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[QUOTE=Adrena;1969352]My order.
1. attitude.
2. tits.
3. body.
4. face.
5. pussy fit and feel.
6. GFE.
7. special skills.
8. cost.
If she has a bad attitude, I'm not interested. Same goes for tits, LOL.
Everything else has a bit of leeway.[/QUOTE]Thanks for reminding me I forgot to put cost on the list. For many guys cost is no. 1 or 2nd after service. For me cost comes definitely after looks and most other factors, However cost will eliminate girls quickly if gets too out of hand.
Tit size is a very weak criteria for me. I have taken girls from no tits to big tits. However body was 2nd on my list. Very badly deflated bags or very overdone coconuts or otherwise very badly shaped tits can cause a girl to be strongly down graded or more likely eliminated. I can stand some sag or silicones if not too hard overall.
At CH worked a girl with astunning body. Yet her face and attitude seemed rather ordinary. Untrustworthy smirk on the face. I could not take her even her ass and pussy was spectacular and great tits. I would get a hard on though just watching her dance.
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[QUOTE=JimmyBoy99;1969607]After School was the BJ bar you were looking for. Also, you dated one "not pretty" woman and fucked a "not pretty" woman and a "mature" woman. Why go to all the trouble to come to Thailand and not fuck young, pretty girls?[/QUOTE]I think he was clearly looking for cheap and perhaps raunchy. I prefer pretty and at least young relative to me. Actually I don't care if they are 40 if still look very good, which gets less likely I guess. I do appreciate 18 YO amazing tits on occasion to make a change.
I am currently with a 34 YO who is pretty amazing in almost all departments. Lately she suggested she woulsd like to try a threesome as well except she does not want to lick the other girls pussy, receive pussy licking OK. My god. Bliss
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My order when picking a girl:
1. face by a mile.
2. attitude. Fun factor.
3. tits.
4. DFK skills during pre-sale.
5. ass.
6. legs.
Face MUST be attractive. On rare occasions, attitude can win me over with better than average face. Cost is not relevant for SEA.
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My criteria
[QUOTE=BananaBoi;1969625]My order when picking a girl:
1. face by a mile.
2. attitude. Fun factor.
3. tits.
4. DFK skills during pre-sale.
5. ass.
6. legs.
Face MUST be attractive. On rare occasions, attitude can win me over with better than average face. Cost is not relevant for SEA.[/QUOTE]1. Not a ladyboy.
2. Face. She has to be attractive enough to kiss.
3. Body shape, well proportioned.
4. Attitude. Good eye contact, smile, etc.
5. Ass. Nice shape. It can be a bit bigger, as long as it is firm.
6. Tits. Big or small, no problem. Just firm.
7. Legs, preferably slender, but well toned.
All kidding aside, the girl's face is what attracts me first. Having a good attitude is a bonus!
FiddyCent.
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[QUOTE=BananaBoi;1969625]My order when picking a girl:
1. face by a mile.
2. attitude. Fun factor.
3. tits.
4. DFK skills during pre-sale.
5. ass.
6. legs.
Face MUST be attractive. On rare occasions, attitude can win me over with better than average face. Cost is not relevant for SEA.[/QUOTE]1. Skill set / Attitude (My two regulars, both "retired," whom I would see about once a month or so always had new tricks each time. A pro should always seek to hone the skills, no matter what the profession.) DFK, BBBCIM, and all the skills listed by the other punters in their lists would go here. They are essential.
2. Body (No baby drag. I just can't get past stretch marks. In fact, I'll take a gal who is slightly over weight with no baby as opposed to one who is slim and perfect aside from stretch marks.) Don't really care about tits at all. Must have a great ass and nice legs. Skin goes here as well. I like 'em white. Not into dark skin, although I might like a darker one every now and then for variety.
3. Face (Not all that important. While I prefer a gal not to have a head like a rottweiler, face pales in comparison to body. Also I just don't find Isaan gals to be that attractive in the face anyway. More into East Asian Chinese/Viet type faces.).
4. Fun factor. Important but #s 3 and 4 on my list are way behind #s 1 and 2. I have a long term GF, with whom I have a lot of fun with. I don't care about fun with my P4 P gals; I care about service and intensity.
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[QUOTE=Syzygies;1969318]I am a sex addict and so I need a lot of sex, and preferably of a good quality, and preferably from girls with well above average face and body looks. The looks seem to enhance my excitement greatly and make it easier to cum. From a single girlfriend, it is very hard to get sex consistently frequently for many years even if quality is good. Hence forced into P4 P or Giks.
