Rio de Janeiro Reports

[QUOTE=Hughdad]This is my last post. I really just wanted to thank all the senior members here that supplied such great info that greatly assisted my mongering efforts.

My membership is up and I will not be renewing. I had an incredible week. I have been dating a beautiful young mulata lady in the town where I own a home in Brasil. I was dating others but stopped seeing them as I really enjoyed her company the most. Just a lovely young lady that is studying English, and focused on making a better life for herself. She is terrific.

At any rate, perhaps it is the whole New Year's vibe thing, but the other night I made her dinner and she starts asking about my business trips around Brasil, my trips to Sao Paulo and Rio. I am an honest and forthright person. I had told her upfront that I was really involved in some business projects that will require a great deal of my focus and was not looking for a committed relationship. So I decided to tell her about my mongering activities. I knew this might risk losing her but I really felt like talking about this as it was in the forefront of my mind. I guess I have been reflecting as part of the whole end of year self evaluation we all seem to do. To my great surprise she really was understanding and we even discussed the different attitudes/types of mongers. Truth is I have long been conflicted with some of the attitudes some guys have towards the working ladies. I have made that known here.

At any rate, she actually told me that she wanted to experiment with me. She has been bi-curious and wanted to experience a woman too. My stories of duplas really turned her on. So last night, we hooked up with another lady she knows and it was amazing. It was better than any dupla I ever paid for. She was so caring and excited and a real lady. It was a true mind-f. The last few months have been a blur here in Brasil. I just want to focus all my energies on my business, my Porto studies and experiencing everything in Brasil with her riding shotgun.

Again, I thank all those who were so supportive and provided great info. I tried to give back in my own limited way.

And to all the guys that do not feel that the ladies should be treated as true human beings I truly hope you can do some self-reflection. (What would your mammas think?)

And to those that could not take a joke, how about 5 slaps from 5 different hands (I think that was the threat.)

I wish you all happiness and success in 2010 and beyond.[/QUOTE]
Good luck, and I hope it all works out for you. Happy New Year! Thanks for your information and opinions, regardless of what I think. We all have our opinions and ours were appreciated.

[QUOTE=Hughdad]

At any rate, she actually told me that she wanted to experiment with me. She has been bi-curious and wanted to experience a woman too. My stories of duplas really turned her on. So last night, we hooked up with another lady she knows and it was amazing. It was better than any dupla I ever paid for. She was so caring and excited and a real lady. .[/QUOTE]


I wish you the best of luck, and a word of caution too. I know a few guys who thought they had hit the lottery by hooking up with bi-sexual women. Their words were "Yeah, it was fantastic at first, 3somes with other hot chicks. Then one day you come home to find some huge, manly looking, bulll-dyke with a 12 inch strap on, pounding the shit out of your lady's asshole!!" They all told me the same thing, at first their girlfriends was only attracted to pretty, feminine lesbians, but after a while, they want to experiment more! Next thing you know, she has a bull dyke who is taking over your position!!

[QUOTE=SlimHoleDrill]I agree it was between 20 and 40 dollars. There was definitely a pro scene but mostly in places like Barbarella and Erótica. On the beach, Mabs was a big hangout and there were several other places as well. But the scale was totally different.

It's been a long tine but I do remember one data point where I met an incredible number in Erótica, home for the night then she went home to get clothes and hung around all that day until I had to catch a flight that night. Total GFE from Fortaleza. Her wildest dream was to get $100 which I didn't quite satisfy. As has
been said, cash was a problem. No ATMS, so you had to bring cash or travellers checks which were not good because they were exchanged at the official rate so you lost 40%. So you needed to bring cash and I always seemed to under estimate because you needed to pay everything in cash. If you put the hotel on a credit card, they would use the official rate and bump it up to their estimate of what the official rate would be when it settles. So you didn't pay with cc. The rates changed so fast I changed money twice a day, usually with the bellboy. (This is a composite of somewhat vague memories from the late 80s to early 90s.)

Anyway, I gave her all my remaining money which brought the whole thing to maybe $50. I'm pretty sure a programa with a Mabs girl in one of the short time places in Lido was $30 which included $10 for the hotel.

Those were the days. Sigh.[/QUOTE]

Yeah, Help wasn't such a mongering place back then, mostly a non pro pick up place if you could.

Club Erotika was a place I frequented often, different locatrion then where it is today, it was on Princess Isabella Blvd back then and a pretty big space. They had shows music and plenty of girls hanging around.

Barbarellas was in a different location too as to where it is today. I went there a few times but I preferred the girls on Copa because fo the cheaper prices, Barbarellas was always more money but they were top quality even then.

Attached is a picture of Help circa 1986, looks like it needed a face lift even then, notice the vintage cars.

