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[QUOTE=Hasideas Tao;1179862]Is a keeper someone you want to marry? For me that would also mean I were planning to live in Colombia. No more casas? Quite an conundrum.[/QUOTE]I don't think Ricker thinks a "keeper" equals spouse. I hope he writes something because your question was about his writing. I think anyone's approach to these situations is heuristic by definition. In my world, a "keeper" is a girl that you choose to love. It's a verb, so it means to want to do what you choose to do to make her life better. My "keeper" is a serious student of politics and can't wait to get back to Colombia to change the system. I figure that if that's her dream, an education from an excellent university in the United States will only help her. She now knows English grammar better than I do. And, I'm getting great pleasure in seeing her grow into and educated, articulate and successful young woman. I get a real kick out of her typical Paisa fieriness which is especially observable when she talks about the discussions in her political science classes. She can't understand why these educated fellow students do not embrace her Marx's ideology. Her typical Paisa fieriness is especially displayed during sex, too. Everything is ephemeral. But, during the meantime, I'm usually happy with my commitment: to provide an education for her. I guess I get GFE experiences because I have a GF? Just say'in.

Marriage? It's not necessary, but it's ephemeral, too. At best it lasts until one partner dies. It is a commitment in which risk can be minimized. A good prenuptial agreement and the risk is only psychological. The "marriage" agreement is illusory. It last until one of the partners decides they don't want to be married anymore. There is no consequence to the party that breaches the agreement. So much for "no fault" divorce, but that's another subject.

No more casas? I could never make that part of the deal. Just couldn't do it. Sex with a sex worker can be great, but it's not like sex with someone who shares your life. My understanding of the Colombian culture is that most women will tolerate non-monogamy unless your activities bring her some kind of humiliation. Just don't be blatant about what you do when you're not with her.

Only good energy!

[QUOTE=Hasideas Tao;1179862]Is a keeper someone you want to marry? For me that would also mean I were planning to live in Colombia. No more casas? Quite an conundrum.[/QUOTE]It may well mean that [url]http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=keeper[/url] But in this case I don't think he is saying exactly that. He just means someone who he would keep around in his portfolio and not be as quick to shake off or get rid of as others.

[QUOTE=Hasideas Tao;1179862]Is a keeper someone you want to marry? For me that would also mean I were planning to live in Colombia. No more casas? Quite an conundrum.[/QUOTE][QUOTE=Legal Tender;1179983]I don't think Ricker thinks a "keeper" equals spouse. I hope he writes something because your question was about his writing. I think anyone's approach to these situations is heuristic by definition. In my world, a "keeper" is a girl that you choose to love .[/QUOTE]It's simple, a "keeper" is someone special you like / love and want to keep around.

Marriage; been there, done that, not for me.

Also, I agree with Legal T, that just because I'm with a keeper, does not mean I will give up on some discrete PFP fun too.

You just seperate the two worlds.

One is "love" making, the other is "funzies"

Good energy here, como siempre ...

I was thinking of going to Bucaramanga. And I looked on the internet and there was not a lot.

I am not looking young girls but around 30 to 50 and one have there or live there now. I

Need info on apartments and other thing my spanish is good so that will help.

Thanks Tom

[QUOTE=Reefski; 1180304]I'm sure you'll have no problem. Do you like them fat too?

Reef[/QUOTE]Why not 20-60? Why discriminate? This age range will open a whole another array of prospective candidates!

Just curious guys. But has anyone been able to find a decent priced ticket to Medellin from the US lately. I see now the airlines have raised their prices in regard to the tax issue. I tried all different combinations. Flying thru CTG, Panama City, Bogota, Curacao etc. But no luck.

Anyone find a decent ticket under $400?

[QUOTE=Joey Smith; 1180396]Just curious guys. But has anyone been able to find a decent priced ticket to Medellin from the US lately. I see now the airlines have raised their prices in regard to the tax issue. I tried all different combinations. Flying thru CTG, Panama City, Bogota, Curacao etc. But no luck.

Anyone find a decent ticket under $400?[/QUOTE]Flights are insanely expensive now! Airlines are cutting routes. Less competition just makes things worse. I got a flight from Spirit back in March from LGA for 220. Now it's 550+! Insane!

I have posted this question elsewhere, but the Colombia board is one of the busiest, and I do not want this to be missed by people with extensive world wide experience.

