Short Time Place Report Near Nana
I was in Bangkok on Monday and Tuesday, found freelancers and took them to two different short time places.
I found a really cute one in the Nana parking lot and suggested that we go to the short time room in the NEP complex (lift to the third floor and walk through the opening in the wall). She had been only on the game for two months and did not even know abou the place.
The NEP short time hotel was still the usual 300 baht for the usual grubby room, but they called on the phone to say time was up in 45 minutes! They must have had lots of waiting business, but that is way too soon to impose the curfew.
The next day I took a girl out of the Biergarden on soi 7 to the short time rooms at the place on soi 7/1. The normal rate there is 300 I think, but I just paid the 500 that was asked, just to see what was being played out. The girl I pulled was not very good, and asked twice about what kind of tip I was going to give her. I told her in Thai after her second comment that she was talking too much about money and that I would decide what she was going to get, because it depends on the service.
Her service was not very good and I tipped her low, as I was thinking that she was going to get a kick back from the hotel as well. On the way out I saw that she got 150 back although they were trying to do this on the sly. The receptionist is likely pocketing the extra 50. Watch out for this there (on the right side of the soi with the eating tables outfront and the tiny elevator that stops below the level of the floor).
If these things are going to continue to be problems, I would recommend going to Penthouse or PP further down soi 3.
Christmas: Cartagena vs Bangkok?
Hi,
I live in Europe and I'm planning my Xmas vacation and can't decide between these two destinations.
I've been to CTG several times before, but never Bangkok. I love Cartagena and am absolutely itching to go again. Thing is, I can sort of imagine that all the girls go home for xmas, I remember being around a few days during La Ley Seca and it was absolutely dead. But I have no idea what BGK is like over Xmas. So thought I'the ask for advice on this board. Where would you go if you've a week over Xmas/New Years. CTG or BGK?
PS: I live in Europe. The flights are CONSIDERABLY more expensive to Colombia than to BGK, but this isn't a factor for me.
Any help would be appreciated.
Long term and Mr. Enternational
I agree with Mr. Enternational. If you hook up with a cutie (or two) and click, stay with them. Waking up to a blow job followed by coffe being brought in, then a good strong massage, always puts a great start on the day and makes the brain function well.
Men are happy, thoughtful and relaxed when they have their sexual needs satisfied and will be nice to girls who do so. If women realised this - and that a mere hour or two a day on this activity (they spend far more time arguing and wasting energy trying to tart themselves up to make up for the arguing) then they could have it all. Smat women realize the biology difference and accept and emrace it - and enjoy the benefits as the man somehow feels accepted the way he really is as a primal male.
I repaid this with getting her some expensive dental care and HIV / Hep C tested by three labs using the western blot, tested over 6 months. As a result, its now ankles behind my ears or face down and pussy up, and I can just slide in anytime. I am happy. Tight teen pussy (though soon she is 20), a mere 45 year age gap.
Thai women seem to have this areas cornered, though they pollute it with money and treachery, though in fairness, most mongers are butterfly's, which is the opppsite of what women want, and so the reaction is predicatble. Neither party gets what they want.
If they are speak English and can put together a thoughtful conversation besides "buy lady cola", they coud rule men., providing we behave, and if you screw around, be discreet so she does not lose face. The previous posts touch on this but do not make explicit the bargain and the dynamics.
I write this when just five minutes ago I shot hard into the tiny but skilful mouth of my long term girl with her fingers delicately fondling my balls the whole time. No need for viagra or anything, and I get lucky 2-3 times a day.
LOS - very true !
BuleDaddy - excellent advice.
