Some time ago I read a post about someone getting custom shoes made. If it was you, can you post the name/location of the place and what you think of them?
Thanks.
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Some time ago I read a post about someone getting custom shoes made. If it was you, can you post the name/location of the place and what you think of them?
Thanks.
Hi,
I have big trouble with a BG I met and with who I spend some time during my last trips since 1 year.
She says last September she is pregnant and the baby is from me. I know it is not possible but she makes me big trouble calling me, on my phone, calling me in my office (she get this number because I called her a few times with it (cheap charlie!)
I staid long times with her and planned to take her in may country (france) so I maid papers for her to get a visa so she knows a lot of things about me (personnal adress, office adress, name of my company, number of my passeport (and a copy of it.!)
I have taking care of her and help her a lot (buying coolbox, tv,.) I think I gave her almost 600 000 baths in less than one year.
When she told me she is pregnant I gave her money to stop it even if I knew the baby is not mine.!
I don't know if she really stop pregnant.
Last February she became crazy, calling me and sending me sms about 30 tilmes every days during 2 weeks, she threaten me to send papers to my company and to my wife (. Yes, I am married) to explain she is pregnant and that I use money of my company to pay flight ticket to BKK, to pay phone to call her,. (that is not true but. We never know what reaction my company can have)
She use some foreign friends of her from europe (ex customers? Real friends?) to call me and send me emails to explain me that I have to take care of her, sending money or I will have big problem with thai police and with thai association for take care of thai people because she ask them to track me.
I cut of course every contact, change mobile phone, ask people of my office not to answer to phone calls from Thailand, check every day mail box at office and home, never answer email. I was really scared!
Now and for about 2 months, I don't have any news and everything seems quite but I still afraid.
Maybe she keep the baby, I don't't know. If Yes, I think she is close to have it.
This is why I need some help from you to answer some questions:
- do you think she went to the police to say she is pregnant from a farang and gave copy of may passport?
- do you think next time I go to Thailand I can have trouble with the police or with immigration? Is it possible they have my passport number because a girl gave her?
Yesterday, my boss tell me I have to go to Thailand in 2 weeks for my job. I am scared about that!
I didn't change my passport yet and I don't have time to do it.
Please tell me if you think I risk something.
Thanks for opinion and help
Fred
Here is a real eye-opener concerning the ugly truth about tailors in Thailand:
[url]http://www.bangkokpost.com/news/investigation/35583/stitched-up-and-ripped-off-on-holiday[/url]
[url]http://www.bangkokpost.com/news/investigation/35584/tailor-made-avoiding-the-rip-offs[/url]
Of the hundreds of shops in Bangkok and Pattaya, only a very few are on the level. The rest will sell you garbage and/or cheat you in multiple and nefarious ways described in detail.
I always smile, nod, and walk right by the tailor touts.
[QUOTE=Fredlena]
I have big trouble with a BG I met and with who I spend some time during my last trips since 1 year.
She says last September she is pregnant and the baby is from me. I know it is not possible but she makes me big trouble calling me, on my phone, calling me in my office (she get this number because I called her a few times with it (cheap charlie!)
- do you think she went to the police to say she is pregnant from a farang and gave copy of may passport?
- do you think next time I go to Thailand I can have trouble with the police or with immigration? Is it possible they have my passport number because a girl gave her?
Yesterday, my boss tell me I have to go to Thailand in 2 weeks for my job. I am scared about that![/QUOTE]Stay cool. First, did you ever see pictures of her or her on the webcam being pregnant? And not just with clothes on, but of her pregnant belly with no shirt? A friend of mine in Peru played a joke on me once. Her friends put something in her shirt and took a bunch of pictures of her doing things around the house. It looked very much like she was pregnant, but after she saw my cool reaction she told me it was just a joke.
Regardless, you are okay. A copy of a passport doesn't prove paternity. And if it did, what could they do besides nothing? How many Thai kids whose father left their mother when they got pregnant are running around? In the far off chance that you do get into trouble you can always say it was identity theft and she must have stolen all of your information.
And do yourself a favor. Don't get so attached to a BG again.
[QUOTE=Fredlena]
I have big trouble with a BG I met and with who I spend some time during my last trips since 1 year.
She says last September she is pregnant and the baby is from me. I know it is not possible but she makes me big trouble calling me...[/QUOTE]
If you know it is not possible, why do you bother?
Anyway, I agree with what Mr Enternational already wrote. You won't have any trouble with the Immigration.
But, if you are real and not a troll, you have to stop acting like a fool, mate!
If she can pretend that you made her pregnant, that means that you've fucked her at least once without a condom which is not advisable (or maybe the condom broke, but you should remember it, then, no?), especially if you don't know her HIV status and whether or not she has taken a contraceptive pill (or if she uses another contraceptive method).
You said that you already sent her almost 600 000 baht during the past year! For what purpose? It's a lot of money in Thailand! Some people might disagree, but I and several senior members can tell you that sponsoring a Thai girl is not a good idea (sorry, but actually, I think it's just plain stupid). Once you can live with her on a daily basis, it's another story, but if you are not really staying together, don't send any money (or at least, not such big amounts)!
