When in Bangkok, do not act like a newbie!
Here are a few helpful tips for newbies when visiting the Go-Go bars in Bangkok. First, do not act like a newbie. When you walk into a go-go bar and sit down the Go-Go girls are starting to size you up. How you dress, how you look, how old or young you are.
When a girl comes over and sits down with you and start ask you the standard questions, which are how long you stay in Bangkok, where are you from, where's your hotel, have you been to Bangkok before, what job you do. These questions are all standard bar girl questions designed to determine if you are a newbie and how horny you are. If you tell her that this is your first time to Bangkok and you're a tourist here she knows you do not know your way around the Go-Go bars. Therefore she will always give you high prices.
When I was in one of the bars last night at Nana, a gentleman fresh off the plane from America was sitting next to me. He was wide-eyed and bushy-tailed seeing all the beautiful bar girls dancing topless on the stage. One of the girls came over and sat with him and he was happy to have a beautiful young Thai girl topless sitting next to him. She started in with the standard questions and he answered each question incorrectly.
But Withi 15 minutes, he bar finder paying 2,500 for a girl that would normally go for 1,500 baht to 2000. Other words she took him to the cleaners.
You have to understand that it's just business in Bangkok with selling sex. They will get as much from you as they can. Don't take it personally, but don't overpay. The questions you should be asking her is how old she is, has she ever had a baby, how long she's been in Bangkok. This will give you a chance to size her up. When she ask you the standard questions do not tell the truth. Tell her that you work in Bangkok and that you come to that particular bar many times. She then understands that you know the pricing there and that you're a regular there and that you work in Bangkok and you will notoverpay.
When you negotiate with bar girls always do so in a nice pleasant manner. If the girls for example says here price is 2,500. You can politely reply by saying, last time I was here I found a nice girl and I paid 1500 for short time. She might be surprised at this and sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't I use his same line and more than often I've gotten a price in the range of 1500,1700 or 2000 baht. The average is around 1800.
It is a question of how much.
[QUOTE=Blanquiceleste;1899796]No WG in a place like Mixx is going to sport a label on her forehead that says "Pick Me Up". That happens on the street or in some discos like Climax.
There was a spirited discussion sometime back on the Philippine thread about working girls and their work status. Professional, semi-professional, full-time, part-time, regular girl out to earn some quick money to support some pressing needs, girls looking to have a good time with no cash, but only accepts expensive gifts like jewelry, perfumes, holidays and what not, etc.
IMHO if a girl you just met an hour ago, sleeps with you and you pay (for) her as much as a dime, she is a working girl.[/QUOTE]I would agree with your comments. Addition, I would like to add that of the group, the most expensive girl in the long run is the one you end up buying gifts for. She will pretend that you and she are dating, and that you're going out for a nice evening. When you're out during the evening she will occasionally ask for little things, then as time goes by she will ask him more things.
For example, when you go to the grocery store she will buy lots of different groceries for her mother or sister. And you think to yourself why are you only buying this when we are together and then when you get it to the checkout stand she look at you as if you were supposed to pay. I can assure you that this type of girl is the most expensive working girl of them all.
That's why most experts that I know that stay in Bangkok prefer to simply pay as they go. In other words, pay for sex and then she's gone.
The Thai girls are a unique breed. They, maybe because of their religion, do not attach any great stigma to having sex for money. In fact, in Thailand, this is a part of the culture that goes back hundreds of years.
I have met and have sex with many freelance working girls that during the week they were working in a bank, office girls, working in retail shops in the mall, and other jobs that would be considered normal jobs for girls. They have no qualms about working a regular job during the week and then on the weekend picking up some extra money by spreading her legs for an expat.
However, they wouldn't not want to be seen with you if they run into one of their coworkers. They would be questioned when they got back to work about how they knew you and where she met you. She will certainly make up some lie and never state that you were a customer.
When you walk through the mall during lunch time and you see all the office girls going out with their buddies to have lunch. Many of these girls look unattainable. But believe me, many of these girls have their price. And if you meet them in the right situation and the right bar and you can pay the right amount of money and she would be happy to spread her legs for you. And come Monday morning she'll be a regular office girl.
I have learned that in Thailand it's not a question of will a regular girl have sex with you, it's a question of how much will you pay her. Just about every girl has their price, some girls have a very low price and these are the common streetwalkers. And some girls prices are a lot higher, these are the girls who work in the office and then party at an expat Club on the weekend and spread their legs for the right amount of money.
Thanks for the information! It really helped!
[QUOTE=MichaelSamuel;1895532]Bargain. Lek massage on soi 22, right by the queens park bars, 250 thb for hour thai massage, facilities are as nice as any other regular shop (hot ball massage is a nice option same price or just a little exra) still private room though.
Health land. Behind t21 soi 19, probably highest quality standard and nicer facilities.
