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[QUOTE=GregLondon] The reason for coming to Cebu would be that you have got tired of the commerical scene in Thailand and want to try the infinitely easier and better semi pro action available in Cebu [/QUOTE]
Can you elaborate a bit more on the "semi pro" scene?
[QUOTE=Devils 1]X Man,
Bohol keeps coming up in my conversations with people about the Philippines. I would really appreciate it if you could do a detailed report about Bohol. Where to fly to, where to stay, best beaches, good restaurants? It sounds like a byog place, but any info would be appreciated.
Sorry for posting in the wrong section. I will look for your answer in the "other areas" section.
Thanks[/QUOTE]If you are expecting a wild night life, don't even go there. This place is a family oriented and geared towards nature and cultural tourism. By 10PM, the place is dead. Unless you hook up with a local guide, they maybe able to point you to some sort of underground prostitution. But I don't recommend this route. And yes, your best bit is to bring your own girl.
I've been reading some online news articles about the availability of [b]Lingham Massage[/b] in a few "legitimate" of the massage parlors in Cebu. The Spa and Wellness Association of Cebu (SWAC) is up in arms about this development. For those who don't know lingham refers to your johnson aka "wand of light" :) and the attention paid to it as a finish to the massage session. It's all part of Tantra. I used to see a woman in DC who gave them. Basically it was a great massage with the best happy ending I have ever experienced. In some ways it was better than regular sex.
I'm wondering if anyone has been to one of the lingham massage places advertised in the Sun Star? If so, was it a worthwhile experience? I'll be in Cebu the 7th March and just hope they haven't been closed down by that time. [url]http://globalnation.inquirer.net/ce...st-Cebu-tourism[/url]
BTW I have encountered various spellings of lingham. Lingam, and Linggam also. Not sure which is correct.
Cebu Branch
Unit 13 Century Plaza Complex, Juana Osmena St.,
Mandaue Branch
Unit 2B Chatswood Ave., Hernan Cortes
Corner A.S. Fortuna Ave., Mandaue City
Mactan Branch
ML Quezon National Highway, Pajo, Lapu-lapu City
[QUOTE=Manta Ray]You can get the SmartBro USB-plug&sim at any Smart Wireless store for around 1000 pesos. Then when you go online with it, it costs 10p per 30 minute increment. That means if you are online for 29 minutes, it will cost 10p, if you are online for 31 minutes it will cost 20 P, etc. You can replenish your load with SmartBro cards (300p and 500p), again bought at Smart Wireless stores.
Hope this helps.
Mantaray[/QUOTE]Is this what it is called, a Smart Bro USB plug & sim?
It is a usb card with a sim inside it?
What about outside of Manila, does it cost more per 30 minutes to use?
Nolz, I think you are taking things out of context. The original request was for nice beaches. I've posted extensively on Bohol, but it was a while back and I don't even remember which thread - Cebu or other areas.
I'll post in "Other areas" X
[QUOTE=Nolz7]If you are expecting a wild night life, don't even go there. This place is a family oriented and geared towards nature and cultural tourism. By 10PM, the place is dead. Unless you hook up with a local guide, they maybe able to point you to some sort of underground prostitution. But I don't recommend this route. And yes, your best bit is to bring your own girl.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Superman06]
I'm wondering if anyone has been to one of the lingham massage places advertised in the Sun Star? If so, was it a worthwhile experience? I'll be in Cebu the 7th March and just hope they haven't been closed down by that time. [url]http://globalnation.inquirer.net/ce...st-Cebu-tourism[/url][/quote]
Sorry that link doesn't work. Try this with www. in front.
sunstar.com.ph/cebu/so-massage-anyone
[QUOTE=GregLondon]OK its as I was last time. Personally i can live without a swim, but its a real attraction for the babes. The Pool oin mango is not bad and if there is noone around one can indulge in a little underwater sex.[/QUOTE]
Have noticed that many Cebuana's don't know how to swim.
I trust you will be taking her deep but don't take her off the deep end!
Forgot to mention this property as it might fit your requirements.
Drove by this hotel a couple of months ago but never stayed there.
[url]www.vacationhotel-cebu.com/[/url]
[QUOTE=Mattrick]Have noticed that many Cebuana's don't know how to swim.
I trust you will be taking her deep but don't take her off the deep end!
Forgot to mention this property as it might fit your requirements.
Drove by this hotel a couple of months ago but never stayed there.
[url]www.vacationhotel-cebu.com/[/url][/QUOTE]
Thanks form that Tip Mattrick it looks nice says has poland internet and is quite a bit cheaper than the Mango park. A bit concerned with the "Homey family atmosphere " bit if i wonder in with 5 nymphets?
[QUOTE=Amjeck]Can you elaborate a bit more on the "semi pro" scene?[/QUOTE]
I would consider that a semi pro is a girl who is prepared to have sex on a short term basis with the expectation/hope of payment but are not full timers such as bar girls. In the phils many girls fall into this category. 90% of people in the phils are chronically short of cash and many girls in the 18-30 range are prepared to have sex in return for a financial contribution.
