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Hello,
I am traveling with my wife to Bangkok without any other friends and we are there for just a night on the way and also in Phuket.
Are there any interesting sexual experiences or any parlours or providers who provide for interesting couple sex massages? I have to make it look interesting to my wife also.
[QUOTE=Johnie;1770363]Hey Dinotrex, mongering alone is most common. That what true mongers do. You don't need anyone else to help you get your rocks off, unless maybe you are from the subcontinent.
Johnie.[/QUOTE]I don't know Johnie. Some of my favorite mongering experiences when I first moved to Thailand were boy's trips to Pattaya and Nom Penh. We always had a blast.
Landed in Bangkok last night and spent my first night in Soi Cowboy. Visited Crazy House, Cowboy 2, Long Gun and Shark. I think Crazy House is very overrated here in the ISG compare to some other bars, but the taste is different of course. I can hardly see any bar in Soi Cowboy that can match Shark for beautiful girls. There are just so many to choose in that bar. Took a lovely lass (can not remember her number.) with great smile and personality. After some bar hop and drinks we hit the sack and she was very enthusiastic in bed. Great energy and she enjoy it ever as much as me. Said she came 3 times. But it is hard to know; these Thai girls really keep the orgasm quiet. So you cannot accuse them of faking it since they normally do not scream or make a lot of noise. Maybe it is part of the culture also? Barfine was 600 bath and she stayed with me from 11 PM to 5 in the morning for 2500 bath. Not bad since it was a real GFE experience. She asked me to pay her another 2500 bath to stay until morning, but I sent her on her way. Why pay 2500 bath just to see her sleep? Soi Cowboy was a bit quiet. This was Saturday night and bars like Cowboy 2 and Tilac had few customers when I visited around 11 PM. Two of the bars had barbecue with a whole pig rolling in the charcoal heat outside the bar! Both Crazy House and the other bars had lots of talents on stage. So, it is buyers market, guys. Will try Patpong tonight. Have not been there for over one year.
[QUOTE=MumbaiGuy;1770381]Yes I am aware of the presence of pros and semi-pros on TF. In fact my experience is that they constitute almost 85-90%. But with extensive chatting and probing one can unearth a non pro gem. Of course like everywhere else on TF also it is a hit or miss scenario. But I have scored more hits than miss on TF till date. At the same time it requires you to invest a lot of time into the whole process of short listing. So obviously an average monger on a short visit prefers the P4 P.[/QUOTE]I beg to differ. Perhaps you are just attracting the pros and semi pros. I have chatted with many 100% no pros in the past and was never surprised. But you are correct they are really easy to find out.
[QUOTE=MumbaiGuy;1770381]Yes I am aware of the presence of pros and semi-pros on TF. In fact my experience is that they constitute almost 85-90%.[/QUOTE]That high? In what ways do you filter them? What's your approach to messaging / chat (for instance, are you super explicit, subtle, patient, or what)?
I've been explicitly propositioned (sex for money) only twice on TF (among hundreds of girls I talked to). Most immediately give out their Line ID, but then insist on days of pointless boring message exchanges via Line, very few agreeing to meet on the same evening. By definition, any pro or semi-pro would try to close the deal as efficiently as possible, and as long as the guy is not creepy, agree to meet soon, probably laying out the terms relatively clearly, since otherwise they might be mistaken for regular girls and not paid. Sadly, dozens upon dozens of girls I chatted to over that site are not in this category..
A few years back (about 2012) ThaiFriendly and ThaiLoveLinks hookups were different, most girls would require minimal amount of chatting to meet, often on the same day (just a quick check I'm not creepy, no need for patience). Not all would go to my room after the first date (maybe about 30%), but that's fine. None asked for money.
Am I being clueless about that site, is that something blatantly obvious I'm missing? I'd absolutely LOVE a website or method where I could easily source a pro or semi-pro freelancer without putting in both work/time to charm-the-hooker and paying in the end.
Assuming that I'm a total newbie/idiot can someone break down for me in simple terms how to tap into that vast market of pros and semi-pros on online sites? Hopefully having *me* choose between options, and not getting stuck in long chats with many girls who are likely not up for the simple transaction?
