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[QUOTE=Grandnash84;1181474]I was planning a trip to Colombia just for mongering. I am having trouble deciding what city to go to. I am leaning towards going to medallin. I am intrested in going to one city only. Which city has the prettiest gdp's? Which city is the safest and easiest to monger in. I'm attracted to darker skin ladies with big chest and tata's. Any info is appreciated.[/QUOTE]Safest? Darker Skin, Tourist Oriented, Easiest? All P4P, Hit the Coast, Cartagena and LDV and Electra when it opens again. If you want to go to Medellin, definitely hit the gringo compound (mansion) No ocean in MDE though. p.s. of you are looking for Garota sex? I have heard that Colombia cannot even come close to competing with BRAZIL and ANAL is not a given.

[QUOTE=Grandnash84;1181474]I was planning a trip to Colombia just for mongering. I am having trouble deciding what city to go to. I am leaning towards going to medallin. I am intrested in going to one city only. Which city has the prettiest gdp's? Which city is the safest and easiest to monger in. I'm attracted to darker skin ladies with big chest and tata's. Any info is appreciated.[/QUOTE]You should consider the DR.

[QUOTE=Grandnash84;1181474]I was planning a trip to Colombia just for mongering. I am having trouble deciding what city to go to. I am leaning towards going to medallin. I am intrested in going to one city only. Which city has the prettiest gdp's? Which city is the safest and easiest to monger in. I'm attracted to darker skin ladies with big chest and tata's. Any info is appreciated.[/QUOTE]Medellin chicas are more on the lighter side. You'll want to go to the coasts. In Colombia you'd want to check out Cartagena or Cali. However, all of Colombia you need some Spanish (or a guide). Sosua in DR is probably your best bet. Some chicas speak English.

[QUOTE=Hioctane; 1180912]IMO, girls don't tolerate cheating. Not even Colombian girls. What you want is a girl that is cool with an open relationship, better yet a fwb type of deal. If the girl does not know, there will always be trouble.

Also, I just want to say."keeper" in monger terms is much different from your normal definition. A "monger keeper" is someone that you keep in your rolodex, that you will see again and again and (normally it's fuck them and on to the next). It DOES NOT mean you will be monogamous with them.[/QUOTE]Most girls if you tell them you want an open relationship they will balk. If you tell them you love them and want to be with only them and then fuck around on them they won't care NO MATTER WHAT THEY SAY. Girls say a lot of shit they don't mean because of what it's like socially to be a female in this culture. As a matter of fact in Latin America you can get away with almost anything as long as you do it discreetly. Then again, I guess that applies to anywhere.

I stayed single for 2 years after splitting up with my ex because we had an open relationship and I wanted another one and wasn't willing to settle for anything less. The way I see it, why even bother having a gf if you're just going to lie to her. And I finally found one incredible woman who has the balls to really live an open relationship properly.

A FWB (amigovio or amigo con derechos) agreement with a girl is an entirely different proposition being much more casual in nature. Most Colombian women will be willing to define a relationship as such with you, but be aware you're going to be very low on the totem pole, ESPECIALLY if she has kids and / or a demanding job. If a woman in Colombia accepts this arrangement, you will see her when SHE has the time on HER terms. Generally after a while she gets serious with some other guy and cuts off your services, OR maybe she starts pressuring you to formalize the relationship and be her bf for real. Or you just don't have time to get it together between the two schedules and you become FWB in THEORY only. This is also incredibly hard to pull off without being able to relate to her deeply on a personal and cultural level, which means a DEEP understanding of the Spanish language as spoken in Colombia, of Colombian culture and history etc.

I've lived in Colombia for 3 years and have passed though about 10 or 12 of those FWB situations, with varying degrees of success. However with ALL of them the sex has been highly sporadic. If you want regular sex in Colombia you need to either get a proper gf or pay for it IMO.

I'd say Colombia is not a good choice for easy take-downs of non-pros. For one as I've posted previously a LOT LOT LOT LOT of these women are prepagos on the side and NOBODY knows about it. Colombianas are EXCELLENT at hiding things from the world. For another IMO Colombian women are simply NOT easy conquests. Colombian women are trained from childhood to make men jump through a series of flaming hoops before they give up the poon. Your typical sex and intimacy-starved gringo lands in a place like Colombia and he is A SHEEP AMONG WOLVES.

