Bombay / Mumbai

[QUOTE=Mumbai Guy]My dear Axman 911

I do not agree with you. Let me put things in proper perspective. In the first place we are not talking about SWs here. Nobody needs a contact to get the services of SWs. You just visit a place, pay up and do the act. Why the hell do you need contacts?

When we talk of contacts, we are dealing with semi professionals or girls who do this for some extra money. These girls have a status in the society and are reluctunt to divulge their identity to each and every tom, dick and harry. So it is necessary that we need to protect them from the harrasment that they face if we pass their contacts to someone who is not careful or mature enough to understand the necessity to do so. If you think that every girl who is into this is a sw then I beg to disagree.

MG[/QUOTE]Well said. I completely agree with MG.

I reckon a person who has developed contacts has every right to share them with the people he chooses to. It does take a lot of time and effort to develop a contact and indiscriminate sharing of contacts does have its share of complications.

Nothing personal but if I may say without any prejudice ,JSF has helped me twice,without a frown,I presume he must be cooperating in the same manner with other mongereres too.

I therefore think it is incorrect to say he has an attitude problem.

Lastly, each to his own,if he does not wants to share a contact it is absolutely his sweet will and he or any other mongerer is under no obligation to share the contact.

We should accept and respect anyone's wish.

I also appeal to all let us put a lid to it and move on from here.

[QUOTE=Bombay Guy]I reckon a person who has developed contacts has every right to share them with the people he chooses to. It does take a lot of time and effort to develop a contact and indiscriminate sharing of contacts does have its share of complications.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Axeman911]
JSF, I don't mean to be rude but you say that you have invested a lot of time, money, sweat, blood, tears, whatever in establishing your contacts. I think you should take a reality check and realize that you've scored a session with an SW and not discovered the remedy for global warming or the cure for AIDS. It's not the biggest deal on earth. Today if I met your contact and paid her 5k to change her phone number and keep her distance from you, I can bet she'd do it. You need to realize what kind of commercial enterprise you are dealing with here.
.[/QUOTE] Well I guess you ahve not had to lose a contact that you really liked just because you were a nice guy and gave it to all and sundry who asked for it.

Reality check. Check your posts. 14?? says a lot about you doesn't it. For a guy who will give my girl or anyone's girl 5k to change her number you are very poor in the experience department. Practically a pauper. Not trying to be Rude of course.

And from your post it is apparent that you dont lack english writing skills so I guess the conclusion is that you dont have any good contacts to write about or you are a selfish person who does not want to write about it because you might have to give the contact to every one who spams your in box. Since according to you everyone else is selfish and by implication you are not. Not trying to be Rude naturally.

Before trying not to be Rude think and then put pen to paper or fingers wherever on the keyboard as the case maybe mate if the hand are free of course.


Not trying to be Rude at all .

Cheers

JSF

[QUOTE=Indianmontreal]Jsf and SatyaB

I must admit to being one of the "spammers" who wrote to JSF.

What about the folks that actually do Not have any interesting anecdotes to share?
[/quote] Those are the kind who need to go out find some SW and write about their experience so that we know they are genuine mongers.

[quote]Is this a Site meant solely for the ones that are already kneck-deep in 'mongering'? My take is, that those who are, don't need this Site anyways, because they are in too deep and well enough dug in the domain to have some A, B or C or whatever. Ready for a quick lay at short call.

I think there Must be some other way to assess genuineness of a request or of a person who's joined up here and insistence on public posts can be done away with.[/quote] how pray tell. Shall we ask them to cross their fingers and hope to die? Pity we wont be able to see if they actually crossed their fingers beacasue we cant see them in front of us. Maybe if they post their experiences they will gain creidibility? just a thought.

[quote]One way would be to exchange contacts and recounts through PM. I for one recall having specifically indicated to the 3 or 4 Seniors to whom I PM-ed, that I would be happy to share whatever little info I Do have, in exchange for their help. Infact I did too, hoping to demonstrate bona-fides by giving the first information. Fair enough, I thought.[/quote] A private forum within forum you mean. Then we will only have guys asking for contacts on the forum. The rest will be exchanging their experiences with only those they fancy I guess. Hey Satya I met blah blah blah. Hey Mumbai guy I met blah blah blah. Just example Satya and Mumbai Guy. That would mean that only the guys you want something from (contact perhaps) will get to benefit from your experience. the rest can go jump in a lake or two.