Where to find them?
In cebu the main nightlife area is around Mango Square with Juliannas and Pump considered the top stops for girls to meet prospective customers. Its all a bit confusing. There are some girls hanging around outside these places fairly obviously ion the hunt, but they tend to be the more despirate. inside it is a mix of girls going in the hope of meeting someone who can buy them drinks/fuck them for money and girls just wanting a night out. It gets going about 11 ish and especially as the bars close. Personally I didn't like this scene, the music sucks , the dancing is mostly around tables rather than on a dance floor and its too dark to see what you are ending up with. But doubtless some other guys get on fine there.
Many guys have sort to pick up in and around the malls. There are a number of mall rats basically hanging around who may be available, it's also very easy to start to flirt with some of the sales ladies in the department stores for example. This is probably a medium term strategy. if she is receptive to flirting its easy enough to ask her cell no and then follow upo with increasingly sexual texts. For amny girls the prime attraction of working in a restaurant or store that foreigners frequent is the possibility that one day someone will show up lookig for a "good girl with a normal job" and they will hit the jackpot. they may figire they have to hold out a night or two to demonstrate that they are not an easy girl though. this group is prob or more interest to expats with tim eenough to folow this strategy.
for me the dating sites on te interent are the key sources of prospects, my favourites (because i dont like tom pay subscriptions being Date In Asia and tagged. you will find loads of comments on these sites in the chat and penpals thread.
Different guys have different experiences. Obviously it takes more time and planning than going to a bar having a few drinks and bf ing one you fancy. it is rather akin to the difference between going on a hunting trip and going along to your local supermarket and buying a plucked and oven ready chicken. if you enjoy the adventure and confusing and uncertainty of the hunting trip than such dating may be for you. Fortunately the phils is probably the easiest net dating country anywhere in the world if you are foreign guy. The main problem is the sorting out the wheat from the chaf so that you get to the creamof the crop without wasting an undue amount of time with scammers, cherry girls etc etc.
Every guy has his own style but for what it's worth, some of my tactics are:
1 To be absolutely up front and explicit and honest about what im looking for and offering - otherwise you just waste too much time in reciprocal untruthfulness.
2 To generally have a plan B,C and D
3 To try to insist on meeting girls at my hotel - they are almost always late so agreeing a time and specific meeting place is likely to result in your waiting around. if necessary just say a public spot 5 mins from your hotel and ask her to text you when she has actually arrived.
4 to unlock your phone and buy a Pjils SIM card (Smart is the most popular) if you have ap hone you dont want to lose or a non GSM phone it may be worth buying a cheap 1200P one locally
5 To bring some music to play in your room eg a small but loud portable speaker with ipod/MP3 player or laptop with jukebox on it. if your music collection is stuffed with Pink Floyd and the Rolling Stones, you may wish to consider downloading some of the stuff the girls like - typically love ballads Mariah Carey/Celine Dion/Enrique Inglesias etc or chart stuff such as Lady Gaga, Rhianna, Ne-yo, Kelly Clarkson, Flo rida, Jordin Sparks, Pussycat Dolls etc. Some guys will think this silly but you only have to download it once and then you give your room a party atmoshere, they are happy to hang out in 2 s and 3s or invite around their sexy female friends for you to fuck too - so it pays dividends believe me.
6 Generally I dont take then out to fancy restauarnts, as they never appreciate the amounts spent, take away from jollybees or pizza is generally considered a treat by the 18-25 crowd and tehy much prefer to get cash to having meals. i also avoid shoping trips as tehy will inevitaboly buy the hig end mobile phone or ipod. Better to give them enough cash to buy a low end model and let her shop for it herself.
7 With the less experienced ones, asking for payment is an embarrassment but if this is a no strings relationship and you are 15 + years older, you can expect that she is expecting something. Generally handing over a 500P (short time) or 1000P long time note is the done thing if you are happy. keep it short and simple, this is for you, mutter something about taxis etc, most girls will want to tuck the cash away and forget it was received - not the vietnamese counting out the notes situation lol
[QUOTE=GregLondon]1 To be absolutely up front and explicit and honest about what im looking for and offering - otherwise you just waste too much time in reciprocal untruthfulness.
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Do you put on your profile: "I'm looking for no strings sex and will give gifts?"
[QUOTE]2 To generally have a plan B,C and D[/QUOTE]
How do you prepare the backups?
BTW, the report you wrote out for us is excellent!
[QUOTE=Mark17]Is this what it is called, a Smart Bro USB plug & sim?
It is a usb card with a sim inside it?
What about outside of Manila, does it cost more per 30 minutes to use?[/QUOTE]
Yes, it is the SmartBro USB plug
It looks like a usb stick and it comes with a sim card that you put inside it.
The cost per 30 mins is the same everywhere in the Philippines.