[QUOTE=BKKguru;1770326]You write:
"Again once you make initial contact you can switch to the Line Application since the girls use this every minute of the day and may not always check their messages on the location based chat apps. <snip> "
Please clarify: LINE is a location based App so it is unclear what the above sentence is saying.
Thanks!
BKKguru.[/QUOTE]Line application is not a location based chat app. You cannot search strangers and random people in your area based on the GPS system in your phone. The only way you can chat with someone on the Line application is if you sync your phones contacts with the app or the lady gives you her Line ID. Since this seems to be the number 1 meathod for communication in Thaialnd you use it after you meet them on the location based chat apps like Tango, Skout, Tagged, We Chat, and Bee Talk. Again just to be clear, you cannot just log into your line app and find and talk to strangers or working girls. You must already have their contact info in your phones address book. This then syncs with your line application to link you as line friends. And again, secondly you can get the ladies line ID from her. Hope this is clear for everyone now.
[QUOTE=Crocodilexp;1770500]That high? In what ways do you filter them? What's your approach to messaging / chat (for instance, are you super explicit, subtle, patient, or what)?
I've been explicitly propositioned (sex for money) only twice on TF (among hundreds of girls I talked to). Most immediately give out their Line ID, but then insist on days of pointless boring message exchanges via Line, very few agreeing to meet on the same evening. By definition, any pro or semi-pro would try to close the deal as efficiently as possible, and as long as the guy is not creepy, agree to meet soon, probably laying out the terms relatively clearly, since otherwise they might be mistaken for regular girls and not paid. Sadly, dozens upon dozens of girls I chatted to over that site are not in this category..
A few years back (about 2012) ThaiFriendly and ThaiLoveLinks hookups were different, most girls would require minimal amount of chatting to meet, often on the same day (just a quick check I'm not creepy, no need for patience). Not all would go to my room after the first date (maybe about 30%), but that's fine. None asked for money.
Am I being clueless about that site, is that something blatantly obvious I'm missing? I'd absolutely LOVE a website or method where I could easily source a pro or semi-pro freelancer without putting in both work/time to charm-the-hooker and paying in the end.[/QUOTE]I would say that this is a more realistic account of Thai Friendly which is why if you are local you should stick to using the location based chat apps and If you are abroad and planning a trip then Thai Friendly is the best way to go. Not line application but We chat, Tango, Skout, Tagged, and Beetalk are the apps where you can meet strangers. You can search strangers who actually want to hook up. There are a big mix of pros, semi pros, amateaurs, and normal girls. It's a great way to meet the real Thai girls that don't socialize with foreigners. We chat is number 1 for finding working girls and Bee Talk is number 1 for normal Thai girls. , the rest are a big mix of all. But don't forget you need game guys. Don't go onto Beetalk and start up like a sex tourist, they will sniff you out easily. And learn some basic Thai. Stop asking for naked photos and don't ask for sex. Let the girls take the lead and you will be surprised the action you will get. Happy hunting.
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P.S.: Don't walk hand-in-hand with Thai girls. It is not their custom and they will be thankful to you for respecting their culture.[/QUOTE]Depends on the girl. If she is your girlfriend (or a hooker), no problem in the modern day. 30 years ago, no. It was always anything goes in Pattaya though.
I recall being with a girl for extended time 25 years ago and she wasn't that keen to hold hands too much. Different era.
In a bar you can play with a girl's tits more than can get DFK in the bar. After a few drinks, girls loose many inhibitions. I have seen some go from prim and proper (as far as that is possible in a bar) to very wildly raunchy after a few drinks. It's better not to let girls get totally drunk though. If they can't walk properly, that is too many.
[QUOTE=Wolvenvacht;1770350]No problem Very Scary! A liitle confusion and chaos will lively things up here. :)
P.S.: Don't walk hand-in-hand with Thai girls. It is not their custom and they will be thankful to you for respecting their culture.[/QUOTE]This is absolutely not what I experienced on my first time in LOS. My regualr loved to walk hand in hand.
Also at veryscary, lets be realistic here, were not talking about walking around the Vatican City with Go Go girls. Do you think you will be the only farang anybody has seen with a Thai girl. One night I came back to my hotel and everybody in the lift who was with a Thai girl at 5. 30 am was in a room on my floor. We all smiled.