I am trying to decide where I should spend a week of mongering this fall. I like to have sex with non (or "semi") pros. Of course, non pros require time and effort, so I like to mix them in with pros, making a perfect vacation that typically leaves me exhausted and happy at the end.

There are places where meeting non pros is easy: the DR, for example. I have lots of experience there, and a non-pro can usually be found within a day or two of arrival (on my last trip, I arrived in Sto Domingo at 3 pm, fucked a part-time pro that I picked up at the beach in Boca Chica at 5 pm, picked up my girl whom I had met on Tagged at 7 pm, and fucked her by 8 pm; I picked up a total non pro in a bar two nights later. In between the two non pros, I fucked by novia twice and 4 more girls were P4P. 8 girls in 3 days with 14 sexual encounters. Good exercise at my age!). I do OK with non-pros in Brazil as well (I even have two non pros I see in Rio, which is NOT easy for pickups). But, after countless trips to the DR and Brazil, I am ready for something new.

I read on this board that Indonesia is great, and Jakarta is now at the top of my list followed by Manila. But, before I actually pay for the air, I am curious if anyone knows of any place where non pro action is even easier. Peru? Ukraine? Love tours in Medellin? Macau? Prague?

Where is the easiest place in the world to find and conquer non-pros?

Trust me, I have read the f-ing board, and I am very open to suggestions.

[QUOTE=Joey Smith; 1180396]Just curious guys. But has anyone been able to find a decent priced ticket to Medellin from the US lately. I see now the airlines have raised their prices in regard to the tax issue. I tried all different combinations. Flying thru CTG, Panama City, Bogota, Curacao etc. But no luck.

Anyone find a decent ticket under $400?[/QUOTE]After Labor day prices may drop, but until Aries airlines gets back on the scene than these robber airlines will have their way with us.

$99 a barrel oil is not helping things either.

One solultion would be to ban all Missonarys from Latin America. They take up a lot of seats to fill these planes up.

95 % are frauds anyway as when Hati had their big earthquake a while back they were the first ones on the plane out of the Country.

I just was in a very expensive all inclusive resort, and it was loaded with these people. Not many poor people to help in that area, but looks good later in church when you share on how many people you helped.

When you get ready to take issue with this post, don't forget I said 95%, not all of them.

[QUOTE=John Gault; 1180678]After Labor day prices may drop, but until Aries airlines gets back on the scene than these robber airlines will have their way with us.

$99 a barrel oil is not helping things either.

One solultion would be to ban all Missonarys from Latin America. They take up a lot of seats to fill these planes up.

95 % are frauds anyway as when Hati had their big earthquake a while back they were the first ones on the plane out of the Country.

I just was in a very expensive all inclusive resort, and it was loaded with these people. Not many poor people to help in that area, but looks good later in church when you share on how many people you helped.

When you get ready to take issue with this post, don't forget I said 95, not all of them.[/QUOTE]$680 on Avianca was the cheapest I could find to MDE and I'm traveling AFTER the feria. AA was like $900. WTF?

Really? Is this some kind of unspoken code? I dated a girl from Bogota in NY believing in this code and it turned out she was really not cool with it, even when she went back to Colombia for months at a time. So, if you have a "keeper" do you think there's a good chance she will tolerate you messing with other women so long as you keep it discrete? Is it equally ok and likely for her to turn a few tricks or even have other romantic relationships? I have met a few p4p chicas who said their boyfriends knew nothing about their prepago persona. Some with whom I was even friendly enough to become facebook friends. They have all said their boyfriends know nothing about what they do on the side. Here in NY I have some buddies who kinda go by a similar code of what they don't know won't hurt them. I understand it. I've been there. Hopefully I don't end up in that position again. I am not judging, but to me, that's not tolerance, it's ignorance. I have a friend with a very cool American wife. And he said, it's all about HOW you say it. Never defensive or excited. And also you got to be upfront and honest about your desires from the very start. Always seems like good advice when I think about it, but for me, implementing it is always tricky since I've never had any long term success at it.

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My understanding of the Colombian culture is that most women will tolerate non-monogamy unless your activities bring her some kind of humiliation. Just don't be blatant about what you do when you're not with her.

[QUOTE=John Gault; 1180678]After Labor day prices may drop, but until Aries airlines gets back on the scene than these robber airlines will have their way with us.

