Medellin Reports

[QUOTE=HarryDubois;2488306]I am a US citizen from New York City. I am divorced 8 years and 60 years old, but could pass for 45. I am white, blue eyes, athletic and I want to learn Spanish.

I am looking for a girlfriend in Medellin. Sex is NOT required. I am interested in someone 18 to 25, very beautiful and sexy for a long term relationship, love, affection and romance. I am lonely.

I would like to visit Medellin for a month once or twice a year. We would stay together in nice airbnb. I would give my girlfriend $250 USD each month we are together and $100 USD when we are separated however I would like to video chat or text message often.

I don't care if she's with other men when I am out of the country.

Does this sound realistic in terms of the compensation? Would Seeking Arrangements be the best website?[/QUOTE]To be honest, that would fly in Cuba. I am not too sure in medellin though.

[QUOTE=Conick2000;2488385]$250 for a whole month? Colombia is poor but not that poor.[/QUOTE]During that month, I doubt he will make her pay rent, food, drinks, gifts, utilities, laundry etc. , etc. , etc. I know these things don't get her rent paid but if she doesn't have to pay rent, this may be a suitable arrangement for some.

El Mechanico.

[QUOTE=ElMechanico;2488532]During that month, I doubt he will make her pay rent, food, drinks, gifts, utilities, laundry etc. , etc. , etc. I know these things don't get her rent paid but if she doesn't have to pay rent, this may be a suitable arrangement for some.

El Mechanico.[/QUOTE]Some flexibility he could get a better deal than a full-time living. For example, how about considering seeing her multiple dates during the month but not a full-time 30 day live in. Dedicate other days to working and to your career. The days she is not there you can be happy Thinking about her and remembering her kindness. Let her date other guys that way she already has a high income and you don't have to pay For this. Even when you're in Columbia use WebCam chat. This will be cheap but it will strengthen your relationship With conversation. It will still be just as good if she doesn't stay over the complete 30 days. And it will be more affordable. At the beginning you may have to pay a little bit more to lure her with an attractive offer. Then if both of you decide to make this a repeat relationship then you can go closer to standard prices.

[QUOTE=DiavelLoco;2488528]To be honest, that would fly in Cuba. I am not too sure in medellin though.[/QUOTE]Honestly, that is really where I want to go, however the damn country is still closed. I have been chatting with a bunch of Cuban girls online (I will confess, in many cases I sent a $20 USD phone recharge) and the situation there sounds really desperate. The news media confirms this.

Holguin has the lightest skinned people in Cuba (my personal preference; I even have a real blonde Cuban facebook friend) and is in the poorer eastern part of the island. There are tons of attractive girls from Holguin on Latin American Cupid. I have a feeling that right now, a good meal, a hot shower and some beer would get you a lot of attention. Additionally, I really don't like implants, which are much rarer in Cuba.

I think I'm going to try and hold out for Cuba. Medellin might not be my cup of tea.

[QUOTE=HarryDubois;2488548]Honestly, that is really where I want to go, however the damn country is still closed. I have been chatting with a bunch of Cuban girls online (I will confess, in many cases I sent a $20 USD phone recharge) and the situation there sounds really desperate. The news media confirms this.

Holguin has the lightest skinned people in Cuba (my personal preference; I even have a real blonde Cuban facebook friend) and is in the poorer eastern part of the island. There are tons of attractive girls from Holguin on Latin American Cupid. I have a feeling that right now, a good meal, a hot shower and some beer would get you a lot of attention. Additionally, I really don't like implants, which are much rarer in Cuba.

I think I'm going to try and hold out for Cuba. Medellin might not be my cup of tea.[/QUOTE]Just to let you know that I live in Cuba. Be very careful with the phone recharge please and stay away from cupid too. If you have to use any app, I would recommend badoo. Install it and change your location to Cuba and try your luck there. Happy to share any tips with you if you need any. Good luck!

Cuba is outstanding but the women do not compare to Colombia not even close, not for looks or even feigned sweetness. And there is a rough edge to Colombia that Cuba does not have. Been to both many times.

[QUOTE=HarryDubois;2488548]Honestly, that is really where I want to go, however the damn country is still closed. I have been chatting with a bunch of Cuban girls online (I will confess, in many cases I sent a $20 USD phone recharge) and the situation there sounds really desperate. The news media confirms this.