Thong lo. Lots of places on soi 55, palm herbal spa was nice and fanciest setup I have seen, you fill out a form on an ipad highlighting areas you want worked on, preferences, ect. Can pay with CC, and can sign up for free discount card and you get like 10% off. Still only 500 thb for hour thai massage.
So in summary for streets, would try 22 and 55. Thong lo can be a nice change from the prime tourist area between nana and asoke. Just as aside, if you like sticky rice and mango a famous popular place is right as you turn onto 55 from suk, you can't miss it. Last trip I got the mango and 3 type rice assortment almost everyday.[/QUOTE]I also want to include Traveler1234 and Wolven! I appreciate the effort.
I spent three days trying as many massage places as I could fit into the schedule, plus a visit to a couple of the off the beaten path places.
Soi 55 was a bit of a bust, but that was because it was raining that night and I didn't have the patience to look around. The Palm Spa closed at 10:00 and it is a little ways off Soi 55, they must have changed their menu, because it was 750 for an hour Thai massage and there was no iPad menu to select the service you wanted. I may have been in the wrong place.
I did get a 90 min massage at Cefle, and it was very good and legit. The lady that gave me the massage was at least 45 years old and probably weighed the same, it was however a very good massage. Her colleagues were smiling as we went to the room, I am sure they were thinking about this small lady pulling my large frame all over the place.
I found a nice place on Soi 22, and had a very good oil massage, the lady that gave it was attractive, but she said they were not allowed to give "happy endings". She did offer her number and told me that she could visit after hours and give me whatever I wanted from her. I wasn't able to try, but will for certain on my next visit.
I visited the Urban Retreat next to Asoke station and had a great massage, in a classy place. It wasn't cheap by Thai standards, but excellent massage if 100% legit. The good thing was that as I was putting my shoes on to leave, I chatted a spectacular looking leggy Korean lass. I wouldn't normally chat up a lady like that in such a setting, but as it turns out it was good I did. I gave her my number and asked her to dinner. She said she was meeting friends that night, but would call me the next day. She did and we went out to dinner and then shared each other for dessert. She was reluctant to share contacts for future opportunities, so I suspect she may be "encumbered" in Korea, but it was a very nice evening with her in Bangkok. She had legs that went for days and knew her way around a man's body.
I did visit Sing Sing on a Tuesday night, if was DOA. At 1:00 am I was one of about 10 people there and 7 of them were guys. I did have a table next to 3 very cute ladies and we chatted, but at least 2 were married and only there to enjoy the music and be admired by the men in attendance. I tried to grant their wish. I did admire them. On at least this night there were exactly 0 FL's that I could see anyway.
My last night, I thought that I would take a look at the SW's at Nana. I went by the sign about 9:00 pm and the pickings were VERY slim. I was just about to head to Oskars, but decided to walk a few more blocks down the street. Glad I did! Saw exactly what I was looking for, a 30' something well formed lady, dressed like she just left the office. I smiled as we passed, and she said Hello, and kept on walking.
I decided to give pursuit and caught up with her and asked where she was heading. She told me she was going to Gulliver's for a drink. I suggested another locale near my hotel and she readily agreed. A couple of glasses of wine later, we found ourselves in my hotel room. What ensued was one of the most passionate lovemaking sessions I have had in some time. She really knew how to use her mouth to my great pleasure.
We rolled around and tried a fair number of positions. I think when I lined up behind her it hit the sweet spot. I was very close to crossing the finish line when she asked to please not finish inside her. I was perplexed and slowed the pace. She said she wanted me to finish in her mouth. Who was I to complain. I got close, she dropped to her knees (Being a gentleman, I did place a pillow on the floor), removed the cover and expertly used her mouth and just a little bit of hands to release me into her mouth. She didn't quit until I was completely spent. Then smiled sweetly as I watched her swallow. It was magical.
We laughed and joked for a while, but since I had an early departure I suggested she go home on this night. I slid a reasonable gratuity in to her pursue and off she went. I will for sure repeat with this one. She was exactly what I had hoped to find for some time now.
All in all a very nice short stay. I will be back soon, but may try Pattaya on the next visit. I've never been, so a new adventure awaits!
Thanks again to everyone that offered some advice, it is appreciated and is the good part of being in this community!
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I'm looking for a slow sensual massage with edging, available in Bangkok?
Hi guys,
I'm looking for a nice slow sensual massage that slowly edges you to climax, similar to the Tui Jin in Macau or like this video.
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Are there such providers in Bangkok?
Another question;.
I'll be heading down to Bangkok next week, would like to find out if these are the main points I should cover for the best "see before you pick" experiences in Bangkok (I'm a guy who likes to get the ability to see and pick, so things like Kapoo massage and Mitu massage don't really work for me as the photos tend to end up much better than the actual person);.
- Soaplands like The Lord Palace, Emanuelle, Poisedon (are there better ones?
- Soi Cowboy for Bacarra & Crazy House.
- Thermae Bar.
- Nana Plaza.
Any others that I should be trying out?