[quote]But if pinging posts on open forum is a must-do, then that is more than a little sad.[/quote] Sad?? that is the reason why the forum is still alive. Can you imagine just requests for contacts on the forum. How long would you like to read the requests? a day a month a year? Remember we wont have any FRs as per your idea. SAD

[quote] I would like to identify share-able people through their style of writing, the overall feel of the post etc. This I think can be guaged even through PM. Why numerous must-do public postings? In due course, one may get much more comfortable and get it out to public posts, but thats not a Forum prescription or is it?[/quote] OK. Sigh.!!!! You have me there. Although all this time I thought I knew that the forum was for helping genuine mongers enjoy some variety. And towards that end we used to post FRs about the girls we met and how they were in the sack. And reading the FR the genuine mongers would send a pm asking for the contact and we would share it with them. Remember the key word here is Genuine. Those who have 5-10-15 posts asking for contacts or criticising others do not qualify as genuine monger.

Tell me what the forum is here for. What is the prescription. Educate us.

[quote]There is no question of denigrating anyone as a pimp or whatever, this is a great portal idea whose time had come etc etc- the concept of fairness and sharing is well understood.

Also appreciated that every "discovery" takes a lot of time/resources and so should not be freely sprinkled away.

To answer the Bard. A Post by another name (public or PM), would still smell the same.

Still looking for my first Real help from here.

I'm[/QUOTE] Thank god for small mercies. The Bard will RIP after you generous concession. But perhaps you should go back to the drawing board and start thinking. Maybe if you do as we do (post FRs on the forum) it might actually result in some good contacts coming your way. Dont laugh. Funnier things have happened. Ask those guys who got the contact from me. They contributed they got. Those who dont contribute dont get it. got it? dont get it

Cheers

JSF

It was fun. Keep it up mate. I love debates.

Friends,

This is my first post here so I am certainly a junior. I think we should all stop this bickering over sharing contacts. If some seniors want to follow certain norms before they share contacts, then its their right. I think developing such contacts does take some effort and it must pay off for them.

Could not stomach this and the way the Postings and counter Postings (I won't say that they are arguments and they don't Merit to be called as arguments) are being carried out by JSF and others. Though it all started out with the posting of JSF (who came out with his big drummer anouncing the arrival of the infamous lady under question) and eventually who is bound to reply for the postings by other menbers, its a big fun and surprise to see the replies of few other positngs who joined the Lady Wagon. Like " hard earned conatcts", "it took days and months", "the money and time spent", babre, what a herculain task all these guys had done & the pride boasted by few. Pooh. Pooh. I wonder what they will say if they really attempt one such deed in their life and its fearsome to imagine the trouble and upper handedness these guys might unleash on others. If they really did accomplish something worthy. Because that much smoke is bellowing out but as a matter of fact there is no fire within. Thats true.

I too don't want to stretch this further, this silly act (as mentioned by one member). Now, whoever had raised his Drum (I meant the Drum only) in favour of and against the lady of JSF (now this issue must be perceived from this point only)-must put their contributions/recent venture/ new potentials-which could be more meanigful to be a monger and a member of ISG-and very certainly here comes my report. Follows.

[QUOTE=JustSumFun]Shakespeare posed a question along those lines (similar question I mean).

I was recently asked by a zero poster to let him have the contact of the young independant lady I have been posting about. Not getting a reply he sent me another one and a third one. Finally I replied and told him in no uncertain words that since he is a non poster I cannot pass on the contact.

JSF

Send me pm asking for contacts only if you have a posting history. My inbox cannot stand the strain[/QUOTE]Hi,

It was irresistable not to join the debate and support my old friend JSF.

This is a free forum meant to share info of the like minded people keeping in mind the safety of the service providers and also of ourselves. The only way to distinguish a regular monger from a ME or non poster is to see his reports. I think it is fair on the part of JSF to decline to non posters. Read the forum and go, venture out , share your experience and then ask for favours from seniors. That is the way it should be.

I am with you mate, JSF. good to see you back in action and your writing skills have only improved over a period of time.

Thanks for your sms and hope my friend has contacted you and had a good time with non other than 5k lady. I will see in few days time here and will share the experience in person.

Take care..

Dear Friends

Well that hot chick monica who had Navalkar Lane burning has relocated top khar.

So guys don't seek her at navalkar, instead just go to khar.

She is now being quoted at 2.3

Enjoy,

Keep mongering

Here comes another one 10-15 post man And what beautiful insight. A voice to be heard. A voice of Reason. No Bickering mates.

By the way I am looking forward to your solution to global warming and cure for AIDS since that is probably why you came to this forum. Not the wisest choice of forums mate but then what can anyone say about wanderers. They come they go as they please and they try their best to change the world. Like you aer trying to change the forum before you leave it. That is if you came here by mistake. If you came here to talk about mongering then you are welcome mate. Lets hear your tales of mongering.