[QUOTE=Sangue Bon]Yeah, Help wasn't such a mongering place back then, mostly a non pro pick up place if you could.

Club Erotika was a place I frequented often, different locatrion then where it is today, it was on Princess Isabella Blvd back then and a pretty big space. They had shows music and plenty of girls hanging around.

Barbarellas was in a different location too as to where it is today. I went there a few times but I preferred the girls on Copa because fo the cheaper prices, Barbarellas was always more money but they were top quality even then.

Attached is a picture of Help circa 1986, looks like it needed a face lift even then, notice the vintage cars.[/QUOTE]That's news to me about Barbarela. Where was it back then?

Help was a middle-class kids' disco. Something like Nuth. Back in the 1980s and early '90s. It's where today's Lapa set hung out. They even had teen matinés back then.

[QUOTE=Voyajer1]In my opinion is right after they open. Most of them open by 10:00am so, I usually am at hteir doors no later than 10:30 for some fun. This is where I take advantage and do my duplas and so on for a very decent price (Less than BR200). If you dig throught the forum, try the ones Rio Branco 156. Someone made a really great map with casas you could try.[/QUOTE]

I have seen that a lot of fresh talent tends to come in ~5pm, but of course, so do a lot of punters, in the centro termas.

[QUOTE=Bravo]I wish you the best of luck, and a word of caution too. I know a few guys who thought they had hit the lottery by hooking up with bi-sexual women. Their words were "Yeah, it was fantastic at first, 3somes with other hot chicks. Then one day you come home to find some huge, manly looking, bulll-dyke with a 12 inch strap on, pounding the shit out of your lady's asshole!!" They all told me the same thing, at first their girlfriends was only attracted to pretty, feminine lesbians, but after a while, they want to experiment more! Next thing you know, she has a bull dyke who is taking over your position!![/QUOTE]
Now that is some funny shit. But good luck to you Hughdad and thanks for your posts.

[QUOTE=Hughdad]This is my last post. [...]
I wish you all happiness and success in 2010 and beyond.[/QUOTE]Thank you, Hughdad. Same wishes for you. I appreciated your contributions.

Walker

I'm fascinated by Vila Mimosa and am torn as to whether to visit or not. I speak portuguese and would not have a problem getting in and out of the place.

However, even if I pick a healthy looking garota, what are my chances of picking up a STI versus say a garota in 4X4 or a Clinica?

Sperto - would appreciate you 2 cents if you are online.

[QUOTE=Paddy21]I'm fascinated by Vila Mimosa and am torn as to whether to visit or not. I speak portuguese and would not have a problem getting in and out of the place.

However, even if I pick a healthy looking garota, what are my chances of picking up a STI versus say a garota in 4X4 or a Clinica?

Sperto - would appreciate you 2 cents if you are online.[/QUOTE]
I would think if your incline in risky sex, don't eat the pussy and drink the water, and wear a condom at VM! A friend of mine's teeth fell out and he got a belly ache and became a baby daddy. Now he goes to VM to visit his name sake! Haha!

Hughdad,
I enjoyed your posts which were quite refreshing as it brought real experiences of what can be achieved with non pros if one were to invest the time. All the best in all your endeavours.

Cheers.

[QUOTE=Paddy21]I'm fascinated by Vila Mimosa and am torn as to whether to visit or not. I speak portuguese and would not have a problem getting in and out of the place.

However, even if I pick a healthy looking garota, what are my chances of picking up a STI versus say a garota in 4X4 or a Clinica?

Sperto - would appreciate you 2 cents if you are online.[/QUOTE]
Paddy - I'm sure you realise as much as anyone the incongruities in your post, but it's the sort of question almost anyone might ask. I wonder if I can try to answer sensibly (Sperto has jumped on a plane afaaik).

Firstly, Brasil is a world leader in the use of condoms and the fight against sexually transmitted diseases including HIV. This is attested on many professional forums and conferences and many, many papers ([url="http://content.nejm.org/cgi/content/full/354/19/1977"]example[/url]). So statistically you are better off than in many countries. Especially better than most developing countries (many of which have a poor condom implementation record, whether by their own stupidity or 'aided' by GW Bush's short-sighted programs, to name a few). It's on a par with the West.

But statistics don't help if you are unlucky. Condoms are very freely available, in VM as everywhere else in Brasil, together with prominent safer sex notices. But the practice still depends to a large extent on the male. Which is the first implied and erroneous assumption - the idea that responsibility can somehow be delegated to a female and, fingers crossed with a wing and prayer, she's clean.

