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We've all heard stories about bargirls claiming to be the girlfriend after a couple of barfines. They are easy to shake off, but sometimes customers go crazy over bargirls.
The most common form of crazy is trying to control a bargirl you give money to. That can be exemplified by constant messaging, trying to figure out if she has other customers or a Thai man. But that can lead to stalking. Which is crazy bad.
Best to loosen up over a bargirl, and let her do what she wants when you are not with her.
And never pay a bargirl when you are not with her.
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[QUOTE=Explorer8939;2829842]
And never pay a bargirl when you are not with her.[/QUOTE]What's your thinking on bargirls that get real drunk and want sex that you don't want? Can it be better to just pay them so they go away? I see you tend to go for that type a lot.
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(s) low season?
From what I hear and see. Seems to be very very quiet in Pattaya right now. To the level that Pacha closed the doors earlier on this saturdaynight because they simply didn't had customers.
Someone on the ground there and have more info? Is it really that bad? Compare to June 2022?
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[QUOTE=MartinFlevo;2829964]From what I hear and see. Seems to be very very quiet in Pattaya right now. To the level that Pacha closed the doors earlier on this saturdaynight because they simply didn't had customers.
Someone on the ground there and have more info? Is it really that bad? Compare to June 2022?[/QUOTE]Not bad but quiet.
Last nights the music volume of the various bars was pretty low, especially in pothole.
The usual suspects were crowded as usual.
Lengkee at midnight had few places still open, more towards buakhow.
LK METRO and Diana bars were pumping music as if no tomorrow. Some busy, some zero.
The heat probably prevents people to travel to here, although flights are pretty much full.
Wednesday afternoon the airport car park was full.
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[QUOTE=Horatio;2829960]What's your thinking on bargirls that get real drunk and want sex that you don't want? Can it be better to just pay them so they go away? I see you tend to go for that type a lot.[/QUOTE]Generally, if I've been with a girl and buying her drinks for a while, but don't opt to bar fine her, I will give her money; 200 - 500 baht for her time. Depends on how much time is spent with her. This ensures that there isn't a scene. That said, I wouldn't do that then take up with another girl in the same bar. Remember; for the bar girls, time is money. Not all may agree with this method, but that's what I do.
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[QUOTE=Nixonbd;2829972]Generally, if I've been with a girl and buying her drinks for a while, but don't opt to bar fine her, I will give her money; 200 - 500 baht for her time. Depends on how much time is spent with her. This ensures that there isn't a scene. That said, I wouldn't do that then take up with another girl in the same bar. Remember; for the bar girls, time is money. Not all may agree with this method, but that's what I do.[/QUOTE]Well if you have been buying her drinks the whole time, there is the money for her time. Why would they make a scene? You have been spending money on them the entire time. They do not give a care about you taking another chick. Time is money? Well if she was not sitting there with you, she would just be sitting in another seat talking to one of her coworkers. She is not doing you any favors that must be repaid. If you were at your local bar having a conversation with the waitress or bartender, would you feel that you have taken up their time, especially after having bought them a round or 2?
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[QUOTE=Horatio;2829960]What's your thinking on bargirls that get real drunk and want sex that you don't want? Can it be better to just pay them so they go away? I see you tend to go for that type a lot.[/QUOTE]Not always a bad thing.
I knew a girl in PH who was typically gay for pay when sober. When drunk, her pussy was off limits to me and her girlfriend and she demanded anal. Refusal was not an option
Go figure. G.
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[QUOTE=Horatio;2829960]What's your thinking on bargirls that get real drunk and want sex that you don't want? Can it be better to just pay them so they go away? I see you tend to go for that type a lot.[/QUOTE]You lost the plot. My point was addressed to those lonely guys who send money to bargirls.
As for drunk bargirls, yeah, I am the customer, so if a bargirl wants to fuck forever, it does present a problem. The lady who came in the daytime was one of those, so I scheduled her to come before she had to work. Which meant she only had an hour for actual fucking. She gave me the choice between finishing in her pussy or her ass.
