I can no longer recommend Sosua
I have only been there 2 times, this is my second time. I'm wrapping up my trip, and so far based on this second trip, I can no longer recommend it as a mongering destination. This is just my personal opinion and I'll share why as objectively as possible.
1) Greedy girls. It seems to me that prices have gone up the last time I was here. The max offer I would get for 2 times of sex in one session was $100 usd. Fast forward 3 months to now and the lowest I can get that same offer is $130 USD, with every girl asking for $150 right off the bat. I have no idea what happened, but the girls have become extremely greedy, or I was able to dodge these girls on my first trip. My issue with these greedy girls is that $130-150 USD is a lot of money in the DR. These women are basically asking for relative $500-1000 USD prices if they lived in a major US city. I's extremely disrespectful and to me communicates that the pricing in Sosua is broken. It's possible to get girls for cheaper prices, but my issue is that the girls I wanted, were extremely greedy. And if I wanted lower pricing and good service, I would have to bargain and negotiate for it extensively. I would also have to screen out a lot of girls because I'd frequently connect wih girls that were just bad to deal with. Similar to how I would have to operate wih western girls on western dating apps. On my WhatsApp between my 2 trips I've had to block 30-40 different women, all for various reasons. A grand majority of these blocks were because the girls were acting too dumb over text or quoting prices too high over text. There's also some girls in that pool who I've slept with and then blocked right after because they basically finessed their way into our initial session or the session basically got botched somehow as we were going through with it. Usually being botched because of something relating to money or just poor service. I'm not sure what has changed but the greed is at a new level and it's the main reason I won't be returning to Sosua anymore.
2) No guaranteed good service. I'm fairly new to international mongering so this may not be news to anyone or the more experienced mongers here. But I think it doesn't matter if you are in a western country or a big sex tourism hub anywhere in the world such as Sosua or Thailand. My understanding is that good service is not guaranteed in any location you go to around the world. The notion that you can show up to a Thailand and get submissive and good service consistently with new girls, right off the bat with hardly any work, is false. I think you still have to put in the work to screen out girls who are greedy, to negotiate fair market rates with girls because they will always quote you inflated rates, and there will always be a 50/50 risk that a session with a new girl will be botched, no matter where you are in the world. Botched meaning there's a problem about money during the session, there's a misunderstanding, or the service the girl provides is just bad and not good. Even in countries like Mexico where I've also mongered in, there was always a consistent element of bullshit when you were meeting new girls and having sex with them. I have not experienced a single mongering location where this element of "bullshit" was significantly reduced. This is just my opinion of course, and I don't know for sure for every major mongering destination in the world. But I do know that for Sosua, this is 100% the case, and I can confidently report that. To sum up, all the work you would do in the US trying to meet girls on dating apps or sugar dating websites, you would still have to do a similar amount of work in other countries as well. It completely defeats the purpose of going overseas, the goal being to get somewhat consistent good service with new girls if you so choose, and also having to work less.
3) Not enough girls. Sosua is actually a pretty small town. There isn't a huge variety of girls. I thought there were a ton because the first time I was here in February I had a ton of tinder matches. I don't know what happened now but this time my matches have slowed down significantly. I've only been here for 3 days and I've swiped through all the girls in Sosua. My tinder is saying "no more girls in your area". I think maybe Sosua is just a very seasonal town and some months have a bunch of girls and other months it's very slow? I have no idea. I just know that consistently, there aren't a bunch of girls here. Which is pretty bad if you're traveling or living here. It's a complete waste to come here and not be surrounded by a bunch of girls you can choose from. That's just silly to invest time and effort to experience that.
I know I was saying some good things about Sosua before, but I think first time trips anywhere will cause you to have much higher impressions of what the place is like. Upon a second time experience, once you've settled into the location and the area, you start to notice and realize things. And that's when the true experience of the location hits.
So ultimately, I will not be returning to Sosua again. The experience with the girls here didn't meet my expectations, and more importantly, it gave me a better understanding of the behavior of women and getting sexual experiences out of them. In particular, I'm starting to lean towards the reality that women across the globe behave in a similar fashion when it comes to always punching above market rates when negotiations of sex arise, while at the same time not being focused on providing a service that is focused on the man. In short, a very "me" centric attitude that you would see in western women, but most likely is the majority behavior of women in countries like Thailand and other major passport bro locations as well. And of course, is definitely the majority in Sosua, which I have personally verified for myself, without a doubt.
With that being said, all of this is just my opinion and my personal observations and deductions. Others may have different standards for what they consider "good service". Others may not care about getting at least 90% submission from a woman they're having sex with. Others may not mind having sex with a woman who wants to control the sexual experience while they participate in it. Others may not care if they are paying 1 month of salary to a woman for a 1 hour sexual encounter (which is extremely and massively stupid by the way and I think you should feel ashamed of yourself if you do that, but that's besides the point). These are all personal preferences so everyone will have different conclusions of the reality here. I just know that for my preferences and for what I am looking for, Sosua does not meet the bar.
