One Night in Bangkok Makes a Grown Man Bored
I started reading the Bangkok forum nearly 12 years ago. It was the stuff of fantasy. Beautiful loving Thai girls that threw themselves at you for almost no money. Wild times. Etcetera, etcetera. I could only afford US and Mexican destinations, so I dreamed of Bangkok for another day. Now that I finally made the journey, I'm pretty unimpressed. The bars have mostly unattractive girls. Hottie freelancers and escorts are pretty close to US prices and US attitude. I was quoted 3k baht from a hottie freelancer at Climax last night and the internet escorts are in the 4k-9k baht range. I got a soapie at Annies that set me back 2500 baht for mostly 3 g service.
Everyone from the girls to the taxi drivers to the waiters seem to be involved in some sort of tourist shakedown.
The winners in this game seem to fall into two categories:
(1) Young superstuds who are bagging approximately the same quality girls that they would get in the US.
(2) Resident expats. I saw some older gentleman (probably from this board) with some STUNNING young Thai girlfriends. These were women that they had clearly spent time finding and cultivating. Also, I'm betting a lot of these gentlemen spoke Thai.
I didn't see many short time tourists doing very well in terms of quality either in Bangkok or Pattaya. The only 9's and 10's that gave me the time of day were ladyboys. Given the cost of coming out here, I think Tijuana is a much better mongering destination.
Is it really that depressing?
The recent posts by old and new members paint a very grim picture of Bangkok. I live in UK and made my first trip to Bangkok this year. There seems to be a lot of comparison with what happened in the good old days. I understand that for those living in BKK that is greatly relevant. But for a large number of us who travel for periods to Thailand is that really of any importance? What I compare is my mongering experience in the UK and that in BKK today.
In the UK I would easily pay £150 for a 1 hour session. Now that is Baht 7500. In Bangkok, for 6000 baht I had a girl stay with me for 2 full days, day and night. Off course there was money spent on food etc but it was not excessive, so maybe a little more than my cost of a one hour session. To have a girl spend 2 full days with me in the UK would cost at least £2000 and the food etc on top of that!
Plus, there is the experience of being able to walk into a MP, or watching a show in a gogo or even picking out the girls in a FL club. I greatly enjoy going to a place like Climax, looking around and picking out the girl that I would go back with! Yes, if one compared to the stories of many years ago when the girls were probably throwing themselves over the mongers, then the scene is depressing, as that is not happening any more and you actually have to have a little game to get the good ones. But for me, fortunately or unfortunately I did not experience the good old days, so I only compare my experience in the UK and BKK right now!
I did do the math and realised that once you add the cost of the hotel, then the price per session is actually almost what you pay in the UK. Howevwer, that session is much much longer in BKK (ie an overnight) as compared to the hour in the UK and the fun is lot more.
Maybe in a few years things will change even more and then it would not be worth travelling to BKK. For me right now, it is still a great place and I will be back next year!