Regarding the chat apps I agree 100%, a different level of experience. Its takes more time but its totally worth it. I will write in more detail about this at some point.
[QUOTE=Syzygies;1770747]Depends on the girl. If she is your girlfriend (or a hooker), no problem in the modern day. 30 years ago, no. It was always anything goes in Pattaya though.
I recall being with a girl for extended time 25 years ago and she wasn't that keen to hold hands too much. Different era.
In a bar you can play with a girl's tits more than can get DFK in the bar. After a few drinks, girls loose many inhibitions. I have seen some go from prim and proper (as far as that is possible in a bar) to very wildly raunchy after a few drinks. It's better not to let girls get totally drunk though. If they can't walk properly, that is too many.[/QUOTE]I met a girl who works for an airline and have had lots of fun dates with her, and we always were arm and arm or hand in hand, no problems, and she would initiate. Maybe things have changed after all!
[QUOTE=Crocodilexp;1770500]That high? In what ways do you filter them? What's your approach to messaging / chat (for instance, are you super explicit, subtle, patient, or what)?
I've been explicitly propositioned (sex for money) only twice on TF (among hundreds of girls I talked to). Most immediately give out their Line ID, but then insist on days of pointless boring message exchanges via Line, very few agreeing to meet on the same evening. By definition, any pro or semi-pro would try to close the deal as efficiently as possible, and as long as the guy is not creepy, agree to meet soon, probably laying out the terms relatively clearly, since otherwise they might be mistaken for regular girls and not paid. Sadly, dozens upon dozens of girls I chatted to over that site are not in this category..
A few years back (about 2012) ThaiFriendly and ThaiLoveLinks hookups were different, most girls would require minimal amount of chatting to meet, often on the same day (just a quick check I'm not creepy, no need for patience). Not all would go to my room after the first date (maybe about 30%), but that's fine. None asked for money.
Am I being clueless about that site, is that something blatantly obvious I'm missing? I'd absolutely LOVE a website or method where I could easily source a pro or semi-pro freelancer without putting in both work/time to charm-the-hooker and paying in the end.
Assuming that I'm a total newbie/idiot can someone break down for me in simple terms how to tap into that vast market of pros and semi-pros on online sites? Hopefully having *me* choose between options, and not getting stuck in long chats with many girls who are likely not up for the simple transaction?[/QUOTE]Well I generally use a subtle approach. Due to cultural barriors Thai girls even if the are semi pros, will not directly proposition you for P4 P. But you have to give subtle hints in your chat exchanges and they will slowly open up. Yes almost all girls will give you Line ID's in first few chats if they approve of you.
Yes you have to engage in series of boring chats to open up the regular girls and to make them agree to meet you. But you need to start chatting with prospective girls at least a month or two prior to your trip. Even after that you may succeed in getting only a few to agree for a date. I know it is a long drawn and boring process but the results are good. You can expect to meet a couple of non pros. It isworth the effort. At least I feel so. Views on this may differ.
Thank you to those who advised on how to get in and out of Crazy House without being robbed. I returned there one more time and following your advice narrowly managed to avoid dealing with the tax collector. I didn't get the girl I had in mind because the staff levels were low. I went in the bar at 9 and again at 10.30 so I think it was just a low turn out.
There is a board at the bottom of the stairs which lists all the numbers working and whether they are or have been bar fined. This is very useful. To make use of it, enter the bar, tell the waitress that you are going upstairs and make your way to the stairs in the far right corner by the elevator. You can't pause too long to read the scoreboard because it's by the checkout and they will move you on quickly.
This night I couldn't deal with the lady directly because she had very little English. But there's a waitress I've been friendly with since my first visit and she sorted everything. At first she did bring mamasan Paar. I was polite with Paar, no point pissing in your own pool right, but didn't hand over any money. I said I had already paid the bill to the waitress. I'm not a good liar but it seemed unusually dark in their that night so I think she couldn't see that I went red. Maybe that was just the alcohol. I said I would pay the lady directly. The tax collector accepted this and left empty handed. Boo ya!
