[QUOTE=Thewayoflaotzu]Okay, I had my first Indonesian girl early in my 3 week trip.
I saw her again a few days later and went sightseeing with her and her friend and then she spent the night again.
Said she was getting a real nanny job in February.
So, every time I would say something like how wonderful she was, she'd say "we're friends" or something similar.
I knew I was falling for her. So when I saw her in Laguna a few more times she would be with friends and invariably I would be with another woman or on the prowl. She knew I was a butterfly.
I kept saying we would see each other again before I left but I didn't want to because I knew I would fall for her.
So she's still in my Facebook list but she's not answered my e-mails lately.
I just didn't understand how to navigate a situation like that. If she's a working girl, why get jealous or mad at me for being a butterfly?
I just feel like I somehow hurt her feelings without meaning to. And, as I told her, I didn't want to see her again because I knew I would fall for her.
She is wonderful and I'd at least like to be friends with her if nothing else.
How do you fall for these women but not break their hearts or yours in the process? There have been a handful I could see marrying but I'm realistic and not ready for that yet.[/QUOTE]
The solution is don't fall for them. What exactly about them are you falling for? Remember they will be sugar sweet when trying to reel you in, once you are hooked they're as bad as any of them. Why do you want to be friends with her? Who gives a fuck if she's upset with you? She fucks for money, which means the men she fucks will pay women money to fuck them. Does she expect she was your first and will also be your last?
Plus Indos and Flippers get old and fat quickly after having kids, at least the Chinese try to stay in shape.
