Bangkok Reports

[QUOTE=Smoothy;2007876]I tell the guy that he's taking up a seat that a paying customer could be sitting in. If the place let everyone in for free, they wouldn't make any money and would have to close, he's sitting there watching naked girls, the least he can do is buy a drink for 150 baht. But he refused. At that point, I bought a drink for the cheap ass. And never went out with him again.[/QUOTE]Well, I'm not trying to make any broad generalizations, but it seems that haggling over the price of everything and being extremely frugal is a culture of some countries.

So, basically, the bars are being temporarily racist, trying to filter out customers who tend to contribute little or none profit to the venues.

I'm not saying this is a right thing for the bars to do, but this theory may give our South Asian members a tip, next time you want to enter a gogo bar, better act generously, bribe the door man with a 500 Thai Baht banknote, treat the waitresses and working women some drinks, and let out a few 20 Thai Baht banknotes as tips also helps, I suppose this will make you the male version of the belle of the ball.

The above is the solution for South Asian members trying to get into a gogo bar or nightclub.

However, there's no proper answer to my being rejected by Russian / Uzbekistan women in the coffee shop in Grace Hotel Soi 3.

Like other members who are White Caucasians have said, they got ignored purposely by the Thai freelancers in Thermae coffee shop.

The East Asian version in Grace Hotel coffee shop occurred to me.

I offer those Russian / Uzbekistan women 3500 for a quick Short Time, which is way higher than what other Middle Easterners paid (around 2000), but still got ignored and rejected purposely.

They are being racist against East Asian for no reasons, which is even more ridiculous than the gogo bars.

[QUOTE=Zen415;2008453]Are there any clubs or parties in BKK? Or perhaps a website? I see that Craigslist has a fair amount of couples looking for another couples or singles. Perhaps that's the main site for this kind of thing here in Thailand?[/QUOTE]I never heard about swinger club / party in Bangkok, I think Craiglist could be the best option.

[QUOTE=Zen415;2008453]set up a gangbang with a few extra guys for her. Any advice?[/QUOTE]If your GF is nice and sexy I think you will find alot men for give her a gangbang. You could post ad on Craiglist with her pics or you could ask members here to join you and your GF. Maybe you can start posting some of her pics here and tell us which days you will in Bangkok.

[QUOTE=Zen415;2008453]I will be joined for a week by a girlfriend from Vietnam while I'm in BKK. We want to play with another couple (either meet a couple online or go to a swingers club / party).

We've done this when she visited me here in San Francisco but I haven't read any reports or reviews on any thread on this forum.

Are there any clubs or parties in BKK? Or perhaps a website? I see that Craigslist has a fair amount of couples looking for another couples or singles. Perhaps that's the main site for this kind of thing here in Thailand?

I imagine it'll be hard to find a single girl (non-business). We're mostly into playing with another couple but would like to play with a girl or set up a gangbang with a few extra guys for her. Any advice?

Thanks![/QUOTE]Your best bet is finding someone on Adult Friend Finder. I used that a number of years ago and found some folks that had swingers parties in Patts and then they arranged a special get together for us in BKK. They were a bit too public in their advertising and eventually were busted. [URL]https://www.theguardian.com/world/2009/feb/05/thailand-swingers-charges[/URL].

[QUOTE=ChristianG;2008611]I never heard about swinger club / party in Bangkok, I think Craiglist could be the best option.

If your GF is nice and sexy I think you will find alot men for give her a gangbang. You could post ad on Craiglist with her pics or you could ask members here to join you and your GF. Maybe you can start posting some of her pics here and tell us which days you will in Bangkok.[/QUOTE]Thanks! Our #1 preference is swinging with a couple or two, so we'll try CL first and see.