$99 a barrel oil is not helping things either.

One solultion would be to ban all Missonarys from Latin America. They take up a lot of seats to fill these planes up.

95 % are frauds anyway as when Hati had their big earthquake a while back they were the first ones on the plane out of the Country.

I just was in a very expensive all inclusive resort, and it was loaded with these people. Not many poor people to help in that area, but looks good later in church when you share on how many people you helped.

When you get ready to take issue with this post, don't forget I said 95, not all of them.[/QUOTE]Your right about AIRES. Flew them twice last year out of FLL into Medellin. Worth every penny.

I keep checking their upcoming schedule to see if they'll bring back service from FLL into Cartagena and Medellin. No mention yet.

[QUOTE=Hasideas Tao; 1180767]Really? Is this some kind of unspoken code? I dated a girl from Bogota in NY believing in this code and it turned out she was really not cool with it, even when she went back to Colombia for months at a time. So, if you have a "keeper" do you think there's a good chance she will tolerate you messing with other women so long as you keep it discrete? Is it equally ok and likely for her to turn a few tricks or even have other romantic relationships? I have met a few p4p chicas who said their boyfriends knew nothing about their prepago persona. Some with whom I was even friendly enough to become facebook friends. They have all said their boyfriends know nothing about what they do on the side. Here in NY I have some buddies who kinda go by a similar code of what they don't know won't hurt them. I understand it. I've been there. Hopefully I don't end up in that position again. I am not judging, but to me, that's not tolerance, it's ignorance. I have a friend with a very cool American wife. And he said, it's all about HOW you say it. Never defensive or excited. And also you got to be upfront and honest about your desires from the very start. Always seems like good advice when I think about it, but for me, implementing it is always tricky since I've never had any long term success at it.

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My understanding of the Colombian culture is that most women will tolerate non-monogamy unless your activities bring her some kind of humiliation. Just don't be blatant about what you do when you're not with her.[/QUOTE]IMO, girls don't tolerate cheating. Not even Colombian girls. What you want is a girl that is cool with an open relationship, better yet a fwb type of deal. If the girl does not know, there will always be trouble.

Also, I just want to say."keeper" in monger terms is much different from your normal definition. A "monger keeper" is someone that you keep in your rolodex, that you will see again and again and (normally it's fuck them and on to the next). It DOES NOT mean you will be monogamous with them.

[QUOTE=Forest; 1180620]I have posted this question elsewhere, but the Colombia board is one of the busiest, and I do not want this to be missed by people with extensive world wide experience.

I am trying to decide where I should spend a week of mongering this fall. I like to have sex with non (or "semi") pros. Of course, non pros require time and effort, so I like to mix them in with pros, making a perfect vacation that typically leaves me exhausted and happy at the end.

There are places where meeting non pros is easy: the DR, for example. I have lots of experience there, and a non-pro can usually be found within a day or two of arrival (on my last trip, I arrived in Sto Domingo at 3 pm, fucked a part-time pro that I picked up at the beach in Boca Chica at 5 pm, picked up my girl whom I had met on Tagged at 7 pm, and fucked her by 8 pm; I picked up a total non pro in a bar two nights later. In between the two non pros, I fucked by novia twice and 4 more girls were P4P. 8 girls in 3 days with 14 sexual encounters. Good exercise at my age!). I do OK with non-pros in Brazil as well (I even have two non pros I see in Rio, which is NOT easy for pickups). But, after countless trips to the DR and Brazil, I am ready for something new.

I read on this board that Indonesia is great, and Jakarta is now at the top of my list followed by Manila. But, before I actually pay for the air, I am curious if anyone knows of any place where non pro action is even easier. Peru? Ukraine? Love tours in Medellin? Macau? Prague?

Where is the easiest place in the world to find and conquer non-pros?

Trust me, I have read the f-ing board, and I am very open to suggestions.[/QUOTE]Easiest places for non pros-Peru and ecuador. Nothing has come close for me.

I have heard brazil aswell particularly certain areas and phillipines although never been there.

I was planning a trip to Colombia just for mongering. I am having trouble deciding what city to go to. I am leaning towards going to medallin. I am intrested in going to one city only. Which city has the prettiest gdp's? Which city is the safest and easiest to monger in. I'm attracted to darker skin ladies with big chest and tata's. Any info is appreciated.