I must repeat again, if you're not from Colombia, if you're coming for sex and you don't know the language and culture intimately STICK WITH p4p! P4p in Colombia is pretty much ubiquitous can be VERY easy on the wallet and is fairly safe and regulated. Take advantage of this!

Don't flame me for this. I've read some of the general reviews on Colombian women and especially those in Barranquilla. I met a girl online that lives in Barranquilla and we've hit it off. She has not once asked for money which is great because that is my first sign to split from further talking. For months now she never asked for money, gifts, talked about a sick child / family member, or hinted to me that she wants anything monetary from me. She does however want me to plan a short trip to spend a few days with her. I am looking at November 14th for 3 days. I do have some concerns though. 1. My spanish sucks. 2. I am not familiar with Barranquilla and the localities. If someone is familiar with the place shoot me a pm with what hotels are clean and secure near the airport. Should I basically stay glued to my hotel or venture out on my own during daylight hours with or without my girl? Will anybody at the airports / hotels speak ANY English? My flight will be from Washington DC in the US to Panama for a short layover and then straight to Barranquilla. Prices range between $500-$600 American for roundtrip. Anybody know of a better deal? Lastly, I want to send a cell phone to her before I get there. Again, she didn't ask for one or hint that she needed one but I told her that I wanted to send it to her so we can talk. Unless someone on here thinks I should just buy a international calling card (prepaid) which was have many in the area I live. Would she be able to use the calling card on a pay phone or is there no payphone in Barranquilla.

Is there anything I should know before I travel besides registering my trip with the US consulate and to basically have fun?

I'll just address your comunication issue. Go to Orbitel. Com and get a "linea directa"- whoch is a local Colombiab phone # for people tp call you to. Choose (in your case a Barranquilla area z.

Code) and then nominate what phone # the calls get routed to (your cell phone, for example). Also they give you 4 #'s by which to call them and make long-distance calls from- at a good rate.

[QUOTE=Latin Lover77; 1181991]Don't flame me for this. I've read some of the general reviews on Colombian women and especially those in Barranquilla. I met a girl online that lives in Barranquilla and we've hit it off. She has not once asked for money which is great because that is my first sign to split from further talking. For months now she never asked for money, gifts, talked about a sick child / family member, or hinted to me that she wants anything monetary from me. She does however want me to plan a short trip to spend a few days with her. I am looking at November 14th for 3 days. I do have some concerns though. 1. My spanish sucks. 2. I am not familiar with Barranquilla and the localities. If someone is familiar with the place shoot me a pm with what hotels are clean and secure near the airport. Should I basically stay glued to my hotel or venture out on my own during daylight hours with or without my girl? Will anybody at the airports / hotels speak ANY English? My flight will be from Washington DC in the US to Panama for a short layover and then straight to Barranquilla. Prices range between $500-$600 American for roundtrip. Anybody know of a better deal? Lastly, I want to send a cell phone to her before I get there. Again, she didn't ask for one or hint that she needed one but I told her that I wanted to send it to her so we can talk. Unless someone on here thinks I should just buy a international calling card (prepaid) which was have many in the area I live. Would she be able to use the calling card on a pay phone or is there no payphone in Barranquilla.

Is there anything I should know before I travel besides registering my trip with the US consulate and to basically have fun?[/QUOTE]

[quote=chesrep001; 1179193]there does not seem to be much info re guatapé. can someone recommend some hotels, and activities? thanks.

chesrep001[/quote]i saw several posts after mr. cat posted this. how about finca rentals or nice hotels with jaccuzzis in the room? any tips?