Holguin has the lightest skinned people in Cuba (my personal preference; I even have a real blonde Cuban facebook friend) and is in the poorer eastern part of the island. There are tons of attractive girls from Holguin on Latin American Cupid. I have a feeling that right now, a good meal, a hot shower and some beer would get you a lot of attention. Additionally, I really don't like implants, which are much rarer in Cuba.

I think I'm going to try and hold out for Cuba. Medellin might not be my cup of tea.[/QUOTE]

I am actually getting nervous myself have reservation since finalized my trip. Thinking Kenya has 800 deaths while Colombia is 5th highest in the world or latin america. I am in my fifties though I can run laps around you slapshot and look better LOL. But it would be devastating to catch it and wind up in the hospital. I am thinking about buying a temperature gun. Test before entry LOL but serious as f**k. Impulsuve thoughts.

[QUOTE=SlapShot10;2488507]Surfer, in a word, "No" - Although, I don't worry about things like that, much. I'm more worried about the old lady with her mask around her neck that coughed towards me on La 70, yesterday. At least a 18-21 yo Paisa chick could give me a nice going away present, with the COVID. The sense I get down here is that the Colombians are fearful of the virus. Maybe not the zombies lurking in your dark corners of Centro, but the average Paisa. I have had several girls say they had a sore throat or fever or lived with an older / younger family member and put themselves into isolation. I'm not saying it couldn't happen, and again, remember, I am in my 30's. Maybe that is also a factor, or maybe it's just personality / mentality. I think the same girl that would drug and rob you is the same girl that would knowingly put you at danger of contracting the virus. The girl that you have a great session with and goes back to her normal life is not the same person.

I won't call you a pussy for being careful, and you know your risk level far better than I, but to be honest, I may have already had it, down here.

HarryD (love this nickname), I have had what you are looking for twice, in the last 6-7 months. I could have had it a few other times, as well. I believe the freebies cost more than the putas, in the long run, but that seems to be more the type in which you are looking for. So, yes, you can sift through SA and find some one. $1000 is too much, $250 is too little. I had an 18 yo for maybe 400 k / mo, but add in food, drinks, drugs, taxis, gifts, and you start inching towards $1000. I, personally, think the best route for you would be to come down to Medellin. Go out for coffee, go cruise the mall, go out for dinner, take in a night at La 70 or Mercado del Rio, and see what you can find. Start the relationship off platonic, if you want it to be platonic. See what she is like, what her needs are, and establish your allowance based on her, rather than what a bunch of BM's think the average is. You might be able to find a waitress, a store clerk, or talk to a cutie that recommends her aunt or neighbor. It might be a fun process, compared to thinking some one is going to be a great match because they, literally, have all the boxes checked. In reality, it might not be as great of a fit as SA wants you to believe. If you run into some one that speaks English (a Paisa), explain your situation and see if they know some one that might be worth meeting, or could point you in the right direction.

What you are looking for is not what most members are on this forum to find information about. So, go take a journey. Report back to us when some hot 19 yo has recommended her mom, and don't forget to include information on where we can find the daughter! We can all be one big happy family.


P.S. - SJobs?!?!?!? Has anyone checked the local paper? No reports? Anyone want to take it upon themselves to unveil this fraud? Not sure if I'm more confused by the SJobs saga, or what I watched on tv, last night![/QUOTE].

[QUOTE=HarryDubois;2488548]Honestly, that is really where I want to go, however the damn country is still closed. I have been chatting with a bunch of Cuban girls online (I will confess, in many cases I sent a $20 USD phone recharge) and the situation there sounds really desperate. The news media confirms this.

Holguin has the lightest skinned people in Cuba (my personal preference; I even have a real blonde Cuban facebook friend) and is in the poorer eastern part of the island. There are tons of attractive girls from Holguin on Latin American Cupid. I have a feeling that right now, a good meal, a hot shower and some beer would get you a lot of attention. Additionally, I really don't like implants, which are much rarer in Cuba.

I think I'm going to try and hold out for Cuba. Medellin might not be my cup of tea.[/QUOTE]Holguin has some nice white girls, I do confirm that, but it's hard to find a casa that you let bring in the girls without registration. And prices were high, they were asking 40 CUC last year this time, that you could negotiate down to 30, but not for the night, for a round. And it's a small city, there aren't many girls. I have been also in Santiago, what a shit hole of a place. For mongering IMHO, the only option is l'Habana. Best girls and easy to find a casa particular. But Colombia is cheaper, at least accommodation and food are cheaper.

