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[QUOTE=Crocodilexp;2036387]Sure, smartphones had a big impact. However, any half-decent looking girl never being "out of customers" is primarily due to a huge contraction of supply, while demand is roughly the same. There is an order of magnitude fewer acceptable looking girls these days, in almost all market segments. For the skeptical, simply compare a walk from Nana to Asoke these days vs 10-15 years ago (or Thermae, or any venue). There used to be dozens upon dozens of doable freelances calling out from every nook and cranny of lower Sukhumvit. A comparable number of their new generation sisters are NOT all working online now, not even close.
Great that the online scene works for you, at least some people are happy. Perhaps you simply dislike traditional venues and freelancers?
However, it takes a blind man not to see the overall decline. In addition, trawling online has almost no advantages for the savvy punter except over a street or bar scene. Online, prices are almost always higher (set at the level an average mug would barely accept, not what a decently-presented expat could negotiate), we don't get to evaluate actual looks or chemistry, and spend way more time, in less enjoyable ways, compared to looking for girls in person. Looking for a hooker on a smartphone is about as fun as waiting for a bus, except that it takes longer.
Most importantly for me, when browsing a decent in-person venue, I feel I'm [I]choosing[/I]. Online, I always feel like I'm begging or at best, trawling the bottom for someone acceptable.[/QUOTE]I guess we have different perspectives which is fine. Mine is that the bars are basically punishment for the guys who refuse to adopt to technology.
As I've stated in previous posts, the online scene is the dominant form of booking these days. I get it that there are some traditionalists who haven't embraced the full on advantages of technology but you're not experiencing the best on offer. In reality you're fighting over scraps (harsh to say but reality) with every other sex tourist that still sees Nana and Soi Cowboy and the MPs as the most convenient way to find a lady. You're also paying premium to do so. Its also not like in the past where these venues not only offered up sex but also a fun place to go and drink and not feel like a complete creeper. They are more like the Tsukiji Fish Market these days.
On the other hand, online booking is much more convenient, cheaper, and you're getting access to ladies that you would never find in any of the brick and mortar establishments outside of the high end gentlemen's clubs. For example, I just met a 'pretty' (the models that you see at the auto shows) on wechat. 170 cm, white skin, fit, 20 years old. 3000 baht ST and she is incall. I am going to see her on my lunch break today.
I also am constantly getting offers from ladies on the same app. All you do is put a message on your profile that you're looking and you'll get offers. Interestingly enough, I got a message from a lady last week who looked familiar. She messaged asking if I remembered her. It ended up being a lady from one of the PSE MPs that I had met with a month prior. She had since quite and was now online. She came over to my condo and gave me a massage and FS + A+ for 2000 and stayed around for over 3 hours.
For the hotties, the average rates from what some might consider to be 8's and 9's are usually 2000-3000 for ST. There are quite a few 10's on there that want 5000-7000 but they also will take much less if its a slow day and they want to make a quick 2000-3000. That{s the real gem about online. The ladies are accessible 24-7 and they have a lot more freedom to dictate pricing than they do in the bars and MPs.
So how is this not as good as going to a packed sausage fest er bar and having to deal with all of the negative stuff that so many complain about on here like:
1. Rude mamasans.
2. Ladies who treat you like a number (oh the irony).
3. Ladies who stand out now but would have been unnoticed 5 years ago.
3. 3000 baht for ST + 1000 BF + drinks + short time room = 3000.
4. Padded bills.
5. Rushed service or less than stellar performance majority of the time.
6. Smoke filled bars.
Is internet booking perfect? No. Far from it. It has its downsides like not being able to see the person in the flesh until you meet them but that's why you video chat with them first and then meet them at a common place like a mall or cafe before taking them back to your room. For me the video does the trick and I've yet to be disappointed with someone's looks. And that's it really.