[QUOTE=Latin Lover77; 1181991]Don't flame me for this. I've read some of the general reviews on Colombian women and especially those in Barranquilla. I met a girl online that lives in Barranquilla and we've hit it off. She has not once asked for money which is great because that is my first sign to split from further talking. For months now she never asked for money, gifts, talked about a sick child / family member, or hinted to me that she wants anything monetary from me. She does however want me to plan a short trip to spend a few days with her. I am looking at November 14th for 3 days. I do have some concerns though. 1. My spanish sucks. 2. I am not familiar with Barranquilla and the localities. If someone is familiar with the place shoot me a pm with what hotels are clean and secure near the airport. Should I basically stay glued to my hotel or venture out on my own during daylight hours with or without my girl? Will anybody at the airports / hotels speak ANY English? My flight will be from Washington DC in the US to Panama for a short layover and then straight to Barranquilla. Prices range between $500-$600 American for roundtrip. Anybody know of a better deal? Lastly, I want to send a cell phone to her before I get there. Again, she didn't ask for one or hint that she needed one but I told her that I wanted to send it to her so we can talk. Unless someone on here thinks I should just buy a international calling card (prepaid) which was have many in the area I live. Would she be able to use the calling card on a pay phone or is there no payphone in Barranquilla.

Is there anything I should know before I travel besides registering my trip with the US consulate and to basically have fun?[/QUOTE]Okay, first of all she hasn't asked you for money because she hasn't met you yet. The girls that really know how to play this game will always wait until after you have met them and they give you something (sex) to draw you in. I will bet a months pay that within 30 days of your return to the states after meeting her and her giving you the best sex you have ever had that she will hit you up for something.

If you buy her an international phone card she can go to an internet cafe and most of them have phones that she can pay a few pesos to use. Better yet, ask her for her suggestion, if she gives you a quick answer it means she has played this game before and you are being used.

I hope you have found a "good" girl but be VERY careful amigo. 95% of the time I hear stories like this it doesn't end well, I have been there myself but it was a long time ago and I smartened up.

[QUOTE=Latin Lover77; 1181991]Don't flame me for this. I've read some of the general reviews on Colombian women and especially those in Barranquilla. I met a girl online that lives in Barranquilla and we've hit it off. She has not once asked for money which is great because that is my first sign to split from further talking. For months now she never asked for money, gifts, talked about a sick child / family member, or hinted to me that she wants anything monetary from me. She does however want me to plan a short trip to spend a few days with her. I am looking at November 14th for 3 days. I do have some concerns though. 1. My spanish sucks. 2. I am not familiar with Barranquilla and the localities. If someone is familiar with the place shoot me a pm with what hotels are clean and secure near the airport. Should I basically stay glued to my hotel or venture out on my own during daylight hours with or without my girl? Will anybody at the airports / hotels speak ANY English? My flight will be from Washington DC in the US to Panama for a short layover and then straight to Barranquilla. Prices range between $500-$600 American for roundtrip. Anybody know of a better deal? Lastly, I want to send a cell phone to her before I get there. Again, she didn't ask for one or hint that she needed one but I told her that I wanted to send it to her so we can talk. Unless someone on here thinks I should just buy a international calling card (prepaid) which was have many in the area I live. Would she be able to use the calling card on a pay phone or is there no payphone in Barranquilla.

Is there anything I should know before I travel besides registering my trip with the US consulate and to basically have fun?[/QUOTE]You have met her on the internet and you have hit it off.

She hasn't asked for anything. You haven't met up with her yet.

Baranquia is fine during the day. Walking around on your own at night you are a target. Just stick tot he right areas.

Someone in the airport will speak english.

If I was flying to another country for a women I would organise a few more to make the most of my time. Because she is.

[QUOTE=Latin Lover77; 1181991]Don't flame me for this. I've read some of the general reviews on Colombian women and especially those in Barranquilla. I met a girl online that lives in Barranquilla and we've hit it off. She has not once asked for money which is great because that is my first sign to split from further talking. For months now she never asked for money, gifts, talked about a sick child / family member, or hinted to me that she wants anything monetary from me. She does however want me to plan a short trip to spend a few days with her. I am looking at November 14th for 3 days. I do have some concerns though. 1. My spanish sucks. 2. I am not familiar with Barranquilla and the localities. If someone is familiar with the place shoot me a pm with what hotels are clean and secure near the airport. Should I basically stay glued to my hotel or venture out on my own during daylight hours with or without my girl? Will anybody at the airports / hotels speak ANY English? My flight will be from Washington DC in the US to Panama for a short layover and then straight to Barranquilla. Prices range between $500-$600 American for roundtrip. Anybody know of a better deal? Lastly, I want to send a cell phone to her before I get there. Again, she didn't ask for one or hint that she needed one but I told her that I wanted to send it to her so we can talk. Unless someone on here thinks I should just buy a international calling card (prepaid) which was have many in the area I live. Would she be able to use the calling card on a pay phone or is there no payphone in Barranquilla.

