Sorry Jambo - you are a walking ATM to them
If you are even thinking in this mode you are so pussy whipped that a slap up da side a da head won't HELP. They will clean your clock - takes a licking and keeps on ticking.
Thai excuse "Water buffalo / mother / father / sister SICK" (pick one and recycle excuse as required.) Oh well, it's YOUR money (at least NOW it is...) and who am I to try to render sensibility (Yes, I know this is about Pilipines - only the country is different - the relatives don't change...muan gun Muang Thai - same same in Thailand)