Everything else, at least for me is better. From a service standpoint, its better than the agogos and MPs especially when you meet them at their place or you arrange a night of it. I get a lot more GFE through online meet-ups and even the occasional PSE. If I want PSE I look for the older ladies or the less attractive younger ones but still better than the bar girls. You also have a lot more power of negotiation with the online meets. If the girl gets to your room and she doesn't perform how you want you are able to pay her what you feel is the fair amount. She may not be happy about it but its not like you're going to feel awkward or fearful if you show your face on Line again.
The fact is, online is where its at and will continue to absorb the scene until your only real option will be to get a smartphone. Syzygies post below is one of the driving forces behind it, that and it is just plain better for the majority of the people involved.
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[QUOTE=Crocodilexp;2036387]Sure, smartphones had a big impact. However, any half-decent looking girl never being "out of customers" is primarily due to a huge contraction of supply, while demand is roughly the same. There is an order of magnitude fewer acceptable looking girls these days, in almost all market segments. For the skeptical, simply compare a walk from Nana to Asoke these days vs 10-15 years ago (or Thermae, or any venue). There used to be dozens upon dozens of doable freelances calling out from every nook and cranny of lower Sukhumvit. A comparable number of their new generation sisters are NOT all working online now, not even close.
Great that the online scene works for you, at least some people are happy. Perhaps you simply dislike traditional venues and freelancers?
However, it takes a blind man not to see the overall decline. In addition, trawling online has almost no advantages for the savvy punter except over a street or bar scene. Online, prices are almost always higher (set at the level an average mug would barely accept, not what a decently-presented expat could negotiate), we don't get to evaluate actual looks or chemistry, and spend way more time, in less enjoyable ways, compared to looking for girls in person. Looking for a hooker on a smartphone is about as fun as waiting for a bus, except that it takes longer.
Most importantly for me, when browsing a decent in-person venue, I feel I'm [I]choosing[/I]. Online, I always feel like I'm begging or at best, trawling the bottom for someone acceptable.[/QUOTE]Agree with everything you say Croc. I'm not a fan of online; it requires far more effort. That's not what P4 P is about for me. It's about being able to go get laid with very little effort.
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[QUOTE=Syzygies;2036419]I just heard a rumour from a Soi 4 Freelancer girl that there is a concerted effort by the Police to round up all the street walkers and fine them all, whether they are ladyboys or girls, on a frequent basis right now. The girl says the police are trying to force all the P4 P workers to be in the bars. The effect could well be to drop the numbers in Soi4 significantly and they may have to move to Sukhumvit road or other Sois. The girl told me that Soi 11 was very safe currently as police do not raid there.
For Eih Tooms, it must be all self-serving bullshit the girl is telling me, but I have no reason to disbelieve her, and can't think of other reasons why she did not want to be in Soi 4. It's just a story (or rumour) I am reporting. I did not see the police raids recently since I have not been there. If the girls stays out of Soi 4, I don't see that she is going to get any financial advantage from it.[/QUOTE]LOL. Ok, Syzy, let's test the limits of your apparent belief that it is a rare occurrence for a bargirl to engage in self-serving, even Face-saving tall tales whenever you ask her the kind of questions I mentioned. A while back you reported a total dud experience with a girl to whom you gave a smaller than usual amount of money and then gave her the boot. When other posters here pointed out you would likely suffer some backlash at her bar for doing that, you assured us that she left with a smile, asked to meet you again and, therefore, it was doubtful that she would say anything bad about you back in her bar. After all, you only spent 10 minutes with her and didn't even have sex.
Remember that one?
I suppose according to your thesis, that girl went back to her bar and, to whatever extent she shared info or gossip with other girls and, eventually, with other customers about her experience with you, she must have told them that you only gave her (let's say, since you didn't reveal the amount) 1000 baht. But, she would explain, that was completely understandable since she really had behaved like a twit with you, only offered a terrible experience, wasted 10 precious minutes of your valuable time and didn't give you sex anyway. Besides, you were really a nice guy and she hopes you will call her soon so she can make up for the trouble she caused you.
Would that be about the way you imagine it going down back at her bar?
