Pattaya Reports

[QUOTE=BananaBoi;2519656]I don't use any of these sites but I'm curious why a good looking 20 year hot civilian Thai girl would hook up with a 40+ year old tourist for free[/QUOTE]I'll tell you, because a lot of men lie. They lie, lie, lie, lie and lie.

Many of the girls now start to smarten up and know the tricks. Most Farangs want to talk about sex and think sending these girls pics of their pecker will make them horny. In fact, it's quite the opposite.

I have found that all the girls I have been 100% honest with are the ones that dropped their panties the quickest.

I am upfront about being in a relationship and just looking to meet friends to talk, have been in Thailand a long time and I offer video calls to prove my pictures are genuine.

Believe me, it only takes a couple days for these girls to really want to meet you, and usually they are the ones hinting for "benefits" to be added to the friendship.

Maybe I'm lucky, but I'm over 40, I'm not single, I'm not looking for a relationship and saying that upfront somehow creates an atmosphere of trust. I never talk about sex or sexual stuff, I talk about food, movies, TikTok (yeah, I know) and it's refreshing to them.

No matter what age the girl, they've been lied to and deceived so many times, scammed sometimes too. So if you don't talk about sex or offer / ask for pics, you'll be standing out easy.

[QUOTE=EihTooms;2519669].......A tourist doesn't have to say he's a tourist. He can say he lives here all the time and was looking for a regular GF or even marriage.....[/QUOTE]In other words be dishonest. Lay a good foundation for your temporary relationship.

[QUOTE=Turgid;2519769]In other words be dishonest. Lay a good foundation for your temporary relationship.[/QUOTE]Of course. We're talking about dating and hook up sites. Everybody rounds up or down on some details here and there. There is only a small chance she's going to show up looking as good as she does in her best photo. Probably more like 5 years older and 4 kilos heavier than her worst photo.

In fact, a good rule of thumb to go by with dating site profiles is the more she emphasizes how honest she needs her man of choice to be and how much she hates liars, the farther away from looking like her best photo (or any of her photos) she is likely to turn out to be. In the wrong direction.

I am not instructing or recommending anyone lie about being a long termer rather than a tourist. I'm just saying a man not saying he is a tourist might add to the reasons a young, civilian, non P4P girl hops into bed with the 40+ year old guy she met online, as in Banana Boi's question.

But, really, are many 40+ year old posters here claiming to regularly get totally free sex with hot 20 year old girls they meet online on a regular basis? I suppose I recall being mischaracterized as having made such a claim a few times. But I never did. Some of us will get mischaracterized for what we post now and again. I think in this case I have only read posters making claims closer to the examples I rounded up and down on with certain details in my previous post.

Interesting do we need a Dating site Thread LOL?

[QUOTE=LittleBigMan;2519927]Interesting do we need a Dating site Thread LOL?[/QUOTE]LMAO. "Dating" is a lot more on-topic than what Fauci has to say about Covid. #justsaying.

I have a sister who can spend an hour chatting when she answers a wrong number caller. Face to face I can sell sand to the Arabs but texting or chatting over the airwaves is a skill I sadly find wanting hence my envy of members who charm 20 year olds into meeting online and shagging for free. Fortunately I don't lack options even during shut downs, the benefits I guess of over 20 years residency but I sure wish I could crack this dating app scene where the chicks are free.

I posted a report about Pattaya a few days ago. I pointed out that even though bars and gogos are closed, the dating websites are buzzing. Some people asked how I can know which girls are 'available'. Here's my answer. First, I state that I am in my mid-60's and am looking for a "friendly girl aged 20-30 for short time a couple of times a week". That makes it clear that any girl who shows she is interested in me knows what I want. Second, as soon as they click to show they are interested in me, I message to ask how much for short time. Thirdly, I agree that some lie about their age and their photos are years old. But some I have had have been wonderful. Fourthly, I speak a bit of Thai and reckon that most of the girls I've had have not been full-time hookers or ex-bargirls. I think most have been ordinary working girls who have lost their jobs due to the collapse in tourism and lockdowns and these ordinary girls see doing a couple of sessions with an old, ugly farang like me each week as a convenient way of paying the rent and putting food on the table.

Hope that helps explain the situation here in Pattaya.

[QUOTE=BananaBoi;2519656]I don't use any of these sites but I'm curious why a good looking 20 year hot civilian Thai girl would hook up with a 40+ year old tourist for free. Do these girls just have sex with you and you never have to speak with them again or is there dead weight bothering you for the rest of your vacation?.[/QUOTE]Its because most are freelancers. Sorry to burst anyone's bubble. 6+ years ago many "normal" girls used the sites in BKK / CM to meet normal farang expats. Girls in issan used it trying to meet potential foreign husbands that has changed. . BTW there are very, very few hot girls on there (from the Thai perspective). This is coming from a guy who banged a bunch of girls from thailovelinks back in the day. Quality office girls and uni students, not freelancers or even hardcore party girls. But I was 30, lived in Thailand and am not poor either. These days in Pattaya and BKK its mostly freelancers and some $ chasers. In Pattaya its 100% working girls, and a lot of the girls in Issan on it have worked in patts / Phuket at one time or another.

Now if you live here and have a good job, you as a decent looking 40 yo could date a 20 yo. Even upper class Thai girls date guys 10+ years older than them, and its not about money. Thai guys have a reputation for being very immature, so like women everywhere in the world they like a guy who has his shit together. Its not frowned upon to date someone much older, as long as the family thinks he's a good guy. Family approving of him is very important.