[QUOTE=BuleDaddy]Their goal is to relieve you of everything possible. .... Just throw them out. NO MONEY WHATSOEVER!!! Tell security she tried to steal something. I have tossed at least 50 girls out in BKK and Pattaya, and been threatened by them with beatings by their Thai Cop, Catoee, or boyfriends and The hotel will always side with you and not the hoze. I have never had any retribution. I just laugh at them when I see them on the street. Don't point, touch or spit near them as that WILL get you in trouble. Just remember that for every one of you there are 1,000 of them!![/QUOTE]
When you get a baddie (bait and switch pricing) or starfish (or refuses to suck) or loose pussy, get her dressed, slap her bottom, chuck her out. If you were foolish enough to pay upfront, take it back from her, give her 200THB as a face saving gesture. Correct on the hotel security BuleDaddy. Hardened Thai girls see male niceness as something they should exploit than respect. Doing this reminds them of their service level agreement (SLA) and saves other punters when the BG's realize they cannot get away with that BS.
I have to respectfully disagree
I have been living here for a long time and have only had to wear my mukluks a couple of times. Some sturdy hiking boots with two pairs of wool socks are normally enough.
Of course, I normally stay home around the fire during cool season anyway, so maybe not best to pick your wardrobe based on me.
Are you ever frustrated that the best bar girls are hard to get to?
"Bar girls are a bad lot"
Well most are not worth much really other than the object of sexual pleasure. However there are a small percentage with quite good character
that I am able to like quite well. Not only that, but a small percentage of bar girls make it into my stunning category.
Now us mongers go to the bar for a variety of reasons but this mostly includes drinking, perving at sexy girls, and taking them away for a sex session if they seem really hot.
Now a really common problem when arriving at a bar for fussy guys like me is that only a very small percentage of the bar girls really appeal to me. And then the really top-class bar girls may be quite difficult to get to in a busy bar for several reasons:
1. the girl has too many regular good customers who she will prefer to a stranger (who could be an arsehole).
2. the girl is really aloof and is contemptuous of the arseholes ogling and groping in the bar and makes herself scare one way or another and is rather unapproachable.
3. the girl is really shy, possibly doesn't speak English much, and doesn't like guys perving at her scantilly glad body and is happy to reject guys
that do not behave perfectly. She is too shy to even look at guys, so you cannot even catch her glance to indicate that you are interested.
4. the guy is too slow to act and someone gets the girl first and bar-fines her. Once this happens she is officially unavailable.
I have long experience so I know that all these categories exist and some others.
So how to get to these girls ???(the top class ones - anyone can get the ordinary ones any time).
1. Get to the bar real early before the other customers show up. e.g. 8.00 PM is good. You have just eliminated a lot of competition so now you have a chance.
2. Be polite and respectful, especially when you aren't getting what you want. Thai girls don't go for the arsehole approach. Be prepared to fight another day if you don't get you want today.
3. Be generous. Top class bar girls have a single motivation for being there. They need money and not just trivial amounts. Lets not debate why they need the money and all have different requirements for how much per month. Buying the girl drinks helps her earn commission , be seen to be achieving, and nice tips are much appreciated. Remember that top class girls have self respect will not tolerate bad behaviour just for small tips.
4. Make the girl feel comfortable. Don't do something unexpected. don't grope her unless she gropes you first and even then all movements should be slow so she can easily escape if she wants to. Grabbing the girl by the arm so she can't get away may work with some girls but have negative effects with others.
5. To make a girl unavailable for others to steal her away, you need to be prepared to bar-fine her. Don't leave this too long or some aggressive customer will walk in and attempt to bar-fine her immediately. Its polite of course to ask her permission to bar-fine her. She may have several reasons to refuse to go with you. She has an appointment at bar closing time. or she only does short time with a new customer, or its her period, or she is waiting for her regular, etc. Always be very polite in this case as you may get a chance another time. Some times a girls will change her mind later on and cancel her appointment if she likes you and the money is right. I have occasionally bar-fined a girl who is not available for ST or LT just to prevent her being stolen away.
6. Be interested in her rather than talking about yourself too much. Also reassure the girl that she doesn't need to make continual small talk by asking lots of questions. Silence is OK too at times when watching the show.
7. Let her know why you like her so much. Some girls know how good they are and others (usually shy ones don't). Some girls are lacking confidence thinking themselves too skinny, too fat, tits too small, too tall, too short, nose to small, arse too big etc. She may be very pleased to hear that someone really liked her tiny nose or long legs and that she looked tall like a model rather than a ladyboy.