May I offer an alternative tale she might have told? I submit that when she went back to that bar she told the other girls and will eventually tell any customer who asks about such a thing that you were one of the worst Cheap Charlies she ever had, tried to totally rip her off, only gave her 500 baht (or nothing!) after she gave you some of the best sex you probably ever had. Worse, you couldn't get it up for almost 30 minutes. Then, after she did everything imaginable to get a rise out of you, you rammed your gigantic insufferable filthy penis into her pained vagina for over an hour! Then you pushed her out the door before she could put her shoes on with only that ridiculous 500 baht to show for it. Or maybe it was nothing!!
Now, which story do you think is closer to the way that girl will gossip about her experience with you when she talks about it with the other girls and, eventually, with some concerned customer worried about how she is being treated by the rest of us dastardly men?
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Thanks for the great review, Tremont Ted. Get some sleep and enjoy Day 2!
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[QUOTE=Syzygies;2036419]
I am pretty much done with Soi 4 freelancers anyway, unless I happen to find a stunner someday. LOL However I am pretty much done with all my regular bargirls as well, and not been that thrilled by Nana gogos recently, so not necessarily a great alternative. Most guys doing freelancers are not going to switch to Nana bar girls where the price suddenly doubles or more than doubles.
The street girls need the flexibility to be able to start work at 11 PM and catch the guy coming out of the bars very late with no girl. Some of the very late street girls were bargirls that got no customer too, I would think.[/QUOTE]So what's next for you? Online, soapies, oilies, and freelancers in the bars?
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[QUOTE=Goatscrot;2036536]Actually there is very little commercial space under construction. Most building is residential. I wonder that myself, but new condos keep selling.[/QUOTE]Land in the center of the city is not only extremely expensive but sparse. There is only room left to build up which would best be served by condominiums.
For commercial space the trend is the refurbishment of old buildings. Shop houses have become premium real estate options especially for f&b and retail. For example, in Chinatown, you could get a old shop house, 3-4 stories, 300-400 sq. M. of total floor space, for less than 4 mil just a couple of years ago. These days they are going for 15-20 mil. In certain 'trendy' areas. Even with these high prices, I haven't seen the f&be scene go crazy on pricing. Food, even at the future Michelin star level establishments is much cheaper than what you'll pay in other developed cities. The cocktail scene has introduced a new level of refined drinking which does cost more than the typical Sangsom and coke but the pricing is more of a result of inflation due to trendiness than the price of rent.
As far as the condominiums go, they are seen as long term investments by not only the locals but foreigners as well. Of course, the 2008 housing bubble partly happened because of this type of real estate prospecting so the chance that we see a repeat of at least that aspect of it is possible. What it is happening is that the locals are buying them up, furnishing them with cookie cutter, cheap IKEA products and renting them out with the only goal being to cover the mortgage for now and then sell at a profit in a few years.
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[QUOTE=GrandaddyPerp;2031084]I agree with everything you said except the Private Dancer comment. As a quick, easy, and mildly entertaining weekend read its good but using it as an anthropological reference isn't recommended [/QUOTE]For those who don't want to read the book, I guess you could just look at this photo and it pretty much tells the story.
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[QUOTE=GrandaddyPerp;2036552]I haven't seen the f&be scene go crazy on pricing. Food, even at the future Michelin star level establishments is much cheaper than what you'll pay in other developed cities. The cocktail scene has introduced a new level of refined drinking which does cost more than the typical Sangsom and coke but the pricing is more of a result of inflation due to trendiness than the price of rent..[/QUOTE]Yep, salaries are far higher in most other Asian cities; even for the locals. And I would contend that just like the P4 P scene the newer trendier restaurants offer very little value for money. Some of the older more established fine dining places are still ok. And cocktail pours tend to be quite stingy, and FFS some are priced more than you would pay in NYC. And there for 14 USD you get a drink that gives you a buzz.
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[QUOTE=GrandaddyPerp;2036537]I guess we have different perspectives which is fine. Mine is that the bars are basically punishment for the guys who refuse to adopt to technology.