Is there anything I should know before I travel besides registering my trip with the US consulate and to basically have fun?[/QUOTE]$600 for 3 days seem hardly worth it. At least a week for those prices.

BTW, women like these are a dime a dozen. I fall in love every day. LOL. The only women that ask you for money are usually P4P. My advice. Talk to some more chicas. Don't fall in love so easily!

[QUOTE=Latin Lover77; 1181991]Don't flame me for this. I've read some of the general reviews on Colombian women and especially those in Barranquilla. I met a girl online that lives in Barranquilla and we've hit it off. She has not once asked for money which is great because that is my first sign to split from further talking. For months now she never asked for money, gifts, talked about a sick child / family member, or hinted to me that she wants anything monetary from me. She does however want me to plan a short trip to spend a few days with her. I am looking at November 14th for 3 days. I do have some concerns though. 1. My spanish sucks. 2. I am not familiar with Barranquilla and the localities. If someone is familiar with the place shoot me a pm with what hotels are clean and secure near the airport. Should I basically stay glued to my hotel or venture out on my own during daylight hours with or without my girl? Will anybody at the airports / hotels speak ANY English? My flight will be from Washington DC in the US to Panama for a short layover and then straight to Barranquilla. Prices range between $500-$600 American for roundtrip. Anybody know of a better deal? Lastly, I want to send a cell phone to her before I get there. Again, she didn't ask for one or hint that she needed one but I told her that I wanted to send it to her so we can talk. Unless someone on here thinks I should just buy a international calling card (prepaid) which was have many in the area I live. Would she be able to use the calling card on a pay phone or is there no payphone in Barranquilla.

Is there anything I should know before I travel besides registering my trip with the US consulate and to basically have fun?[/QUOTE]I see no reason for you to worry to much about being flamed for your post.

I'll try to answer a few of your questions.

This is a great hotel in a very safe area.

[url]http://www.elhotelcontinental.com/.[/url]

No good hotels that I know of near the airport. 15 minute ride to my hotel.

Your Spanish sucks you say. How are you talking to her? If she speaks English then it does not matter.

3 days? To short a visit for all the time and money you will spend travling.

Not familiar with Barranquilla? She will be your guide so don't worry about that at all.

You say { my spanish sucks. } Well you have to Nov. 14 th to bone up a little.

As far as { Should I basically stay glued to my hotel or venture out on my own during daylight hours with or without my girl? } Get out and look around. Day time is pretty safe in the better areas of BAQ. For me to stay the whole time in my room you would have to put a gun to my head.

My most important piece of advice. In case she does not pan out then read the board for P4P options. Write the locations down, and give them to a taxi driver. Keep a card from your hotel to give the driver for when you want to go back to the hotel.

So to sum it up. Stay for at least a week, and bone up on your Spanish.

Good luck.

[QUOTE=Latin Lover77;1181991]For months . 1. My spanish sucks.[/QUOTE]I think you're just being too humble. I would assume you also met a whole slew of other women online, and it's safe to assume again, that about 80% of these women do not know English beyond the healthy expression 'Hello, How are you? '. Give me a benefit of a doubt and also from my own experience, but your Spanish, IMHO, is good enough at the airport so you do not worry about that. I hope that she would be able to go the airport to greet you and the two of you have a nice taxi ride to the hotel. This reminds me of the first taxi ride I had with the first Colombian woman I met online many moons ago in MDE. We started kissing the minute we were inside the taxi at the airport all the way to the hotel. And you all guess right what happened after check-in. LOL.

[QUOTE=Latin Lover77;1181991]Is there anything I should know before I travel besides registering my trip with the US consulate and to basically have fun?[/QUOTE]I have never registered with them. I know I should. They advice that we all should, maybe for the first time in Colombia. After a few trips and when you become familiar with the land, it is your call, IMHO.

