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[QUOTE=Legal Tender; 1177911]What you describe is lust, not a NSA relationship. Sure, two folks can be so attracted to each other that they literally can't keep their hands off of each other. When I was much younger, I remember going to see Bo Derek in the movie "10." I went with my dad and a couple of his buddies. I was old enough to lust after Bo as did my dad and his friends. I overheard one say to the other: "Just remember guys, no matter how hot she is, there's some dude who is tired of fucking her. And so it goes. As for the lust laden maiden of which you refer, sooner or later she will be thinking,"what am I getting out of this other than great sex"? Women want security and protection. That's not me saying that, it's biology. If you haven't read it, I highly recommend Robert Wright's "The Moral Animal: Why We Are the Way We Are: The New Science of Evolutionary Psychology." The closest "relationship" to an NSA one is the one with a sex worker: I will give you X if you spend Y time with me which includes sex. And, please act like there is some passion, even if you are thinking about your Colombian novio while your're sharing your body.

NSA. It doesn't exist. Ain't nothing free from some anticipated benefit.

Only good energy[/QUOTE]Nothing like a new loving relationship, however, though he wasn't referring to women, I can relate Kenny Roger's words to relationships with women:

"... If you're going to play the game, then you got to learn to play it right, you got to know when to HOLD 'em, know when to FOLD 'em, know when to WALK away and know when to RUN..."

Have fun, learn to read the women you're with, be honest with yourself and don't be a fool or a patsy.

Only the best of energy please

[QUOTE=Ricker; 1178073]Nothing like a new loving relationship, however, though he wasn't referring to women, I can relate Kenny Roger's words to relationships with women:

". If you're going to play the game, then you got to learn to play it right, you got to know when to HOLD 'them, know when to FOLD 'them, know when to WALK away and know when to RUN."

Have fun, learn to read the women you're with, be honest with yourself and don't be a fool or a patsy.

Only the best of energy please[/QUOTE]I will read your book, and in return you should read "Sperm Wars". Evolutionary biology at its best.

I never meant to say that an NSA relationship would be stable over the long term. I think for a relationship to have long-term stability there has to be an element of mutual support an edification. OR one party takes advantage of the other party and the other party doesn't mind. Which is actually the most common form of long-term relationship.

I've never had it happen to me personally but I've seen it happen to my friend, where a girl pays his transportation from one city to another, rents him a hotel room, and pays his food just so she can fuck him.

I think for me the big problem is that women are obsessed with making themsleves PHYSICALLY attractive to men, and men dont give a flying FUCK about making themselves physically attractive to women. Many men, including me some years ago, thought that "money is the best aphrodisiac" as the site's slogan says. I believe now that that's a total myth!

[QUOTE=Legal Tender; 1177911]What you describe is lust, not a NSA relationship. Sure, two folks can be so attracted to each other that they literally can't keep their hands off of each other. When I was much younger, I remember going to see Bo Derek in the movie "10." I went with my dad and a couple of his buddies. I was old enough to lust after Bo as did my dad and his friends. I overheard one say to the other: "Just remember guys, no matter how hot she is, there's some dude who is tired of fucking her. And so it goes. As for the lust laden maiden of which you refer, sooner or later she will be thinking,"what am I getting out of this other than great sex"? Women want security and protection. That's not me saying that, it's biology. If you haven't read it, I highly recommend Robert Wright's "The Moral Animal: Why We Are the Way We Are: The New Science of Evolutionary Psychology." The closest "relationship" to an NSA one is the one with a sex worker: I will give you X if you spend Y time with me which includes sex. And, please act like there is some passion, even if you are thinking about your Colombian novio while your're sharing your body.

NSA. It doesn't exist. Ain't nothing free from some anticipated benefit.

Only good energy[/QUOTE]What you describe is not an NSA relationship either. It's a quasi-relationship. An open relationship. In a true NSA relationship. There are no commitments. You are good friends. You enjoy each other's company. However, she can fuck who she wants and you can fuck who you want. If she is busy or you are busy (date / friends). That is fine. There is no jealousy. You might give her money / gifts here or there. Birthdays, holidays, dire need (once in a while). However this is not expected (with a sex worker it is). If feelings start to develop. You need to get out! What is she getting out of this if not security? Sex when she doesn't have a boyfriend. A great friend. Someone to go out and have a nice dinner with. Partying. Etc. There are lots of elements of a boyfriend / girlfriend relationship. BUT there is no commitment!

[QUOTE=Bango Cheito;1178089]Many men, including me some years ago, thought that "money is the best aphrodisiac" as the site's slogan says. I believe now that that's a total myth![/QUOTE]You seek to under-mind the very foundation of the "monger" culture. What you call a "slogan" only shows lack of respect and commitment to the foundation of the brotherhood. Silly,"money is the best aphrodisiac" is the constitution, not a slogan.

Only good energy!

[QUOTE=Legal Tender; 1178161]You seek to under-mind the very foundation of the "monger" culture. What you call a "slogan" only shows lack of respect and commitment to the foundation of the brotherhood. Silly,"money is the best aphrodisiac" is the constitution, not a slogan.

Only good energy![/QUOTE]HAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAHAHHAHAHAHAAHAH!

That's "undermine"

Admittedly I haven't been mongering much this year and at all lately since I got hooked up again, but we ARE planning a couple of threesomes with a couple of my favorite p4p girls.

I think the greatest YMMV factor however is how a girl reacts to you on a physical level, and even in p4p this makes a helluva difference. Another factor is how good you are in bed. Especially with the p4p crowd a guy with a good tongue can get real popular ;)

[QUOTE=Bango Cheito;1178218]Especially with the p4p crowd a guy with a good tongue can get real popular ;)[/QUOTE]Or a guy with a handy Pocket Rocket. The girls act shy like "WTF is that?" but after a little taste? The can't get enough and always want me to give it to them as a little gift. No Way!

[QUOTE=Ricker; 1178073]Nothing like a new loving relationship, however, though he wasn't referring to women, I can relate Kenny Roger's words to relationships with women:

". If you're going to play the game, then you got to learn to play it right, you got to know when to HOLD 'them, know when to FOLD 'them, know when to WALK away and know when to RUN."

Have fun, learn to read the women you're with, be honest with yourself and don't be a fool or a patsy.

Only the best of energy please[/QUOTE]I understand your reference to Kenny Roger's words. Your adaptation of his lyrics to one's relationship with a women has the ring of truth. But, what do you do when you are "pot committed"? My Paisa has 3 more years of the university here in the states. Some days I think it's a great deal; some days I'm thinking how to "fold'them." Of course, the fact that her ass is so fine that it ought to be an museum, seems to keep creeping into my decisions. Damn addictions: find one that "fits" and it has such power, don't you think?

I'll say this - it's a very interesting experiment. And, carried out with only good energy.

[QUOTE=Legal Tender; 1178592]I understand your reference to Kenny Roger's words. Your adaptation of his lyrics to one's relationship with a women has the ring of truth. But, what do you do when you are "pot committed"? My Paisa has 3 more years of the university here in the states. Some days I think it's a great deal; some days I'm thinking how to "fold'them." Of course, the fact that her ass is so fine that it ought to be an museum, seems to keep creeping into my decisions. Damn addictions: find one that "fits" and it has such power, don't you think?

I'll say this. It's a very interesting experiment. And, carried out with only good energy.[/QUOTE]Well, if you've got a keeper, then of course that's when you "HOLD them (her)".

I've got a couple keepers myself, out of many candidates over the years, however, I keep them in their native countries, the USA just seems to spoil and change things with these girls, seen it many times with convinced friends who later got burned.

Always plenty of other nice ass out there that is also so fine, I find new ones all the time haha, don't we all?

A nice ass alone will not make me that silly, as to bring one to the homeland, I got to be able to "walk away or run" when needed. .

The best of energy to all!

there does not seem to be much info re guatapé. can someone recommend some hotels, and activities? thanks.

chesrep001

[quote=chesrep001; 1179193]there does not seem to be much info re guatapé. can someone recommend some hotels, and activities? thanks.

chesrep001[/quote]boat rides, zip line, el penol, penol church repica a pueblito paisa replica, tourist chics.

hotels there is bunch but i would park my ass at la fogata just because it is on the guatape malecon has restaraunt, disco.

[quote=chesrep001; 1179193]there does not seem to be much info re guatapé. can someone recommend some hotels, and activities? thanks.

chesrep001[/quote]boat rides, zip line, el penol, penol church repica a pueblito paisa replica, tourist chics.

hotels there is bunch but i would park my ass at la fogata just because it is on the guatape malecon has restaraunt, disco.

Nice pics Hillbilly, and good info. Thanks.

[QUOTE=Hillbilly69; 1179218]Boat rides, Zip line, El Penol, Penol Church Repica a Pueblito Paisa replica, tourist chics.

Hotels there is bunch but I would park my ass at La fogata just because it is on the Guatape Malecon has restaraunt, disco.[/QUOTE]

The macho thing to do in Guatape is to climb to the top of Penol, all 644 concrete steps. Its a big tall granite rock just outside of town. I've done it a few times. Also, there's a couple of snack-souvenir shops on the top. You can take a bus from Caribe bus station, its a 1 1/2 hr ride.

I don't know about macho but I know fun and for me it's getting with a couple buds like Bob and loading Richards House Boat up with booze and Chica's for a lake cruise and late nighters in the Jacuzzi. I normally mix in some water skiing as well. Not sure if this link will get deleted but you can google El Penol Lake Tours or pm me for info.

[url]http://www.fincasagroturisticas.com/oferta/elpenol/reyneptuno/[/url]

[url]http://ski-colombia.com/[/url]

Is a keeper someone you want to marry? For me that would also mean I were planning to live in Colombia. No more casas? Quite an conundrum.

[QUOTE=Ricker; 1178703]Well, if you've got a keeper, then of course that's when you "HOLD them (her)".

I've got a couple keepers myself, out of many candidates over the years, however, I keep them in their native countries, the USA just seems to spoil and change things with these girls, seen it many times with convinced friends who later got burned.

Always plenty of other nice ass out there that is also so fine, I find new ones all the time haha, don't we all?

A nice ass alone will not make me that silly, as to bring one to the homeland, I got to be able to "walk away or run" when needed. .

The best of energy to all![/QUOTE]