A Different Takeaway On Threesomes
[QUOTE=JjBee62;2413139] Setting up a threesome isn't something easy. How many times have you managed it back home? I had a girlfriend for 4 years, we went to swinger clubs, partner swaps and group sex. We never did manage to pull off a proper threesome.
Going to a foreign country, where you probably will struggle with the language, and jumping straight into a trio (because it's probably not going to be the threesome you imagined), with 2 complete strangers is a bad decision.
It's like skydiving. You get instruction on the ground. Then you get up in the air and it's a lot different. Your first time you're not going to free fall and do aerial acrobatics. You're going strapped to an experienced professional. After a few times you'll move up to a static line jump. Then you can move on to the more advanced jumps.
Threesomes, in a country where you have problems with the language, are something you should work your way up to, not something to do on the first day with the first girl to offer it.[/QUOTE]I don't think anyone will disagree with you that pulling off a threesome is a challenge.
However, it's going to be much easier to do so in Colombia, versus than in the USA. With prostitution being legal in Colombia, there are hundreds of girls available 24/7 to partake in these activities, so a guy could easily schedule a couple of tryouts a day.
As far as doing it with the first girl to offer it on the first day here. Well maybe another way of looking at it is, to go for it, and see what happens, most probably will be a fiasco, but a lot could be learned from it. Another words, the learning curve from it might be much quicker than trying to build up to attempting a threesome. Perhaps nobody else will agree with this, but at least you would find out first hand what some of the issues were and what to be prepared for and what ground rules if any you want to set. I also don't know how you can build up to something like a threesome as the dynamics are so different with two girls versus one girl.
Anyways, this is just my opinion as to how one might approach a threesome.
And regarding the language issue, well both of us have mentioned this in previous posts, it's huge, and more so than a lot of people realize.
Staying for up to 180 days-where to stay Air BnB or?
Hey guys,
I'm coming to Medellin for the 2nd time in April. My main purpose besides our "hobby" is to learn Spanish. My Spanish is low-intermediate and I want to get as close to fluent as I can. I can stay for 180 days if need be. I'm going to attend an immersion school in El Poblado. My question is what would you recommend for lodging for a 6 month stay-stick with Air BnB and rent one month at a time with an option to extend the place if I like it and bail if I don't? Or try and find a short term rental apartment if those exist? I'm not going to go completely crazy like I am on vacation but I would like to bring a chica back around one a week, so that's a consideration. I kind of want to keep low profile because I've been told the Spanish schools really look down on you if they think you are there for the girls and partying. I have some cover stories ready. Any info is appreciated. Thanks.