Dear Senior Mongers. Just pass all your contacts to guys like this who have never posted their experiences. Just take a chance. He might, eventually, turn out to be a genuine monger and not a jerk who jerks off when he calls up the lady you gave him the contact for. He might not be the jerk who will pass on your hard earned contact to other jerks in "Exchange" for another contact.

Sadly we will not know because he never posts his experiences for us to be able to judge. And the reason why he does not post his experiences? perhaps he does not want to share the contact with genuine mongers Unless they give him something in return.


He might not be the guy who will pay your girl money to change her number so that you can never contact her again. Stranger things have happened so perhaps we can give them (14 post posters) a benefit of doubt until all our contacts are distributed and perhaps ruined. The ladies change their numbers, after being harrassed out of their skull, or after being paid to change their number so that you cannot contact them again.

And about the idea of sharing experiences over the pm. Just a thought. How will we be able to tell who the genuine mongers are who we can share the experiences with????

The genuine mongers will not be posting on the forum, according to this idea, right? So in effect we will be left with only guys who want contacts who will be posting on the forum. And we will have to select from those guys to send our experiences by PM to. What a thrill for the zero poster to get a pm from a genuine monger telling him how he enjoyed with a particular lady. And another thing.

How will you be able to send your experience to 2000 odd members? Will you be selective? but wait you dont like us senior members being selective about who to send the contact to. So obviously you wont be like us. And obviously you will send the contacts as well to all 2000 plus members of the forum.

You will be pretty busy mate. the forum allows only 200 pm. So you will have to be quick, you will have to be nimble like Jack in the nursery rhyme.
Good luck mate.

For those who do not like reading FRs on the forum there is an easy way out instead of trying to flame genuine contributers. Just put us on ignore list then you wont be bothered with our posts and experiences ever.


The debate is getting interesting. drum rolls :) Hope the stomach is ok now..

JSF


[QUOTE=On The Wings]Could not [b]stomach[/b] this and the way the Postings and counter Postings (I won't say that they are arguments and they don't Merit to be called as arguments) are being carried out by JSF and others. Though it all started out with the posting of JSF (who came out with his big drummer anouncing the arrival of the infamous lady under question) and eventually who is bound to reply for the postings by other menbers, its a big fun and surprise to see the replies of few other positngs who joined the Lady Wagon. Like " hard earned conatcts", "it took days and months", "the money and time spent", babre, what a herculain task all these guys had done & the pride boasted by few. Pooh. Pooh. I wonder what they will say if they really attempt one such deed in their life and its fearsome to imagine the trouble and upper handedness these guys might unleash on others. If they really did accomplish something worthy. Because that much smoke is bellowing out but as a matter of fact there is no fire within. Thats true.

I too don't want to stretch this further, this silly act (as mentioned by one member). Now, whoever had raised his Drum (I meant the Drum only) in favour of and against the lady of JSF (now this issue must be perceived from this point only)-must put their contributions/recent venture/ new potentials-which could be more meanigful to be a monger and a member of ISG-and very certainly here comes my report. Follows.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Maverick80]Dear Friends

Well that hot chick monica who had Navalkar Lane burning has relocated top khar.

So guys don't seek her at navalkar, instead just go to khar.

She is now being quoted at 2.3

Enjoy,

Keep mongering[/QUOTE]Hi,

Is she at the place opp McDonalds or some other place ? Could you give directions if it is some other place.

Thanks

JSF,

Don't waste your time on the likes of OTW and the 911. They are just being the trolls they are.

All the Best

Take Care

Sylvan

Hi,

I need a hotel in navi Mumbai around vashi. Where I can take some one.

Any one can guide. Has to be safe and also allow 2 hrs or so.

Exactly!

JSF Sir, we all know your value and the same is not going to diminish if you decide not to prolong the debate any further.

Take care!

S

[QUOTE=Sylvan59]JSF,

Don't waste your time on the likes of OTW and the 911. They are just being the trolls they are.

All the Best

Take Care

Sylvan[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=JustSumFun]

Hi JSF,

It is good suggestion to share our contacts freely to our 14 poster friend who is more worried about global warming & finding solution in ISG forum. But when I tried to send all my contacts thru PM I found that he has no PM facility, for that again we have to contribute Re.1 from 1000 members. Instead I would suggest to ask him his address & send the girls to his address turn by turn as he is very busy with global warming problem & may not get time to read PM sent to him.

In my opinion, now we must stop waisting our time to discuss on the issue because aim behind raising this issue was the distruction of the purpose of this forum.

Just neglect silly coments of insane person.

Cheers.....

SATYA B