8.
So an example procedure (names changed slightly):
I got to "Long Gun" about 8PM. The bar is not busy yet but gets very busy after midnight and stays open later than 2AM due to many customers.
The bar has improved significantly in the last few months. By this I mean more superior girls than before still keeping its class sexy shows but also the more weird Patpong like shows. Plenty of girls all dance nude when shows not on.
Spotted a real model "Nok" (170 cm - age 20) who is very shy but a stunning body. As much as a glance from a distance on a previous night and she turned away and wouldn't approach. Tonight she was dancing nude almost hiding behind the last pillar on the podium. She never smiled and never glanced at any customer. I approached her and indicated a tip. Put a nice tip in each stocking She gave me a "wai" of thanks. So now she knew I was generous and also that I was interested. She was then prepared to come over to me after completing her dance session, panties now on but still topless. Must be a new bar policy that girls go topless as she is too shy to do this automatically. Her tits are magnificent in shape (B cup) with quite big dark nipple tips .but she was trying to keep them covered a little with her arms. I offered her drink and indicated she could drink anything but she doesn't normally drink alcohol.
Before long "Nin" turned up and spotted us. "Nin" already knows me. She a very slim but very sexy girl 166cm (quite tall also - age 20) and is the top dancer in the bar. Unfortunately her most complex dance routines have been put on hold as the only other dancer good enough to do them has left the bar. Nin rarely sat with Customers when.I first met her. Very aloof and concentrating on her dance routines. Used to hide outside the bar during breaks. When I managed to sit with her conversation was difficult. But very patient groundwork means she is now comfortable with me and conversation is relaxed easy ad plentiful. Ninsits down next to Nok so as not to appear to be encroaching on me.
However I quickly offer Nina drink as well and also the waitress who I know well (an older woman). Nin asks if I will be staying a long time tonight and I say "most probably". Nin says she wants to go study English but we are conversing in Thai (a big advantage for me) so I don't actually know how ell these girls speak English. Nok slowly gets more comfortable with me. Later I am sitting between the two girls and they seem to be happy with this. I am buying drinks regularly for the girls and myself and Nin is into Tequilla with lime of course but she has an orange Fanta chaser to take away the "bite". Nok was sticking to Orange Fanta only but Nin manages to get her to have one Tequilla. This helps take the edge off her shyness.
Nin is not always there as has many dance shows to do.
I ask Nok how many young spunks are chasing her she says none. Guys usually go for short dark wayward girls. So many guys and bar girls tease her that she looks like a Ladyboy (too tall) or that her tits might be silicone (actually just naturally superb). I reassure her that she is actually gorgeous and I go for tall slim types and never had the slightest suspicion she was an LB. (surely LBs don't have nipples like this). I explain to Nok that its real hard for guys to get to her, because she is shy and runs away. She should always have a "drink" to take the edge off the shyness.
Nin and Nok are now looking content to spend the entire evening with me. Some guys are no-doubt jealous that I have a stunner of each arm. One arrogant guy walks into the bar and accosts Nin and indicates he is going to bar-fine both Nin and Nok immediately. Nin shuns him saying that she and Nok have a customer already. I then quickly offer to bar-fine them both (I should have done this much earlier to avoid the girls being stolen away). No strings were attached. The girls really liked that I was prepared to bar-fine them even if they didn't go with me later. I think Nok intended to refuse the other guy purely due to being too shy to have sex in front of another girl but both girls were OK for me to bar-fine them both.
The bar was getting rather busy (lots of guys) so soon no space for the girls to sit. While Nin performed a dance show, Nok had now progressed to sitting on my knee. We discussed at length what they liked in a nice bar customer and what they hated about many customers (arseholes).
We left the bar at about 1AM well before closing.
In the end we had a great night together (full details withheld). Discussed potentially going away somewhere together sometime as these girls are geeeorgous.
(however this will be tough due to GF ).
I got both of their phone numbers for future hook-ups but ain't sharing.