Mantaray
[QUOTE=Amjeck]Do you put on your profile: "I'm looking for no strings sex and will give gifts?"
How do you prepare the backups?
BTW, the report you wrote out for us is excellent![/QUOTE]
obviously you are free to use what ever phraseology you like, but I have a feeling that "no strings sex" will baffle a chunk of your target population, who may conclude it has something to do with not wanting bondage .
Better would be something along the lines of:
i am looking for a cute, 18-24 year old without a baby (whatever your key requirements are). You need to be open minded and willing to visit me at my hotel (and stay the night - if that's what you are looking for) and have fun together. I will be happy to pay your expenses. I am an honest, generous and trustworthy guy and want to be honest and frank with you that i am looking for a fun time whilst i am on holiday rather than a wife or long term relationship.
if you are doing internet dating then make specific arrangements with your number 1 target then get the names , numbers, YM id s etc of another say 5 possibles and give them more vague detaiols of when you will be showing up in town, therefore if you strike out with A you can give the others a go.
A further tip from today's bitter experience A look after your mobile phone esp any fancy touch screen model, sync it with your laptop so that if it does get stolen as mine seems to have been today, you can sync your contacts when you buy another tomorrow (which I didn't )
Greg,
This is a truly brilliant report and I will link it to the reports of distinction. If you are newer to the PI this is a very good guide to follow.
1. Pump Disco and the other place. On a recent trip I went to these places. It is very difficult to tell the working girls from the non-working girls here because they are not obvious at all and don't know how to send out the message that they are available. Often times the girls will sit with local guys, giving the impression they are on a date. Also, they will not make eye contact or hold it long enough to give you the "invitation. " I found that if you are interested in a girl here you are going to have to just walk right up to her and start talking. In most cases she will invite you to sit down immediately.
2. Cell phone. You must get a local cell phone. Pinays text constantly. They never speak on their phone as this is tooo expensive. But this is the only way to contact and keep up to date with them. I have often found that a meeting goes something like this:
A. You make contact a couple of times giving compliments and flirting.
B. You make a plan to meet at a place at a time.
C. At that time you think about actually going to the place, pinays are always late and don't think it is a big deal.
D. Once at the meeting place you will text several more times while she tells you where she actually is and you meet somewhere in the middle
3. The back up plan is a must. Pinays don't have the same concept of time and place that we do. It is common to find a girl on the internet who says she lives somewhere, when she has actually lived somewhere else for the past 5 yrs. Also, they seem to change there mind often. I try to set a short initial meeting to see if she still looks as good as her photos and if she will actually show up. Don't worry about leaving her after 30-60 minutes, you will see her again. Plus you have just given her one more person to text with. Don't plan several meetings one after the other as the girl being late will screw up all of your planning. Set one meeting for noon and another for 3-5 hours later.
4. Payment. I find that the younger shier girls will not ask for payment and if you ask them directly how much do you want, they will say. Nothing! They are doing this because they are young and nieve. Please take some money and put it in there pocket. Don't show them how much and don't comment on it, just do it.
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GregLondon and Devils1 are spot on! Just want to add a few things:
The advice about setting up dates and having plans B, C, ... apply everywhere in the Phils, not just Cebu.
Since pinays are always late (think filipino time!), if you meet away from your hotel, it's best to set up the meeting at a mall, preferably one that has places of interest that can keep you occupied until the honey shows up. For example, I like bookstores, there is a National Bookstore at Ayala in Cebu, iirc. Another thing I've done sometimes while waiting is troll the malls for more girls and phone numbers. Can't tell you how many times I've scored digits while waiting for my date.
I can do the disco thing, but I'm not really a fan of going there unless I'm already taking someone. Or two. Mainly because it's pretty late for me... I'm usually trolling the malls instead. In Cebu, that means Ayala and Robinson's (at Osmena Circle). I've heard there is a Gaisano's in the downtown area that has a good pickup spot, but I've yet to figure out which Gaisano's as there are 3 or 4 of these. I only know it's not the one attached to the Ayala mall.
And yes they won't talk about money: if she stays overnight and you had a good time, 1000p is typical. Just fold it up and put it in her hand or stick it in her purse. At most you will say something like, "here's a little something to help your family", that's it, no drama, change the subject.
good stuff.
just to add a few things...
filipinas seem to require one or more followups (via text or even phone call) even after you think you've confirmed a date. many won't show up if you haven't double confirmed -- this is especially true for regular women.
yes, filipinos will almost always resort to texting, but that doesn't mean you have to. sometimes calling will speed things up. "where are you and what are you wearing?"
point d as quoted: sometimes, whether texting or actually talking on the phone, you will think you are beating your head against the wall. for example, the answer to "what are you wearing? " was "black dress". actually, she was dressed in black. x
[quote=devils 1]greg,
this is a truly brilliant report and i will link it to the reports of distinction. if you are newer to the pi this is a very good guide to follow.
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