[QUOTE=Pita123;2008645]Your best bet is finding someone on Adult Friend Finder. I used that a number of years ago and found some folks that had swingers parties in Patts and then they arranged a special get together for us in BKK. They were a bit too public in their advertising and eventually were busted. [URL]https://www.theguardian.com/world/2009/feb/05/thailand-swingers-charges[/URL].[/QUOTE]Thank you. Wow! It's crazy that swingers clubs and parties are illegal in a country that seems to be very sexually liberated.

[QUOTE=Zen415;2008684]Thank you. Wow! It's crazy that swingers clubs and parties are illegal in a country that seems to be very sexually liberated.[/QUOTE]Only problem is that Thailand is not a sexually liberated land.

Just because the girls need money doesn't mean they are sexually liberated.

[QUOTE=SoloTraveler;2008582]So, basically, the bars are being temporarily racist, trying to filter out customers who tend to contribute little or none profit to the venues.

I'm not saying this is a right thing for the bars to do, but this theory may give our South Asian members a tip, next time you want to enter a gogo bar, better act generously, bribe the door man with a 500 Thai Baht banknote, treat the waitresses and working women some drinks, and let out a few 20 Thai Baht banknotes as tips also helps, I suppose this will make you the male version of the belle of the ball.

The above is the solution for South Asian members trying to get into a gogo bar or nightclub.[/QUOTE]That would help, but talking with the girls, those guys also have a reputation for bar fining the girls then having 10 other guys waiting in the room to gang bang the girl. It's not just that they are cheap. There are multiple reasons they ban those guys.

[QUOTE=Antex;2008732]Only problem is that Thailand is not a sexually liberated land.

Just because the girls need money doesn't mean they are sexually liberated.[/QUOTE]Oh, that is so true. Thais are quite conservative when it comes to sex.

[QUOTE=SoloTraveler;2008582]Well, I'm not trying to make any broad generalizations, but it seems that haggling over the price of everything and being extremely frugal is a culture of some countries.

So, basically, the bars are being temporarily racist, trying to filter out customers who tend to contribute little or none profit to the venues.

I'm not saying this is a right thing for the bars to do, but this theory may give our South Asian members a tip, next time you want to enter a gogo bar, better act generously, bribe the door man with a 500 Thai Baht banknote, treat the waitresses and working women some drinks, and let out a few 20 Thai Baht banknotes as tips also helps, I suppose this will make you the male version of the belle of the ball.

The above is the solution for South Asian members trying to get into a gogo bar or nightclub.

However, there's no proper answer to my being rejected by Russian / Uzbekistan women in the coffee shop in Grace Hotel Soi 3.

Like other members who are White Caucasians have said, they got ignored purposely by the Thai freelancers in Thermae coffee shop.

The East Asian version in Grace Hotel coffee shop occurred to me.

I offer those Russian / Uzbekistan women 3500 for a quick Short Time, which is way higher than what other Middle Easterners paid (around 2000), but still got ignored and rejected purposely.

They are being racist against East Asian for no reasons, which is even more ridiculous than the gogo bars.[/QUOTE]CIS ladies might be worried about you being undercover BIB. Most of them are told by their pimps, handlers or BF to stay clear of locals. I don't think they are racist as most of their clientele is Indians and Arabs.

[QUOTE=Antex;2008732]Only problem is that Thailand is not a sexually liberated land.

Just because the girls need money doesn't mean they are sexually liberated.[/QUOTE]What do understand by the words "sexually liberated"?

Are Thai wives not more tolerant of their husbands having a second wife (mia noi) or being entertained by sex providers than Western wives?

Is the sex business in Thailand not much more open & tolerated than it is in, say, the USA, Canada, Vietnam or England?

Don't many parents of Thai children knowingly allow, approve or even encourage their children to enter the sex trade?

In Canada since a few years ago paying for sex is outlawed, so I am not allowed to do it anywhere, at least not in this particular universe, as long as I remain under Canadian law, or a citizen of Canada. Fortunately LE, in certain Canadian cities, are not interested in enforcing this law when it involves consenting adults.