[QUOTE=Prattaya66;2520091]First, I state that I am in my mid-60's and am looking for a "friendly girl aged 20-30 for short time a couple of times a week". That makes it clear that any girl who shows she is interested in me knows what I want.[/QUOTE]The problem is that you assume they have read that, which 99 times out of 100 they have not. You could just as well write blah blah blah and get the same results.
[QUOTE=IHeartIpa;2520112]Its because most are freelancers. Sorry to burst anyone's bubble. 6+ years ago many "normal" girls used the sites in BKK / CM to meet normal farang expats. Girls in issan used it trying to meet potential foreign husbands that has changed. . These days in Pattaya and BKK its mostly freelancers and some $ chasers. In Pattaya its 100% working girls,[/QUOTE]You say most then you say 100% which means all. Which is it? In my experience it is most. I still meet plenty of non-pro chicks. I am not saying that you should go searching for non-pro chicks because that is the quickest way not to find them. A lot of times chicks on dating sites ask what I am looking for. My answer always goes right over their heads. I am looking for whatever I can find. I keep an open mind and just ride with the wind and meet whoever I meet.

[QUOTE=Prattaya66;2520091]The dating websites are buzzing. I state that I am in my mid-60's and am looking for a "friendly girl aged 20-30 for short time a couple of times a week". That makes it clear that any girl who shows she is interested in me knows what I want. As soon as they click to show they are interested in me, I message to ask how much for short time. Some lie about their age and their photos are years old. But some I have had have been wonderful. Most have been ordinary working girls who have lost their jobs due to the collapse in tourism and lockdowns and these ordinary girls see doing a couple of sessions with an old, ugly farang like me each week as a convenient way of paying the rent. [/QUOTE]Informative. Helpful. Properly composed in standard written English. Thanks to Mr. 66 for taking the time to post.

[QUOTE=Linyjo;2517678]How deadly is a virus if you need a test to tell you have it? Why are 90% of those "positive" results from people who do not exhibit a single symptom? How reliable is a test if a kiwi or coca cola returns a positive result? People can argue all they want but the bottom line is indisputable, 99.95% of all people who got this virus has lived. [/QUOTE]

You should not get your information from random web sites. Nor pass it along. Your "information" is wrong, just like there are some people with HIV who deny that it leads to AIDS. Misinformation can be deadly.

Anyway, I am in Pattaya, and am interested in how to hook up with ladies without using "dating" web sites.

BTW, it is inappropriate to post about "free" encounters on a mongering website.

[QUOTE=Explorer8939;2520301]Anyway, I am in Pattaya, and am interested in how to hook up with ladies without using "dating" web sites.[/QUOTE]I've met girls on the baht bus, a girl who worked in a restaurant I eat at, a hairdesser, lining up for a kebab, helping a girl waddle through thigh high water in a flood, other girls I met through friends (gogo girls do have civilian friends too), etc but mostly by just walking around. If I had a motorbike I'm sure I'd meet girls that way too just chatting with them at traffic lights. No dating site needed. Like Mr. E wisely said, if you seek civilian girls you won't find them. Just go with the flow and they appear when you least expect it. Don't appear to be too desperate or overly interested.

[QUOTE=Explorer8939;2520301]BTW, it is inappropriate to post about "free" encounters on a mongering website.[/QUOTE]

No encounter is entirely free. Payment for a Freebie girl just comes in another form such as feeding them, buying them drinks at a bar or restaurant, buying them a small item they wanted, buying a Barbie Doll for the girl's daughter, paying for their transportation, etc. Feeding them can easily be more expensive than paying for a girl on Soi 6. Thai girls can eat!

[QUOTE=NicFrenchy;2519686]I'll tell you, because a lot of men lie. They lie, lie, lie, lie and lie.[/QUOTE]

I don't get this at all. Guess some guys are just extremely lonely, cheap, or don't have much going for them. I don't make up stories to girls. Don't see any need to. Take me the way I am or find another guy. The only thing I lie to girls about is my real name. Girls know I'm not their guy for the Long Game.

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BTW, it is inappropriate to post about "free" encounters on a mongering website.[/QUOTE]I doubt many if any dating site encounters where you're fucking within an hour or two of first meeting then she thanks you and moves on are free. The absolutely free fuck on a first meeting with a hot 20 year girl by anyone other than the sports, music, movie or tv star she'd been lusting for since grade school has got to be one of the rarest events in the civilized world.

Even if the money is not handed to the girl with, "Thanks for the Short Time" on her way out the door but instead is slipped into their bag with, "Here, let me help you get what your kids (mom, dad, sister, grandma, etc) need," it is still P4P. It is also in keeping with the Thai way of doing these things amongst themselves.

If not money directly, then alcohol, a ride home, a place to crash and sleep and so on or all of the above sometimes works, too. Then we can talk about the scams, tricks and lies about taking care of them, their family, their problems, etc.

I have yet to read a self-decribed "40+" punter here claiming to routinely get this particular kind of dating site exchange as it is typically characterized by other members; "40+ year old man fucking hot 20 year old girls they met online for free."

[QUOTE=Explorer8939;2520301]BTW, it is inappropriate to post about "free" encounters on a mongering website.[/QUOTE]It seems you missed the sign at the entrance:

"The purpose of this Forum is to facilitate the exchange of information between men who are looking for sex with women. "

It says nothing about money.

[QUOTE=EihTooms;2520332]I doubt many if any dating site encounters where you're fucking within an hour or two of first meeting then she thanks you and moves on are free. [/QUOTE]I typically cultivate my "freebies" for weeks to months in advance of my travels to Thailand. Lots of time in video chat before traveling. They do not turn out to be free, the most expensive sex is free sex. These are potential girlfriends and I'll spend much time with them. They are not hookers, they have normal jobs.

I can only remember one internet girl that I fucked for free the same day I contacted her. The other same day fucks were all paid.