New but not blinded update
[QUOTE=Markie123;1597177]Hi,
I am new to BKK but have been around a bit in various places so not so young and naive. However I met a bar girl who you guessed it I fell for not a young 25 yr old or anything like that her best years are behind her no doubt. Me married a long time I mean long but somehow this went out the window and now I am on the brink of giving it all up for this girl who never asked me for much and not once tried to rip me off. I know all the horror stories about being fleeced due to the buffalo etc and as I said I am not naive enough to think she loves my beer belly and grey hair but somehow there is some connection there and I can't put my mind at rest if I am just being a silly old bugger or if it can work. By the way I can probably get a job in Thailand from my company and my mate says go for it and if it does not work out there is always plenty of more attractive younger models to be had.
The dilemma is do I chuck in a very good life with all the things you can imagine including a pretty wife and grand kids or do I stick with what I got and always look back and regret. I know there are some wise old experienced heads on here who probably have had the same dilemma so any good advice and experiences would be helpful. I will be back there in two weeks and need to make or break this one way or the other.[/QUOTE]Things have moved on pretty much as I guess I knew they would. Went thro the whole pain of BF stop working scenario which eventually I succumbed to and coughed up. Continued travelling in and out for work every month until I sorted out a permanent position there and now I have a work permit. Moved out of BKK and live in ChonBuri together with her and so far so good she really takes care in every way possible. Not saying this is a match for life but I am happy and of course she is as well her life changed significantly for the better. In the relatively short period of time I have been in Thailand I have got to know a fair few of these girls on personal level and mostly they are really nice people. Who knows where it ends up but you only live once so enjoy.