You should not believe her threats, especially if what she claims is groundless. If she phones you, just don't say anything. Let her speak alone and answer nothing. She will stop sooner or later (international phone calls are not free!). But when you are back in the Land of Smiles, don't go anymore somewhere near her area, don't try to contact her or someone she knows, avoid her and her friends and family like the plague!
If you need some advices in French, just send me a PM.
[QUOTE=Daddy07][url]http://www.bangkokpost.com/news/investigation/35583/stitched-up-and-ripped-off-on-holiday[/url]
[url]http://www.bangkokpost.com/news/investigation/35584/tailor-made-avoiding-the-rip-offs[/url]
[/QUOTE]
The first of these links led me to one of those "you have signs of a virus" scams that won't let you out without closing the link with task manager or shutting down your internet connection and installs malware if you let it run.
The scam opened when I clicked on a link on the page.
It's probably OK to read these links, but I advise that you don't follow any of the onward links on these pages.
If you do, use task master to close out and then run a full security scan.
[QUOTE=Fredlena]I have taking care of her and help her a lot (buying coolbox, tv,.) I think I gave her almost 600 000 baths in less than one year.
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Well, looking at what you just wrote, I take it you must be the biggest idiot that has travelled in Thailand in the last year? I think she recognizes it too and this is why she does all what she has been doing.
i's all stories, forget it, she's just a prostitute who tries every trick in the book to get money from her top sucker.
Shit, and if you did fuck her bareback, then you got what you deserved!! (being married and all)
[QUOTE=Mr Enternational]Stay cool. First, did you ever see pictures of her or her on the webcam being pregnant? And not just with clothes on, but of her pregnant belly with no shirt? A friend of mine in Peru played a joke on me once. Her friends put something in her shirt and took a bunch of pictures of her doing things around the house. It looked very much like she was pregnant, but after she saw my cool reaction she told me it was just a joke.
Regardless, you are okay. A copy of a passport doesn't prove paternity. And if it did, what could they do besides nothing? How many Thai kids whose father left their mother when they got pregnant are running around? In the far off chance that you do get into trouble you can always say it was identity theft and she must have stolen all of your information.
And do yourself a favor. Don't get so attached to a BG again.[/QUOTE]thanks for your answer.
Yes I saw her really pregnant, and she send me the proof by email (document from hospital, echography with her name.
Yes, you are right, lots of children in the Thailand and in the world don't know their father!
True! I can say she stole me all my information if I get into trouble. But I really don't want to get troubles and be stop at immigration. That's my problem.
Fred
[QUOTE=Fredlena]... But I really don't want to get troubles and be stop at immigration. That's my problem.[/QUOTE]
Then, you don't have any problem with the local authorities, and you should not worry about Thai Immigration, as already explained earlier.
[QUOTE=Fredlena]thanks for your answer.Yes I saw her really pregnant, and she send me the proof by email (document from hospital, echography with her name.Yes, you are right, lots of children in the Thailand and in the world don't know their father!True! I can say she stole me all my information if I get into trouble. But I really don't want to get troubles and be stop at immigration. That's my problem.Fred[/QUOTE]
You got nothing to worry about!* Come to Thailand for your business and continue to do other Thai ladies with a condom of course for so many others reasons than getting someone pregnant. The Civil law is useless in my opinion because they can force a order on you but who the hell is going to enforce it? How many Thai men are paying child support in Thailand? Although she has proof that she is pregnant, a 500 baht note to any Doctor in any clinic can get you a simple piece of paper saying she is... Like already mentioned where is the proof that the baby is your's. Does she have your DNA, has the baby been born and look like a Farang and like you?*
Not saying it couldn't be your's but until it is definite with her attitude now before it is even born has got to be the biggest red flag in the world to tell you get the hell out of the kitchen. The worse is yet to come! you certainly don't want this women to be your wife 24/7.
If it is your's put your foot down and tell her I will pay this much only and only for the child. Unless you plan on raising the child in your country or leaving everything and living in Thailand. Don't let her use the child against your guilt!
LBM
[QUOTE=Fredlena]Hi,
I have big trouble with a BG I met and with who I spend some time during my last trips since 1 year.
She says last September she is pregnant and the baby is from me. I know it is not possible but she makes me big trouble calling me, on my phone, calling me in my office (she get this number because I called her a few times with it (cheap charlie!)
I staid long times with her and planned to take her in may country (france) so I maid papers for her to get a visa so she knows a lot of things about me (personnal adress, office adress, name of my company, number of my passeport (and a copy of it.!)
I have taking care of her and help her a lot (buying coolbox, tv,.) I think I gave her almost 600 000 baths in less than one year.
When she told me she is pregnant I gave her money to stop it even if I knew the baby is not mine.!
I don't know if she really stop pregnant.