As I've stated in previous posts, the online scene is the dominant form of booking these days. I get it that there are some traditionalists who haven't embraced the full on advantages of technology but you're not experiencing the best on offer. In reality you're fighting over scraps (harsh to say but reality) with every other sex tourist that still sees Nana and Soi Cowboy and the MPs as the most convenient way to find a lady. You're also paying premium to do so. Its also not like in the past where these venues not only offered up sex but also a fun place to go and drink and not feel like a complete creeper. They are more like the Tsukiji Fish Market these days.
On the other hand, online booking is much more convenient, cheaper, and you're getting access to ladies that you would never find in any of the brick and mortar establishments outside of the high end gentlemen's clubs. For example, I just met a 'pretty' (the models that you see at the auto shows) on wechat. 170 cm, white skin, fit, 20 years old. 3000 baht ST and she is incall. I am going to see her on my lunch break today.
I also am constantly getting offers from ladies on the same app. All you do is put a message on your profile that you're looking and you'll get offers. Interestingly enough, I got a message from a lady last week who looked familiar. She messaged asking if I remembered her. It ended up being a lady from one of the PSE MPs that I had met with a month prior. She had since quite and was now online. She came over to my condo and gave me a massage and FS + A+ for 2000 and stayed around for over 3 hours.
For the hotties, the average rates from what some might consider to be 8's and 9's are usually 2000-3000 for ST. There are quite a few 10's on there that want 5000-7000 but they also will take much less if its a slow day and they want to make a quick 2000-3000. That{s the real gem about online. The ladies are accessible 24-7 and they have a lot more freedom to dictate pricing than they do in the bars and MPs.
So how is this not as good as going to a packed sausage fest er bar and having to deal with all of the negative stuff that so many complain about on here like:
1. Rude mamasans.
2. Ladies who treat you like a number (oh the irony).
3. Ladies who stand out now but would have been unnoticed 5 years ago.
3. 3000 baht for ST + 1000 BF + drinks + short time room = 3000.
4. Padded bills.
5. Rushed service or less than stellar performance majority of the time.
6. Smoke filled bars.
Is internet booking perfect? No. Far from it. It has its downsides like not being able to see the person in the flesh until you meet them but that's why you video chat with them first and then meet them at a common place like a mall or cafe before taking them back to your room. For me the video does the trick and I've yet to be disappointed with someone's looks. And that's it really.
Everything else, at least for me is better. From a service standpoint, its better than the agogos and MPs especially when you meet them at their place or you arrange a night of it. I get a lot more GFE through online meet-ups and even the occasional PSE. If I want PSE I look for the older ladies or the less attractive younger ones but still better than the bar girls. You also have a lot more power of negotiation with the online meets. If the girl gets to your room and she doesn't perform how you want you are able to pay her what you feel is the fair amount. She may not be happy about it but its not like you're going to feel awkward or fearful if you show your face on Line again.
The fact is, online is where its at and will continue to absorb the scene until your only real option will be to get a smartphone. Syzygies post below is one of the driving forces behind it, that and it is just plain better for the majority of the people involved.[/QUOTE]Very good post and I completely agree. Internet can be great. Also, if you have a bit of game, dating apps like Badoo for finding "regular" and semi pros can be very useful. I takes a bit more time but if I lived in BKK I think I could really rake them in.
In the past I have complained about the internet scene because girls fotos have not been representative. The girls now have a host of technologies available to them to easily enhance their fotos. But I think the poster is right that video chat provides a solution to this problem. In the past I have just ben a bto too shy to videochat. But I will work it into my repertoire now.
One thing that I will miss is the thrill of the hunt that comes with going to bars and discos. This is more like ordering a pizza. LOL.
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WeChat Report
As mentioned in my previous post, I decided to forgo solid foods and went with a liquid diet for lunch the other day with this 'pretty' that I made contact with on WeChat. Her name is 'Stephanie' (got to love this new nickname trend of adopting common American 'Valley girls' names).
