Anyone in Cebu right now need a charming dinner companion??
A female friend of mine is very available. I've mentioned this girl before, she's a nursing student who has manged to get pregnant (14 weeks). Her mum's thrown her out of the house and been sleeping on friends floors and struggling to even more than one meals a day. As you can see from the attached pics she's very presentable, speaks fluent English and is bright, funny and chatty. If you are bored of bar girls and DIA dates who can hardly speak English and would like some dinner company then she could really use a square meal. If you are OK with pregnant girls she would probably be willing to stay with you if required - you can discuss that with her, she's in dire need of some cash. She's very open minded and you can talk about anything or ask her to bring another girl along.
The Lighthouse where the pics were taken is by the way an excellent restaurant located next to Mango Park Hotel on General Maxilom Blvd. If you want her to come out you will need to fund the taxi as she has literally no money right now.
You can PM me for contact details
Well speaking of money...at least at Ayala
As one who trys to exchange as infrequently as possible & being too lazy to venture beyond Ayala much. I discovered the exchange joint outside on the upper most (3rd?) level is always @.1% ( USD ) better than the 1 on the inside 1sr floor. As I generally keep a stash of pesos I just watch the rate and trend & replenish when needed. Also found the Globe tatoo, 999p, to be a much less expensive option to access the internet vs the Marriott. 50p for unlimited 24hrs.
Jealousy and Cynicism in Cebu!
This is not really a mongering story but thought I would share it with you guys anyway,some of you may find it interesting.
Was back with Daisy my regular gf and her two kids and staying at the Monteobello Villa Resort in Cebu City. If any of you guys have a gf with kids and you are in Cebu, then I can highly recommend this place, massive swimming pool, kids pool, and extensive gardens that they can explore in complete safety and half decent food. A short 10 minute cab ride to Ayalla Mall, half the price of the Marriot and a completely tranquil oasis in the middle of all the hustle and bustle of this city.
Anyway back to my story. I was with the kids in the pool, had left Daisy in the room to get changed and after 30 minutes began to wonder what had happened to her. I sent her several texts none of which she replied to. 45 minutes went by and my instincts told me something was wrong, so I scooped up the kids and headed back to the room.
I opened the door and was greeted by a sobbing, half hysterical woman throwing herself on the floor like some melodramatic actress from a 50's B movie.
With several minutes of intensive coaxing, I managed to wrest from her the reason for her sudden collapse into a complete emotional breakdown. Apparently her landlady had called her by phone to tell her her house had burned down along with all her (sparse) possessions, her kids clothes, school uniform, the whole lot.
Now I have been with Daisy for around a year and a half but I guess I have spent too long in the company of Thai women so my cynicism stepped in and took over. Without a shred of evidence I just assumed that this was a ploy to extract sympathy money from me. But the children had also started crying when they heard the news and I just did not believe a mother would put her kids through that kind of emotional pain just to elicit more money from me for a tradgedy that she had made up.
I managed to get the number of the landlady and went to the lobby where I knew the receptionist very well. I told her what had just occurred and asked her to call the landlady using my cell phone and try to find out what had really happened. There followed a short intense phone conversation between the two of them and after it was concluded the receptionist turned to me and said "there has been no fire at all, the landlady does not know anything about a fire"
In an instant I felt betrayed and I believed my worst fears had been confirmed. I was now sure that the woman I trusted had lied to me. Boiling with anger, but trying hard to remain calm I returned to the room and effectively told Daisy that if she lied to me again, she and the kids would be on their way back home and never see me again. However Daisy stood her ground, would not flinch and insisted she was telling the truth so I told her what the receptionist had discovered.
Daisy seemed genuinely shocked and she got straight back on the cell to the landlady. Now although I do not understand Visayas, what I did understand from the ensuing phone conversation, is that one almighty mother of a row took place. I then get a text from the landlady saying how sorry she was, she had lied to Daisy about the fire because she was so jealous of Daisy and begging me for forgiveness.
Now Daisy has often mentioned to me how much her neighbours and landlady were jealous of her but I never attached much significance to it before. I often buy Daisy and her kids new clothes and jewellery and considering she and her kids live a very simple and basic life, in a neighbourhood stricken with poverty, I guess she does look out of place wearing gold earings, a gold plated seiko watch, kids with nice clothes etc.
Of course Daisy accepted my apology how could she fail to forgive her only benefactor, but I was genuinely sorry and took her and the kids out for some shopping to show my remorse.
I do not buy extravagant gifts but I guess for Daisy's position in life the gifts are probably as unobtainable to her neighbours, as the latest solid gold, jewel encrusted rolex is to me.
I have often wondered (and even expected) that Daisy would pawn off her gifts when I returned home in the past but she has never done so.
I just thought I would post this little story to show how petty jealousy can turn people into really cruel and nasty individuals and how my cynicism affected and undermined my judgement of Daisy.
She has now gone back to Alegria, apparently the landlady dropped to her knees to beg for forgiveness when she saw Daisy arrive. I wonder whether it is really genuine remorse, OR the fear of Daisy, who is a 2nd Dan black belt Karate instructor....my money is on the latter!