Personal responsibility and P4P
First a [i]disclaimer:[/i]
Sometimes I stay at Livingstone's Lodge. The rooms are comfortable and the food is delicious. Several former Sports Bar women continue to be my friends long past our "play" time. New Year's Eve I stayed there so I could enjoy the Pool+Staff Party without heading back to my apartment across Bangkok at 4 am. Breakfast was great. No small furry animals were tortured for this endorsement.
[i]In regard to the recent discussion on this thread about a disappointed player...[/i]
My take on dealing with women who provide P4P services is that it is up to each individual to act respectfully [i]and,[/i] to take responsibility for how the encounter plays out. The man ("customer") is in the power position, has the money, and normally initiates the "deal." The woman is just the enabler, however coercive and conniving she may seem. Unless there is a robbery or a complete negative collapse in the encounter, a gentleman should and will do the right thing without falling back on others, (e.g., the management), to smooth things out.
As Dr. G writes, these are Thai woman who act and think much differently than a Western male will ever understand. Everyone of them is an individual usually just trying to make a baht, and/or, to find a man to take care of them. Remember, a lot of these women are barely out of their teens. Imagine dealing with a 20 year old woman in your own country?
I say to those who feel slighted if their encounter does not meet their expectation: [i] live, learn and move on.[/i] Use the experience to maximize you next adventure.
As far as what happened at Livingstone's (Major Problem)
As far as what happened at Livingstone's with the Major Problem with me, will stay between Myself and Giotto and Som, but suffice to say that Giotto and Staff handled the problem with such class and respect that I will always be thankful to them.
Also it was was NOT Giotto or Som's fault in any way, actually it came about over something I didn't take care of myself and a miscomnication with someone. Thanks to them both, they came to my "rescue" it was solved 100%.
I personally cannot say enough good things about Giotto, and the way he runs his establishment. It is First Class all the way as far as I am concerned, sorry guys about not delving into what happened in more detail but some things are better left buriied.