Yup that's exactly what I was worried about
[QUOTE=CoolieHigh;2872940]WAIT so you've NEVER been in a relationship with a woman in your own country. And now you want to come down and experience the carribean madness. Holy Shit Balls😳. Do you plan to come to Sosua by yourself or do you have like a father or uncle or older gent that's been down here before that can guide you in the ways of having a good time and avoiding the lady sharks. Because I'm telling you now they going to smell fresh meat if you come alone being a square bear from another country and swallow you whole. I'm serious.
In any rate if you're still headstrong in taking the plunge to Sosua I HIGHLY recommend you atleast read back ATLEAST 2 years on this forum before asking more pertinent questions and also get with a woman in your country so you can experience a regular relationship. Reason being is you need to start consistently be around and feel a womans movement as she seduces you with her body and emotions etc. And do NOT use dating sites. Go to the clubs, local bar, hit up a Romeo Santos, or Maluma concert if they come to your town (so MANY ladies be at the latin concert), take a shot of tequila to get some liquid courage and start swinging. Reason I said don't use dating sites at home is because most times the connection is artificial. Meeting someone face to face while sizing a woman up and seeing if her energy matches yours will always be the best way in hooking up with women. All the OGs on this board have been around multiple women and have had serious relationship with a few in their lifetime so they have great instincts in dealing with women. You are literally at the beginning stage and honestly getting a regular woman as your girlfriend is a good starting point.[/QUOTE]I was planning on coming here by myself haha which I know is not a good idea cause I feel like I probably need an older guy to be a wingman for me and show me around Sosua / teach me how to deal with the girls. Unfortunately man, I don't think getting a GF in the US is possible for me. Tbh I just don't got the "it" factor to make it happen, and the only thing I really have going for me is that I make very good money for my age which is why I considered just traveling and trying my luck with women overseas rather than dealing with the states. So do you think it's better if I just go to a non P4 P place overseas and try the dating scene again? I really wanted to come to Sosua cause the women are stupid thick but it may not be the best decision considering I don't have any experience with women other than a few women I P4P'd with in the US.
Do both: Seek out a regular relationship & continue to prepare to go overseas
[QUOTE=VloneCarti;2872974]I was planning on coming here by myself haha which I know is not a good idea cause I feel like I probably need an older guy to be a wingman for me and show me around Sosua / teach me how to deal with the girls. Unfortunately man, I don't think getting a GF in the US is possible for me. Tbh I just don't got the "it" factor to make it happen, and the only thing I really have going for me is that I make very good money for my age which is why I considered just traveling and trying my luck with women overseas rather than dealing with the states. So do you think it's better if I just go to a non P4 P place overseas and try the dating scene again? I really wanted to come to Sosua cause the women are stupid thick but it may not be the best decision considering I don't have any experience with women other than a few women I P4P'd with in the US.[/QUOTE]Yeah I call bullshit. You got the "IT" factor. Don't know why you down playing yourself but theres plenty of ugly looking fat dudes that's getting plenty of good pussy in the States. Why because its all about confidence and attitude. Ooh and smelling good and looking clean. You add that with making good money and at a young age you honestly should be beating them off with a stick.
So again finding a women in your area is VERY important because in finding a regular relationship you learn from your knowledge and intangibles in dealing with women. As youll also learn what you like and don't like with the females that you attract. At your age I was already living with my girlfriend doing college, broke up with her, few weeks after my breakup went to a local bar and hookup with a 36 yr old who I almost married (long story) because she was such a good women. Still friends to this day. But I digress! You see those regular relationship help me to understand women and more importantly understand the qualities that I expect and want from a women wether she a corner store hoe or a wholesome church girl. And that's a key ingredient.
Now Its possible to go and meet a woman and do a regular relationship (non p4 p) in DR in other countries BUT you're at an advantage and disadvantage at the same time. The advantage is the fact you're young and you got money which means you have the power to call the shots. The disadvantage is the fact you're literally going to another country having to learn the language and culture on the fly. So even dealing with a regular chick in another country theyre going to test you simply because that's generally what a women do. And in the latin countries you got to be a mans man or youll get walked over and taken advantage of real quick. And although the states is a complete mess interns of dealing with women, to not be able to find atleast 1 decent relationship where you live is a HUGE concern.
So yeah I stand by my previous statements. You got to find and start dealing with regular women in your area to CREATE your mojo. When you find her get her ass on a depo shot as you're not ready to learn the pullout technique yet. You don't want no babies at your age. Also If you must continue to use p4 p where you live don't be a cheap charlie and fuck a hoe off the street. Get on Tryst and get more of a cleaner hoe. But definitely still strap up. If you still interested in Sosua or DR in general then I suggest you to start learning spanish and continue to read this board. Reading the board honestly help my growth when I was your age simply because by reading folks post that I enjoyed and reading their past adventures you start to see how they operate when dealing with multiple women from all walks of life. And then you take their best qualities and add it to your own personality when dealing with women in real life.
So for instance go back and read Blakmans post a couple pages back and youll see how he quickly bounce back from a very bad situation to having a good experience by NOT sulking on the bad experience but by immediately pushing forward as he went and found another hunny that provided a good experience. That lesson is simple but CRUCIAL when dealing with women and life in general. And youll find many more life / dealing with women lessons as you read more on the board.
At any rate if you want to talk more you can hit me on the back channel.
Peace.
Don't Be A Menace in South Central.....
[QUOTE=OldSchool318;2872990]Message! Listen to the man![/QUOTE]LMAO 🤣. Yo I always here Keenan Ivory Wayan voice every time you say that. Have me rolling everytime LOL.
Spanish formaility. A Somewhat academic question
So. I've noticed that most of the girls I get messaging with tend to use the formal pronouns and conjugations when they talk to me. I use informal when talking to them. In the normal course of things this would probably make sense. Given the age gap. However given that I am obviously looking to boink them it seems odd to me. Am I not being formal enough with them? Any thoughts.