The nighttime lady was more my style, she was okay if I finished quickly and fell asleep, as long as I gave her a decent pussy licking before.
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[QUOTE=MartinFlevo;2829964]From what I hear and see. Seems to be very very quiet in Pattaya right now. To the level that Pacha closed the doors earlier on this saturdaynight because they simply didn't had customers.
Someone on the ground there and have more info? Is it really that bad? Compare to June 2022?[/QUOTE]June 2022 was very slow due to Covid. It's slow now, but only compared to High Season.
Also, not many ladies in Pattaya last year, now it's flooded.
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[QUOTE=MartinFlevo;2829964]From what I hear and see. Seems to be very very quiet in Pattaya right now. To the level that Pacha closed the doors earlier on this saturdaynight because they simply didn't had customers.
Yes it's that Bad. Not only in Pattaya though.
Check the Tourist statistics. It's not even close to 2019 numbers.
Someone on the ground there and have more info? Is it really that bad? Compare to June 2022?[/QUOTE]YES it's that bad. The 2nd and 3rd tier bars have to be in Damage Control.
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[QUOTE=Dg8787;2829802]Pretty much the same in Philippine. I knew a bar girl that dropped her key off to her working brother at 5 pm everyday before her duty at 6 pm. She only did ST to be back home at 2 am for her brother to open the door.
One day I was at the SM Mall and saw a Mr. Fix It store. They did all kinds of household goods repair. As I walked by I noticed a key making machine and inquired about the cost. Less than 50 pesos ($1. 00). I told her about it and I could get her a duplicate key. She about freaked out and was scared about trouble or backlashes from the landlord! She would not get a duplicate key. Wtf! We just don't understand this.[/QUOTE]A girl once told me that her landlord didn't allow duplicate keys, because it would mean he has to change the lock when she moves out. As long as he can be sure there's only one key, he doesn't have to change the lock.
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[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2829976]Well if you have been buying her drinks the whole time, there is the money for her time. Why would they make a scene? You have been spending money on them the entire time. They do not give a care about you taking another chick. Time is money? Well if she was not sitting there with you, she would just be sitting in another seat talking to one of her coworkers. She is not doing you any favors that must be repaid. If you were at your local bar having a conversation with the waitress or bartender, would you feel that you have taken up their time, especially after having bought them a round or 2?[/QUOTE]Context.
If 1 drink every 20 minutes with feeling her up yes 500 baht extra is appropro.
If 1 drink every 5 minutes with no touching then 500 might be a bit overboard.
Guys. Have a Heart be more like Explorer the girls appreciate it. Hahaha.
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[QUOTE=Mogwai;2830060]A girl once told me that her landlord didn't allow duplicate keys, because it would mean he has to change the lock when she moves out. As long as he can be sure there's only one key, he doesn't have to change the lock.[/QUOTE]That sounds about right.
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[QUOTE=Nixonbd;2829972]Generally, if I've been with a girl and buying her drinks for a while, but don't opt to bar fine her, I will give her money; 200 - 500 baht for her time. Depends on how much time is spent with her. This ensures that there isn't a scene. That said, I wouldn't do that then take up with another girl in the same bar. Remember; for the bar girls, time is money. Not all may agree with this method, but that's what I do.[/QUOTE]I for one would precisely NOT give her money if I had been buying her drinks only. Buying drinks is what girls want you to do all the time. Some girls even don't want anything else but drinks. Things might be different if you sit with her for a long time while buying her just one cheap drink.
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[QUOTE=Mogwai;2830060]A girl once told me that her landlord didn't allow duplicate keys, because it would mean he has to change the lock when she moves out. As long as he can be sure there's only one key, he doesn't have to change the lock.[/QUOTE]How does the landlord know the key has been duplicated? If two live in the same flat it's pretty normal each one has a key.
Landlord can deliver two sets of keys and if one is missing at the end of the contract he can keep the deposit to pay for a new lock. He'd put a clause in the rental agreement.