Strangely, while buying sex is illegal in Canada, selling it is not.

Consequently, due to LOS being more legally sexually liberated than Canada, even more Canadians than ever may be visiting Siam.

[QUOTE=Zen415;2008684]Thank you. Wow! It's crazy that swingers clubs and parties are illegal in a country that seems to be very sexually liberated.[/QUOTE]I agree that Thailand is not so liberated. Anything can happen in private secretly behind closed doors, but not much in public. The new Thai government is particularly tough, trying to improve Thailand's reputation as premium place for hookers. Of course their are countries far more puritanical and "bible bashing".

Years ago SOL in Patpong allowing fucking in the public bar but I don't believe they would allow it any more. Fear of Police raids. Thailand would never have Sex stores with full range of porn and sex toys like in Germany.

There is a big double standard in Thailand. Wives are expected to be faithful and obedient but the Thai men can play up as much as they like. So the Swinging concept would not work for Thais, I think. The Thai men only want young single girls with no baby, no so much some old woman that is someone else's wife. In particular the Thai man cannot have his wife swinging with someone else.

Thailand is definitely not an open minded country like Germany, Switzerland, Austria, Holland, Czech, Hungary, etc.

Yes Thailand has sex parties, of sorts. Several guys go to a Soapy MP, and they select a set of girls, and go to special large VIP suite for partying. I have not actually been to such a party but they do happen. Soapy girls did tell me about them, but I wasn't curious enough to ask a lot of questions.

I make my own parties with several Thai girls (well up to 3 anyway), but have never needed other guys to help so far.

The main concept of Swingers clubs, is usually for older couples bored with normal sex lives, to get to fuck around at very low cost. i.e. girls I would not pay to fuck.

Can you tell us the names of the girls you met? And maybe say something about them? This will help our planning.

[QUOTE=FormulaOneFan;2008535]Slept until noon as I was wiped after 24 hrs in transit. Decided to hit a BJ bar early in the trip as I'm usually not a BJ finisher. Went to som's Haven since it was near my hotel. About six girls working and started chatting with one that suited my tastes. Bought her a beer and one for me and we relaxed on the couches for a bit. Headed upstairs with her. Rooms are a bit run down, but serviceable; she was aiming to please and took direction well. I wanted slow with ball licking, then speed it up, and she was a great performer. She sucked me dry and kept going, sucking it all down, all swallow no spit.

Next up after a rest was club 102 - must have been 30-40 girls working at 8 pm. Picked one that suited my tastes and we went to the room. Nice room, big albeit hard bed. She actually gave a decent oil massage and then a serviceable but a bit toothy BBBJ. Cap on and sex in several positions. She seemed to enjoy it and had a good finish. Followed up with a Thai style massage to close out the time.

Wandered to Nana plaza for a nite cap and hit billboard after wandering into and out of a few other bars. Nothing caught my fancy so I headed back to hotel near soi cowboy to rest and decide what to do. Was still wiped so ended up calling it early and not ordering in or hitting soi cowboy.

Don't recall prices for either, but we're in line with what I expected.[/QUOTE]

After a few beers and some recovery time, I thought it was time to hit a soapie. You can sense a trend here; my first longer trip to BKK (was here for 40 hrs in Sept, didn't have time to explore) and I'm checking off the boxes I read about here and other places. It was about 7 pm and I thought about going to The Lord, but decided upon Emmanelle for no particular reason other than it had been mentioned, and it was one of the first I recognized by name after getting off the MRT. Decent and large lineup. Immediately I was given a menu card with the girl classes and prices. No surprise there and a pretty broad range in price. I'm not sure if there was a farang markup or not, but the prices weren't a surprise. Since I'm not on a tight budget, I didn't let the price be my guide, but rather chose a girl based on looks and my tastes. I chose an SM class girl. SM53 (5300 thb) if I remember right. Pretty face, natural see cups, nice smile. We went up to a nicely appointed room and had a little chit-chat while her stuff was brought up. She did have a bit of a tummy that was masked by her outfit, but nothing to make the experience a negative one. The rest of her body was nicely shaped and fit. Started with a nice soak / scrub / rub in the tub with lots of playful back and forth, then onto the bed. Service was good, but not stellar. Biggest ding was that the BJ was covered; not a deal breaker, but generally a bit of a mood killer. After than she was very playful, DATY, some light kissing (no DFK), and multiple positions. Overall a good experience and I plan to try at least 1 or 2 more before I leave.