[QUOTE=Latin Lover77;1181991]Should I basically stay glued to my hotel or venture out on my own during daylight hours with or without my girl?[/QUOTE]Do you have a contingency plan in case you are not with this girl? I usually have a list of names and phone numbers of other women in case the original plan blows. I am still troubled with your ' 3 days ' stay though. DC is as far from Colombia as Los Angeles where I live. I usually stay for a week in Colombia with or without mi novias when I already spend that much on the airline tickets. You can not do much on a short trip. LOL.

Hope you will enjoy Colombia like I always have, especially in Medellin. It rockssssssssss. I always want to go there whenever I get the chance, and most importantly, to get away from the GRRRRRRRRiiiiiiiNNNNNNgggggggaaaaaaaaassssss.

Good days gents.

EZ

[QUOTE=Bango Cheito; 1181730]Most girls if you tell them you want an open relationship they will balk. If you tell them you love them and want to be with only them and then fuck around on them they won't care NO MATTER WHAT THEY SAY. Girls say a lot of shit they don't mean because of what it's like socially to be a female in this culture. As a matter of fact in Latin America you can get away with almost anything as long as you do it discreetly. Then again, I guess that applies to anywhere.

I stayed single for 2 years after splitting up with my ex because we had an open relationship and I wanted another one and wasn't willing to settle for anything less. The way I see it, why even bother having a gf if you're just going to lie to her. And I finally found one incredible woman who has the balls to really live an open relationship properly.

A FWB (amigovio or amigo con derechos) agreement with a girl is an entirely different proposition being much more casual in nature. Most Colombian women will be willing to define a relationship as such with you, but be aware you're going to be very low on the totem pole, ESPECIALLY if she has kids and / or a demanding job. If a woman in Colombia accepts this arrangement, you will see her when SHE has the time on HER terms. Generally after a while she gets serious with some other guy and cuts off your services, OR maybe she starts pressuring you to formalize the relationship and be her bf for real. Or you just don't have time to get it together between the two schedules and you become FWB in THEORY only. This is also incredibly hard to pull off without being able to relate to her deeply on a personal and cultural level, which means a DEEP understanding of the Spanish language as spoken in Colombia, of Colombian culture and history etc.

I've lived in Colombia for 3 years and have passed though about 10 or 12 of those FWB situations, with varying degrees of success. However with ALL of them the sex has been highly sporadic. If you want regular sex in Colombia you need to either get a proper gf or pay for it IMO.

I'd say Colombia is not a good choice for easy take-downs of non-pros. For one as I've posted previously a LOT LOT LOT LOT of these women are prepagos on the side and NOBODY knows about it. Colombianas are EXCELLENT at hiding things from the world. For another IMO Colombian women are simply NOT easy conquests. Colombian women are trained from childhood to make men jump through a series of flaming hoops before they give up the poon. Your typical sex and intimacy-starved gringo lands in a place like Colombia and he is A SHEEP AMONG WOLVES.

I must repeat again, if you're not from Colombia, if you're coming for sex and you don't know the language and culture intimately STICK WITH p4p! P4p in Colombia is pretty much ubiquitous can be VERY easy on the wallet and is fairly safe and regulated. Take advantage of this![/QUOTE]Of course don't come out and say you want an open relationship in the beginning. Say you want to take things slow and you just want to be "friends" for now. It's easier if you don't live there. Use that as an excuse. IMO, saying you love someone and fuck around on them is just being scum. Here and abroad! No girl wants that. Saying that they tolerate is is bullshit! My friend who's married and mongers on the side uses the same rationalization.

That's why you need many FWBs at once. And if they all busy or no sex you have p4p to fall back on.

I'm not sure what you mean by Colombianas not being easy conquests. If you can fuck her within 3 dates, I think that's easy. No? It's not like the US where it can take months.

I agree with sticking with p4p in the beginning. Let it evolve. You don't want to fall for their charm so fast and get suckered into marriage or whatnot!

Judging by your posts, all of you have not traveled much.

Two or three countries at most.

So Sad. How are helping the not so fortunate?

How can you offer good advice to them?

[QUOTE=World Travel 69; 1182386]Judging by your posts, all of you have not traveled much.

Two or three countries at most.

So Sad. How are helping the not so fortunate?

How can you offer good advice to them?[/QUOTE]Yeah, but that was just last month, I promise I'll get to more countries next month. Hehehe.