So my handicap must be to wish to feel some empathy with a girl first before thinking about fucking her. A totally mechanical session is probably going to leave me less than satisfied. I rarely repeat girls that just go through the mechanical procedures with no apparent interest to actually have fun. My psycholgical problem.[/QUOTE]I am most definitely not a sex addict. If I don't find what I want; I can easily do without. In fact, these days I go a couple of weeks or more without a session. Hell, I'd rather spend the money on good beer or some excellent food if the gal pickings are slim. I have had way too many sessions over the past few years that have left me feeling meh and made me wish I wouldn't have spent the money. Hey, when STs were 500 - 1 k Baht back in the day (12.50 - 25 USD), I really didn't care so much about performance. Any offs a good off when you are paying 12.50. But when I am paying 2100 for 90 min in an oily, my expectations are higher. Any many times these days, they are just not being met.
I used to empathize with the gals when I first moved here. That quickly faded. A mediocre P4 P gal in BKK makes more than most uni educated Thais with many years of job experience. Yes, she supports her entire family. So what? Her choice; not my issue. She has chosen to be in the P4 P industry. If she wants my money, she better be damn good at what she does.
I am still amazed that guys put a completely different set of rules on sex workers than they do other professions. I mean really, would your boss let you slide like many punters let these gals slide? Would you let your employees slide? Would you let your Dr get away with half-assed treatment? I don't think so.
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I think the lists of importance that we've all been posting are quite interesting.
I wonder how some of the girls make money, but these lists help me understand. Different tastes and whatnot.
My single biggest turn off is negotiation. I don't know how people do it. If a girl quotes me an unusually high price, I am instantly turned-off; it's almost a feeling of disgust. However, some of you handle it like studs. Mongers are a diverse set of individuals.
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[QUOTE=Adrena;1969671]...My single biggest turn off is negotiation. I don't know how people do it. If a girl quotes me an unusually high price, I am instantly turned-off; it's almost a feeling of disgust. However, some of you handle it like studs. Mongers are a diverse set of individuals.[/QUOTE]If a girl quotes me a too-high price, I just walk away, assuming she is not interested in my business. I rarely negotiate the ptice. However, one time in a popular gogo, a girl quoted me a high price for ST. I started laughing and she immediately changed her offer to LT. I still did not take her eventhough I liked her. I did go back the next day and took her for LT at that price.
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Finding Fetish Girls
I have never been to Thailand before, but I am considering going early next year to see what it is all about. I have a couple questions that I have not been able to find much detail about and if anyone can advise or point me in a direction, that would be great. If a solo guy is looking to find two girls at a time (maybe even 3), and having them go to my hotel or and basically act out a porn show with handcuffs and double dildos (haha) for example, is this something that can be commonly found? Is it just a matter of asking the first girl you would meet in a gogo or bar and tell her you are interested in her and a friend or another girl I would pick out and telling her exactly what you want? Just curious.
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Three days in Bangkok
Spent a few days in Bangkok and tried a few different hunting grounds. First night did the Soi Cowboy thing and visited Cowboy 2. Usual group a girls and while there were a lot to try and take my cash, few caught the eye enough for me to buy. Headed out to Climax instead. Found the crowd there to be very disappointing and the quality somewhat under par. Finally met a familiar face that saved the night. One thing I did notice was that the girls of quality all rolled in around 3 am and I suspect that they were looking for their second or third customer for the night. Took my familiar face back for a great GFE that made the first night worthwhile.
The second day I spent in Hilary 2. Good bar with some pretty faces. Played pool all day and managed to get a few numbers for the next trip. Headed out at night to the line up at Thermae. My observations confirmed a very heavy Asian male presence and the girls very much favoring them over non Asians. Did manage to talk to a few but the feedback was that Asian is their flavor. Left Thermae feeling that it is likely to become an exclusive Asian pickup bar. Went to Mixx and found the quality of the girls there to be much superior to anything else. A lot of eye candy and dressed to thrill. Found a cute Thai girl that was built to perform. Took her back for what turned out to be a great night that lasted into the later part of the day.
Third day went back to the bars at Nana Plaza and managed to collect some numbers. Was determined this time to buy at Thermae but as this was a Friday night the odds were stacked against me. Place was packed with Asians and the girls had eyes only for them. Must admit that the line up had a lot of eye candy but I did not manage to close a deal. Left feeling that the place is not for me.
Went back to Nana Plaza and hoped in Twister. The place was jumping and the girls were very interested in bar fines. I found a very cute and well built dancer who was eager to go back with me, she turned out to be a solid performer who had a great body and fab attitude.
In all. The three nights in Bangkok were great despite lucking out in Thermae. Would try it again but I would stay away from the weekend nights. Too many Asians.
Happy hunting.