Last February she became crazy, calling me and sending me sms about 30 tilmes every days during 2 weeks, she threaten me to send papers to my company and to my wife (. Yes, I am married) to explain she is pregnant and that I use money of my company to pay flight ticket to BKK, to pay phone to call her,. (that is not true but. We never know what reaction my company can have)
She use some foreign friends of her from europe (ex customers? Real friends?) to call me and send me emails to explain me that I have to take care of her, sending money or I will have big problem with thai police and with thai association for take care of thai people because she ask them to track me.
I cut of course every contact, change mobile phone, ask people of my office not to answer to phone calls from Thailand, check every day mail box at office and home, never answer email. I was really scared!
Now and for about 2 months, I don't have any news and everything seems quite but I still afraid.
Maybe she keep the baby, I don't't know. If Yes, I think she is close to have it.
This is why I need some help from you to answer some questions:
- do you think she went to the police to say she is pregnant from a farang and gave copy of may passport?
- do you think next time I go to Thailand I can have trouble with the police or with immigration? Is it possible they have my passport number because a girl gave her?
Yesterday, my boss tell me I have to go to Thailand in 2 weeks for my job. I am scared about that!
I didn't change my passport yet and I don't have time to do it.
Please tell me if you think I risk something.
Thanks for opinion and help
Fred[/QUOTE]Immigration will not be a problem in Thailand, but if you are from a European country and when she goes ask for help at your ambassy, you could be forced to pay childsupport in your own country to her.
In Europe they can even force you to go to a hospital and check your DNA with that from the baby.
However when you take a Thai lawyer and do it in Thailand you will pay muck less childsupport.
[QUOTE=Goyave]
You said that you already sent her almost 600,000 baht during the past year! For what purpose? It's a lot of money in Thailand![/QUOTE]
Yes that's about 18 years of child support in Thailand :) I hope Fred has kept all the Western Union slips.
Fred - You might want to send a "rallonge" in about 14-16 years for the kid's schooling.
[QUOTE=Fredlena]Hi,
I have taking care of her and help her a lot (buying coolbox, tv,.) I think I gave her almost 600 000 baths in less than one year.[/QUOTE]
You gotta love this list with a cool box coming first... :) Bought one yesterday for 99 bahts at Makro.
Fred,
When a women gets pregnant, especially early in the pregnancy, a doctor with ultrasound can determine the due date and also the day of conception within 2 or 3 days.
If you were in better terms with your girl friend you could ask her to send you an ultrasound picture. The pictures usually will have DD and GA with dates printed in the margins. You could say to girl friend to send me a couple pictures to prove when the baby is due. Working back 40 weeks is the day of conception. If you were not in Thailand +/- 4 days from that date then you probably are not the father.
Unless you are married to the her you will probably never have to pay child support even if you are the father. The issue is that women don't have the right to request a DNA sample or paternity test just because they think you might be the father. I don't know if she's allowed to put you on the Birth Certificate even if she's never been married to you. If that was the case every girl in Thailand would put Brad Pitt as the father to show that there baby has the right to emigrate to the EU or USA.
Just think of it. You hotel copies your passport info when you check in. They sell it people who sell it to single Thai Pregnant women and then you end up as the father without you having idea. When the baby reaches a certain age. She drops by the embassy and shows that the child father is citizens of France, England, etc and would to inquire about child support. How chaotic would that be. Imagine being contacted 10 years after you last visited Thailand about some women claiming that you are the father just because your passport info was sold and you end up being on the birth certificate.
[QUOTE=Fredlena]Hi,
She says last September she is pregnant and the baby is from me. I know it is not possible but she makes me big trouble calling me, on my phone, calling me in my office (she get this number because I called her a few times with it (cheap charlie!)
[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Mr_Hoffy]
Just think of it. You hotel copies your passport info when you check in. They sell it people who sell it to single Thai Pregnant women and then you end up as the father without you having idea. When the baby reaches a certain age. She drops by the embassy and shows that the child father is citizens of France, England, etc and would to inquire about child support. How chaotic would that be. Imagine being contacted 10 years after you last visited Thailand about some women claiming that you are the father just because your passport info was sold and you end up being on the birth certificate.[/QUOTE]
The really disturbing thing about what you just wrote is that I can actually see this happening in LOS... TIT
See attached card & map.
The location is a little off the beaten track from Suk but it’s easy enough from the Skytrain to the Taksin stop. From there its immediately in front of Assumption college between the back side of the Mandarin Oriental and the Shangri-La hotels and the State Tower (Lebua) is directly behind.
[url]http://www.v-doit.com/shop/p/phoenixshop/img-lib/map_2007072405313.jpg[/url]
[url]http://www.v-doit.com/
I have a pair of Timberland loafers that are really threadbare (but I wear them anyway) and they replicated them perfectly except better! They charged me 2800 Bhat which is about what I paid for them new 20 years ago and they are fabulous!
There are usually some local freelancers under the Skytrain between the main road and the river (usually amatures coming home from a job) so take a look if you have time. If you walk to the river you can take a river taxi for 20bhat up river to Chinatown and beyond. A good afternoon diversion...
RJSSS212
[QUOTE=Ivanba]Some time ago I read a post about someone getting custom shoes made. If it was you, can you post the name/location of the place and what you think of them?
Thanks.[/QUOTE]