. She never had a full time job when we were kicking it strong. She's been coming back and forth to Sosua since 2014. She received visits from me to her place in Santiago, and on occasion we stayed in hotels in Santiago.

One more thing I neglected to point out. Sundays in Sosua is usually family day for locals. Occasionally a man can meet a local woman right on Sosua beach, exchange contact information, and hook up down the road, with her having no problem coming back to Sosua. Now of course, the two may make arrangements to entertain themselves outside of Sosua. But staying in a mans hotel, villa or apartment aint that big of a deal.

I know you aint listening or talking to me. But I'm addressing you anyway.