She told me 3000 and incall service during our chat. I inquired as to the services she provides and she said everything but 'no anal and cum mouth'. Fair enough. Her condo ended up being only 2 BTS stops away from my office and only 500 meters from the station so it didn't take me long to get to her place. She stays in one of the newest high rises around this station so she must be doing quite well for herself. When I arrived at her building I sent her a message that I was downstairs. I don't know about others but I find the wait for them to show themselves to be very exciting. There's this anticipation that builds up as you wonder what is really going to come out of the lift. There has been more than a few occasions where someone else came out and I thought is this her? You never really know if you don't get any sort of live video confirmation and this case I didn't so it really could be anyone. When the doors finally opened I was not disappointed. She looked even better than her pics, but mostly because her body is amazing and 2 D just doesn't do it justice. She came out wearing these short bright yellow canvas running shorts, easily a size too small and a white tank top that was even more snug. She has a really shapely and well proportioned lower body (she says she does a lot of squats and lunges in the gym) and a really nice set of silly Cs that made her tank top really pop. Small waste and flat firm tummy. Very beautiful face, high cheekbones full lips and a modest nose job. Healthy jet black hair made up in pig tails. She greets me with a nice shy smile and acts a little school-girlie which must be her persona. Her English isn't great so we switch to Thai. She grabs my hand and leads back to the elevator and up we go to the 22nd floor, this girl is Thai ballin.
We get to her door, take our shoes off and leave them in the hall and enter. She has a nice place, very clean, modern, quite spacious studio setup. Small kitchen, sofa, large bed. She asks if I want a drink. Water, tea, juice or beer. Its just a work break so I take the water but that cold LEO was very tempting. We chit chat for a few minutes. She tells me she mostly models for events and does this on the side but says that she may go full on P4P because she gets many offers online and can make more money. She used to only meet Asian men but is now opening up to westerners but is scared of 'big size'.
As we're talking she starts to warm me up by rubbing my shoulders and then asks if I want a massage. I say no I'm on a time limit so we undress and head to her shower. She gives me a good washing and really does a nice job getting me going. I don't do DFK so not sure if she goes there but she does do a nice bit of licking, sucking, and light biting around the ears, neck, nips, and down. After around 10 minutes in the shower we are both pretty hot and instead of be-lining it to the bed, I just bend her over a small table that she has set up as a dining table. A condom was thrown on right before this started. I'm pretty average in size but she is still really tight. She also knows about kegels which makes it even better.
We go at the table for another 10 minutes or so but then start to cramp up a little so we head to her sofa. She rides me in cowgirl for a little while so I can admire her nice firm body and amazing set. I get lost for a second just caressing her skin. Soft and smooth like a baby's bottom and also creamy white. That's the thing that I love most about some of these top online ladies. They don't get caught up in the party lifestyle like the bar girls. They really invest in their bodies and take great care of themselves. Don't smoke, rarely drink, exercise, and make a point to eat healthy. It really shows in their hair and skin and of course stamina.
Once I snap out of the trance, I realize that I only have a few minutes left before I need to get back to work so I have her turn around in reverse cowgirl and watch her pop her lovely toned ass for another couple of minutes. I start caressing the rim of her little pink pucker with my thumb. She doesn't do or saying anything but just keeps bouncing so I put the tip in. She moans arches her back and then changes her motion so its more back and forth instead of up and down. I get so excited and finish right then and there. She gives me a peck on the cheek, and hurries off to the bathroom to get some tissue to clean me up. We both shower, dress, and she shows me out.
For the record, Stephanie isn't the norm, especially at that price. A girl of her caliber normally asks for 5000-7000. I was surprised when I saw her in real and after she gave such a great session. Not sure why she was only wanting 3000 but sometimes they do need to make a bit of money in a very short period of time so 3000 will get them more customers quicker. It will be interesting to see if she keeps that rate during future visits.
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[QUOTE=UncleVolodya;2036987]Very good post and I completely agree. Internet can be great. Also, if you have a bit of game, dating apps like Badoo for finding "regular" and semi pros can be very useful. I takes a bit more time but if I lived in BKK I think I could really rake them in.[/QUOTE]
We're talking apples and oranges here.