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[QUOTE=BellBottomsDJ;1969894]I have never been to Thailand before, but I am considering going early next year to see what it is all about. I have a couple questions that I have not been able to find much detail about and if anyone can advise or point me in a direction, that would be great. If a solo guy is looking to find two girls at a time (maybe even 3), and having them go to my hotel or and basically act out a porn show with handcuffs and double dildos (haha) for example, is this something that can be commonly found? Is it just a matter of asking the first girl you would meet in a gogo or bar and tell her you are interested in her and a friend or another girl I would pick out and telling her exactly what you want? Just curious.[/QUOTE]Eden Club is a fetish club and have strap ONS, not sure about double dildos, so try that in house first.
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[QUOTE=Adrena;1969671]I think the lists of importance that we've all been posting are quite interesting.
I wonder how some of the girls make money, but these lists help me understand. Different tastes and whatnot.
My single biggest turn off is negotiation. I don't know how people do it. If a girl quotes me an unusually high price, I am instantly turned-off; it's almost a feeling of disgust. However, some of you handle it like studs. Mongers are a diverse set of individuals.[/QUOTE]Some guys love to negotiate every detail of the money and exactly what they will get.
Like you, this is not for me. Many girls do not even set a price for me. I am well known as fair it seems or more than fair.
I can stand a very quick negotiation on price, without too much to and fro.
I am starting to think some kissing discussion is needed when going with free lancers. Kissing from them has been weak this year. So I will start to say to them if they want me again, and they do, then the kissing has to improve.
No improvement then I won't take them. That simple. They can then decide if they want the business.
My bargirls and MP girl have been kissing pretty good so I don't see why free lancers have to be worse if they want repeat business.
Girls that take neither DFK nor DATY are definitely ruled out very quickly. I don't like girls to be asking me what I like to do in the session, a bit common for western hookers, and my answer is typically that I like to have fun.
I don't have any weird requirements at all, and go with what the girls feel comfortable with for the most part. Girls are not forced to do something they don't want to do , unless they are self forcing.
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[QUOTE=BellBottomsDJ;1969894]If a solo guy is looking to find two girls at a time (maybe even 3), and having them go to my hotel or and basically act out a porn show with handcuffs and double dildos (haha) for example [/QUOTE]Thai women (including working girls) are typically sexually conservative and not very kinky. I doubt getting two regular working girls would work for you, the language barrier would work against your odd requests too.
Places where you can try this are Eden Club, perhaps Barbar / Demonia (specialized SM bars), and as a last resort PSE oilies like Tulip / Sky / Snow White / Bongkot / Bamboo, though at those last ones you'd have to make sure to explain your request very clearly, and might not have many takers.
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[QUOTE=Crocodilexp;1969988]Thai women (including working girls) are typically sexually conservative and not very kinky. I doubt getting two regular working girls would work for you, the language barrier would work against your odd requests too.
Places where you can try this are Eden Club, perhaps Barbar / Demonia (specialized SM bars), and as a last resort PSE oilies like Tulip / Sky / Snow White / Bongkot / Bamboo, though at those last ones you'd have to make sure to explain your request very clearly, and might not have many takers.[/QUOTE]I agree completely. Its easy to get a non fetish 3 some or 4 some, but Thai girls in general are not that kinky to do the fetish stuff. So special clubs for it are best.
I know great girls for bisexual 3 somes but they show no signs of being really kinky.
Girls at Eden do the strap ons and stuff but I thought their acting skills were pretty weak when I tried. I. e. They are paid to do certain routines but but I don't detect eagerness.
I will take a 3 some soon but my specs are different. I just need a 3rd girl with good tits who likes both dick and pussy. A lot easier to meet this criteria at Suzie Wong bar most likely, using one of the lesbian show girls. Anne and Pat have big tits so perhaps one of those two. Unfortunately many of the lesbo show girls have small tits.
Hancuffs should be for the customer. Girls would be very wary of wearing them. Bargirls have been murdered by Psycho guys before in Hotel rooms.
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[QUOTE=BananaBoi;1968276]Too bad I didn't know you were around eihtooms and Jimmy boy, would have been nice to share notes. Thermae was the best I have ever seen it.
One farang was not setting a good example. A girl ordered pad ka prao I think and asked him to pay. He barked out something like you ordered it and she paid. It's like 80 baht.[/QUOTE]No, I am on the falangs side on this one. 80 baht for pad ka prao? It's a scam, she wouldn't have ordered it knowing it costs roughly 2 x the price it should. It also sets a proper examlpe: working girls are employees, not girlfriends. This isn't date night, and you shouldn't be paying for diner. They're working girls, treat as employees. With respect, but with barriers. These issan farm girls are so used to walking all over white men and japs.