Rode the MRT back to Asok area and grabbed some food and had some downtime before decided my next step. Headed to Soi Cowboy at about 1030 pm and meandered between Baccarat and Crazy House for an hour or so. Both were super packed but there was some decent eye candy on offer, but it was too packed to make it a great experience. Decided to take a stroll up the road and check out Thermae for the experience of it. By this time its nearly midnite. Wandered in and it was also a madhouse. I will say the experience is a bit surreal with the ladies lined up around the inner bar and outer tables like dishes at a buffet. Saw a couple of girls that caught my eye but both of them were in discussions with a punter who got there before me. Had a few backups but wasn't ready to commit (bad idea, but it worked out). Had one drink then decided to head back to Soi Cowboy to see how things were shaking there a bit later. Crazy House had calmed down a bit, and Baccarat was still crowded, but they had closed the third floor, so less people for sure. Unfotuntely the 2 girls at CH that I had seen and was considering were both gone. Had a couple of drinks and bounced between the two clubs for another hour. Poking my head into a few other gogos just to see what the lineups looked like (mostly meh) and next thing I knew it was 130 am and I was getting a bit tired having gotten up somewhat early for a mongering trip (9 am). Decided to see what was on offer from Smooci before making a decision at either CH or Baccarat. Saw that Yuko was available (she's been mentioned a few times lately in the smooci thread), so I booked her for 1 HR. Was a good decision. As has been mentioned, she's better looking than her pictures, and while she seemed a bit tired, she was a sweetheart and very energetic in bed. Good playfulness to start, mutual shower, good BBBJ, and she was very open to options during FS. As it was late and I'd shot twice already, it took a bit to finish things up, but she never complained or was pushing me to finish. Used up nearly the entire hour and sent her on her way. Gave her a tip, so 3500 thb all in.

Overall a good third day / night.

[QUOTE=Terwagne;2008953]Can you tell us the names of the girls you met? And maybe say something about them? This will help our planning.[/QUOTE]I really wish I could, but I am TERRIBLE with names. Add in that half the time I can barely understand their english with their accents! I have the same problem when I go to FKKs in Germany. There are some girls I've sessioned with 3-4 times and I still forget their names. I have this problem outside of mongering as well.

Sorry.

I had one night for myself in Bangkok last week. I had booked an afternoon session at Tulip with three ladies and it was every bit as good as expected. After a foot massage and a dinner, I hit Soi Cowboy. I ended up watching couple of shows at Susie Wong. The dancer lineup before the shows had two potentially bar finable girls but nothing spectacular.

I went to Baccara and the lineup looked a lot better. A cute spinner on the stage caught my eye. I took note of her number and went to make the rounds. I ignored the requests to sit down and checked out all three levels before returning downstairs. Number 46, if my memory serves me right, had gotten off the stage and I asked her to join me for a drink. After not too much small talk she asked if I wanted to bar fine her. The prices quoted were 3 k for one hour and 5 k for 4 hours. I asked about BBBJ and got a negative answer. I finished my drink and left without her.

After wandering around Soi Cowboy for a while I decided to check out the lineup at Annies. At 10.55 pm there were about 10 girls of which number 69 was only one that appealed to me. As I already had sessioned with her couple of times back in 2013, I decided to pass. I took a taxi to Tulip and had another great session with four ladies.