Internet apps are great for [I]dating[/I], the relatively lengthy process of sifting through profiles, doing the chats and setting up meetings, with the ultimate goal of getting laid. Whether you need to or want to pay to achieve better results is not a key issue, spending the time and hassle is.
Traditional mongering, for me at least, is all about convenience and choice. I look, preferably in a place with plenty of choice, the girls proposition me, I pick and choose. If I happen to like a girl, the chance of rejection is low, and my dick is inside her within 30 min of first seeing her face. If I want to keep looking, that's my choice. There's even some joy in rejecting an actual girl who's available, but absolutely none in rejecting someone's picture or profile online.
Sure, there might have been that one time when the punter found someone on a chat app who's just around the corner, met them and had sex in roughly the same timeframe as with a streetwalker or a bargirl. But that's far from the typical case. For every one of those events, how many flakes, ladyboys and such do we typically have to sift through?
Personally, I find trawling the apps, doing the inane chats (video or text), arranging to meet and dealing with flakes at every step of the way. Highly unpleasant and more of a hassle than most sex sessions are worth. If I'm looking for a gik for several meetings over a few weeks or longer, I might force myself to go through that whole process, but just for a shot or two. No way, especially if I need to pay for it as well.
Of course, I understand people have different preferences and some might dislike the traditional method in favor of the online one. However, objectively speaking, you don't get more choice, you don't get more convenience, and you don't get cheaper prices either online (compared to the Bangkok scene in just 10 or so years ago -- I do realize it's dismal in comparison now). Ultimately, if online mongering in Thailand ever proves to be better than traditional mongering, it won't be because the online method/scene is good, but because of the steep decline of the traditional scene.
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[QUOTE=Crocodilexp;2037033]We're talking apples and oranges here.
Internet apps are great for [I]dating[/I], the relatively lengthy process of sifting through profiles, doing the chats and setting up meetings, with the ultimate goal of getting laid. Whether you need to or want to pay to achieve better results is not a key issue, spending the time and hassle is.
Traditional mongering, for me at least, is all about convenience and choice. I look, preferably in a place with plenty of choice, the girls proposition me, I pick and choose. If I happen to like a girl, the chance of rejection is low, and my dick is inside her within 30 min of first seeing her face. If I want to keep looking, that's my choice. There's even some joy in rejecting an actual girl who's available, but absolutely none in rejecting someone's picture or profile online.
Sure, there might have been that one time when the punter found someone on a chat app who's just around the corner, met them and had sex in roughly the same timeframe as with a streetwalker or a bargirl. But that's far from the typical case. For every one of those events, how many flakes, ladyboys and such do we typically have to sift through?
Personally, I find trawling the apps, doing the inane chats (video or text), arranging to meet and dealing with flakes at every step of the way. Highly unpleasant and more of a hassle than most sex sessions are worth. If I'm looking for a gik for several meetings over a few weeks or longer, I might force myself to go through that whole process, but just for a shot or two. No way, especially if I need to pay for it as well.
Of course, I understand people have different preferences and some might dislike the traditional method in favor of the online one. However, objectively speaking, you don't get more choice, you don't get more convenience, and you don't get cheaper prices either online (compared to the Bangkok scene in just 10 or so years ago -- I do realize it's dismal in comparison now). Ultimately, if online mongering in Thailand ever proves to be better than traditional mongering, it won't be because the online method/scene is good, but because of the steep decline of the traditional scene.[/QUOTE]Croc, I could not agree more. I am not looking to "date" P4 P gals, nor attempt to romance them in the hopes they will provide good service. And online benefits the seller far more than the buyer. I too find it tedious going through apps. Chatting with a WG? No way. Why would I want to spend my time doing that. And yes, far less choice, there is no doubt about it.
