Some thoughts on my trip from Sept 13 to Oct 12 in Minsk
I just spent one fantastic month in Minsk. I am baffled there are not more people going to this clean, calm little city with a laid back atmosphere. I admit Minsk is a greater challenge for tourism or mongering then Kiev but there is much to like about it – especially how everything is quite cheap right now even compared to Kiev. I joined a few internet sites before I left for Minsk and gained a dozen numbers at least of very attractive Belarussian women. There were few girls offering straight up sex for roubles but many under 24 university hotties looking for a guy to support them in exchange for a girlfriend experience, which is more to my liking anyway. I have never understood the mentality of men who go to strip clubs and later boast of having sex with a woman who undoubtedly had five different guys that week. In my opinion, my route is a far greater experience and challenge.
The first week I was in Minsk I had dinner at Grand Cafe, Black Door Club or Renaissance Cafe with three of the most appealing women I met online. To be honest they were all beautiful, sweet and interested but I had to decide upon one. I liked to take them to high end places to show them I had money, class and was serious. Belarussian women love this. I finally decided on one beautiful, young studentka originally from Gomel named Ekaterina (Keyt). A real red headed beauty of 174 cm with green eyes, a model figure and a remarkably full, perky ass for such a slim woman. After a few days of taking her shopping for clothes at Mango, out to nice restaurants and an evening with her and a beautiful friend of hers at the terrific Dozari night club (it was great having two young beauties on my arms) , she started to stay with me at my flat and I enjoyed a regular GF experience with Keyt. Like many people know, Slavic women are warm, wonderful girlfriends once they decide to be with a man. In fact, she would even get quite jealous when other women in Dozari approached me.
Keyt told me how her mother, who only earned 150 USD a month, was supporting her. This is not an unusual situation for studentka's in Minsk as many I met only had one parent supporting them. So, the ability to buy nice clothes, go for nice dinners and enjoy many things in life western women at that age take for granted is almost impossible. However, many beautiful, young Belarussian women are not as liberal about sex as women from neighbouring countries. They are much more conservative and usually only offer it after they feel comfortable and respected. Once they do a man enjoys the affection of a young beauty unparalleled in Europe and North America, in my opinion. Not only was she a young, beauty who I was supporting in exchange for a GF experience but she honestly became a friend. This is the benefit of traveling in a city for an extended period of time and not just a quick weekend.
That said, I have no delusions of grandeur. While Keyt insisted she was single and excited at the idea of my returning to Minsk in April, I am sure she has a regular Belarussian boyfriend, like most of these girls do. But it's all good as there are many young beauties in Minsk to pursue!
Nice report CB! Though a few points were left dangling, so to speak.
[QUOTE=CanadianBoy; 1206682]1. I just spent one fantastic month in Minsk, and I am baffled why there are not more people going to this little city?
2. I admit Minsk is a greater challenge for mongering.
3. I have never understood the mentality of men who go to strip clubs and later boast.
4. In my opinion, my route is a far greater experience and challenge.
5. The first week I was in Minsk I had dinner with three of the most appealing women I met online, but I had to decide upon one.[/QUOTE]1. Don't be baffled! The majority's priority is to take the easier more travelled road. And don't knock them, you should really be happy about that. Would you have been happier if those places you took out the ladies to, were filled with hordes of punters from the West? Don't think so. And by the way, Minsk is no 'little city'.
2. This answers your first question.
3. Again, the easier road is the choice for most. Boasting having done something that requires minimum effort is not uncommon here on ISG, that said, there's no accounting for taste, so don't bother trying to understand it.
4. Again, the majority seem to be satisfied with a lesser challenge. Don't knock it, that will always make life much more interesting for us in the minority.
5. If you were there for FOUR WEEKS, one can only wonder what made you think you HAD to choose ONLY ONE? Maybe a new lady EVERY afternoon, and then another new lady EVERY evening? Then you COULD have told us about sixty! .
Ah, springtime in the motherland. Monger's paradise. Wouldn't miss it for the world!
CB.
Your lady sounds like she must have been just what you were looking for. I don't know if we're all so fortunate to find the perfect combination of qualities.
I can certainly attest to the other side of the coin, which seems to be an ongoing examination of the good, the bad, the less than spectacular, and the insanely hot qualities of slavic womanhood. Could just be a victim of never really being able to figure out what I want, but I think there's a lot more to it. An extra week really brings a lot of new opportunities that would otherwise be missed, and that's something I am hoping will be possible in the not too distant future.
I simply can't imagine what I could accomplish if I had FOUR weeks! Though at the rate I push it, I don't know if I could even manage a budget that far out, now that I've gotten used to living pretty high and running pretty hard.
That leads me to ask you if you'll get a little more specific, as to how you actually spent a month of downtime in a place like Minsk, without going stir crazy. The one thing I remember about being there, was that the downtime was REALLY limited. If you're not there working, (and we're all curious as to what work you COULD be doing there if you were) , how in the world did you pass time for a month when Keyt was at lectures? More than even that, you couldn't have been in bed with her ALL the time, so what the hell else would you do? You already said your Russian is limited. That leaves a lot hours in between for something else.
As to what drives my search onward, its always about getting close but never really seeming to reach the level that could be reached. Walking around, there's such an interesting mix of beauty to keep the inspiration stoked. But opportunities usually fall short, so that it only seems to be a matter of dumb luck, to have everything fall in your lap. In the meantime, new ladies with various flaws will fade in and out of the picture, but with careful attention, as taught by geniuses like Skank and his ilk, there's more than enough passion to enflame. So though I may have failed to hook up with any certifiable superstars this time out, I did have more than my share of positive memorable experiences, and a nice bunch of new friends.
I can report that life is good in the heartland. With all its ups and downs, highs and lows, and in and outs.
As usual, my detractors will criticize me for leaving out the names of clubs and cafe's that I went to. Well, I didn't need to go to any clubs, so there's none to name. Cafe's? Well, I don't pay any attention to what they're called. We just go in one direction for a walk, and go in some place that looks good. What you guys don't understand, is that it doesn't even matter, its just a way to first get acquainted in person, to get comfortable that will lead to some romantic time alone at home later or for the next date.
Getting introduced to women by their appreciative girlfriends is still what its all about, and its always been a matter of motivation through incentives and simple signs of affection and adoration. Treat the ladies right, and they will take care of you.
Of MY three October Kate's and Katya's, the most interesting was Katya Sunday, who had a bad chocolate allergy reaction, and a mom in the hospital. With all that going against her, she was ready to 'cut loose', as they call it, and she nearly killed me working out all her frustrations on me. Between her and Nastya Red, who surprised me when she initiated anal sex like it was as normal as drinking tea, I had some truly pleasant surprises. Add that to another dozen or so new friends, and a dozen old friends, and I need a vacation from my vacation.
I wore myself down miserable at the end with Moscow traffic jams, jumping over airport fences, miserable flights and airline food, and after a few days being home, I still can't stop the diarrhea and headaches.
But it was all worth it, and I'll do it again, next chance I get.