Apps are useless because people can use Internet only using Wi-Fi in proximity of a parqueo. You can't arrange the meeting. In Cuba 80% of the girls are willing to accept money for sex, maybe 90%. So what do you need an app for? You stop any girl you like, you offer a beer, and she will offer the service. And I even got it for free when I have been there.

I agree, probably now in Cuba girls are desperate, because the locals can't afford to pay and there aren't tourists. Also girls in Cuba don't get a client every day. Sometimes they get 2, sometimes they don't get any at all. I mean, prostitutes in Cuba just go with the tourists, in Colombia, like in any other country, they go with locals also.

When I girls start in the game, they start with local guys then move up to facebook or casas. From that they lead to SA and online escorts. As they get higher in the game, they also charge more. SA is not free but if you have no other options, use it.

[QUOTE=HarryDubois;2488469]Considering the huge of number Medellin girls on SA, I'm a little surprised that more people don't have more detailed information.

I guess I will have to come over and explore.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Blakman;2488558]I am actually getting nervous myself have reservation since finalized my trip. Thinking Kenya has 800 deaths while Colombia is 5th highest in the world or latin america. I am in my fifties though I can run laps around you slapshot and look better LOL. But it would be devastating to catch it and wind up in the hospital. I am thinking about buying a temperature gun. Test before entry LOL but serious as f**k. Impulsuve thoughts..[/QUOTE]Blakman we are almost on the same page / similar as odd as that may seem.

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Getting back to your concerns, yes the stat's are scary for Colombia and I have a scheduled departure for the 14th and am re-thinking / analyzing how I roll. I'm thinking to stay away from the Cesspool (El Centro) albeit it's always been my playground and have three candidates willing to move into my apartment, albeit I couldn't have all three at the same time as much as I would like too however the three would never mix, and the other tenants, my neighbors, and the Porteros would be aghast. I'm an oddity being the only gringo in the building and have never been seen parading an army of girls in and always maintaining a low profile. My thinking is to move one of my candidates in and then send her home a few days a week and meet up with others in town somewhere. I want to reduce my exposure to others as much as possible, but these women come and go who knows who their exposed to.

I'm sitting on the fence chomping at the bit but reluctant.

Being a monger, there are risks that we take: getting robbed, people not liking us, diseases, etc. But now we have Covid. I'm curious in how many guys will see their normal girls and do the normal activities and how many will severely modify their behavior due to health risks.

[QUOTE=Blakman;2488558]I am actually getting nervous myself have reservation since finalized my trip. Thinking Kenya has 800 deaths while Colombia is 5th highest in the world or latin america. I am in my fifties though I can run laps around you slapshot and look better LOL. But it would be devastating to catch it and wind up in the hospital. I am thinking about buying a temperature gun. Test before entry LOL but serious as f**k. Impulsuve thoughts.
[/QUOTE]Fifth highest in LA / SA sounds about right. In the US we can social distance for the most part. The intention of being in Colombia is somewhat different. It's risky. Wish this thing would just go away.

[URL]https://www.statista.com/statistics/1104709/coronavirus-deaths-worldwide-per-million-inhabitants/[/URL]

[QUOTE=HarryDubois;2488469]Considering the huge of number Medellin girls on SA, I'm a little surprised that more people don't have more detailed information.

I guess I will have to come over and explore.[/QUOTE]It is because most people are not trying to be with the same paid chick long term like that, especially in a mongering metropolis like Medellin. The idea of paying is so you will have no hassles and can quickly change out chicks. People that want something long term would probably just establish a relationship with a normal girlfriend that they did not have to pay. Or at least that is my case. I pay to fuck hookers. Everything else (take trips, movies, dinner, etc) I do with chicks that are not hookers.

[QUOTE=Osteoknot;2488493] And then you have this theme of trying to cheap out on prices. [/QUOTE]Wise words. If the guy is picky choosy he will have to pay more to get what he wants. If the guy is happy with any girl he can start with standard prices. And if you pay more at the beginning after a while if you become a repeat customer you can go back to standard prices but if the girl is not interested in continuing to see the guy then the surplus he paid at the beginning will be lost. But if you ever find something you really like them pay more so she will be happy and she will stick to you like a magnet.

If the dude wants relationships and friendships Speaking the same language as the woman is absolutely necessary. Some girls in Qubec speak English. the economy In Qubec is not so bad so the prices are lower Which is a good thing , particularly when compared toUltra expensive places like San Francisco and New York.

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