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[QUOTE=Crocodilexp;2037033]Sure, there might have been that one time when the punter found someone on a chat app who's just around the corner, met them and had sex in roughly the same timeframe as with a streetwalker or a bargirl. But that's far from the typical case. For every one of those events, how many flakes, ladyboys and such do we typically have to sift through?.[/QUOTE]You seemingly haven't used WeChat then because this is exactly how it works. If you're around Suhkumvit all the way from Soi 1 to Soi 101, all you have to do is go on the app and there will typically be several ladies on their offering services, most use 'massage' as the signified but some come right out and say what they offer next to their name and pic. They have to be within a certain distance of your location, usually a max of 1000 meters but it can be a little more or less due to GPS inaccuracies. This one time I was sitting in a fairly well know coffee shop on Suhk along the golden mile stretch and saw a lady on the app that I liked the looks of and sent her a message to see if she was available to meet. She ended up being in the same shop right at that very moment. I actually got a little crept out for second then I discovered that its become a thing for some working girls to camp out at places like this and just use this app to get customers, especially along the golden mile.
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[QUOTE=Goatscrot;2037038]Croc, I could not agree more. I am not looking to "date" P4 P gals, nor attempt to romance them in the hopes they will provide good service. And online benefits the seller far more than the buyer. I too find it tedious going through apps. Chatting with a WG? No way. Why would I want to spend my time doing that. And yes, far less choice, there is no doubt about it.[/QUOTE]I don't think you have to chat with them that much, if by that you mean woo or date them. They put things like "call girl" or "freelancer" in their profile. The only thing they will do is make sure you are aware this is P4 P, and make sure you come up with an agreed upon price at minimum. That and a Hello, is really all that is needed. However, it can be a hassle to have to get to their place or for them to get (and find) to your place in Bangkok traffic. And there is a chance of flaky girls who stop responding after you show up I suppose, since there is no manager to report them to.
I think it's worth trying, I'll give it a whirl again if I can find some good profiles. I was on tinder but it's kind of luck whether or not you come across a working girls profile there as you don't choose what profiles you get to see. I messaged one girl off Tinder who wanted 3000 baht ST, which I thought was too high as smooci has the same price but better selection and more importantly reliability with reviews. And was on wechat but way too many ladyboys and old massage ladies in my current area.
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[QUOTE=Crocodilexp;2037033]We're talking apples and oranges here.
Internet apps are great for [I]dating[/I], the relatively lengthy process of sifting through profiles, doing the chats and setting up meetings, with the ultimate goal of getting laid. Whether you need to or want to pay to achieve better results is not a key issue, spending the time and hassle is.
Traditional mongering, for me at least, is all about convenience and choice. I look, preferably in a place with plenty of choice, the girls proposition me, I pick and choose. If I happen to like a girl, the chance of rejection is low, and my dick is inside her within 30 min of first seeing her face. If I want to keep looking, that's my choice. There's even some joy in rejecting an actual girl who's available, but absolutely none in rejecting someone's picture or profile online.
Sure, there might have been that one time when the punter found someone on a chat app who's just around the corner, met them and had sex in roughly the same timeframe as with a streetwalker or a bargirl. But that's far from the typical case. For every one of those events, how many flakes, ladyboys and such do we typically have to sift through?
Personally, I find trawling the apps, doing the inane chats (video or text), arranging to meet and dealing with flakes at every step of the way. Highly unpleasant and more of a hassle than most sex sessions are worth. If I'm looking for a gik for several meetings over a few weeks or longer, I might force myself to go through that whole process, but just for a shot or two. No way, especially if I need to pay for it as well.
Of course, I understand people have different preferences and some might dislike the traditional method in favor of the online one. However, objectively speaking, you don't get more choice, you don't get more convenience, and you don't get cheaper prices either online (compared to the Bangkok scene in just 10 or so years ago -- I do realize it's dismal in comparison now). Ultimately, if online mongering in Thailand ever proves to be better than traditional mongering, it won't be because the online method/scene is good, but because of the steep decline of the traditional scene.[/QUOTE]I'm with you on this one. I much prefer going to the gogos where there are a throng of naked girls rather than spending time on the internet searching for girls.