When the waitress returned I paid her the bar bill and bar fine. She was confused that I had not paid the tax collector. I said the last time I was in the bar she took 5000. The waitress was shocked and asked me to explain. Then she said no worry, the fat mamasan, the one you guys were complaining about previously, no longer works here. I said it wasn't that one it was this one. The waitress seemed even more shocked but I think she likes a bit of drama and overacting. The waitress said no problem, she would drop some hints to the management. That was worth tipping.
Purely in the interests of research I can confirm that number 40 is totally natural. Who said missionary was boring? I could watch that motion all night. I see a lot of guys just stare at her boobs but if you look past them she is very pretty with a beautiful smile too. She's very very shy even though she dances butt naked in front of hundreds of strangers every night! Only in Thailand LOL.
It was hard to tell at first whether she was having a good time because she seemed to resist making any noise at all. But the liquids don't lie and she was, let's say, wetting the bed. I had to sleep in the shallow end. She's not very active so expect to do some work. She's not a starfish though just shy. She needs some training from the tigress. She's also a little embarrassed about her skin and her shape. I tried hard to convince her that her coke bottle figure with natural boob is very sexy. Even more so because she is pretty. So guys if you choose her then please do your best to boost her confidence. And pay attention to her other bits totally distracting though her breasts may be.
This is the third time I have made this post. I just can't figure out what I am doing wrong. Hold on a minute while I get another glass of wine.
So were was I! Ok I have made reports on this post for at least ten years. Most of my reports have been about south america. Now I'm branching out to south east Asia. I am still in the planning stages but if all works out I plan on going to Bangkok. I have found an apartment and plan on renting it for two months. This will be my base and I hope to take side trips to Cambodia and Laos. Any tips would be appreciated.
[QUOTE=CharlesDickin;1771296]It was hard to tell at first whether she was having a good time because she seemed to resist making any noise at all. But the liquids don't lie and she was, let's say, wetting the bed. I had to sleep in the shallow end. She's not very active so expect to do some work. She's not a starfish though just shy. She needs some training from the tigress. She's also a little embarrassed about her skin and her shape. I tried hard to convince her that her coke bottle figure with natural boob is very sexy. Even more so because she is pretty. So guys if you choose her then please do your best to boost her confidence. And pay attention to her other bits totally distracting though her breasts may be.[/QUOTE]There are one or two girls very pretty, but a bit large in the ass for my taste, if that is what you mean by coke bottle figure. Unfortunately I struggle to remember the numbers, so forget right now which is number 40.
Its a pity mamasans have to get involved, but I seem to manage to avoid them mostly. However helps greatly I speak Thai, and many of my girls are repeats, and some girls don't even talk about price with me. All comes from being a well known regular. Good idea if you can get a good waitress to help you. I have a regular waitress who looks after me well (not one of the ladyboys). I look after her too.
[QUOTE=Hotrod10;1771385]This is the third time I have made this post. I just can't figure out what I am doing wrong. Hold on a minute while I get another glass of wine.
So were was I! Ok I have made reports on this post for at least ten years. Most of my reports have been about south america. Now I'm branching out to south east Asia. I am still in the planning stages but if all works out I plan on going to Bangkok. I have found an apartment and plan on renting it for two months. This will be my base and I hope to take side trips to Cambodia and Laos. Any tips would be appreciated.[/QUOTE]Some tips? Difficult to do as there is not much info in your message to start with. Perhaps you can tell the forum where your apartment is and we can branch out from there.
You stay 2 months, so either you have a visum for 60 days or more or you are from a country that gets 30 days free without visum. If the latter you will have to leave before the 30 days are over and that would be a good moment to change scenery and visit Laos (Luang Prabang is nice for a long weekend; Vientiane is a dump and holds few attractions) or Cambodia (Siem Reap with the old Khmer temples is a must visit) and by coming back get another 30 days for free without visum..
If the former, make sure you have a multi-entry visum or otherwise your visum is cancelled when you leave for a little trip abroad and they won't let you back in on the same visum even if you have some time left on that visum.
Now start reading the forum and come back if you have more specific questions.
If you want a quick "absolute beginners visitor to Bangkok" post, have a look at [url]http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?2677-Bangkok-Reports&p=1769515&viewfull=1#post1769515[/url]