The second implied and seriously erroneous assumption is that paying more money or having sex in more hygienic surroundings reduces the risk of catching a sexually transmitted diseasse. Of course, it doesn't. Or perhaps a class thing - that a girl from a poorer background is more likely to have a sexually transmitted disease - again, untrue. Social parameters affect health generally, but the classifications that apply in many countries (eg USA) do not apply in Brasil. For instance, ". . . studying AIDS cases during the 1980s among adult women from the municipality of Rio de Janeiro found an even higher percentage of the disease among family women than among prostitutes." (Koifman et al quoted [url="http://www.tc.columbia.edu/cice/archives/3.1/31desousa.pdf"]here[/url]). Drug injecting practices are perhaps one of the identifiable factors however.

Hidden support mechanisms also have an effect. There is a very active network of safe sex support in VM (as there is most main areas where prostitution occurs in Rio). Warnings, health care, condom availability and general awareness.

I am not saying you are more likely to pick something up in 4x4, but there are many instances of mongers who have reported some terma girls' willingness to go bareback once they get to know you. I've yet to hear of a VM girl offering sex without protection (and have never been offered it, in hundreds of sessions).

But back to the real responsibility and how he can take it seriously - ie the monger. In VM you will not always have good lighting conditions to examine for track marks or obvious signs of illness. You may be less prepared, less aware, less on your guard. Or maybe not. It depends on you. As for going down on a lady, I use the same rule everywhere - if it smells nice, tastes nice, and I want to, then I may well go for it. A bad smell or taste is offputting - although it is only possibly indicative of a small range of sexually transmitted diseases and may be indicative of none. But good taste and safe sex do not always (or hardly ever) overlap.

One thing I would say about VM is that girls are in a more independent environment. You can pick up a lot of things from their social interactions (with you and each other) that would be airbrushed out of existence in 4x4.

This is not an answer one way or the other about your 'likelihood' of picking up a sexually transmitted disease in VM. Any more than it is an answer about whether you are more likely to get sunburnt on Copa or Ipanema beach.

The advice, as always, is wear sunscreen. ;)

Thanks Christopherd - You have answered my question fully and comprehensively.

I thought this comment was especially well-made:

"The second implied and seriously erroneous assumption is that paying more money or having sex in more hygienic surroundings reduces the risk of catching a sexually transmitted diseasse. Of course, it doesn't. Or perhaps a class thing - that a girl from a poorer background is more likely to have a sexually transmitted disease - again, untrue. Social parameters affect health generally, but the classifications that apply in many countries (eg USA) do not apply in Brasil."

From what you say about VM and from what I know about sexual health promotion in Brazil generally, it would appear that the country is really an exception in this regard. I just wanted to check if the 'social parameters' test as applied elsewhere would be equally true in Brazil.

And for the record I am not remotely interested in bareback or other risky behaviors.

Feliz 2010.

Prices at 4 X 4 went up by BR10. So if you session for one hour, the going rate is now BR 220 :mad:! So far there has not been an Olympic sized rise in prices, but I am not holding my breath. I should be there Tuesday!!! I can't wait ;)... As far as it is being reported, the entrance fee is still BR 40 and they waive the entry fee if you session before 5:00pm. I guess I'm going to have to get up early :D

Hi Guys,

Been here for two weeks and haven't had a problem, due to diligence and following advice from some of the mongers on this forum.

However...

Last night I went with a GDP called Camilla whom I met in Balcony. She is a hard body with fake boobs, big firm booty and an ultra flat stomach. She has what I imagine to be a little plastic surgery on her face as her nose is very sculpted and she also has slight pockmarking on her cheeks from past acne. Straight black hair that is naturally curly (so she told me).

She wanted R300 but I got her down to R200 for two hours. More than I would normally pay but her body was incredibly tight.

The session was very sterile. She wasn't really into it, wouldn't kiss or do uncovered blow job, wanted the money up front and spent ages in the bathroom. I felt a little bit sad that she didn't enjoy it as I've had some really fun GDPs in the past who seem to enjoy their work immensely.

I put it down to experience. BUT this morning I woke up and went to put on my beach shorts to find they've disappeared. I've searched all over my miniscule apartment but to no avail. Granted it was a full moon last night so I may have eaten them or flung them out the window in a fit of lunacy but I have my suspicions she may have taken them. (They are rather nice!) All my valuables were locked away so nothing else is gone.

I wonder if anyone else has experienced Camilla and did anything go missing? I don't want to think bad of her but after searching and searching my flat can only assume she left with them in her bag. I hope I'm wrong.

[QUOTE=Voyajer1]...So if you session for one hour, the going rate is now BR 220 :mad:!......I should be there Tuesday!!! I can't wait ;)... [/QUOTE]

I believe you.... 4x4 is always 4x4, but if I remember correctly one hour was 180 BR in september, 40 BR in couple of months is a lot especially if they do not stop to raising in price.