No Flame - differing point of view
You were there, I wasn't. Still:
[QUOTE=Zing Uk]She doesn't know one end of a bottel of wine from the other so asked the sales assistant for some help so I was presented with a very nice bottle of Mouton Cadet[/quote]So she stopped and took the time to ask for advice... doubt she was like us, waiting for her bags to appear (visa run - hand carry only). Rather nice she took the time to think of you.
MY experience, and I have received several bottles from both GFE's and 'business partners', someone just wanting to be nice, showing that you are a bit 'special'. Hell, given the allowance of 4, and I got 1, no doubt there are 3 other 'special' guys... so what? I'm 1 of them.
[QUOTE=Zing Uk]...An interesting night was in store though, I asked her if she bought the wine because she liked me, "no" came the answer, "I business woman, no like men. " Bit of a googly that one, I thought she was into my personality but seems she just likes the regular cash and not having to be with a complete slob most nights. The wine was just a seen as a business investment.[/quote]WHAT!?!?!! She did not fall to her knees, kowtowing 5 times, professing her undying, unrequited, no-hope-of-a-future love for you? To quote Captain Renault: "I'm shocked, shocked..."
Even from a [u]"business"[/u] regular... does anyone think that giving a bottle will keep her in the 'lineup' for that alone? What's the difference between showing a bit of gratitude with a phone card and her with a bottle? What do you expect? A free bj on the house?
If it was 'strictly business', then in her business, {cliche} time is money, so why is she spending extra hours with you? Living in a barracks - that's one reason, but even then, you miss "meal time" and you are on your own. Plus difficult if you miss "nap time" (quiet hours 'enforced' by the house boss) on THAT night's business. I never forget that unless I'm pulling her multiple nights (which I rarely do), she's looking at a NEW job that night. Her own shared place? Might be spartan, but they can do wonders with so little to make it feel like a home.
I know with MY job, I like the regular cash, a pleasant work environment a bonus. If she's as nice as you say, I'd be guessing she has other 'offers'...
After all, ever pay her just to 'hang out', no [i]services[/i] involved? Probably not (nor would I), so it is business.
[QUOTE=Zing Uk]Moral of the story, be careful, there is danger in them there hills, we are all just clients and they are all just business girls, its as big a "game" to them as it is to us all be it a bit more serious for them.[/quote]Will politely disagree. Examples keep tumbling out, e.g., I look up on my wall to the Valentine's heart from the last Miss T... she who bailed out early 1 night, admittedly going for the money, then apologizing for it later, 1 week before going back home for good; no future business there.
The regular I call every couple of weeks back home, just to chat with a friend, keep up with what's going on... She's banned, NOT coming back (doesn't want to, anyway).
Or something as trivial as Miss C of Thursday night. If it was business ONLY, [i]better[/i] business would have been to bail out on me (of the once or twice a year visit) for a regular customer, and I'm guessing a nice one at that. She is class; when I thanked her, she simply said, "a deal is a deal; I don't expect a customer to break one; I don't either". Nice personally, mutual respect, but maybe not so nice for the STRICTLY bottom line.
Finally, the girls do build up a self-preservation shell, not exactly being open. Who can blame them? After all...
[NO flame war intended]
How did you REALLY view her? wg, right? Of course. No problem there. But... She's "special" for you, so you post her photos (masked, but I could recognize her) HERE? Was that included in the price? (You understand I'm being facetious, others might not).
[OK, the photo boys, hold your horses... I'm trying to make a point about 'point of view']
Myself, I'm one of those "right to privacy unless explicitly given away" types. By default, just because she's a wg, I don't think she gives up the right to privacy unless she says so. And it MUST be informed consent.
Like the old joke ("You ever stop beating your wife?"), all in how you ask the question:[list][*]None: Don't ask; it's YOUR right, she's given up hers as she's a prostitute.[*]1/2 truth: Can I put your photo on the net? But most wg's I've known, if they know the internet, it's e-mail, phone (voip), and maybe chat. Forums? No REAL concept that ANYONE in the world can see, that photos just can't be deleted by anyone...[*]Full truth: Can I post your photo on the internet on a site [u]about prostitutes in dubai[/u], that anyone in the world can see?[/list]I wouldn't be surprised if one got different answers to each of the above...
No slam, it's a free world, free forum, you do what you want.
So (finally, I know, LONG lead-in), my POINT is, you're a bit "disappointed*" because she only sees you as a good CUSTOMER. But tell me, if she saw her photos on the net, UNDERSTOOD WHERE they are, how would she feel? Pleased, or "disappointed" in you, that you only saw her as a good-looking wh*re?
Don't get me wrong. With me, it's never misunderstood - there is no future; there is ALWAYS a pay packet slipped into her purse in the morning. Hopefully, I am seen as a client, given I'm not offering any future, I don't want to be responsible for her, but that doesn't mean we can't have fun, be 'special', and enjoy within the limits. I understand that she/they have 'other' choices, and some of those are also nice guys...
I've known 'business girls' (haven't we ALL), and GFE's. From my point of view, despite what she said, it was more than 'just business'.
*disappointed: the difference between your fantasy and reality.
Stopping over for 10 hours
Guys,
I will be stopping over for 10 hours( 2:00 PM to 11:45 PM), please suggest me how can I make maximum use of my time. I will have a carry on backpack with me; do you guys think I should take a hotel room? I would like to have fun with girls(preferably Russian), get a good massage(if Dubai offers any special Thailand kind massage ) and a little sight seeing.
I appreciate your suggestion.